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knittingwitch
knittingwitch Posts: 231 Member
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So I'm just an average person that lost a lot of weight, but time to time I hear back handed compliments about my weight and I also hear a lot of misconceptions of weight loss.
So I was wonder what was the worst thing you have heard or been told, either in the form of a backhanded compliment, misguided advice. or misconception?

I hate it or at least it bugs me when people say they only want to lose belly fat when they are fat all over or at least over weight all over. I mean I get it I myself use to think that but I didn't try to only do crunches to lose weight.
I always tell people when they say this to me you know I use to think that two but I'm glad that I lost weight all over because no one really thinks about back fat but no one wants it either.
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  • CountingCaloriesSuxass
    CountingCaloriesSuxass Posts: 387 Member
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    ehhh never mind
  • hOw2lozeAgiN10dAze
    hOw2lozeAgiN10dAze Posts: 1,841 Member
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    "Should you be eating that?"

    "You're too skinny, you shouldn't workout like you do."

    "You're a mom, you're ALLOWED to look like one!"



    Makes me want to punch people in the face.
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
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    "Do you EVER eat anything besides salad? No WONDER you're so skinny!"

    Um....I have intestinal issues that bother me when I don't eat right....I don't run my mouth about your fat *kitten* so don't run yours about my food choices!

    :angry:
  • BrittanyAnnL
    BrittanyAnnL Posts: 140
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    " Every time I see you, you look more & more like a crackhead"

    "Do you ever eat?"

    "I think you run too much, its okay to take a break"

    "You are going to get bulky and manly looking, ewe"

    "Don't you think you have lost enough weight"

    "Brittany doesn't eat real food, just rabbit food"

    "I liked you better when you were fatter"

    I mean... I can go ON & ON. My motto... "shut the **** up" :)
  • lostdogg
    lostdogg Posts: 450 Member
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    No.


    I hate hearing no.
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,677 Member
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    "You're SUPPOSED to gain weight after a certain age." --no.

    "You're not that fat so you shouldn't worry so much about it." ---i'm not THAT fat because I DO worry about it

    "I prefer women who have a little meat on their bones." --in response to my working out regimen. yep. I should base my entire health and outlook on your personal opinion, guy.
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    Not weight related but,

    "Maybe you'd be prettier if you cut your hair."

    Conversely, I also heard "Maybe you should let your hair grow out." When my hair was short.
  • justicer68
    justicer68 Posts: 1,223
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    You can't.....oh yes I can!!
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
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    No.


    I hate hearing no.

    I always tell you "yes."
  • CookNLift
    CookNLift Posts: 3,660 Member
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    I hate hearing "IIFYM IS BETTER YOU CAN EAT BIG MACS YOU *****" and "NO YOU OVEREATING SWOLLEN MEATHEAD CLEAN EATING IS BETTER CAUSE YOU WILL LEARN TO FLY"

    haha jk. I hate hearing the word whatever. It's like a big FU
  • TyTy76
    TyTy76 Posts: 1,761 Member
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    No I will not have sex with you.
  • CookNLift
    CookNLift Posts: 3,660 Member
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    No I will not have sex with you.

    +1 that too for sure lol
  • T0FatToB3S1ck
    T0FatToB3S1ck Posts: 192 Member
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    I hate being told that I am getting to small and that I should stop losing weight. Nobody told me that I was getting to big and that I should stop eating...
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
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    Aren't you married?
  • lostdogg
    lostdogg Posts: 450 Member
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    No.


    I hate hearing no.

    I always tell you "yes."

    That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    No.


    I hate hearing no.

    I always tell you "yes."

    That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time

    Safety words are for pansies.
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
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    No.


    I hate hearing no.

    I always tell you "yes."

    That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time

    Safety words are for pansies.

    How YOU doin'?? :bigsmile:
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
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    No.


    I hate hearing no.

    I always tell you "yes."

    That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time

    Safety words are for pansies.

    And THAT'S why I like you, Tim.
  • RangerJess
    RangerJess Posts: 32
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    I hate it when my friends imply that I'm making them feel guilty by eating less and/or healthier than I used too. I'm not doing it to make them feel guilty, I just want to feel better about myself!
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    No.


    I hate hearing no.

    I always tell you "yes."

    That's why I like ya bench....... But don't forget the safety word next time

    Safety words are for pansies.

    And THAT'S why I like you, Tim.

    Just give me a leather strap to bite down on.
  • T0FatToB3S1ck
    T0FatToB3S1ck Posts: 192 Member
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    "I think you look good for having a baby 8 weeks ago"...

    You cannot even tell I was pregnant recently. I'm thinner now then I was before I got pregnant...

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