Do guys date fat girls?

Jolenetaylor5513

Just curious...

usmcmp

Yes. There are a variety of factors that go into who people date. To some weight is an issue and to others it is not. I've found that confidence and loving myself was a bigger factor to attracting men than my weight was.

gcibsthom

Depends on the guy and girl...Do girls date fat guys?

Jolenetaylor5513

Yes, weight would never ever bother me

Timshel_

Absolutely.

ashliedelgado

I've only ever been a "fat" girl, and not only have never had an issue with dating. Second that confidence is huge when it comes to dating, regardless of your size. If you love you, it's hard for others not to.

Gimsteinn

Sure they do..

Jolenetaylor5513

Since I have lost a little weight I have been thinking about meeting some new men.

sunnybeaches105

If you think asking whether "all men" ever do "_____" then you're already a step behind. Find the right guy for you. Period. Make him happy and make sure he makes you happy. No one else's opinions, preferences, rules, or anything else matters.

gcibsthom

Go for it...some men will want to date you and some won't.....just like some women would want to date me and some won't....it's all good...find some friends and let it happen....but things don't usually happen overnight...

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Jolenetaylor5513

It is a harsh question, but I need to hear the truth before I get out there in the world

Kasner1975 wrote: »

That's a bit of a harsh question... But of course. Real men don't worry so much about an external appearance. They look for the love and kindness that's within. I don't care if you're a fitness model... If you're ugly on the inside, I personally want nothing to do with you.

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sunnybeaches105

Kasner1975 wrote: »

That's a bit of a harsh question... But of course. Real men don't worry so much about an external appearance. They look for the love and kindness that's within. I don't care if you're a fitness model... If you're ugly on the inside, I personally want nothing to do with you.

Real men have their own opinions

usmcmp

Kasner1975 wrote: »

That's a bit of a harsh question... But of course. Real men don't worry so much about an external appearance. They look for the love and kindness that's within. I don't care if you're a fitness model... If you're ugly on the inside, I personally want nothing to do with you.

I always love it when "real men" or "real women" is brought into a conversation. I know plenty of "real men" who personally put fitness as a high priority and couldn't date a woman that physically is unable to participate in activities due to weight or fitness level. Doesn't make them superior or inferior, it means they have a preference just like you.

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MonkeyMel21

I'm not a guy, but I did date a fat girl once upon a time.

Jolenetaylor5513

I'm just asking the fact that I'm 294 would probably make men run but I do have a heart of gold.

Jolenetaylor5513

I have lost currently 11 pounds though

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usmcmp

If you are happy with yourself you'll be able to draw in guys. Finding someone doesn't make you happy though, that has to come from within first or it will never last. Instead of going out searching and hoping someone will "accept" you at your current weight take this time to focus on being the best you and being happy. If you constantly worry about your weight impacting a potential relationship it will be more of a struggle to maintain a relationship.

Enjoy the process as you lose weight, you'll find someone when the time is right.

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tapwaters

Some men do, though the pool is smaller than men or women who will date active/fit people. Keeping working at it, meet people, and see what happens; be careful with both your body and mind.

Jolenetaylor5513

Excuse me? Who are you to judge someone else on here. I'm 24 and have a daughter and do quite well for myself. We can tell a lot for your personality that you have a horrible ego.

Damien_K

I have dated a woman on the heavier side. Loved her personality but found it difficult on the physical side of things, she didn't feel comfortable in her own skin and therefore intimacy was limited to lights off and no wandering hands.

Jolenetaylor5513

And your username is frodo...I mean....

Jolenetaylor5513

I have that problem. I constantly care what people think of me. I'm a sensitive soul

sunnybeaches105

Kasner1975 wrote: »

FrodoBaggsey wrote: »

lol "real men" is a term often used by insecure men to raise their standing. or appear more "alpha" to nearby women

Not at all, I'm being misunderstood by using an improper term. My apologies. I should use "real" in a more general sense. A "real" person should be more concerned with the how someone treats other people, how someone tries to do good in the world, and how someone may have a wonderful personality ... opposed to being distracted by someone's irrelevant number on a scale.

I'm very happy being unreal by your standards then. I care. Someone else may not. There are 7 billion people on this planet. Relationships and attraction are deeply personal and if someone makes the mistake of thinking that everyone else has the right to define that somone's relationship then that person isn't being true to himself/herself/etc. We have been fighting this Constitutional/legal and moral issue for centuries. Let people do themselves. You do you.