Gym "Friend" Drama Update

AllOutof_Bubblegum

I know y'all are nosy basterds, so here's the update to my Monday thread. Here's the link if you want in the loop. This one's a lot briefer than the first, lol.

http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10506594/gym-friend-drama-need-opinions/p1

So "Anna" sent me a Facebook friend request as you know, and I was wondering whether I should accept it to keep things civil and not awkward, or steer clear of the derailing crazy-train and let what's buried stay dead.

I gave it a day or so to think about it, mulled over the opinions you fine people offered, weighed the pros and cons, and decided to accept the request. During that time, I saw Anna again this morning and again had polite small talk. Everything seemed fine.

I logged onto Facebook just now, and couldn't seem to find the friend request to approve it. Hmm, odd.

I entered her name into Facebook's search bar, and lo and behold, "Sorry, this content isn't available right now."

Are you serious right now. Bish did not. Oh, yes she did.

Sometime in the 72-ish hours that she spoke to me, sent a friend request, and spoke to me again, she decided that I was terrible enough to block on social media.



What the facking feck. I can't even with this. I'm just gonna back away slowly, here.

I'm really not even upset at this point, I'm even relieved that my initial instinct of distrust turned out to be correct. I was worried that things would go south again if I let her back into my life, even marginally, and hey presto, tingtang-wallawallabingbang boom, she proved me right before I even gave her a chance to not be a psycho.

Like a commenter said in my last post, she is clearly "7 gallons of crazy in a 5 gallon bucket" (I forget who it was, but I give full credit to you, sir!)

So there's that, a nice slice of closure for y'all. It feels good, doesn't it?

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Tacklewasher

See. Guys would just beat the crap outta each other and move on.

JLAJ81

I'm glad I'm not female.

AllOutof_Bubblegum

jjewell1981 wrote: »

I'm glad I'm not female.

The only thing I like about it are the bewbs.

RoxieDawn

Hmmm makes me wonder what she would have done if you had accepted it a few days ago..

I agree bishes be crazy..

I love my dog for this reason..

deluxmary2000

Maybe she was just trolling your profile, and accidentally sent you a friend request. Then she panicked when you accepted.
Regardless, you should run fast in the other direction.

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km8907

Oh well. You tried.

blackcomaro

Damn women are CRAZZZZZY!!!!
Thats why I choose to be single

TheBigFb

Drama, no thanks,

Stella3838

Props for brining Jensen into your post.

snowflake954

Thanks--this gives us all closure.

MaybeLed

I'm now just curious.... If she's into fitness it's possible she's on MFP, and, in fact it was seeing the post that caused the change.....

plot twist

Tacklewasher

Cutaway_Collar wrote: »

I have unfollowed everyone on FB except my wife, mom and brother. People have asked my wife - he is so quiet, does he even care about the world. They are desperate for my opinion and dragging me into a mud fight.

I don't even have my wife as a friend on FB. I don't need to see her feeds. I just follow a few companies and then like things for discounts.

djeffreys10

AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »

Like a commenter said in my last post, she is clearly "7 gallons of crazy in a 5 gallon bucket" (I forget who it was, but I give full credit to you, sir!)

That was mine. You're welcome.

Heartisalonelyhunter

MaybeLed wrote: »

I'm now just curious.... If she's into fitness it's possible she's on MFP, and, in fact it was seeing the post that caused the change.....

plot twist

I thought this too. I'm always amazed that people think this is a private chat room.
If she sells MLM shakes she is almost certainly a member.

Motorsheen

littlemissbgiff wrote: »

Biches be crazy

This was my first (and last) reaction to this thread.

kshama2001

You're better off without her.

onward1

OP- def not Anne Hathaway for your part. More like Priyanka Chopra, she's got some muscle.

AllOutof_Bubblegum

Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »

MaybeLed wrote: »

I'm now just curious.... If she's into fitness it's possible she's on MFP, and, in fact it was seeing the post that caused the change.....

plot twist

I thought this too. I'm always amazed that people think this is a private chat room.
If she sells MLM shakes she is almost certainly a member.

The thought did not escape me. We were best friends and talked about everything. She definitely is not a member. Or at least wasn't when her crazy started to show.

Even if she did end up seeing this, it would sort of come as a relief. If it pissed her off, she can't very well ignore me MORE, so the only thing her seeing this could do is improve things.

dbanks80

She is a whackadoo. I wouldn't even give her polite small talk

AllOutof_Bubblegum

newmeadow wrote: »

AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »

Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »

MaybeLed wrote: »

I'm now just curious.... If she's into fitness it's possible she's on MFP, and, in fact it was seeing the post that caused the change.....

plot twist

I thought this too. I'm always amazed that people think this is a private chat room.
If she sells MLM shakes she is almost certainly a member.

The thought did not escape me. We were best friends and talked about everything. She definitely is not a member. Or at least wasn't when her crazy started to show.

Even if she did end up seeing this, it would sort of come as a relief. If it pissed her off, she can't very well ignore me MORE, so the only thing her seeing this could do is improve things.

Or she could start her own thread about you. Including her side of the story. In the Chit Chat section.

I'll wait to read it with bated breath

ryry_

AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »

jjewell1981 wrote: »

I'm glad I'm not female.

The only thing I like about it are the bewbs.

We are a lot alike

SLLeask

Just a thought, I'm not really clued in about FB works, but could she have just deleted herself off FB, hence why you can't see her? Can someone else find her? Have you tried again, sometimes FB seems to do odd things, like if I go to comment on someone's post and it says the post has been deleted or something and then I press enter again and it accepts it. Might have just been a glitch.

If neither of those are the case then I'm guessing wherever the fault lies, you are not suited to being friends!

JukeboxHeroine

This is why I don't have Facebook. I have dramatic relatives. This cuts out some of the drama.

blackcomaro

This is still interesting.... she be crazzzy in the coconut maan! SMH.

klkarlen

deluxmary2000 wrote: »

Maybe she was just trolling your profile, and accidentally sent you a friend request. Then she panicked when you accepted.
Regardless, you should run fast in the other direction.

With FB, if you unblock someone, you can't block them again for 24 hours, so this may be what happened. Either way, you dodged a bullet, so good for you.

mwalle09

You are better off now, you can put it all to rest!