What should I do?

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  • MsAmandaNJ
    MsAmandaNJ Posts: 1,248 Member
    Angela937 wrote: »
    Thanks guys. My main concern is making him feel bad, bc I really like him. He's the one I would want a relationship with when the time is right. I just don't want to mess things up.

    You said it perfectly to us, just say the same thing to him.
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    Angela937 wrote: »
    Thanks guys. My main concern is making him feel bad, bc I really like him. He's the one I would want a relationship with when the time is right. I just don't want to mess things up.

    You said it perfectly to us, just say the same thing to him.

    Thank you!
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  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    Be honest with him if he decides that slowing down doesn't work for him dumphim and find someone else to fill his slot
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    amcalmond768 wrote: »
    What's your trick?? I can't get one man let alone 3 lmao

    Would you settle for some long distance stalking?
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    vikinglander wrote: »
    Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy.

    This is true. Unless you judge based on originality and entertainment value. Be creative, @Angela937!
  • bblue656
    bblue656 Posts: 159 Member
    Once again, cant even get a hello from a guy. TEACH ME
  • _incogNEATo_
    _incogNEATo_ Posts: 4,537 Member
    salembambi wrote: »
    Be honest with him if he decides that slowing down doesn't work for him dumphim and find someone else to fill his slot

    Don't you mean somebody else to fill HER slot? HEY-OH!!!
  • PowerMan40
    PowerMan40 Posts: 766 Member
    Why ruin a good thing, Shag them all, and keep having fun.... if he catches the feels for you, cool... just make sure your not changing what your doing, just yet. If he takes offense you got two others, and he can be replaced.
  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    Or you could become a mormon
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  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    Vomiting on him and telling the truth usually does it..
  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    salembambi wrote: »
    Be honest with him if he decides that slowing down doesn't work for him dumphim and find someone else to fill his slot

    Don't you mean somebody else to fill HER slot? HEY-OH!!!

    where the F dis fool come from?
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    Black_LabeI wrote: »
    If he's ready to take that next step, set up a threesome with him and one of the others.

    This is also a good idea
  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    toned_thugs_n_harmony wrote: »
    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    salembambi wrote: »
    Be honest with him if he decides that slowing down doesn't work for him dumphim and find someone else to fill his slot

    Don't you mean somebody else to fill HER slot? HEY-OH!!!

    where the F dis fool come from?

    Right!?
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    LiftingLady5 wrote: »
    When is the time going to be right?

    I don't know, when it feels right I guess.
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    How the heck do you find time to date three simultaneously ?
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    Once again, I personally think you need to not be involved with other people. Romantic or sexual. Go be single for a while.
  • ds41980
    ds41980 Posts: 133 Member
    Ummm.....where are these casual sex guys? The last guy I was with was all this is pretty much just physical for you isn't it and I was like....yep.
  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    usmcmp wrote: »
    Once again, I personally think you need to not be involved with other people. Romantic or sexual. Go be single for a while.

    That's normal for younger humans, don't you think? She is still trying to figure out what will or will not work for her before she commits (or don't.)
  • sw33tp3a_1
    sw33tp3a_1 Posts: 795 Member
    Just tell him as hard as it may be. Always be honest with your intentions. He'll come around and if he really likes you he'll wait till you are ready.
  • kschwab0203
    kschwab0203 Posts: 610 Member
    I agree with the majority...tell him you like him and you like spending time with him, but you are just not down to do the committed relationship thing right now.
  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    138shades wrote: »
    dc6088 wrote: »
    usmcmp wrote: »
    Once again, I personally think you need to not be involved with other people. Romantic or sexual. Go be single for a while.

    That's normal for younger humans, don't you think? She is still trying to figure out what will or will not work for her before she commits (or don't.)

    she doesn't look that young.

    What do you consider old? 20?
  • JukeboxHeroine
    JukeboxHeroine Posts: 348 Member
    usmcmp wrote: »
    Once again, I personally think you need to not be involved with other people. Romantic or sexual. Go be single for a while.

    This.......so this
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    138shades wrote: »
    dc6088 wrote: »
    usmcmp wrote: »
    Once again, I personally think you need to not be involved with other people. Romantic or sexual. Go be single for a while.

    That's normal for younger humans, don't you think? She is still trying to figure out what will or will not work for her before she commits (or don't.)

    she doesn't look that young.

    I'm 31
  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    Angela937 wrote: »
    138shades wrote: »
    dc6088 wrote: »
    usmcmp wrote: »
    Once again, I personally think you need to not be involved with other people. Romantic or sexual. Go be single for a while.

    That's normal for younger humans, don't you think? She is still trying to figure out what will or will not work for her before she commits (or don't.)

    she doesn't look that young.

    I'm 31

    31 is still young in my book, just keep swimming
  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    edited November 2016
    @138shades 'I didn't say old did I? Blanket statement.
    [/quote] (sorry, my MFP app is acting up a litlle bit while trying to respond to chats today)
    No, you said that OP didn't look 'that young'. That somewhat confused me.
    Not that young for what? For trying to figure out what works for her or what not? Though many people do relationship experimenting while young (and 31 is still qualifies 'young adult'), that could be a life-long process.

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