When your hubby has a head ache? We never
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Wow!!! Id fight through that headache3
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Is it kind of how you don't want to lift when you have a pounding headache? Is it the same thing?1
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Make noise. He's had a headache for six years. Sounds like he has a sexache.4
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Unpossible!1
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This, I cannot handle. I NEED it when I NEED it. Ughhh! 6 years? I would die.
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Well you are HOT, so it's not that.
How is the relationship otherwise? Do you enjoy each other's company? Is he a good provider? Is he a good dad? Is he helpful to you? Do you spend free time together? Has he been there for you during difficult times? Is he older than you? Has he had a death in his family six years ago? Does he suffer from migraines? Does he travel frequently?
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Are you both open to the thought of professional counseling? Because it most likely isn't any one single thing that's causing the problem. A good counselor can help the two of you untangle and order any problems in a way that makes sense, and then suggest a course of action.
One thing though that might bear thinking about - We (men and women) sometimes work so hard to land that special someone, but after getting that ring on the finger, we stop doing what we did that attracted them in the first place. Marriage requires work, sacrifice and understanding, along with a willingness to grow together.
I truly hope you can get things worked out.2 -
Ok I said no ONCE. Actually I didn't say no I said "You can do whatever you want as long as you dont wake me". Recently we went through a 2 month dry spell and it had a massive impact on our relationship.
6 years?
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1st world problems.3
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Well can make a long debate about this, but I wasn't looking for it with you. You quoted me referencing yourself and your country which I didn't ask for. So yeah, the question I asked in my previous reply is still unanswered. But don't worry about it. Not looking for an answer either.1 -
Well can make a long debate about this, but I wasn't looking for it with you. You quoted me referencing yourself and your country which I didn't ask for. So yeah, the question I asked in my previous reply is still unanswered. But don't worry about it. Not looking for an answer either.
I'n not worried about it and perhaps we should let the thread topic continue and not hijack it.0 -
Omg 6 years ...I can't even imagine ..
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My wife and I have our moments but I think the longest was almost two months and I thought I was going to die. I cannot imagine 6 years. I certainly hope he is seeking medical care for it because there is certainly a problem to cause that. Your profile pic tells us you are an attractive woman (very) so doubt that is it. Certainly hope for the best for you!1
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Have you checked his vitals?1
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Geez! I get cranky and start to question the health of my relationship when we go more than a week or two.
How do you deal? Have you talked to him?2 -
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Have sex!! 6 years??
Either he has a medical issue, is secretly gay, or is getting it somewhere else. I'd have a serious heart to heart with him. My wife and I may go a couple of weeks at times but not usually longer than that, we're both approaching 50 and have raised 3 kids. So yea, something is wrong.2 -
6 yrs??? Dang...2
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It's been almost 2 years here and I am going effing crazy. Can not imagine 6. Mine at least completely crushed his pelvis and has a valid reason... oh and the fact that it's gotten to where he is such a dick I don't want him to touch me.2
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A relationship can't survive without sex. You need to talk to him about this as it's unreasonable for him to withhold sex (especially for 6 years). He will have his reasons and you may not like them but it's better to address that this is an issue.0
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RunHardBeStrong wrote: »It's been almost 2 years here and I am going effing crazy. Can not imagine 6. Mine at least completely crushed his pelvis and has a valid reason... oh and the fact that it's gotten to where he is such a dick I don't want him to touch me.
He's probably become a jerk because he's as sexually frustrated as you are, and probably insecure because he can't perform for you. Maybe if you tried a little touching. Stroke his head as you walk by. Or his arm. He'd probably be so shocked he might smile at you.5 -
thisonetimeatthegym wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »It's been almost 2 years here and I am going effing crazy. Can not imagine 6. Mine at least completely crushed his pelvis and has a valid reason... oh and the fact that it's gotten to where he is such a dick I don't want him to touch me.
He's probably become a jerk because he's as sexually frustrated as you are, and probably insecure because he can't perform for you. Maybe if you tried a little touching. Stroke his head as you walk by. Or his arm. He'd probably be so shocked he might smile at you.
Thank you but he was a jerk before his accident, it's only gotten worse. I know he is frustrated as am I, I understand that. I have done all the touching stuff, he doesn't reciprocate. It should be a two way street. We have been to a sex therapist and marriage therapy in the past year and a half. He chooses to continue to be mean and selfish.4 -
Spliner1969 wrote: »
he might be asexual or just have a low drive too. sexuality is actually a pretty wide spectrum. and compatibility is a thing - you can get two people who are miles apart on that spectrum and neither of them is unhealthy or wrong. they're just too different to mesh well together.
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Sex is good for the relief of headaches. He's probably got a headache from not busting in the past 6 years. Either that he hides in the bathroom with his cell phone for a bit after dinner...3
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Last time I checked when I have a headache and have sex it makes the headache go away, your endorphins, better than pain meds... maybe thats just me..
Do what the rest of the world does, get you a steady supply on the side...1 -
PowerMan40 wrote: »
Do what the rest of the world does, get you a steady supply on the side...
..........srsly?
Maybe I should have used sarcasm font...0
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