Coming Back... 300 pounds to lose.

BadgerSensei
BadgerSensei Posts: 45 Member
edited November 15 in Introduce Yourself
Hey guys. I'm just coming back from a couple years of slacking off. I lost 125 pounds a couple of years ago. Never got to my goal, but got to where I wasn't the fattest guy at work anymore... and then I got married and started grad school and got distracted. Gained it all back. Had to buy a new scale, which informs me today that I weigh 504.8.

I feel gross. I'm getting winded just walking around. It's time to change this garbage... and I'll take all the encouragement you can give me.
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  • bartcal
    bartcal Posts: 40 Member
    Welcome back! Good luck on you're efforts here.
  • I'm new to this site and I'm happy to know that the first person I choose to look at the profile was yours. I'm here for you. You got this!!! Any little effort you can make each day is an improvement! <3<3
  • kzooyogi
    kzooyogi Posts: 121 Member
    Congrats on the new start to your journey! You've found a place where you'll be loved and accepted every step of the way - best of luck to you!
  • isinc2003
    isinc2003 Posts: 9 Member
    Holy Heysus! thatsah lotta weight! ... Log every ounce of your food now! stick to your caloric goal per day in 4 months I lost 67lbs.. its gonna take you a year or more if you don't self-discipline
  • sparklyglitterbomb
    sparklyglitterbomb Posts: 458 Member
    You've got this @BadgerSensei ... keep the faith in yourself that you can do it, because you CAN.
  • JennaLynnKelly
    JennaLynnKelly Posts: 1 Member
    Congrats on making that big decision to do better! Rooting for you!
  • lisahebert186
    lisahebert186 Posts: 736 Member
    Welcome back. Good luck and if you're looking for friends, feel free to add me.
  • wndlady
    wndlady Posts: 70 Member
    With a lot of weight to lose, you only have to start making small changes to see a difference. My dad passed away at the age of 53 which was basically brought on by lots of weight related complications. You're still young enough to have a full, active life. Go for it!
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  • TheSkyBlushed
    TheSkyBlushed Posts: 153 Member
    Hey guys. I'm just coming back from a couple years of slacking off. I lost 125 pounds a couple of years ago. Never got to my goal, but got to where I wasn't the fattest guy at work anymore... and then I got married and started grad school and got distracted. Gained it all back. Had to buy a new scale, which informs me today that I weigh 504.8.

    I feel gross. I'm getting winded just walking around. It's time to change this garbage... and I'll take all the encouragement you can give me.

    Welcome back. :)
    We'll be here for each mile marker of each others progress.
  • postchrysalis
    postchrysalis Posts: 88 Member
    Welcome back! You can totally do this!
  • success313
    success313 Posts: 100 Member
    Welcome! You have come to the right place.
  • everher
    everher Posts: 909 Member
    You've lost weight before you can do it again.

    Don't focus on all the weight you have to lose. Take it a meal at a time a day at a time a pound at a time.

    You will have bad days. Sometimes you might have bad weeks. Don't let that discourage you. We all face times like those.

    Just keep going, keep logging, and keep fighting.
  • BadgerSensei
    BadgerSensei Posts: 45 Member
    Thanks guys :) you're the best.
  • mybattle2006
    mybattle2006 Posts: 37 Member
    I started on Jan 16. I'm here with you. You can do this!!!
  • luckyme404
    luckyme404 Posts: 34 Member
    Every day is a challenge for all of us for one reason or another. You came back to mfp, so I'm happy for your decision to make it work again. And it will work again. Faith in your self is very important. Don't be discouraged for any setbacks, we all have them. Every last one of us. Glad to meet you. Cheers!
  • valentina5777
    valentina5777 Posts: 12 Member
    You can do this! You're not alone! We are here to support you
  • katiepoo22
    katiepoo22 Posts: 58 Member
    Good luck
  • jvcjim
    jvcjim Posts: 812 Member
    edited January 2017
    @BadgerSensei
    I was 529 back in august (593 at my highest), 460 now. logging everything, staying at the calorie goal, walking and steady state cardio has done it for me. I expect my journey to take a couple years; but then it took me years to gain everything.
    for support try these groups on here:
    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/group/115768-losing-100-pounds-naturally-no-surgery
    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/group/115006-losing-is-winning
  • Mischabellaa
    Mischabellaa Posts: 62 Member
    Welcome back!!! Feel free to add me --I have 200+ to lose myself-- We got this!!
  • magic71755
    magic71755 Posts: 3,975 Member
    Hey guys. I'm just coming back from a couple years of slacking off. I lost 125 pounds a couple of years ago. Never got to my goal, but got to where I wasn't the fattest guy at work anymore... and then I got married and started grad school and got distracted. Gained it all back. Had to buy a new scale, which informs me today that I weigh 504.8.

    I feel gross. I'm getting winded just walking around. It's time to change this garbage... and I'll take all the encouragement you can give me.

    For sure you know how to lose. You have proven that. So YAY on that note. Going forward...no looking in the rear view mirror (except for what works)...focus on five pounds at a time. That is how I would approach it. Otherwise, the task begins to be too daunting. Remember you have a wife <3 now...she wants and deserves a healthy hubby.

    Wishing you success on your journey...which btw, never ends. It is a lifetime commitment. o:)
  • highlightshadow
    highlightshadow Posts: 116 Member
    I'm in a similar boat... wanna lose around 200lb mark ... i'm looking no further forward than 'today'
    Forget the big numbers... they start to put doubts in your head.... just focus on getting through each day, hitting your macro goals and doing what you can ... nothing deeper... no long-term planning on 'well if i lose x then ....' ... i find short term clarity makes it much simpler

  • exactlyhalf
    exactlyhalf Posts: 1 Member
    Hey guys. I'm just coming back from a couple years of slacking off. I lost 125 pounds a couple of years ago. Never got to my goal, but got to where I wasn't the fattest guy at work anymore... and then I got married and started grad school and got distracted. Gained it all back. Had to buy a new scale, which informs me today that I weigh 504.8.

    I feel gross. I'm getting winded just walking around. It's time to change this garbage... and I'll take all the encouragement you can give me.

  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    Welcome! You can do it, great decision deciding to make a change. I know it's easy to keep putting things off.
  • karla040
    karla040 Posts: 8 Member
    You can do this.count all your calories and log them in ..I lost 50 pounds in four months..add me if you can I will be more then happy to help you with your journey
  • magic71755
    magic71755 Posts: 3,975 Member
    edited January 2017
    I'm in a similar boat... wanna lose around 200lb mark ... i'm looking no further forward than 'today'
    Forget the big numbers... they start to put doubts in your head.... just focus on getting through each day, hitting your macro goals and doing what you can ... nothing deeper... no long-term planning on 'well if i lose x then ....' ... i find short term clarity makes it much simpler

    Great advice...SHORT TERM CLARITY...great for not just losing weight, but whenever you have a task that needs to be broken down in order to achieve success.

    I LOVE IT! Thanks! <3

  • highlightshadow
    highlightshadow Posts: 116 Member
    magic71755 wrote: »
    Great advice...SHORT TERM CLARITY...great for not just losing weight, but whenever you have a task that needs to be broken down in order to achieve success.

    I LOVE IT! Thanks! <3

    For me its all about stopping in that moment of urge/panic/sadness/hunger ... its stopping yourself dead ... just for a moment ... and thinking

    I think for many of us it's become so routine to cheat, to think 'oh i'll just have this one today'.... and then one becomes 3 or a whole pack because for some of us its kinda all or nothing ... we struggle with the in-between

    Its tough ... a friend of mine said that for learning to ride a bike, we fall off that bike a lot, then we get on again but we're NOT expected to know how to ride that bike the 1st time.... with dieting we somehow think we are ... we think we can do it ... but then the brain gets tired of saying no ... we have limited willpower .... but we have more conscious thought... its breaking the cycle

    I've not had a single chocolate, biscuit, cake or anything truly bad since 1/1/17 .... yeah only 3 weeks i know... but i've wanted to ... last night ... so much i could have emptied the biscuit tin the way i felt .... but i stared at it and thought .... and in the end, and with some messages from my MFP buddies which helps enormously, i said no ... i said it won't help .. not this time ... not in the way i need to help myself... so instead had a big glass of squash and a couple apples .... and i enjoyed that ... i took my time

    It is hard... we face so much 'easy food' ... but we have to learn within ourself how this is done..

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