How big is too big?

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  • TribeHokie
    TribeHokie Posts: 711 Member
    In WWE terms, preference would be for Randy Orton, but I wouldn't say no to The Rock.
  • athyraslove
    athyraslove Posts: 145
    Every girl is attracted to different looks. So you should decide what look YOU want for yourself. :) Do what makes you feel good, confidence is sexy on any body. And I do not think you look too big if your profile pic is you currently, not too big at all.

    As for the second question: Perhaps...lol
  • catneon
    catneon Posts: 911 Member
    I thought this discussion would involve pics.....just another disappointing thread...

    How YOU Doin
    Heeeyyy no how you doin? pics?
  • MeIShouldB
    MeIShouldB Posts: 578 Member
    So I'm bulking until January. I still have some definition in my abs but not as chiseled as it was. However, my back, chest, traps, and arms are all getting pretty big. I have had several guys tell me I"m getting "too big". Now I'm not trying to look like Mr. Olympia or anything just add some size to some areas. So I guess my question is more aimed at the females.. When is enough enough?

    Oh P.S. for the ones with the dirty minds....Is there a such thing as too big?

    TIP: If GUYS are telling you that you are getting to big, it may just be a little jealousy.
  • athyraslove
    athyraslove Posts: 145
    So I'm bulking until January. I still have some definition in my abs but not as chiseled as it was. However, my back, chest, traps, and arms are all getting pretty big. I have had several guys tell me I"m getting "too big". Now I'm not trying to look like Mr. Olympia or anything just add some size to some areas. So I guess my question is more aimed at the females.. When is enough enough?

    Oh P.S. for the ones with the dirty minds....Is there a such thing as too big?

    TIP: If GUYS are telling you that you are getting to big, it may just be a little jealousy.

    ^This. Like how girls tell other girls they are getting too skinny. lol
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    So I'm bulking until January. I still have some definition in my abs but not as chiseled as it was. However, my back, chest, traps, and arms are all getting pretty big. I have had several guys tell me I"m getting "too big". Now I'm not trying to look like Mr. Olympia or anything just add some size to some areas. So I guess my question is more aimed at the females.. When is enough enough?

    Oh P.S. for the ones with the dirty minds....Is there a such thing as too big?

    TIP: If GUYS are telling you that you are getting to big, it may just be a little jealousy.

    Guys generally dont work this way.
  • _Krys10_
    _Krys10_ Posts: 1,234 Member
    I would ask guys the same question regarding women. :laugh:

    <3 cesareans

    You would.

    All "natural" birth, and there are STILL men who are too big for me, even after having a 10 lb baby. :flowerforyou:

    And for OP: I prefer a cut look to a bulked look on men.

    :laugh: That made my vagina cringe a little bit OUCH
  • eileen0515
    eileen0515 Posts: 408 Member
    To the first question.

    Too big is all about proportion. Everthing must be in balance. Huge shoulders and arms looks alien to me, when the lower body is proportionally smaller. Also, I appreciate a man who can wear a well cut, slim elegant suit. Some of the body builder types just cannot pull off that look. T'shirts yes, fashionable clothes no.

    No comment to the second. There is no such thing as privacy on the internet...
  • lostdogg
    lostdogg Posts: 450 Member
    I thought this discussion would involve pics.....just another disappointing thread...

    How YOU Doin
    Heeeyyy no how you doin? pics?

    Only for you :tongue: cat
  • joe_madre
    joe_madre Posts: 693
    I would ask guys the same question regarding women. :laugh:

    <3 cesareans

    You would.

    All "natural" birth, and there are STILL men who are too big for me, even after having a 10 lb baby. :flowerforyou:

    And for OP: I prefer a cut look to a bulked look on men.

    :laugh: That made my vagina cringe a little bit OUCH

    That's some visual...
  • WendyTerry420
    WendyTerry420 Posts: 13,274 Member
    I think you should determine that, not others.
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
    Well OP, when you post a misleading title, how are those of us that are a touch pervy SUPPOSED to act?

    Sheesh.

    Body-wise, I see nothing wrong with too big if it looks natural.

    On the dirty mind part of the question...nope.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    when her feet don't touch the ground?
    woman-sitting-on-a-big-rooster-statue.jpg
  • alisha_1983
    alisha_1983 Posts: 507 Member
    when her feet don't touch the ground?
    woman-sitting-on-a-big-rooster-statue.jpg

    there are exceptions tho ;)
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    when you get sore,
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    About 350lbs.
  • AJinBirmingham
    AJinBirmingham Posts: 497
    "I can't put my arms down!" is too big.
  • jeromykaplan
    jeromykaplan Posts: 205 Member
    Probably when you cant wipe you own butt. Personally i want to have a body like GSP
  • JovanValor
    JovanValor Posts: 2,114 Member
    Id say aslong as a moan isnt a cry then your fine haha and i always figured it was never about size but rather width! but maybe some girls get more specific with preference ????
  • Dauntlessness
    Dauntlessness Posts: 1,489 Member
    Its all about feeling comfortable with yourself. Do you want to be bigger? Do you like what you see? Are the other guys jealous? Are you planning to enter any competitions? Ninja warrior???:drinker:

    I'm a lady and I'm not answering the last question. :blushing: :wink:
  • Cutting4life
    Cutting4life Posts: 505 Member
    About 350lbs.

    i dont mind curvy women but anything over 150lbs is pushing it.
  • onwarddownward
    onwarddownward Posts: 1,683 Member
    I think it's important to look down the road. Eventually, when you can't sustain that bulk, the skin is stretched out in the pecs and it's going to sag. I am talking age 60-70.

    arnold-schwarzenegger-shirtless.jpg~original
  • Cutting4life
    Cutting4life Posts: 505 Member
    I think it's important to look down the road. Eventually, when you can't sustain that bulk, the skin is stretched out in the pecs and it's going to sag. I am talking age 60-70.

    arnold-schwarzenegger-shirtless.jpg~original

    not everyone's on cell tech
  • sarahthin
    sarahthin Posts: 210 Member
    I think it's important to look down the road. Eventually, when you can't sustain that bulk, the skin is stretched out in the pecs and it's going to sag. I am talking age 60-70.

    arnold-schwarzenegger-shirtless.jpg~original
    What I want to cuddle with is something in between. The muscleular is very hard looking, the other, oh well,nugh said.
  • UrbanLotus
    UrbanLotus Posts: 1,163 Member
    Yes to both questions...the first is more subjective. Personally I'm not a fan of big bulky muscles. A little definition/sold build is nice, but I'm not a fan of the cut chiseled bulky muscles. I dont want to cuddle with a rock lol, some women like that though!

    The second question....yes absolutely. I'm thinking the women who said no haven't truly experienced "too big" - when things are so painful you have a hard time walking after, it's a struggle to fit in, there is no pleasure/just pain...yeah, it's too big. Fortunately most guys don't have that problem, I've seen 2 in my life - both guys said that it was a real problem in the bedroom and I believe them!
  • TeachTheGirl
    TeachTheGirl Posts: 2,091 Member
    Every woman has a different preference in what type of guy they find attractive. So why not try this instead - get your body to where YOU are satisfied with how it looks and feels. Then when you finally attract someone, you'll know it's for the parts of you that are real and that you can live with yourself however you've made yourself.

    Honestly, if you tried to appeal to every woman's ideal, you wouldn't be happy anyway.
  • eric_sg61
    eric_sg61 Posts: 2,925 Member
    I think it's important to look down the road. Eventually, when you can't sustain that bulk, the skin is stretched out in the pecs and it's going to sag. I am talking age 60-70.

    arnold-schwarzenegger-shirtless.jpg~original
    This guy is 67
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  • mestacy010
    mestacy010 Posts: 577 Member
    1. Every girls opinion is different.
    2. Size doesn't matter, its how you use it
  • BluejayNY
    BluejayNY Posts: 301 Member
    Its too subjective to answer but yes when you start to look like the hulk more than a normal human being then it does turn me off. I actually do not really need a very bulked up guy at all.

    As for the dirty question. There is too big and there is too small. Very few men would be labeled in the too big category.
  • tomg33
    tomg33 Posts: 305 Member
    1. Why would you base decisions about your body based on the opinions of others? Everyone is different, that's how the human race has survived. Besides,having lots of sexy time is about a whole lot more than what you look like, especially for men.

    2. Depending on the angle, being average can be too big. At the risk of too much information, ever heard of "bottoming out" :X

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