Males I need your help please
lil_katie86
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So I know this is off topic but......
I've worked so hard this last year to get sexy again for my partner and I'm just starting to feel good about my self. So my question is what would be an amazing present for valentines from your girl??
I need some ideas please!!
I've worked so hard this last year to get sexy again for my partner and I'm just starting to feel good about my self. So my question is what would be an amazing present for valentines from your girl??
I need some ideas please!!
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That depends on the guy! If you want to show him the "sexy" side and how much you have done (for yourself and for him), then I would suggest maybe a romantic weekend. Perhaps you could add a little something sexy that he has never seen before (naughty nightie - etc...) and see if you can stoke up that fire... The rest of the suggestions above can fall in place afterward! Good Luck!1
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GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »You could also just let him off the hook of getting you anything for such a silly commercialized holiday. That would win my heart over
This. This is what every guy REALLY wants for Valentine's Day.
But I understand that this is about expressing your newfound sexiness. So do that. Be you, but be a sexier version of you. Make him want to be his sexiest version of himself.
Oh, No Script.
DONT PUT ANY PRESSURE ON YOURSELF OR HIM TO PERFORM BEHAVE OR ACT/REACT A CERTAIN WAY.
You truly need to approach this with no expectations. If you can do this, then everybody wins.3 -
GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »I feel sad for everyone suggesting a bj...unless Valentines day is twice a week then you all are getting short changed on the gifts.
A bj should happen so often it shouldn't be that special enough to give on a holiday. Just sayin
EDIT: Unless it was like from her best friend. Then you have a present
Lmao. I actually whole heartedly agree with this. And if it is my best friend, she better let me help.2 -
Could ask him to install a pole in the bedroom?1
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For most guys there isn't any amazing valentine's present. Just do that thing that he really likes, and maybe dress in something sexy to do it, and he'll think that's as amazing as anything else anyone is going to come up with.GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »I feel sad for everyone suggesting a bj...unless Valentines day is twice a week then you all are getting short changed on the gifts. A bj should happen so often it shouldn't be that special enough to give on a holiday. Just sayin
EDIT: Unless it was like from her best friend. Then you have a present
I second the bolded parts...1 -
give him a present that shows you pay attention and are aware of what his interests are.1
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Maybe send him a sexy selfie of you wearing a Donald Trump wig with two McDonald's hash browns over your nipples, like little McPasties, and a g string made out of raw chicken. Hold a box of donuts in each hand.
Yeah...every guy wants that.4 -
Divorce papers. It worked for me!2
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happilymegan wrote: »Valentine's Day is silly. It's a scheme for candy shops and florists.
But if you must do something. Make it sexy.
Schedule a boudoir shoot
Get his favourote liquor
Make him a meal you know he enjoys
Relax and have fun together.
These BJ suggestions are a no go. You don't gift things you should already be giving.
But, if you don't receive them like you already should be receiving them, they are an excellent gift because the guy will take whatever he can get at that point.0 -
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Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!0
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happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »Valentine's Day is silly. It's a scheme for candy shops and florists.
But if you must do something. Make it sexy.
Schedule a boudoir shoot
Get his favourote liquor
Make him a meal you know he enjoys
Relax and have fun together.
These BJ suggestions are a no go. You don't gift things you should already be giving.
But, if you don't receive them like you already should be receiving them, they are an excellent gift because the guy will take whatever he can get at that point.
Then you don't stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about your needs.
But, they still make great gifts. Not necessarily THE gift. But a nice side. Kind of like a enjoying a baked potato with your steak, fries with your burger.1 -
Get a Baby Sitter and take your Man out and give him yourself... that is the best gift...0
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lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
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lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
Now I'm confused. I thought that is what you asked for.
Have to know your hubby more to suggest a gadget. And, if he is like most men, he'd rather get the gadget himself.2 -
happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »Valentine's Day is silly. It's a scheme for candy shops and florists.
But if you must do something. Make it sexy.
Schedule a boudoir shoot
Get his favourote liquor
Make him a meal you know he enjoys
Relax and have fun together.
These BJ suggestions are a no go. You don't gift things you should already be giving.
But, if you don't receive them like you already should be receiving them, they are an excellent gift because the guy will take whatever he can get at that point.
Then you don't stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about your needs.
But, they still make great gifts. Not necessarily THE gift. But a nice side. Kind of like a enjoying a baked potato with your steak, fries with your burger.
The fact that it even has to be a side gift says how often are handed out.
Well, it's something. That's better than nothing. Just trying to put a positive spin on it for those who go without!1 -
lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
You got sexy for your man, so that you could buy him a gadget... :huh:1 -
A horse tail butt plug is a gadget. Get one of those2
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Tacklewasher wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
Now I'm confused. I thought that is what you asked for.
Have to know your hubby more to suggest a gadget. And, if he is like most men, he'd rather get the gadget himself.
Yeah, the last thing I want is my wife buying me a new drill or circular saw. I'll take care of those myself.1 -
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happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »Valentine's Day is silly. It's a scheme for candy shops and florists.
But if you must do something. Make it sexy.
Schedule a boudoir shoot
Get his favourote liquor
Make him a meal you know he enjoys
Relax and have fun together.
These BJ suggestions are a no go. You don't gift things you should already be giving.
But, if you don't receive them like you already should be receiving them, they are an excellent gift because the guy will take whatever he can get at that point.
Then you don't stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about your needs.
But, they still make great gifts. Not necessarily THE gift. But a nice side. Kind of like a enjoying a baked potato with your steak, fries with your burger.
The fact that it even has to be a side gift says how often are handed out.
Well, it's something. That's better than nothing. Just trying to put a positive spin on it for those who go without!
There are no positives to a lacklustre intimate relationship
Truth. Just trying to give the poor suffering gentlemen a glimmer of hope and you're squashing it like a bug.
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Headphones , studio monitors hmmm an mpc
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happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »Valentine's Day is silly. It's a scheme for candy shops and florists.
But if you must do something. Make it sexy.
Schedule a boudoir shoot
Get his favourote liquor
Make him a meal you know he enjoys
Relax and have fun together.
These BJ suggestions are a no go. You don't gift things you should already be giving.
But, if you don't receive them like you already should be receiving them, they are an excellent gift because the guy will take whatever he can get at that point.
Then you don't stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about your needs.
But, they still make great gifts. Not necessarily THE gift. But a nice side. Kind of like a enjoying a baked potato with your steak, fries with your burger.
The fact that it even has to be a side gift says how often are handed out.
Well, it's something. That's better than nothing. Just trying to put a positive spin on it for those who go without!
There are no positives to a lacklustre intimate relationship
You should do counseling. I'll be your first patient. Not that there is any issue in my relationship...I just want to lay on your couch.
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