What's ur fantasy.. After getting ur ideal body?

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  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
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    _dixiana_ wrote: »
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    haha everytime I've just screwed "somebody" who doesn't matter, it hasn't been a good experience for me, and I leave feeling worse than I did beforehand. So I'd just rather not

    I read something really interesting once. Well, a couple something really interestings that came together in a neat way.

    Statistics say men have an orgasm just about 100 % of the time they have sex. For women the numbers are much bleaker.

    Now I've never been a woman before, so I don't really know what it's like. But I've been told that the partner makes a difference. Meaning that ladies tend to have a better time with a partner who's motivated to attend to her pleasure, than with a partner who's indifferent to it. Also, how you feel about a partner in terms of trust and respect and whatnot, can be more important for a woman than for a man.

    When you put it all together, it's almost like the things that are important to a lot of women, mostly come from "somebody special" and not "just somebody."

    There's a stereotype that men will *kitten* anything with a pulse, and that women just aren't very interested in casual sex. Maybe it's not that women don't like sex, they just don't like bad sex that doesn't satisfy them.

    Is there any truth to any of that?

    100%

    ETA: bold

    Trying to understand women can be difficult and confusing sometimes. I'm sure we can be pretty baffling too. But I learned a long time ago that it's worth the effort. :smile:
  • _dixiana_
    _dixiana_ Posts: 3,262 Member
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    NorthCascades wrote: »
    _dixiana_ wrote: »
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    haha everytime I've just screwed "somebody" who doesn't matter, it hasn't been a good experience for me, and I leave feeling worse than I did beforehand. So I'd just rather not

    I read something really interesting once. Well, a couple something really interestings that came together in a neat way.

    Statistics say men have an orgasm just about 100 % of the time they have sex. For women the numbers are much bleaker.

    Now I've never been a woman before, so I don't really know what it's like. But I've been told that the partner makes a difference. Meaning that ladies tend to have a better time with a partner who's motivated to attend to her pleasure, than with a partner who's indifferent to it. Also, how you feel about a partner in terms of trust and respect and whatnot, can be more important for a woman than for a man.

    When you put it all together, it's almost like the things that are important to a lot of women, mostly come from "somebody special" and not "just somebody."

    There's a stereotype that men will *kitten* anything with a pulse, and that women just aren't very interested in casual sex. Maybe it's not that women don't like sex, they just don't like bad sex that doesn't satisfy them.

    Is there any truth to any of that?

    100%

    ETA: bold

    Trying to understand women can be difficult and confusing sometimes. I'm sure we can be pretty baffling too. But I learned a long time ago that it's worth the effort. :smile:

    No doubt. Usually a man will get more from a woman when she feels like her needs are met....dare I say, first? Because, like you said our "numbers are much bleaker."
  • beagletracks
    beagletracks Posts: 6,034 Member
    edited December 2016
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    Thought better of it. o:)
  • _dixiana_
    _dixiana_ Posts: 3,262 Member
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    mjhuisheere wrote: »
    Hmmm---never had an orgasm , so not possible for me lol.

    Are you somehow unable to or ??? I don't understand this.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
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    this is making my head hurt
  • gianna42
    gianna42 Posts: 5,991 Member
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    mjhuisheere wrote: »
    Hmmm---never had an orgasm , so not possible for me lol.

    This makes me sad. Find a way
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,868 Member
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    synchkat wrote: »
    this is making my head hurt

    Why is a head ache always the excuse???
  • beagletracks
    beagletracks Posts: 6,034 Member
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    y30dp54z4jh6.jpg

    Great for sore muscles.
  • angelxsss
    angelxsss Posts: 2,402 Member
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    peppermintpudgy wrote: »
    y30dp54z4jh6.jpg

    Great for sore muscles.

    So that's what that was...
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,506 Member
    edited December 2016
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    NorthCascades wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    _unsteady_ wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    whoever will love me in return

    He said screw not love

    is it impossible for both to exist together?

    Only if you have low standards.

    Yes, You Called?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,506 Member
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    mjhuisheere wrote: »
    Hmmm---never had an orgasm , so not possible for me lol.

    You don't own a shower massage, do you?
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
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    Years ago, a girl I was dating urged me to bring home an electric toothbrush...
  • _dixiana_
    _dixiana_ Posts: 3,262 Member
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    NorthCascades wrote: »
    Years ago, a girl I was dating urged me to bring home an electric toothbrush...

    Hmm that's different. How'd that work out?
  • _dixiana_
    _dixiana_ Posts: 3,262 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    mjhuisheere wrote: »
    Hmmm---never had an orgasm , so not possible for me lol.

    You don't own a shower massage, do you?

    Precisely

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