Feeling unattractive?
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Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »I feel pretty.
.... I thought you should know.
Oh so pretty?
Yes.
Actually.... So, So Pretty
It’s taking ‘pretty’ to the next level.
That's pretty awesome.1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »I feel pretty.
.... I thought you should know.
Can I call you Maria and show you my dance/rumble jazz hands moves??👐🤞
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Tinydancer106 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »I feel pretty.
.... I thought you should know.
Can I call you Maria and show you my dance/rumble jazz hands moves??👐🤞
Somebody's getting knifed.1 -
Tinydancer106 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »I feel pretty.
.... I thought you should know.
Can I call you Maria and show you my dance/rumble jazz hands moves??👐🤞
Somebody's getting knifed.
Well....she wanted to live in America 🤷🏻♀️0 -
InspectorRed wrote: »Would i be hated if i say, yeah, most days i feel pretty good with myself? But i do. Not saying everyone should, or will find me attractive, im just saying im pretty alright with myself. I dont cheat myself and my goal is to go to bed having done all i can do in a day. And most days I do......and at risk of sounding arrogant and conceited, i find myself not feeling unattractive. Again, im not saying im beautiful, to some i may be ugly as sin.....but to me, i like what i see when i look in the mirror....and thats not just the superficial looks stuff.
That's awesome!!
To be clear, my answer is totally superficial....I'm happy with my accomplishments and my day to day life, I'm just not so happy with my face
Wish you didn't feel that way......your smile is amazing and makes me smile whenever I get the chance to see it. 😊0 -
Tinydancer106 wrote: »Tinydancer106 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »I feel pretty.
.... I thought you should know.
Can I call you Maria and show you my dance/rumble jazz hands moves??👐🤞
Somebody's getting knifed.
Well....she wanted to live in America 🤷🏻♀️
Well, if they get knifed, I hope it is in the one hand and not the one heart.1 -
DanielJFitness wrote: »Depends on how you’re defining it. We’re all self critical, but life is too short not to accept and love ourselves for who and how we are.
Personally I was being literal....and I totally have days where I look in a mirror and cringe or walk by a window and catch a "eek! Who is that?! Look away!"😣
.....BUT it's not everyday, and it's not internal, there are a whole slew of insecurities there we can save for another thread😉
I also think for me, so much or my insecurities about my looks come from aging...though I was even worse at a younger girl and thought I was less....those days are long gone thankfully and I will say I have way more "hai girl ....haaaaaiii!" 💗moments these days and can be seen even winking awkwardly at my window image on days I'm feeling cute!!
And lastly...while I wholeheartedly disagree with the rest of you who also see an unattractive side to yourself....I think it just shows we're again...not alone in how we feel.....THAT actually makes me feel good.😍....you beautiful *kitten* have a way of doing that a lot!🤗💖1 -
Tinydancer106 wrote: »Tinydancer106 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »I feel pretty.
.... I thought you should know.
Can I call you Maria and show you my dance/rumble jazz hands moves??👐🤞
Somebody's getting knifed.
Well....she wanted to live in America 🤷🏻♀️
Well, if they get knifed, I hope it is in the one hand and not the one heart.
Jazz hands are good deflectors😁🤗0 -
Tinydancer106 wrote: »Tinydancer106 wrote: »Tinydancer106 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »I feel pretty.
.... I thought you should know.
Can I call you Maria and show you my dance/rumble jazz hands moves??👐🤞
Somebody's getting knifed.
Well....she wanted to live in America 🤷🏻♀️
Well, if they get knifed, I hope it is in the one hand and not the one heart.
Jazz hands are good deflectors😁🤗
Bruce Lee did employ them at times.2 -
Tinydancer106 wrote: »Tinydancer106 wrote: »Tinydancer106 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »I feel pretty.
.... I thought you should know.
Can I call you Maria and show you my dance/rumble jazz hands moves??👐🤞
Somebody's getting knifed.
Well....she wanted to live in America 🤷🏻♀️
Well, if they get knifed, I hope it is in the one hand and not the one heart.
Jazz hands are good deflectors😁🤗
Bruce Lee did employ them at times.
He's the OG of JH's😂1 -
InspectorRed wrote: »Would i be hated if i say, yeah, most days i feel pretty good with myself? But i do. Not saying everyone should, or will find me attractive, im just saying im pretty alright with myself. I dont cheat myself and my goal is to go to bed having done all i can do in a day. And most days I do......and at risk of sounding arrogant and conceited, i find myself not feeling unattractive. Again, im not saying im beautiful, to some i may be ugly as sin.....but to me, i like what i see when i look in the mirror....and thats not just the superficial looks stuff.
That's awesome!!
To be clear, my answer is totally superficial....I'm happy with my accomplishments and my day to day life, I'm just not so happy with my face
Wish you didn't feel that way......your smile is amazing and makes me smile whenever I get the chance to see it. 😊
Thank you so much!0 -
No. There are certainly some days that I feel more attractive than others, the bad hair days, or if I've put on a few pounds and my clothes aren't fitting the way I want, but I don't ever feel unattractive.2
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Yep, I am cause nobody IRL finds me attractive. Or at least doesn't say/do anything to show and/or tell me they find me attractive. Its why I started losing weight in the first place, to increase my attractiveness.4
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All the time, for as long as I can remember. At my lowest weight, at my highest weight, single, in a relationship, engaged, married, always. My husband is amazing, he always tells me how beautiful and sexy he thinks I am. I just don't see it. Some days when I'm deep in a self-hate mode, his compliments are insulting and frustrating. I wish I could change my self-esteem
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All the time, for as long as I can remember. At my lowest weight, at my highest weight, single, in a relationship, engaged, married, always. My husband is amazing, he always tells me how beautiful and sexy he thinks I am. I just don't see it. Some days when I'm deep in a self-hate mode, his compliments are insulting and frustrating. I wish I could change my self-esteem
This is word for word how I feel. And to expand on it my husband will comment about how something would look good on me and I always think to myself maybe it looks good on her but not me! I have plenty of tattoos on my body and he has said how I should get a few on my stomach and again all i can think about is how no one is going to want to see my mid-section especially with tattoos.
I truly wish I could get over my insecurity but it's so deeply ingrained from my childhood that I would probably go broke talking to a therapist.1 -
mattig89ch wrote: »Yep, I am cause nobody IRL finds me attractive. Or at least doesn't say/do anything to show and/or tell me they find me attractive. Its why I started losing weight in the first place, to increase my attractiveness.
From what I've seen of you on here, you've got more than just the exterior to offer, dude. 😎3 -
thereshegoesagain wrote: »I felt ugly and unworthy most of my life, due to childhood molestation which changed who I was.
I got into drugs and bad choices in men until I got into therapy, in my 30's.
Now I'm 62, divorced a year after a 20 year marriage and living in a new state.
I feel more beautiful at this age than I ever did when I was younger and I believe it shows.
I'm at a healthy weight, am more active now than I've ever been and have a positive outlook on my life and future.
After losing 90 lbs I have lots of loose old lady skin,
wrinkles everywhere and old age spots but don't let any of that define me
I'm actually dating a 53 year old man right now, never thought that would happen!
So yes, we all have physical faults but it is not who we are, focus on your great attributes instead of perceived faults.
I’m so happy to hear you’re in a better place ❤️
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All the time. Just self conscious about my body, but I’m working on it. You’re beautiful btw!! 💕1
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Yep, dis still me. Been that way my entire life. Always being the fat, slow, ugly kid in the group of friends.. having a mother who constantly talked down to me and called me a fatass more times than I can count... kinda takes a massive beating to any ego you might once have had (and I never had much).6
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If I don't get at least 6 hours of sleep, I look like *kitten*. I get dark circles around my eyes, my skin turns yellowish, and the foxy lil' receptionist at work won't say good morning to me.
Pretty much👇
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Honestly, yes. Feeling this pretty hardcore lately. Doesn’t help that I’m turning 40 on the 14th. Going through a rough patch, but working on getting out of it!3
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sometimes yes; i can be prone to black or white thinking, so one day I'm all good, another day not so much3
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Yep! I am pretty sure I over think things to much...... I dunno, I need to think about it and just focus on being the best me. More attractive that a douche with a six pack (at least I think)... I feel like I have the look of "I need a box, I'll eat the rest later"2
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Behindblue_eyes wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Yep, dis still me. Been that way my entire life. Always being the fat, slow, ugly kid in the group of friends.. having a mother who constantly talked down to me and called me a fatass more times than I can count... kinda takes a massive beating to any ego you might once have had (and I never had much).
This hit home for me. First of all - *big hugs.* I can totally relate to this. Somehow I thought that losing weight was going to magically change my inner dialogue. Guess what? It did absolutely nothing for me. I still look in the mirror and see a sad, overweight teenager. Self confidence is a *kitten* to learn, but I'm working on it.
This is me hugging you both and saying you are perfect just the way you are. You are both absolutely beautiful inside and out.
Besides the only truly ugly people in this world are those that hate puppies!
Hope y'alls weekend is as wonderful and as lovely as you two are.
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Behindblue_eyes wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Yep, dis still me. Been that way my entire life. Always being the fat, slow, ugly kid in the group of friends.. having a mother who constantly talked down to me and called me a fatass more times than I can count... kinda takes a massive beating to any ego you might once have had (and I never had much).
This hit home for me. First of all - *big hugs.* I can totally relate to this. Somehow I thought that losing weight was going to magically change my inner dialogue. Guess what? It did absolutely nothing for me. I still look in the mirror and see a sad, overweight teenager. Self confidence is a *kitten* to learn, but I'm working on it.
This is me hugging you both and saying you are perfect just the way you are. You are both absolutely beautiful inside and out.
Besides the only truly ugly people in this world are those that hate puppies!
Hope y'alls weekend is as wonderful and as lovely as you two are.
Some times all we need is a sweet compliment such as this to help us feel good. Thank you for being you, Dave. 🤗
You are welcome sweetie. And always know, if you ever need someone to just chat with I'll be there for you. Sometimes just talking about a situation is all we need. xxxooo2 -
I'm feeling very attractive
to ants
But I think they just love me
because I'm holding
donut crumbs
and lying on the floor
and waiting
to be attractive
to ants4 -
mattig89ch wrote: »Yep, I am cause nobody IRL finds me attractive. Or at least doesn't say/do anything to show and/or tell me they find me attractive. Its why I started losing weight in the first place, to increase my attractiveness.
From what I've seen of you on here, you've got more than just the exterior to offer, dude. 😎
Daww, thanks man.
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I have never felt attractive, but I think that being slim will make me go from a 5 to a 6.0
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