Males I need your help please
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lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
Now I'm confused. I thought that is what you asked for.
Have to know your hubby more to suggest a gadget. And, if he is like most men, he'd rather get the gadget himself.2 -
happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »Valentine's Day is silly. It's a scheme for candy shops and florists.
But if you must do something. Make it sexy.
Schedule a boudoir shoot
Get his favourote liquor
Make him a meal you know he enjoys
Relax and have fun together.
These BJ suggestions are a no go. You don't gift things you should already be giving.
But, if you don't receive them like you already should be receiving them, they are an excellent gift because the guy will take whatever he can get at that point.
Then you don't stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about your needs.
But, they still make great gifts. Not necessarily THE gift. But a nice side. Kind of like a enjoying a baked potato with your steak, fries with your burger.
The fact that it even has to be a side gift says how often are handed out.
Well, it's something. That's better than nothing. Just trying to put a positive spin on it for those who go without!1 -
lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
You got sexy for your man, so that you could buy him a gadget... :huh:1 -
A horse tail butt plug is a gadget. Get one of those2
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Tacklewasher wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
Now I'm confused. I thought that is what you asked for.
Have to know your hubby more to suggest a gadget. And, if he is like most men, he'd rather get the gadget himself.
Yeah, the last thing I want is my wife buying me a new drill or circular saw. I'll take care of those myself.1 -
happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »Valentine's Day is silly. It's a scheme for candy shops and florists.
But if you must do something. Make it sexy.
Schedule a boudoir shoot
Get his favourote liquor
Make him a meal you know he enjoys
Relax and have fun together.
These BJ suggestions are a no go. You don't gift things you should already be giving.
But, if you don't receive them like you already should be receiving them, they are an excellent gift because the guy will take whatever he can get at that point.
Then you don't stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about your needs.
But, they still make great gifts. Not necessarily THE gift. But a nice side. Kind of like a enjoying a baked potato with your steak, fries with your burger.
The fact that it even has to be a side gift says how often are handed out.
Well, it's something. That's better than nothing. Just trying to put a positive spin on it for those who go without!
There are no positives to a lacklustre intimate relationship
Truth. Just trying to give the poor suffering gentlemen a glimmer of hope and you're squashing it like a bug.
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Headphones , studio monitors hmmm an mpc
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happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »Valentine's Day is silly. It's a scheme for candy shops and florists.
But if you must do something. Make it sexy.
Schedule a boudoir shoot
Get his favourote liquor
Make him a meal you know he enjoys
Relax and have fun together.
These BJ suggestions are a no go. You don't gift things you should already be giving.
But, if you don't receive them like you already should be receiving them, they are an excellent gift because the guy will take whatever he can get at that point.
Then you don't stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about your needs.
But, they still make great gifts. Not necessarily THE gift. But a nice side. Kind of like a enjoying a baked potato with your steak, fries with your burger.
The fact that it even has to be a side gift says how often are handed out.
Well, it's something. That's better than nothing. Just trying to put a positive spin on it for those who go without!
There are no positives to a lacklustre intimate relationship
You should do counseling. I'll be your first patient. Not that there is any issue in my relationship...I just want to lay on your couch.
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GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »_BrewingAZ_ wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »Valentine's Day is silly. It's a scheme for candy shops and florists.
But if you must do something. Make it sexy.
Schedule a boudoir shoot
Get his favourote liquor
Make him a meal you know he enjoys
Relax and have fun together.
These BJ suggestions are a no go. You don't gift things you should already be giving.
But, if you don't receive them like you already should be receiving them, they are an excellent gift because the guy will take whatever he can get at that point.
Then you don't stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about your needs.
But, they still make great gifts. Not necessarily THE gift. But a nice side. Kind of like a enjoying a baked potato with your steak, fries with your burger.
The fact that it even has to be a side gift says how often are handed out.
Well, it's something. That's better than nothing. Just trying to put a positive spin on it for those who go without!
There are no positives to a lacklustre intimate relationship
Truth. Just trying to give the poor suffering gentlemen a glimmer of hope and you're squashing it like a bug.
Stop trying to satisfy all the sad lonely men. And if you're gonna do it, take it to a truck stop.
Good point. They can figure the *kitten* out on their own.0 -
GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »A bj should happen so often it shouldn't be that special enough to give on a holiday...
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*Drives into McDonalds......"Can I have a BJ with those fries please?"0
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Tacklewasher wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
Now I'm confused. I thought that is what you asked for.
Have to know your hubby more to suggest a gadget. And, if he is like most men, he'd rather get the gadget himself.TavistockToad wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
You got sexy for your man, so that you could buy him a gadget... :huh:TavistockToad wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
You got sexy for your man, so that you could buy him a gadget... :huh:
He hasn't noticed me being sexy yet so I'm not doing the whole sexy dress up or night away!! He will just laugh in my face or ignor me! We have been together so long that doesn't really come up in our relationship!
And I agree with all the blokes that said he will want to buy him self a gadget and trust me he has every gadget or had you can think of.
So this is y I'm stuck on what t get him!! I'm guessing I'll have to stick to the usual clothes. Thanks for your help and suggestions!!
Maybe the steak is good tho:-) I love steak too so kills two birds with one stone!! :-)0 -
lil_katie86 wrote: »Tacklewasher wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
Now I'm confused. I thought that is what you asked for.
Have to know your hubby more to suggest a gadget. And, if he is like most men, he'd rather get the gadget himself.TavistockToad wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
You got sexy for your man, so that you could buy him a gadget... :huh:TavistockToad wrote: »lil_katie86 wrote: »Thanks for most of the comments!! Some a bit odd...... I was more thinking of something along the lines of a gadget?? The whole sexy thing is a no go!!
You got sexy for your man, so that you could buy him a gadget... :huh:
He hasn't noticed me being sexy yet so I'm not doing the whole sexy dress up or night away!! He will just laugh in my face or ignor me! We have been together so long that doesn't really come up in our relationship!
And I agree with all the blokes that said he will want to buy him self a gadget and trust me he has every gadget or had you can think of.
So this is y I'm stuck on what t get him!! I'm guessing I'll have to stick to the usual clothes. Thanks for your help and suggestions!!
Maybe the steak is good tho:-) I love steak too so kills two birds with one stone!! :-)
The bolded line above made me sad to hear
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Ask one of his buddies if there is something he's looking at?0
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In all cases, money is an issue. What's your limit?0
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