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JustPassingTime wrote: »
Lol I'm curious as to what it said before she edited it!0 -
Bach's Prelude in C1
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Mulch, mulch and more mulch...1
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How to solve a problem0
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JustPassingTime wrote: »Just found out they're shutting my workplace down and we're getting transferred to another facility 😑😑😑
I'm really gonna miss this place my "projects", some friends I've made, sneaking on the rooftop during the warm summer nights just to "get away". Oh wells it is what it is I guess 😞
I am glad you still have a job though2 -
I don't know how to handle people who push others away when they are struggling. I WANT to be there. I don't know how much reaching out and saying "I am here" is too much and what isn't enough. It's like walking a thin line between being supportive and obnoxious. It makes me paranoid and anxious.8
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LiftingSpirits wrote: »I don't know how to handle people who push others away when they are struggling. I WANT to be there. I don't know how much reaching out and saying "I am here" is too much and what isn't enough. It's like walking a thin line between being supportive and obnoxious. It makes me paranoid and anxious.
Sometimes the ones pushing away, aren’t wanting to push you away. They’re more understanding that you can’t fix their struggle. I’m sure they appreciate you, even if it comes across as wanting to be alone. You sound like a wonderful friend 💜
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I read an article that said most caregivers end up dying before the one they’re caring for. It kind of freaked me out, because I’ve always felt my life would end tragically.3
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bootyrubsandtacos wrote: »I read an article that said most caregivers end up dying before the one they’re caring for. It kind of freaked me out, because I’ve always felt my life would end tragically.
That's a pretty cruel fate or not...I don't know. It's almost as if like the life is being transferred between the two.0 -
Oh God I hope not!0
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Keep_on_cardio wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »I don't know how to handle people who push others away when they are struggling. I WANT to be there. I don't know how much reaching out and saying "I am here" is too much and what isn't enough. It's like walking a thin line between being supportive and obnoxious. It makes me paranoid and anxious.
Sometimes the ones pushing away, aren’t wanting to push you away. They’re more understanding that you can’t fix their struggle. I’m sure they appreciate you, even if it comes across as wanting to be alone. You sound like a wonderful friend 💜
Thank you! That's probably partially it. I am a fixer and most people know that. I just never want anyone to feel like I have abandoned them so I have a constant internal battle of giving them space and reinforcing that I am there.1 -
Just swinging on my patio swing wishing tomorrow wasn’t Monday.1
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LiftingSpirits wrote: »Keep_on_cardio wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »I don't know how to handle people who push others away when they are struggling. I WANT to be there. I don't know how much reaching out and saying "I am here" is too much and what isn't enough. It's like walking a thin line between being supportive and obnoxious. It makes me paranoid and anxious.
Sometimes the ones pushing away, aren’t wanting to push you away. They’re more understanding that you can’t fix their struggle. I’m sure they appreciate you, even if it comes across as wanting to be alone. You sound like a wonderful friend 💜
Thank you! That's probably partially it. I am a fixer and most people know that. I just never want anyone to feel like I have abandoned them so I have a constant internal battle of giving them space and reinforcing that I am there.
I appreciate people like you ❤️3 -
Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!
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Den_of_Iniquity wrote: »Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!
I disagree. You are able to post this and spell correctly.1 -
Den_of_Iniquity wrote: »Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!
She said check your instagram1 -
its_jus_me wrote: »Den_of_Iniquity wrote: »Best St. Patrick's Day Ever!
She said check your instagram
Pure gold at the end of the rainbow. Thank ye lass.2 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »I don't know how to handle people who push others away when they are struggling. I WANT to be there. I don't know how much reaching out and saying "I am here" is too much and what isn't enough. It's like walking a thin line between being supportive and obnoxious. It makes me paranoid and anxious.
just keep loving the people you love the best you can without worrying about how they respond to you
This is excellent advice. Thank you ❤1 -
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