Can a 19 year old guy be with 38 years old woman

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  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    I cannot even fathom being with a 19 year old, and I'm 36. Like, are we going to have sex to Bieber? :confounded:
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    Zee_0100 wrote: »
    Do most of the women like young boys?
    Why is it said that girl should be smaller than you?
    A guy being in relationship with elder women is some kind of taboo?
    majority of men like milfs why?
    Alot of questions coming into my mind by watching a movie name "A Teacher".

    First off...can a woman? Sure why can't she? Sorry semantics
    No one's says a girl should be smaller than a guy.
    I think the age things go both ways as far as taboo.
    Do men like milfs? lots of men like younger women I think
  • CharlieBeansmomTracey
    CharlieBeansmomTracey Posts: 7,682 Member
    well my sister who just turned 37 is dating a just turned 20 year old so yeah its possible
  • sw33tp3a_1
    sw33tp3a_1 Posts: 795 Member
    I don't ever see myself dating someone younger than me. I like a little salt and pepper on my men.
  • Svanel
    Svanel Posts: 6,255 Member
    No. A 19 year old is still a child, at least to me lol
  • pasandoval
    pasandoval Posts: 37 Member
    Absolutely!
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    I'm 32 and would never hook up with someone under 25. 30 is about as young as I am willing to go.

    Hook up with, yes!

    Actually go out with, no way!

    Even hook ups under 25 are a no no for me. I don't want to have to hold someone's hand and teach them how to do things. I'm experienced and know what I like and expect the same. I appreciate the stamina of someone young, but stamina doesn't necessarily make sex good.
  • Svanel
    Svanel Posts: 6,255 Member
    I'm 32 and would never hook up with someone under 25. 30 is about as young as I am willing to go.

    Hook up with, yes!

    Actually go out with, no way!

    Even hook ups under 25 are a no no for me. I don't want to have to hold someone's hand and teach them how to do things. I'm experienced and know what I like and expect the same. I appreciate the stamina of someone young, but stamina doesn't necessarily make sex good.

    totally agree haha stamina does not make for good sex. that comes from feeling that connection which in turn ignites passion. where there is passion, there is the desire to please and so on and so forth lol
  • Svanel
    Svanel Posts: 6,255 Member
    I'm 40 and have nothing in common with 19 year olds....

    exactly - i would feel like i was babysitting lol
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    Zee_0100 wrote: »
    Do most of the women like young boys?
    Why is it said that girl should be smaller than you?
    A guy being in relationship with elder women is some kind of taboo?
    majority of men like milfs why?
    Alot of questions coming into my mind by watching a movie name "A Teacher".


    Historically women probably married older men because they were more settled and prosperous... better providers, better connections. So it is the custom in many cultures.
    Most women marry men who are the same age or 4-5 years older. A 19 year age gap is uncommon.
    If you are wanting an actual long term relationship with an older person- not just sex- there could be some difficulties due to the age-life experience gap. Most women would not want take a relationship with a 19 year old seriously.

    I married a man 6 years younger than me when he was 19. I did not go looking for someone younger than me. I was not and am not attracted to young boys. He was a very mature person and we had many things in common. I still had reservations about his age when I found out and this was only 6 years gap.
    We have been married almost 17 years now. There were some issues I think early on with his friends being in a very different place in their lives (living with parents,college, partying) while he was independent, getting married, working, having a child. We had some bad reactions from family and friends because he was 19 and I was older.
    A 19 year age gap seems like it would be even more difficult socially unless both people were over 30 years and relatively more settled in life and common experiences.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,030 Member
    Yeah, I think for the vast, vast majority of young guys who go for "MILFs", it's a status thing, and a notch in the headboard, not actually a genuine attraction to older women.
  • Have dated 6 years older and 7 years younger, and a whole lot in between. The best relationships were always with women same age or older but who also had a zest for life (enjoyed hiking, working out etc.)

    Age has no correlation on the type of relationship you will have. It is truly just a number. I promise.
  • Monkey_Business
    Monkey_Business Posts: 1,800 Member
    edited October 2016
    Zee_0100 wrote: »
    Do most of the women like young boys?
    Why is it said that girl should be smaller than you?
    A guy being in relationship with elder women is some kind of taboo?
    majority of men like milfs why?
    Alot of questions coming into my mind by watching a movie name "A Teacher".

    1. Do most of the women like young boys? A: The key word here is the word 'boys', not men.
    2. Why is it said that girl should be smaller than you? A: I have never heard of this and I have been around awhile. My wife is smaller then me, but I was 6', so the average woman is going to be smaller then me, even after I have shrunk a bit now that I am older
    3. A guy being in relationship with elder women is some kind of taboo? A: It depends on what your definition of relationship is. I had a great relationship with my Mother, it was not taboo. You are suppose to have a good relationship with both your parents. If you are talking about romance, then it will have some unique challenges that most couples do not work out in the long run.
    4. majority of men like milfs why? A: The majority of women appreciate a man's body. That does not mean there is going to be a meaningful relationship. I can appreciate a nice looking woman (no matter what the age), that does not mean we are going to have a relationship.
  • beagletracks
    beagletracks Posts: 6,034 Member
    #NiUnaMenos
  • denversillygoose
    denversillygoose Posts: 708 Member
    edited October 2016
    I'm 39 and there is no way in hell I would even hook up with a 19 year old, let alone "date" one.
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,338 Member
    Zee_0100 wrote: »
    Do most of the women like young boys?
    Why is it said that girl should be smaller than you?
    A guy being in relationship with elder women is some kind of taboo?
    majority of men like milfs why?
    Alot of questions coming into my mind by watching a movie name "A Teacher".

    47 here, and I don't enjoy talking with men under 30....looking at them, yes....talking? Not so much! No offense!
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    I guess OP can't handle the truth. :laugh: