Men would you date a pretty 200 pound woman?
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Well I've been dating a pretty 225 lb woman for 21 years, she's now 209 and working towards getting smaller. ;-)
But I'm not as manly as SideSteel and definitely don't get as many overtures as he does now that I'm on my sixth anniversary of my 39th birthday.
You sir, are plenty manly. Nicely done.5 -
nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
Just remember @SideSteel - to maintain your manly manhood, you have to always eat sausage sideways, like an ear of corn. Because....well, because sausage.
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*reads thread*
*looks at avatar*
*backs out of manly thread*
Ok, married slim beautiful woman, fell even more in love with her when she hit 210, still tripping over myself to keep her happy at her current 165, so yes.9 -
where do us regular guys get these awesome sounding sausages?
I love hot cheese of death.
Op I started dating my wife at a weight that I could only assume was near 200lbs. I had never been attracted to anyone that heavy before but we were friends for a while before both being single at the same time. 16 years later 2 kids and several pounds gained and lost between the pair of us we're still together. We are both working hard on becoming fit happy healthy people at the moment.
I can tell she's madly in love with me because of the way she politely reminded me that I left my drink cup in the living room and forgot to turn some lights off before I came to bed last night. How do you ask can one return such love and devotion. Obviously you can't you just grunt at them and head for the on button on the coffee pot.4 -
rikkejanell2014 wrote: »And she was working on her weight loss and has a goal to lose all her weight in a year?
Working on weighloss or not. If I fell in love
With you I'm going to be buy your side through the thick and thin
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@SideSteel Thank you for making me LOL this morning. What a great way to start the day!0
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I dislike questions like that. It makes men sound like superficial morons - and most of them are not. Love comes in all forms and sizes and hits unexpectedly and that's a good thing. I am happily married since 33 years (to the same man) and we went through thick and thin effortless.
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Personally, I would not date a 200+ lb woman. But it has nothing to do with the 200+ lbs. I'm gay. SO....
We could have all those nice long talks she enjoys. Maybe even a Pinkberry after the gym. We could talk hair for days and go to the mall. We could realistically do a lot of the things that dating people do. But we couldn't date. ;-)24 -
i have done.
dated 80lbs ladies as well.
weight bears no connection to coolness.2 -
They would. My longest and best romantic relationships happened when I weighed over 300 pounds.0
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They do. I started dating my current husband when I was 240, and I've been 200 for most of our time together (including when we got married). I was even heavier dating and married to my first husband. (We broke up for reasons unrelated to my (or his) weight.)
I've also dated men on a wide spectrum of sizes. Size is an attracting factor for some people, yes, but it's not nearly as big a deal as you'd fear.0 -
I'm afraid not. We all have our likes and dislikes and that is a deal killer for me.
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It's what's on the INSIDE that matters. As far as I'm concerned, a woman's looks and weight account for about 35% of her overall attractiveness. The other 65% lies inside.2
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confident, intelligent, vibrant, funny, eloquent, great to be with
trumps
insecure, dumb, dull, dull, dull, dull to be with
weight is immaterial in this. The first makes sexy, the second makes millstone
also in for sausage2 -
Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
You need your own talk show.
Go get it, now.4 -
confident, intelligent, vibrant, funny, eloquent, great to be with
trumps
insecure, dumb, dull, dull, dull, dull to be with
weight is immaterial in this. The first makes sexy, the second makes millstone
also in for sausage
This is what my husband said actually..(except in for sausage)
I was 185 when we met...lost 10lbs for the wedding...gained up to 210...currently 150lbs
he said his attraction to me was due to the fact i was a confident sexy women...which has nothing to do with my weight...cause confident and sexy is a mindset....
we are still married...still very very much in love and he shows me how much a lot...;)2 -
I have always been into women who are round and soft and curvy in all the right places, regardless of their weight, or my own weight, and I have had some amazing relationships in my life, for which I am grateful. It's all good...1
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Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
OK so you're just freaking funny0 -
I might sound shallow but I won't.3
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