Feeling unattractive?

lenalovestofish

Anyone feel unattractive no matter how hard you try

DeficitDuchess

No because I know that no matter how good looking, I am able to become; there'll always be someone else whom's better looking than me. So I don't compete, in a competition that I know; I'm unable to win. Therefore I choose to be satisfied, with being the best; that I'll be able to be!

Motorsheen

lenalovestofish wrote: »

Anyone feel unattractive no matter how hard you try

Try?

lenoresdream

Motorsheen wrote: »

lenalovestofish wrote: »

Anyone feel unattractive no matter how hard you try

Try?

I'm guessing she means getting dressed up and putting on makeup, stuff like that

dahlia1015

Pfft, it's how I live. Ivr had a low self esteem since I was in the womb.

km8907

Yup.

Pterod

Rejected by my husband most days...yep I feel unattractive right now.

Elise4270

From your profile pic, you're not ugly/unattractive. Enjoy your youth, your are beautiful.

Embrace your ever changing looks. I avoid mirrors

But seriously, your not ugly. Work it girl!

amcalmond768

All the time! I will always be insecure!

salembambi

honestly there are not many days anymore when i think i look ugly or feel ugly

that is a huge deal for me

i think i have just decided that i am gorgeous and thats it

drbuzzard91

all the time so I am like whats the point lol so i eat more jack in the box hehe

girl_inflames

Yup.

rhianna_c

Always

alyssagb1

Elise4270 wrote: »

From your profile pic, you're not ugly/unattractive. Enjoy your youth, your are beautiful.

Embrace your ever changing looks. I avoid mirrors

But seriously, your not ugly. Work it girl!

Seconded. You're very pretty. You'll have good and bad days, where you feel attractive and unattractive. Just a fact of life.

evilokc

I hated myself until i was an adult. Now that im in my 30s i *kitten* love me. You couldnt pay me to be anyone else .It helps that i think im good looking. Im deffinatly not every womans cup of tea but im aging better than 90% of people my age. So now its MY TIME to love me and love being me. Dont waste your time feeling bad. Yes there is ALWAYS someone better looking but so what? For every person you see who is so good looking they make you feel bad about yourself there are 5 that look at you and it makes them feel bad. You dont have to be a perfect 10 to be sexy.

Timshel_

I feel somewhat smart, funny, and I am not completely unfortunate with looks, but never felt attractive, or get really uncomfortable with the rare times someone says sexy. i just don't get those.

RunsWithBees

km8907 wrote: »

Yup.

But... Iguanas are sooooo cuuuuuute!!! (I have a pet iggy and he's just the cutest 6 foot long baby ever!) Guess beauty really is in the eye of the beholder

JessicaJS23

evilokc wrote: »

I hated myself until i was an adult. Now that im in my 30s i *kitten* love me. You couldnt pay me to be anyone else .It helps that i think im good looking. Im deffinatly not every womans cup of tea but im aging better than 90% of people my age. So now its MY TIME to love me and love being me. Dont waste your time feeling bad. Yes there is ALWAYS someone better looking but so what? For every person you see who is so good looking they make you feel bad about yourself there are 5 that look at you and it makes them feel bad. You dont have to be a perfect 10 to be sexy.

My mom always told me that her 30's were the best. She said you develop a idgaf attitude and finally feel comfortable in your own skin. I never really thought she made any sense until I hit 30. I finally feel pretty much what she described and it's great.

amcalmond768

Timshel_ wrote: »

I feel somewhat smart, funny, and I am not completely unfortunate with looks, but never felt attractive, or get really uncomfortable with the rare times someone says sexy. i just don't get those.

Haha I totally get that. I always try to rely on my personality more then anything

amcalmond768

total_e wrote: »

amcalmond768 wrote: »

Timshel_ wrote: »

I feel somewhat smart, funny, and I am not completely unfortunate with looks, but never felt attractive, or get really uncomfortable with the rare times someone says sexy. i just don't get those.

Haha I totally get that. I always try to rely on my personality more then anything

Same. When you look like me, you gotta be funny or something.

A kick *kitten* personality is everything ... Looks are just the added bonus..and beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

_birdie__

yep i dont think it will ever change

i'm ok with that though

like ive lived so long irl as an un pretty girl i wouldn't know how to be any other way