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  • 5ofseven5ofseven Member Posts: 795 Member Member Posts: 795 Member
    Does Circle K still exist?
  • piggy_smallspiggy_smalls Member Posts: 576 Member Member Posts: 576 Member
  • Peachesand_creamPeachesand_cream Member Posts: 249 Member Member Posts: 249 Member
    My daughter is graduating college end of April and moving to Georgia in May. I just got use to her being married and now my only child will be moving to another state. While I am so proud of her, I hide in my bathroom and cry a little whenever I think about her moving.

    Awwww 💔

    Bitter sweet milestones. *big hugs, Mom*
  • _sw33tp3a_11_sw33tp3a_11 Member Posts: 4,057 Member Member Posts: 4,057 Member
    Seems super quiet around these parts
  • KickassAmazon76KickassAmazon76 Member Posts: 3,497 Member Member Posts: 3,497 Member
    Yes.

    We had one here for ever... Then it disappeared... And now it's back again. Just down the street, actually!
  • KickassAmazon76KickassAmazon76 Member Posts: 3,497 Member Member Posts: 3,497 Member
    Do I want bangs or not 🤔 My daughter and I look alike, I wish she would let me cut hers so if it doesn't look good I'll be able to dodge a bullet.

    That's doing motherhood right! Haha.

    Maybe there's a snapchat filter that has bangs so you can test it out? 😁
  • Miss_Chiev0us_Miss_Chiev0us_ Member Posts: 1,757 Member Member Posts: 1,757 Member
    Do I want bangs or not 🤔 My daughter and I look alike, I wish she would let me cut hers so if it doesn't look good I'll be able to dodge a bullet.

    That's doing motherhood right! Haha.

    Maybe there's a snapchat filter that has bangs so you can test it out? 😁

    😂 there probably is. It was just a joke. I can easily cut one, I wear hair extensions.
    edited March 10
  • vanityy99vanityy99 Member Posts: 2,361 Member Member Posts: 2,361 Member
  • KickassAmazon76KickassAmazon76 Member Posts: 3,497 Member Member Posts: 3,497 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Did a deep dive on narcissism. So very interesting. And sad.
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    Sadly I've experienced a couple. The damage left behind is brutal. 😔
  • PlentyofProtein00PlentyofProtein00 Member Posts: 2,688 Member Member Posts: 2,688 Member
    Why is it that no matter how old I get, when I buy snacks for a road trip, it looks like an unsupervised nine year old was given $100 at Circle K?

    :# meeeeee also
  • slimgirljo15slimgirljo15 Member, Premium Posts: 258,549 Member Member, Premium Posts: 258,549 Member
    My bed.. 💤 😴 night all
  • IslandGal3IslandGal3 Member Posts: 687 Member Member Posts: 687 Member
    My bed.. 💤 😴 night all

    Sweet dreams.
  • ReenieHJReenieHJ Member Posts: 6,528 Member Member Posts: 6,528 Member
    I had a hard time sleeping last night thinking about my daughters friend, must be why I am up before everyone. Yesterday I drove my daughter to the gym (she asked for her 1st membershp last week) I picked up a friend she goes with on our way there. Her mom came out to say hi to me and basically insulted her own daughter in front of me saying she will need to go for more than 1 month if she wants to lose weight and then said she should ask my daughter what she eats so she can be skinny too. She added more comments along those lines. Who the *kitten* speaks to their children like that or anyone for that matter???!!! I had a talk with my daughter about it when she got home and she told me other things. I am not sure some people realize that the way you speak to your children becomes the way they speak to themselves. Some people are so disgusting it makes me sick.

    It's extremely sad how some parents choose their words and the way they parent. Kids see with their eyes, but also ears, heart and parents' reactions. :( I'm so glad you have a close relationship with your dd that you can have eye-opening conversations like those with her.

    I remember a mom coming to daycare 1 a.m., clearly exasperated with her young ds and said she should've just gotten a dog. :( Kids are not dumb. Parents used to go on vacation all the time, using daycare and grandparents instead of taking their children with them. Their children would spend 10-12 hours a day with providers while parents went places without them, didn't matter if it was a day off work or not. Those actions say a lot to a child. It says 'I'd rather not be with you, I don't have time for you'.

    Those type of comments from parents affects a child forever and they'll never see themselves as worthy or good enough.:(
  • MelG7777MelG7777 Member Posts: 10,018 Member Member Posts: 10,018 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Did a deep dive on narcissism. So very interesting. And sad.
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    Sadly I've experienced a couple. The damage left behind is brutal. 😔

    I have too. But I didn’t know what to call it. And witnessed from a distance. I just didn’t know that’s what it was. I’m sorry you’ve experienced a few. You definitely didn’t deserve that.
  • Miss_Chiev0us_Miss_Chiev0us_ Member Posts: 1,757 Member Member Posts: 1,757 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Did a deep dive on narcissism. So very interesting. And sad.
    1argtznda6qx.jpeg

    Sadly I've experienced a couple. The damage left behind is brutal. 😔

    I have too. But I didn’t know what to call it. And witnessed from a distance. I just didn’t know that’s what it was. I’m sorry you’ve experienced a few. You definitely didn’t deserve that.

    Im sorry you're having to deal with someone like that. Never forget your worth or let anyone make you feel like you're not enough.

    Narcissists tend to have less willingness to exercise emphaty, express remorse or apologize. Maybe I have too much emphaty towards others that I find it difficult to think that there is people who are inhuman like that and have no emotions?  Can one person really not be able to love or have no soul? To me those people clearly have had emotional problems in the past or childhood and don't know how to deal with it? Hurt people, hurt people? It doesn't make it right but that phrase is always in the back of my mind when I deal with difficult people now.

    My opinion on this is probably not like most people because I've never experienced being around someone like what your post described although I've slapped that label quickly on people when I felt like I've been hurt in the past.

    You're a great person Mel, don't ever let anyone make you think otherwise. ❤
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