What makes you a horrible MFP friend?

rebel_26

Not one damn thing . Just ask me I'll tell you so! I like most posts from friends I even comment from time to time. Life's busy so this place and some of its people allow a certain kind of release that's therapeutic in result.

futureicon

I "friend" people and then never pursue a friendship. I'm a horrible conversation starter..:(

AskTracyAnnK28

I bet no one on this thread will friend me now lololol

Unknown

This content has been removed.

rebel_26

AskTracyAnnK28 wrote: »

LiftingLady5 wrote: »

I am an awful friend because I write stuff in my status updates most mornings about my life and stuff and talk about coffee

If you don't interact with me I will feel bad about cutting you so I probably won't for awhile cuz I'm too sensitive

I care about people so I will remember what you write in your updates and probably wonder about you at some point and hope you are ok if you are going thru troubles ....that's annoying to people who usually don't give a crap

@LiftingLady5 reminds me of something that happened to me when I first starting using this site 2 years ago. I came across a guy in the formus who was from my hometown (didn't live there anymore) and my 'hood is tiny so I thought it was pretty cool. We added each other as friends and would talk from time to time, but I didn't utilize the site so much back then - other than logging my food in and the occasional visit to the General Diet Questions section of the forums. I went to message him one day because I ran into someone in town that knew him and I saw that he removed me from his friends list. So, me being the obnoxious person I am, messaged him and asked him why and he told me that he had to remove me because I never posted to his wall. I was like "WTF?!"

At the time, I was a newbie and didn't really use the site as a social networking tool, and really only used it to help me lose weight and get information on diet, nutrition, etc.

lol at someone "requiring "you comment their wall as a requirement of being his "friend"

AskTracyAnnK28

rebel_26 wrote: »

AskTracyAnnK28 wrote: »

LiftingLady5 wrote: »

I am an awful friend because I write stuff in my status updates most mornings about my life and stuff and talk about coffee

If you don't interact with me I will feel bad about cutting you so I probably won't for awhile cuz I'm too sensitive

I care about people so I will remember what you write in your updates and probably wonder about you at some point and hope you are ok if you are going thru troubles ....that's annoying to people who usually don't give a crap

@LiftingLady5 reminds me of something that happened to me when I first starting using this site 2 years ago. I came across a guy in the formus who was from my hometown (didn't live there anymore) and my 'hood is tiny so I thought it was pretty cool. We added each other as friends and would talk from time to time, but I didn't utilize the site so much back then - other than logging my food in and the occasional visit to the General Diet Questions section of the forums. I went to message him one day because I ran into someone in town that knew him and I saw that he removed me from his friends list. So, me being the obnoxious person I am, messaged him and asked him why and he told me that he had to remove me because I never posted to his wall. I was like "WTF?!"

At the time, I was a newbie and didn't really use the site as a social networking tool, and really only used it to help me lose weight and get information on diet, nutrition, etc.

lol at someone "requiring "you comment their wall as a requirement of being his "friend"

Most of his posts were "NP..." and then a link to a song. Like I give a *kitten* what someone is listening to?

Which makes me a bad MFP friend because I don't care about your playlist. And I will hide your "TMI" posts.

stylistchicky

Louise1491 wrote: »

Well I think you're a great MFP friend, but then I like your list so....

-I don't post booty pics, those are reserved for the specials
-I post songs you probably won't like daily.
- I am clumsy and post things I meant to put elsewhere.
- I'm odd.
- I won't send you noodz just because you compliment me.
- I forget important details sometimes, like your name.

Shoot, I might be a bad MFP friend because I don't know what most of that means lol. I didn't know about the booty pictures...nobody wants to see mine....ummm thats why I am here. I have no idea what noodz are lol

let_me_clip_dirty_wings

I don't share my toys or play well with others...

sunnybeaches105

I tried to answer this question and it all just sounded so mean. Let's just say I'm a bad friend and leave it at that.

joans1976

I won't accept a FR unless it comes with a message.

If I do accept a friend and they write with numbers (example: any1 instead of anyone) or write LOL every 5 words I delete them.

I definitely delete people who write LOLOLOLOLOLOL.

I truly do not care who you are friends with now, if you completed your diary or where you were with your calorie goal. Go check your settings. Geez.

I'm old and grumpy and if you just want to whine about how much you drank the nigh before and now the scale went up 2 pounds what do you do: delete.

I am very supportive and encouraging to those who are genuinely trying.

I like to see what exercises people do and stick with for new ideas.

arditarose

I've been so busy lately that I can't keep up with my friends, but I still make time to post my own crap.

slimgirljo15

Hmmmm....In my defence my timezone is almost opposite to most ..Im sleeping when you are awake and visa versa.So when I wake I am not going to scroll through hundreds of posts to find out whats happening with you....I will like and comment generally on the first page that opens when I log in ..
I suck at diary entries ..
We can be talking for weeks ..but I won't remember your name.
I will probably roll my eyes and say *kitten* when your pm comes in cause I don't want to talk to you cause Im having fun somewhere on the forums or elsewhere.
If you have a problem or want to talk ..Im cool with that and helping and trying to be supportive ..but you have to send me a pm cause I won't generally think to check on you ..
Also if you don't have my back when needed or piss me off or annoy me when Im drinking ..you will be left in no doubt by the venomous pm you receive as to why you were deleted..
I can be rattlesnake mean ....
I rarely friend anyone ....you have to send..

Aww *kitten* it ..Im going to delete myself ..I dont want to be friends with me.. jk ..

Other than that ^^ Im really pretty nice..just ask me.. :laugh:

Unknown

This content has been removed.

Justn83

A bad human being.

melmelw03

newmeadow wrote: »

Justn83 wrote: »

A bad human being.

No. I don't believe you. I looked at your photos and here is my analysis:

Your baseball cap is appropriately positioned. Your skin is clear, glowing with vitality and with firm tone. Your eyes appear to be optimistic and openly exude a certain air of endearing innocence. Your apartment is neat and clean. You appear to be enjoying a wholesome hobby - fishing. Your teeth are straight, white and flossed. You have upright, confident posture and your smile hints at cheerfulness, not sardonicism.

You're probably a good friend.

But how is he at wall love?

Timshel_

I accept noodz and vidz but never send them

I can disappear a lot.

I don't buy into, dabble with, or have any interest in drama so I am not part of any MFP happenings and cliques.

However, for those that do know me, I work hard to be a positive influence and do support my FL when I can.

Chrisjuvers

I'm a horrible friend because:
I deleted my Kik because of users on here.

I cuss on a daily basis and post memes with cuss words on them. A lot.

I'm honest and I don't give a Frick if you like it or not.

I do use my diary and work out because I'm not to my goal weight yet. Idc if you "like" that I ran 5 miles today or what your diary says. Screw your diary, I'm not looking at it.

I have sarcastic comments and I don't care about your feelings. That is all.

actualbettycrocker

Oh I forgot

I'm also a terrible MFP friend because one time some dude i never spoke to before that's older than my dad sent me really weird sexual message and I screenshot it and posted it on Facebook. Oops.

I weed these guys out by occasionally posting a status where I talk about my boyfriend.

denversillygoose

I'm not flirty
I'm not all that encouraging
My humor is really only funny in my own head
I don't care if you like my tyts, azz, hair, clothes, the name of my cat, tattoos, or my profile pic.
I don't have any magical answers to any weight loss or fitness exercises
I like bikes more than I like people.



Hey Hey! Feel free to add me!

finny11122

Well its not horrible but this is my 2 cents .
I don't put people on a pedestal and kiss their *kitten*
I practically never private message , because i quite simply don't have the time
If you are a real 100% real deal , i will treat you like a true friend .
I never put up with people talking pure puke , drama . manure , *kitten* talk about others that isn't warrented .
I hate tit for tat childish , schoolyard bullsh*t .
I'm raw , ready , truthful , sincere , genuinely helpful and that intimidates and frustrates the weak minded .
I will always go for what i want , what i think , in a sincere , charmful , real way , like a true james bond gentleman ,and that can annoy people not on my level .
Real men and women are here to build each other up and become more . The more you value yourself , the more you expect from others and this can be an alien concept to some people that don't value themselves or others .

CSARdiver

I automatically discount the opinion of anyone who would be my friend, as being my friend shows a tremendous lack of judgement and rational thinking.

Unknown

This content has been removed.

finny11122

LiftingLady5 wrote: »

finny11122 wrote: »

Well its not horrible but this is my 2 cents .
I don't put people on a pedestal and kiss their *kitten*
I practically never private message , because i quite simply don't have the time
If you are a real 100% real deal , i will treat you like a true friend .
I never put up with people talking pure puke , drama . manure , *kitten* talk about others that isn't warrented .
I hate tit for tat childish , schoolyard bullsh*t .
I'm raw , ready , truthful , sincere , genuinely helpful and that intimidates and frustrates the weak minded .
I will always go for what i want , what i think , in a sincere , charmful , real way , like a true james bond gentleman ,and that can annoy people not on my level .
Real men and women are here to build each other up and become more . The more you value yourself , the more you expect from others and this can be an alien concept to some people that don't value themselves or others .

What if I put on a toga and don't wear any undies?

Thats just fine by me haha .