OMG, you wouldn't believe what she has been saying to me!

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  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
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    In...

    ...because awesome.
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
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    I was about to tell you that you need to change your caliber of friends until I saw it was you. LOL
    I think we're all guilty of that.
  • Nefetete
    Nefetete Posts: 343 Member
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    Thanks for posting !!! I was reading and thought WOW what a **** I would have punched her out ... kept reading & realize how right you are, we treat & see ourselfs in such a negative light most of the time... never good enough.

    For me, being positive is still a work in progress, but glad to see I am not the only one.

    :flowerforyou:
  • joolsmitchell
    joolsmitchell Posts: 53 Member
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    I was gonna suggest you give her a slap til I realized what you were saying. Its so true there is no bigger critic than ourselves sadly.
  • ladyu
    ladyu Posts: 70 Member
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    :love: :blushing: :bigsmile:
  • saxmaniac
    saxmaniac Posts: 1,133 Member
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    Funny, I work with the same person. I wonder if they're related??

    (Good thing my kids don't come to work with me, though, and never see it.)
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    Sandy, you are a beautiful, intelligent, kind, sexy woman.
  • K_Serz
    K_Serz Posts: 1,299 Member
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    I work with that Bishes husband. :flowerforyou:
  • cutchro
    cutchro Posts: 396 Member
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    I am awesome! I am me and if you don't like it you can leave! and he did! :laugh:
  • mommy3457
    mommy3457 Posts: 361 Member
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    wow..so true!
  • TheCaren
    TheCaren Posts: 894 Member
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    Thank you for sharing this. I soooooo relate.

    It's fascinating to me the self-talk we allow that we'd never tolerate from another person. There is someone who is trying to destroy me from the inside out. My self-esteem is shot. My body image is ridiculously distorted, and all I see is what's wrong. And the horrible things I say to myself would shock those who know me. If someone said to me what I say to me, I would blow a gasket and send them packing.

    But what do I do when the enemy is me?
  • BathtubBadger
    BathtubBadger Posts: 217 Member
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    This was a real wake up call for me. Thank you.
  • quellybelly
    quellybelly Posts: 827 Member
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    Amazing. Perfect reminder that we are our own worst critic and we are wayyy too hard on ourselves and we need to ease up and see the positive side of things!
  • talk2elles
    talk2elles Posts: 124 Member
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    I was starting to feel outraged and defensive and shocked for you...then I realised what you were getting at. Great post! Xx
  • Chellody22
    Chellody22 Posts: 95 Member
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    :flowerforyou:
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
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    LOVE YOU, Sandy!!!! :heart:
  • JewelsinBigD
    JewelsinBigD Posts: 661 Member
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    powerful!
  • jwdieter
    jwdieter Posts: 2,582 Member
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    A lot of men seem to have completely opposite self-perception issues. Wonder where the divergence occurs.
  • Hopelessone
    Hopelessone Posts: 270 Member
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    Great post!! I do the same thing, thank you for the wake up call, it was much needed. You are awesome :)
  • My0WNinspiration
    My0WNinspiration Posts: 1,146 Member
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    This is awesome

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