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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Tinydancer106 wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »I need to be talked out of bangs.
get a bang flip in, no ragrets there
Where do they sell them?
https://www.amazon.com/HIKYUU-Bangs-Human-Fringe-Extensions/dp/B07THZ1G3C/ref=pd_aw_sim_194_of_10?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B07THZ1G3C&pd_rd_r=f43858b0-b37f-4f81-9ca6-5285aee16f1b&pd_rd_w=pTjat&pd_rd_wg=M6u9X&pf_rd_p=6329818b-951a-4e75-9070-7e13e9f9f308&pf_rd_r=YR2F6QXTB8JFFSS6DHE7&refRID=FHTKD8S2Z3QHEJYJ0HD9
Oh man!😍 Wish this was posted last night before I made another bad decision... 😒
Welp that's what hats are for right?😖
Did you really? ❤️
I did😒....I need a full hair cut like my last was in October🙄 but ya know with clips and pony tails I can make it work ....sort of....and I kept thinking hmm ....and before I could over think it the "deed" was done 😱....so I'll be sporting my baseball caps for bit🤷....I say go with the flip bangs 👍(wish I did!😖)1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »Me
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You actually did it? Thank you for helping to talk me down0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »Me
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Sister🙌💗1 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Me
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You actually did it? Thank you for helping to talk me down
No, that’s just my process
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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Ever since I moved a year and a half ago I have been dealing with terrible headaches a few times a week. I’ve had the house looked at for any possible allergens, the outdoor allergens are the same, so all I can think of is I’m now on top of the escarpment, but surely it can’t be enough to cause these types of headaches and so often. I just want them to end.
Meg, have you considered maybe it could be a perfume or cleaning product.
A couple of years ago I started getting headaches.. I seemed to have them all the time. Turned out that for whatever reason I became sensitive to the smell of a new cleaning spray .. I also had to stop using the new perfume I'd bought.
I now buy as many unscented products as I can. Just a thought.. 🙂 hope you find what is causing the headaches.2 -
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I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
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caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
Flip side: I used to think people who wouldn’t walk away from a bad relationship (of any kind) were into the drama or were weak gluttons for punishment. I. Have. Learned. sorrysorrysorry ❤️7 -
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caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
I think if you felt bad in anyway due to the way he treated you, you did what you had to do....if he made an effort to find out why and you rebutted it that would be one thing...but he didn't and you seem like the kind of person who wouldn't shun an offer to work things out....you seem kind, funny and I think you did what you needed to do so now I see you as strong! Hugs and sorry that it hurts hun!🤗💐1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
Toxic individuals only bring you down. Good on you for recognizing something had to change. Your own well being should be the priority.1 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
Flip side: I used to think people who wouldn’t walk away from a bad relationship (of any kind) were into the drama or were weak gluttons for punishment. I. Have. Learned. sorrysorrysorry ❤️
Hmm. I wouldn’t characterize myself as either of those but maybe i need to think about that some more 🤔Tinydancer106 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
I think if you felt bad in anyway due to the way he treated you, you did what you had to do....if he made an effort to find out why and you rebutted it that would be one thing...but he didn't and you seem like the kind of person who wouldn't shun an offer to work things out....you seem kind, funny and I think you did what you needed to do so now I see you as strong! Hugs and sorry that it hurts hun!🤗💐NoHookUpZone wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
Toxic individuals only bring you down. Good on you for recognizing something had to change. Your own well being should be the priority.
I appreciate the support but this post is really more to do with recognizing my own hypocrisy. I gotta do better0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
Flip side: I used to think people who wouldn’t walk away from a bad relationship (of any kind) were into the drama or were weak gluttons for punishment. I. Have. Learned. sorrysorrysorry ❤️
Hmm. I wouldn’t characterize myself as either of those but maybe i need to think about that some more 🤔Tinydancer106 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
I think if you felt bad in anyway due to the way he treated you, you did what you had to do....if he made an effort to find out why and you rebutted it that would be one thing...but he didn't and you seem like the kind of person who wouldn't shun an offer to work things out....you seem kind, funny and I think you did what you needed to do so now I see you as strong! Hugs and sorry that it hurts hun!🤗💐NoHookUpZone wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
Toxic individuals only bring you down. Good on you for recognizing something had to change. Your own well being should be the priority.
I appreciate the support but this post is really more to do with recognizing my own hypocrisy. I gotta do better
Yeah, I don’t know if that was part of your character or not. Just saying it’s not as cut and dried as either of us seemed to think at one time.1 -
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caco_ethes wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
Flip side: I used to think people who wouldn’t walk away from a bad relationship (of any kind) were into the drama or were weak gluttons for punishment. I. Have. Learned. sorrysorrysorry ❤️
Hmm. I wouldn’t characterize myself as either of those but maybe i need to think about that some more 🤔Tinydancer106 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
I think if you felt bad in anyway due to the way he treated you, you did what you had to do....if he made an effort to find out why and you rebutted it that would be one thing...but he didn't and you seem like the kind of person who wouldn't shun an offer to work things out....you seem kind, funny and I think you did what you needed to do so now I see you as strong! Hugs and sorry that it hurts hun!🤗💐NoHookUpZone wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I used to think that people who were capable of cutting someone out of their lives were just ruthless and unforgiving. I felt morally superior to them, prided myself on being able to forgive and move on.
But today i was reminded of someone i used to be really close to. He was great in lots of ways except for one: the way he treated me in public. More specifically, the way he liked to embarrass me for his own amusement.
If I’m honest, i cut that dude out. With surgical precision and no remorse. On paper it is so petty, but at the time i just associated him with a ramping up of my social anxiety and did what felt like the pertinent thing for my mental well-being. There was no specific wrong to forgive, just a personality clash that I couldn’t fix, nor did i want to expend the effort to try.
Maybe down the road he would’ve tired of my reactions, thought i was a downer or that he had to walk on eggshells around me, who knows. If he had cut me out, how would i feel about it? Would i assume responsibility for my part in it? Would I recognize that it’s just a personality conflict and it isn’t necessarily personal?
I don’t think I’d be that mature. In fact i know i wouldn’t. It hurts to be cut out. It sucks knowing you aren’t worth the effort sometimes.
But despite that, i can respect it. Hell, i encourage it.
Thanks for reading
Toxic individuals only bring you down. Good on you for recognizing something had to change. Your own well being should be the priority.
I appreciate the support but this post is really more to do with recognizing my own hypocrisy. I gotta do better
Good for you seeing things for what they are....to me I went right to my own *kitten* where I stayed with someone who was decentish to me but made me feel embarrassed while we were out with others...ie...omg you can't tell a.decent story!...you laugh like a guy! Etc.......I stuck it out and he got worse ....that was a lot of years walking on eggshells so I thought phew! this chick avoided a minefield good for her! Lol...course only you know your own self and I commend you....it's much easier seeing fault in others.....sorry for the misunderstanding hun😋🤗👍1 -
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Thinking about going out and buying a kettlebell0
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It will be the fitness move of the year.NoHookUpZone wrote: »Thinking about going out and buying a kettlebell
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It will be the fitness move of the year.NoHookUpZone wrote: »Thinking about going out and buying a kettlebell
Having issues with handle shape.
Suggestions say rounded handle, avoid triangular.
I'm seeing sharply triangular, rounded triangular, and round.
I'm wondering if slightly rounded would be ok but I'm probably better off going to the store and physically picking it up and see how it feels in my hands.0 -
I'm thinking (worrying) about school starting in a few days and how my guy will adjust, I'm sure he will be fine👍💗 ...also about all the bs I have to still do to ensure all goes well with his transition to adult services in a few years and it's making me so anxious I'm trying to keep busy and goof off here so I don't hide in my bathroom and cry ......oooo...that doesn't sound to deep.does it😬🤐
I meant I'm stalking😏2 -
Alright, got my kettlebell, let's do this2
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Tinydancer106 wrote: »I'm thinking (worrying) about school starting in a few days and how my guy will adjust, I'm sure he will be fine👍💗 ...also about all the bs I have to still do to ensure all goes well with his transition to adult services in a few years and it's making me so anxious I'm trying to keep busy and goof off here so I don't hide in my bathroom and cry ......oooo...that doesn't sound to deep.does it😬🤐
I meant I'm stalking😏
🤗🤗🤗🤗 hugs all the hugs and good vibes sent your way.2
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