What's on your mind?
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Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Why are some people so mean spirited?
Right?
At least they have to live in their own mind...forever
...wait, was that mean-spirited?!
Anyhow - if someone was a dick to you, know its a "them" problem, not a you problem
I often wonder how he lays his head down at night... it's most def a him problem, but I have to deal with it on the regular... and as much as I let it roll off my back, I will still never understand why he simply cannot turn the *kitten* off!!! K... I'm all done now...lol! That's for the pep talk sweetheart
I've been super happy and gushing lately about some people being back, you are one of them! Am super happy to "see you" again!2 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Why are some people so mean spirited?
Right?
At least they have to live in their own mind...forever
...wait, was that mean-spirited?!
Anyhow - if someone was a dick to you, know its a "them" problem, not a you problem
This is a great approach - so often I think I did something to make another person be mean to me. but THEY are the ones choosing to be dicks not me!
Know what - I got this perspective from a 13 year old girl years ago. And it really sank in and helps me.
She said to me after I got offended by a client "Its not about you" - and that idea has been prolific to me - mind opening and was a total paradigm shift for me
Like if people are being an *kitten* to you, who knows what is going on in their life? In their day? Not a "you" problem. Being upset and offended and mad is a fair reaction.
Once you cool down, think about the big picture - and that you did no wrong.
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I gotta stop procrastinating and do work.
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Yoshiboobs wrote: »
👀 a message for meeee!?
Did you for real not get my gushy, somewhat cringey in retrospect message?!
Dang...Im gonna have to re-send then!
I didn't receive any connected to freind request messages. 😔1 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Why are some people so mean spirited?
Right?
At least they have to live in their own mind...forever
...wait, was that mean-spirited?!
Anyhow - if someone was a dick to you, know its a "them" problem, not a you problem
I often wonder how he lays his head down at night... it's most def a him problem, but I have to deal with it on the regular... and as much as I let it roll off my back, I will still never understand why he simply cannot turn the *kitten* off!!! K... I'm all done now...lol! That's for the pep talk sweetheart
I've been super happy and gushing lately about some people being back, you are one of them! Am super happy to "see you" again!
🖤💗🖤 such a sweet thing for you to say! Xoxo1 -
Yoshiboobs wrote: »Yoshiboobs wrote: »
👀 a message for meeee!?
Did you for real not get my gushy, somewhat cringey in retrospect message?!
Dang...Im gonna have to re-send then!
I didn't receive any connected to freind request messages. 😔
mmK
...incoming
Lets see if the message "feature" works!1 -
oh crap I forgot melatonin I'm gonna be up til the inception of Skynet2
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Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Why are some people so mean spirited?
Right?
At least they have to live in their own mind...forever
...wait, was that mean-spirited?!
Anyhow - if someone was a dick to you, know its a "them" problem, not a you problem
This is a great approach - so often I think I did something to make another person be mean to me. but THEY are the ones choosing to be dicks not me!
Know what - I got this perspective from a 13 year old girl years ago. And it really sank in and helps me.
She said to me after I got offended by a client "Its not about you" - and that idea has been prolific to me - mind opening and was a total paradigm shift for me
Like if people are being an *kitten* to you, who knows what is going on in their life? In their day? Not a "you" problem. Being upset and offended and mad is a fair reaction.
Once you cool down, think about the big picture - and that you did no wrong.
Oh wow, if that teen can take that attitude with her throughout her teenage years (and life really) she will be set up for some positive thinking! That's a cool story! Something I've slowly been learning is that how people react is their decision and not mine, it also reminds me that the way I react to people is totally MY own decision. Seems obvious but something worth thinking of.1 -
Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »oh crap I forgot melatonin I'm gonna be up til the inception of Skynet
Is that a long time or like a medium time or0 -
Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »oh crap I forgot melatonin I'm gonna be up til the inception of Skynet
Is that a long time or like a medium time or
I won't know til we find the arm and the chip1 -
Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »oh crap I forgot melatonin I'm gonna be up til the inception of Skynet
Is that a long time or like a medium time or
I won't know til we find the arm and the chip
Someone stop me from the dumb joke i’m about to do2 -
Oh my sweet christ i just now realized why there are two threads named pants and daves 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
IN MY DEFENSE im a huge dummy3 -
Why can I not forget about him. I swear he made the biggest impact in all my 66 years, and we were best friends for only 8 of them. 4
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I made two threads yesterday called rants and raves. Then i went about my business and forgot about them.
I came back later and saw these two threads called daves and pants where people were raving about daves and ranting about pants
And to my unending shame
It completely went over my head 😁4 -
Why can I not forget about him. I swear he made the biggest impact in all my 66 years, and we were best friends for only 8 of them.
The brain hates nothing more than it hates an open loop. If it feels like unfinished or unresolved business, your brain will dwell on it like it’s a To Do you keep forgetting to write down.2 -
there was a man lying by the lake water under the bridge close to my house last night. the fire department was there with him but i didn't see him being resuscitated or anything. i hope he's ok...2
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I had a dream about someone that I love last night. I haven't spoken to them in months but they were in my dreams and I can't stop thinking about them. My dreams are kinda revealing to me so when I dream good/bad I pay attention. In my dreams they told me they missed me so now idk if I should reach out to them or just let my dream be what it was, just a dream.4
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I am a really bad aunt. I just realized two of my nephews have birthdays the first part of next week and I hadn't sent cards. So I zelle'd their mom money and told her to go buy cards and put cash in them.
How did I miss those? I look at my calendar a gazillion times a day.3 -
r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »I had a dream about someone that I love last night. I haven't spoken to them in months but they were in my dreams and I can't stop thinking about them. My dreams are kinda revealing to me so when I dream good/bad I pay attention. In my dreams they told me they missed me so now idk if I should reach out to them or just let my dream be what it was, just a dream.
what are you afraid of if you do reach out?
i've had dreams like this MANY times. i guess it all depends if things were said or something transpired that you didn't speak with them,*or they with you* this could be why? it's been that case for me anyway. sometimes i've just let the proverbial *sleeping dog lie*.
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I made two threads yesterday called rants and raves. Then i went about my business and forgot about them.
I came back later and saw these two threads called daves and pants where people were raving about daves and ranting about pants
And to my unending shame
It completely went over my head 😁
Oh yeh, that makes sense. So slow but never put those all together.
Somebody just smack me. 1 -
I was going to reject the room but the conniving sob threw in a hail mary - both my roommates are hot and in their 20s 😂😭0
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I made two threads yesterday called rants and raves. Then i went about my business and forgot about them.
I came back later and saw these two threads called daves and pants where people were raving about daves and ranting about pants
And to my unending shame
It completely went over my head 😁
That’s actually amazing. 😂0 -
r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »I had a dream about someone that I love last night. I haven't spoken to them in months but they were in my dreams and I can't stop thinking about them. My dreams are kinda revealing to me so when I dream good/bad I pay attention. In my dreams they told me they missed me so now idk if I should reach out to them or just let my dream be what it was, just a dream.
Omg!! Do you do dream interpretation? I have one! I’ve been dreaming about this person every single day. For months. Sexually. Only I’m awake.
Go!!3 -
r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »I had a dream about someone that I love last night. I haven't spoken to them in months but they were in my dreams and I can't stop thinking about them. My dreams are kinda revealing to me so when I dream good/bad I pay attention. In my dreams they told me they missed me so now idk if I should reach out to them or just let my dream be what it was, just a dream.
Omg!! Do you do dream interpretation? I have one! I’ve been dreaming about this person every single day. For months. Sexually. Only I’m awake.
Go!!
i had a dream lately about an old boyfriend. we were just hanging out and laughing like old times. it was such a fun dream and when i woke up i thought about him ALL DAY LONG. i told my husband about this dream and he said - why don't you reach out to him? *seriously!* he wasn't being facetious - he knows i get sentimental about people sometimes. i obviously didn't - but i kinda would like to know how he's doing. esp when i found out a few old beaus died in the past while....
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not to weird or creep yall out but all my dreams have been about dead or hurt little animals so whats that mean5
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sweet_ermengarde wrote: »not to weird or creep yall out but all my dreams have been about dead or hurt little animals so whats that mean
That hurt animals have been on your mind a lot lately2 -
r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »I had a dream about someone that I love last night. I haven't spoken to them in months but they were in my dreams and I can't stop thinking about them. My dreams are kinda revealing to me so when I dream good/bad I pay attention. In my dreams they told me they missed me so now idk if I should reach out to them or just let my dream be what it was, just a dream.
Omg!! Do you do dream interpretation? I have one! I’ve been dreaming about this person every single day. For months. Sexually. Only I’m awake.
Go!!
This means you need get **** 🤷♀️5
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