Males I need your help please
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GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »Valentine's Day is silly. It's a scheme for candy shops and florists.
But if you must do something. Make it sexy.
Schedule a boudoir shoot
Get his favourote liquor
Make him a meal you know he enjoys
Relax and have fun together.
These BJ suggestions are a no go. You don't gift things you should already be giving.
But, if you don't receive them like you already should be receiving them, they are an excellent gift because the guy will take whatever he can get at that point.
Then you don't stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about your needs.
But, they still make great gifts. Not necessarily THE gift. But a nice side. Kind of like a enjoying a baked potato with your steak, fries with your burger.
The fact that it even has to be a side gift says how often are handed out.
Well, it's something. That's better than nothing. Just trying to put a positive spin on it for those who go without!
There are no positives to a lacklustre intimate relationship
Truth. Just trying to give the poor suffering gentlemen a glimmer of hope and you're squashing it like a bug.
Stop trying to satisfy all the sad lonely men. And if you're gonna do it, take it to a truck stop.
Good point. They can figure the *kitten* out on their own.0 -
GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »A bj should happen so often it shouldn't be that special enough to give on a holiday...
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*Drives into McDonalds......"Can I have a BJ with those fries please?"0
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Tacklewasher wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
Now I'm confused. I thought that is what you asked for.
Have to know your hubby more to suggest a gadget. And, if he is like most men, he'd rather get the gadget himself.TavistockToad wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
You got sexy for your man, so that you could buy him a gadget... :huh:TavistockToad wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
You got sexy for your man, so that you could buy him a gadget... :huh:
He hasn't noticed me being sexy yet so I'm not doing the whole sexy dress up or night away!! He will just laugh in my face or ignor me! We have been together so long that doesn't really come up in our relationship!
And I agree with all the blokes that said he will want to buy him self a gadget and trust me he has every gadget or had you can think of.
So this is y I'm stuck on what t get him!! I'm guessing I'll have to stick to the usual clothes. Thanks for your help and suggestions!!
Maybe the steak is good tho:-) I love steak too so kills two birds with one stone!! :-)0 -
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lil_katie86 wrote: »Tacklewasher wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
Now I'm confused. I thought that is what you asked for.
Have to know your hubby more to suggest a gadget. And, if he is like most men, he'd rather get the gadget himself.TavistockToad wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
You got sexy for your man, so that you could buy him a gadget... :huh:TavistockToad wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
You got sexy for your man, so that you could buy him a gadget... :huh:
He hasn't noticed me being sexy yet so I'm not doing the whole sexy dress up or night away!! He will just laugh in my face or ignor me! We have been together so long that doesn't really come up in our relationship!
And I agree with all the blokes that said he will want to buy him self a gadget and trust me he has every gadget or had you can think of.
So this is y I'm stuck on what t get him!! I'm guessing I'll have to stick to the usual clothes. Thanks for your help and suggestions!!
Maybe the steak is good tho:-) I love steak too so kills two birds with one stone!! :-)
The bolded line above made me sad to hear
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Ask one of his buddies if there is something he's looking at?0
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In all cases, money is an issue. What's your limit?0
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Threesome?
(Inbox me for my digits)1 -
If you have a younger sister I'm sure he's.......,,,,0
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_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »Maybe send him a sexy selfie of you wearing a Donald Trump wig with two McDonald's hash browns over your nipples, like little McPasties, and a g string made out of raw chicken. Hold a box of donuts in each hand.
Yeah...every guy wants that.
Hahaha. ...
Wait.
Did you say: donuts?0 -
No sister!! Baby sitter is a gd idea! And not sure on money maybe £100 max!!0
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Tacklewasher wrote: »Ask one of his buddies if there is something he's looking at?
He isn't interested in anyone else!! I know that much for sure!! Just sex does t mean anything to him.0 -
lil_katie86 wrote: »Tacklewasher wrote: »Ask one of his buddies if there is something he's looking at?
He isn't interested in anyone else!! I know that much for sure!! Just sex does t mean anything to him.
In that case, treat yourself on valentine's day.
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Motorsheen wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Tacklewasher wrote: »Ask one of his buddies if there is something he's looking at?
He isn't interested in anyone else!! I know that much for sure!! Just sex does t mean anything to him.
In that case, treat yourself on valentine's day.
..... to a new boyfriend
I'm free!
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lil_katie86 wrote: »Tacklewasher wrote: »Ask one of his buddies if there is something he's looking at?
He isn't interested in anyone else!! I know that much for sure!! Just sex does t mean anything to him.
You misunderstood me. Ask one of his buddies if there is something he' looking at. As in a gadget or toy or something. They may know.
I know, it's hard to fathom a non-sexual reply here, isn't it
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lil_katie86 wrote: »Tacklewasher wrote: »Ask one of his buddies if there is something he's looking at?
He isn't interested in anyone else!! I know that much for sure!! Just sex does t mean anything to him.
That has to be frustrating to you!0 -
scratch his back1
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lil_katie86 wrote: »Tacklewasher wrote: »Ask one of his buddies if there is something he's looking at?
He isn't interested in anyone else!! I know that much for sure!! Just sex does t mean anything to him.
It doesn't have to be about sex. Make it about togetherness, connection, real intimacy.
Oh God, now I'm starting to sound like my wife.3 -
Lord of the Rings trilogy extended director's cut Blu-ray set.3
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Has he got a telescope?2
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manderson27 wrote: »Has he got a telescope?
Oooer!0 -
Do a boudoir shoot! He will love it and they are so much fun! So empowering and a good way to feel great about your body! Win-win.2
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Tacklewasher wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Tacklewasher wrote: »Ask one of his buddies if there is something he's looking at?
He isn't interested in anyone else!! I know that much for sure!! Just sex does t mean anything to him.
You misunderstood me. Ask one of his buddies if there is something he' looking at. As in a gadget or toy or something. They may know.
I know, it's hard to fathom a non-sexual reply here, isn't it
Ha ha ha!! I see. Yes it is. I will do that. Thanks1 -
thelovelyLIZ wrote: »Do a boudoir shoot! He will love it and they are so much fun! So empowering and a good way to feel great about your body! Win-win.
Examples???? 0 -
davedoubleu wrote: »manderson27 wrote: »Has he got a telescope?
Oooer!
It's Oooer "Mrs" to you mate. 0 -
_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Tacklewasher wrote: »Ask one of his buddies if there is something he's looking at?
He isn't interested in anyone else!! I know that much for sure!! Just sex does t mean anything to him.
That has to be frustrating to you!
Not really........ once u been told no a few million times and tried everything you can think of to get him going and still he doesn't notice, you kind of get used to it.
And I look at the positivists in our relationship! It ways out the no sex.
Trust me he is an amazing partner and I'm so lucky in every other aspect to have him in my life. He is an amazing dad, provider, he works hard for his family. He is an inspiration to me for just sticking up with all the moaning I do:-)
Maybe once I have finished losing my weight and finally get back to pre pregnancy body he might just look At me like he used too.
But for now I'm happy:-) just wanted some idea on gifts!!0
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