Looking to God instead of food--fellow Believers out there?
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Steph38878 wrote: »Steph38878 wrote: »Steph38878 wrote: »Steph38878 wrote: »Run4life375 wrote: »I really don't mean to offend anyone
This is a genuine question
"Looking to god instead of food" .. why can't you just do it for yourself? Why do you need god to help you with this journey?
I'm intrigued.
I know there's a lot of different answers out there from a lot of different people, but here's how I see it:
Why do we need God to lead us? Because without Him, we wouldn't have a body in the first place! No one knows the human body better than God. He's the one who designed it! Our body is a temporary gift, and that's an awesome motivation to take care of it.
What I'm saying is, if we can't create ourselves, how can we expect to improve ourselves all on our own? We're dependent on God for life. He knows how everything works, including our food cravings and weight loss processes. No human completely understands how all that works!
Okay that explains it quite well!
Another question if you don't mind.. (again this is not to "challenge" or cause offence..
I personally don't believe in god. But I can still achieve my goals, do you ever think of it like that?
I am totally respectful of peoples faiths I was just wondering that's all!
They probably don't think about you or your goals. As they probably never heard of you before and they don't know you. You just showed up on this thread obviously champing at the bit to tell them you don't believe in God.
Wind your neck in.
I've stated my reasons. I've been extremely polite.
I could of jumped on the thread and said "you're all effing insane believing in something like that"
But I didn't, because I'm respectful of different beliefs.
If you've got some sort of problem.. well.. just get over it because It's just boring. You're just trying to have a go over nothing. It's ridiculous.
I personally think you've been very polite and curious which is totally cool. God loves us. He loves us no matter what. He died for our sins, even the non believers.
To answer your question, yes you can lose weight without turning to God. In my personal opinion, I need God in everything I do. Each decision I make should be made with a Christian heart. Do I always present a Christian attitude? No not at all. I'm human. As a human, I still fail.
Speaking for myself, when I feel weak, instead of going to food for comfort, I pray. I read scripture. Faith is hard for some but when you accept Christ as your savior, it comes more easy. God knows all of our weaknesses. He knew us before anyone else did. I find comfort in calling on Him when I am weak. When I replaced my bad habits with Godly ones, I've had more peace and success.
Hugs to you and ask any questions you see fit.
Thank you for that, I'm glad you don't think I'm disrespectful.
But Can you explain more? For example say you're posed with a dilemma and you turn to God, how do you do that? Do you ask Him for help? And how does He give you that help?
How does He pick you up when you're weak?
I mean at what point do you think "yes that's what I should do?"
Or does it not quite work like that?
Do the scriptures help more than praying?
Is praying almost like the term "a problem shared is a problem halved?"
When you was a child, did you believe in Santa Clause?
Haha yes of course!
But obviously not now at the age of 25
Lol. My point was you believed. You had faith. Although you didn't personally meet this person who susposedly comes in the middle of the night to bring gifts, you believed in him.
Faith is believing in something you can't see with the naked eye. I accepted Christ as my savior. He died for my sins. I have faith in Him. I encourage you to research this and read scripture.
I wish I could give you the exact answers you're needing. I'm still learning my own self.
I'm not sure that Santa/God is a good comparison. Like a previous poster said it was my parents that told me something was real.
Also, just because you believe something doesn't mean it's real (Santa) and obviously, he isn't real.
But if at the age of 25 I thought Santa WAS real then you'd all think I'm deluded!!
This is how I struggle to understand how you can have faith in something like God. Personally I don't feel I'll ever believe. I don't think I can lol
But it certainly interests me into why others do.
I'm not sure I have the answer you're looking for. Maybe Santa wasn't best example. I apologize. In my own crazy way, I was trying to explain faith. I feel like your questions are valid. As a Christian it hurts my heart that I can't be a better witness to bring you close to God or salvation.
But I can pray for you. ❤️
Take care. I truly wish you the best.
Oh no don't apologise! Nothing to apologise for! I've heard that comparison used many times! It does explain faith well but Santa isn't quite on the same level as God lol!!
Don't feel bad, I'm pretty set in my ways!
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I usually let this sort of conversation pass by without comment, but this has been interesting. Santa is definitely useful to help believers and non-believers understand each other. As someone raised in a family that has been secular for generations, it was difficult for me to understand how faith worked in a religious context. I imagine it's also difficult for believers to understand how secular people can be satisfied without it. The Santa discussion works in both directions. Faith in Santa vs. evidence that Santa is pretend. We can all understand those concepts.
I don't recall ever believing in Santa, so if I did, I figured it out before I started holding onto memories. I never taught my kids that Santa was real; they got that from their teachers and friends at school. I didn't actively dispute it, but would instead just ask what they thought was true. They'd figured it out by age 6 or so. Christmas was still plenty fun without it.
Anyway, please continue with your quest for like-minded folks.
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Can I ask you all another question? (glad I've found a friendly lot that don't mind me asking stuff)
Do you believe in everything the bible says?
And what if you read something which deep down you disagree with?
I can't think of an example as I don't read the bible but just curious.
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Hi I've loved reading all the questions and replys, I wanted to respond a couple of times but struggled to find the right words! @Bex953172 your last question is thought provoking to say the least. For me the Bible is God's inspired word meaning it's His direction and instruction manual (for lack of a better word) for my life. If I come across something I don't like or disagree with I know that it is a problem within my thoughts/ heart that needs to be corrected. Because I am Christian my ideas and beliefs are centred around the Bible and what it teaches and not around the our culture. The difference between the two is that God's word does not change but culture constantly changes, sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse. I hope that my clumsy answer is at least understandable and thanks for the thought provoking questions. If your interested in a deeper look RZIM is a ministry that explains searching questions very well.5
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Can I ask you all another question? (glad I've found a friendly lot that don't mind me asking stuff)
Do you believe in everything the bible says?
And what if you read something which deep down you disagree with?
I can't think of an example as I don't read the bible but just curious.
The very, very short answer to the first question is yes-though it deserves a far deeper answer than can be given here.
As far as your second question goes, it's probably faster to list the things I do agree with then what I disagree with.
Let me explain-
By nature, we do not want what God wants. We are rebellious towards Him and want nothing to do with Him. That means that by nature, we will not agree with Him or His Word. We fight Him with everything in us-even if it just by our indifference and unbelief.
Take the invitation to follow Jesus directly from His own words "Pick up your cross, deny yourself and follow me".
What about that sounds like a bag of fun that makes a person want to jump on His crazy train? It should make you want to run in the other direction-and yet, here I am asking Him to help me do this exact thing. WHY would anyone do that?
It takes a supernatural touch of His Holy Spirit to open our eyes and our hearts. It's not something a person can manufacture. It's not something we can earn. It's something that comes straight from Him when we are earnestly seeking Him. And if we do seek Him with all our hearts, we are promised by Him that we will find Him. I met Him a long time ago, I have been chasing after Him ever since. I am convinced He is real-He isn't a figment of my imagination. I know this because I have personally experienced Him, we have history between us. He has answered my prayers. Healed my friend. Amazed me beyond belief. He is forever faithful and I am forever grateful.
Unlike Santa Clause who we grow to understand is a fairytale, the more time you spend with Jesus, the more you know Him-the more confident you are that He is and He does exactly what He says He's going to do.
Either He's a liar, or He isn't. Either He's real, or He isn't. Either I'm lying to you or I'm not. But what in the world would I stand to gain by lying to you about Him? This is the thing I can't understand-I have nothing to gain and everything to lose. My dignity in the eyes of people for one thing. I look and sound like a fool-I am aware.
You on the other hand, have everything to gain. Because if I'm crazy or a liar, and the Words in the Bible are nothing more than meaningless words on a page-then you win and I lose.
But if I'm telling you the truth, and the words in the Bible are in fact the very words of God Himself, given to you to give you a personal way to get directly to Him-then you still win.
Before you throw Him out and close the door, grab a Bible-the NIV version is easy to read and understand. Read through the book of John, then the other three Gospels(Matthew, Mark and Luke). Get face to face with Jesus Himself-see who He is.
And while you're reading, ask Him to open your eyes and show you. If you are really looking, He will.
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"He has answered my prayers. Healed my friend."
I'm assume you a had a friend who was poorly which you prayed for an is now okay. (Even if I'm wrong let's just stick with that example)
My question is, what if by a chance you didn't pray for your friend. You didn't ask for help, in fact NO ONE did and even your friend didn't pray to god to save himself and your friend still got well again.
What would that be?
I kind of think things will happen or they won't. And no God could change that.
Because if your friend died, then he would of let you down right? How can you have faith in something that ultimately has the choice of whether something good or bad happens to you?
Have you ever prayed for something or someone and it's not turned out how you hope? How do you feel then?
I think this is where I get stuck.
I have been thinking about having a read tbh but I'm not so sure..0 -
Also you say you have personally experienced Him.
I'm not sure if I'm allowed to ask (don't know if it's too personal) but can I ask how? In what way?
- Don't answer if that is a personal thing, I won't be offended, I struggle with what's acceptable to ask and not lol -1 -
My husband and I are on our way out right now with the dog and will be back in a while-hang in there, I will come back and answer your questions. Thanks for your patience-the dog runs the house haha! she's all of three inches off the ground and 20 lbs tops-and if we break routine, we are in trouble
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My husband and I are on our way out right now with the dog and will be back in a while-hang in there, I will come back and answer your questions. Thanks for your patience-the dog runs the house haha! she's all of three inches off the ground and 20 lbs tops-and if we break routine, we are in trouble
I feel your pain. Our dog is king of the house
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I feel your pain. Our dog is king of the house [/quote]
YES!!!! BOSS dog! haha
OK, so your questions are deep and I will do my best to do my best"He has answered my prayers. Healed my friend."
I'm assume you a had a friend who was poorly which you prayed for an is now okay. (Even if I'm wrong let's just stick with that example)
---->>>Yes-this is what happened, though quite understated.
My question is, what if by a chance you didn't pray for your friend. You didn't ask for help, in fact NO ONE did and even your friend didn't pray to god to save himself and your friend still got well again.
What would that be?
---->>>But that isn't what happened. And to be honest, knowing that the laws of nature hold true unless interrupted by an outside force, how likely is this scenario?
This is a super simple example, but take for instance gravity causing an apple to fall from a tree. It will keep falling until it hits the ground(or whatever is waiting below it), that is part of the law of nature. But let's say you step in and catch it on the way down. You didn't change the law, you-the outside force-altered it's course by stepping in and interrupting it.
This is what God does. When we see something that does not fit into the laws that govern this world, we shrug our shoulders and say it's a fluke, or coincidence. Like my friend being healed. The way that it happened was no coincidence. And the human body does not naturally heal itself the way hers did in that short of an amount of time.
This isn't the only time this has happened in my life btw-just one example of evidence that He is real. Maybe not to you, because you don't know her and have to take my word for it. But because I was there and am a witness of it, I know He is real. All I can do is tell you what I know.
I kind of think things will happen or they won't. And no God could change that.
---->>> Well, let's take a look at the God you're asking about.
By very nature of being God, He would have to be all powerful, all knowing, all seeing, never changing, never ending, completely unattainable by us because we are not and never could be even close to Him in power, ability, comprehension, nature or being.
We on the other hand are completely limited by our humanity, death, disease etc. We have limits. God does not.
Because if your friend died, then he would of let you down right?
---->>> I absolutely understand why you would come to that conclusion, but no. He would not have let me down. He's not a magic genie I keep in my pocket to grant me wishes whenever I desire. He's not just something I lean on in hard times. No, He's all seeing, and all knowing-which means He sees and knows what I do not. That means that my relationship with Him requires faith and trust in Him and His purpose and plan even if I don't understand what's going on. If He answers my prayers He is good, but even if He doesn't-He is still good.
I trust Him because He is not a liar and He says He is good. I trust Him because He sees what I do not and He knows what I do not. I trust Him because He promises that "All things work together for the good of those who love Him".
How can you have faith in something that ultimately has the choice of whether something good or bad happens to you?
--->>>Whether I believe or I don't believe in God, things are going to happen. Following Jesus doesn't grant me a trouble free life-it grants me a firm foundation to stand on.
Have you ever prayed for something or someone and it's not turned out how you hope? How do you feel then?
--->>>Of course! All the time haha! But like I said before, I've known Him for a long time. Just like you mature(hopefully) as you get older, the same is true the longer you spend time with Jesus.
My understanding of prayer and how it works is way different now than it was when I was younger. My trust in him is deeper than it was when I was younger. It is much easier to just let go and say "God, have Your way-I trust You".
That's not the case when you are younger-you're too busy trying to get your own way lol.
I think the question you should be asking is Why does He answer some prayers and not others?
I think this is where I get stuck.
I have been thinking about having a read tbh but I'm not so sure..
---->>>Matthew 13:44
"The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field.
You have nothing to loose and everything to gain!!!
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Pfff this is deep lol!!
I'm not disputing your friend was seriously ill and has made a remarkable recovery! Just glad she's well! I'll take your word for it.
I think I understand what you're saying... like ok if your friend had died. Okay it's not him letting you down because he didn't save her but he might be teaching you something else? Like how to be strong in such a situation? Is that right?
Do you think God punishes some people?
Like non believers?
Or anyone for that matter?
And what do you think of the roles of priests etc in churches?
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Pfff this is deep lol!!
I'm not disputing your friend was seriously ill and has made a remarkable recovery! Just glad she's well! I'll take your word for it.
I think I understand what you're saying... like ok if your friend had died. Okay it's not him letting you down because he didn't save her but he might be teaching you something else? Like how to be strong in such a situation? Is that right?
Do you think God punishes some people?
Like non believers?
Or anyone for that matter?
And what do you think of the roles of priests etc in churches?
Oh my goodness lol
I'm still trying to answer your other question haha! You aren't kidding this stuff is deep!
Yes, that is kind of what I am saying. He knows what He's doing even if I don't.
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PS, I didn't mean for the thing about my friend to sound snarky at all, sorry about that. I just meant I totally understand why anyone reading this would doubt what I'm saying about her being healed-and that's totally ok.0
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Pfff this is deep lol!!
I'm not disputing your friend was seriously ill and has made a remarkable recovery! Just glad she's well! I'll take your word for it.
I think I understand what you're saying... like ok if your friend had died. Okay it's not him letting you down because he didn't save her but he might be teaching you something else? Like how to be strong in such a situation? Is that right?
Do you think God punishes some people?
Like non believers?
Or anyone for that matter?
---->>> This stuff is deep and really hard, but the truth is the Bible says "He disciplined those He loves".
That being said though, He is extremely patient and long suffering with us. He gives us every opportunity to get it right, correcting us in order to keep us. Just like you wouldn't let your kid do whatever they wanted because it can bring serious harm.
As to non-believers, He says that all of us will stand before Him one day and give an account for what we've done.
Which means that even if judgment is delayed, it's still coming. For instance, a murderer may get away with it seemingly because we didn't catch him/her, but it didn't escape God's eyes. That person will account for what they've done.
So will I.
And what do you think of the roles of priests etc in churches?
---->>> Not sure, can you be more specific?
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Also you say you have personally experienced Him.
I'm not sure if I'm allowed to ask (don't know if it's too personal) but can I ask how? In what way?
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I want to try and answer this for you, but each person may have a different experience when they come to Jesus. I think that is partially because He knows and loves each of us individually.
One of the first ways I experienced Him was how he gave me understanding of the Bible. That sounds silly, but when I would try to read it, it was like trying to look through a fog. I couldn't understand anything-it may as well have been in a language I didn't know.
Again, prayer solved this for me. God opened my eyes, cleared the fog and gave me understanding.
Another way is how He transforms a life. We as humans often have things we desperately want to change. The ugly stuff that hides down deep in our hearts. we are powerless to change them, but He is not. Sometimes it's a radical instantaneous change, sometimes it's over time as we keep giving it over to Him.
Another way is in victory over circumstances. The best the world can promise me is that I might "survive" something. But God promises those who love Him that we are more than conquerors and victorious overcomers.
He promises(like I mentioned before) that all things work together for the good of those who love Him.
That doesn't mean that the situation changes. It means that I have changed in spite of it.
I am no longer a victim, I am able to love and forgive-truly forgive some truly awful things. Circumstances that should by all human standards destroy me, do not have to.
Tell me if I'm boring you, pleeeease!
Otherwise, I'll keep going.
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Please add me! I struggled with my weight for years and couldn't stick to any diet. While on vacation last December I broke down and prayed for over an hour asking God to help me and give me the strength and fervor to get er done. I have been successful since that day, the lord heard my prayer. I thank him daily for the strength He has given me to keep going.5
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Also you say you have personally experienced Him.
I'm not sure if I'm allowed to ask (don't know if it's too personal) but can I ask how? In what way?
- Don't answer if that is a personal thing, I won't be offended, I struggle with what's acceptable to ask and not lol -
I want to try and answer this for you, but each person may have a different experience when they come to Jesus. I think that is partially because He knows and loves each of us individually.
One of the first ways I experienced Him was how he gave me understanding of the Bible. That sounds silly, but when I would try to read it, it was like trying to look through a fog. I couldn't understand anything-it may as well have been in a language I didn't know.
Again, prayer solved this for me. God opened my eyes, cleared the fog and gave me understanding.
Another way is how He transforms a life. We as humans often have things we desperately want to change. The ugly stuff that hides down deep in our hearts. we are powerless to change them, but He is not. Sometimes it's a radical instantaneous change, sometimes it's over time as we keep giving it over to Him.
Another way is in victory over circumstances. The best the world can promise me is that I might "survive" something. But God promises those who love Him that we are more than conquerors and victorious overcomers.
He promises(like I mentioned before) that all things work together for the good of those who love Him.
That doesn't mean that the situation changes. It means that I have changed in spite of it.
I am no longer a victim, I am able to love and forgive-truly forgive some truly awful things. Circumstances that should by all human standards destroy me, do not have to.
Tell me if I'm boring you, pleeeease!
Otherwise, I'll keep going.
Haha no you're not boring me! I live in the UK so I went bed at 1am that's why I didn't reply for a while lol!
Erm as for priests, their connection with God? For example I went to a Christening once and I was pregnant and he blessed me and my unborn baby for good health etc. Like full on hands on side of my head and praying to god to watch over me.
I know what you mean about reading the bible. I got a bible app yesterday, just to have a read and see what I thought, started reading and was just like... what? It made no sense lol!1 -
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Haha no you're not boring me! I live in the UK so I went bed at 1am that's why I didn't reply for a while lol!
Erm as for priests, their connection with God? For example I went to a Christening once and I was pregnant and he blessed me and my unborn baby for good health etc. Like full on hands on side of my head and praying to god to watch over me.
I know what you mean about reading the bible. I got a bible app yesterday, just to have a read and see what I thought, started reading and was just like... what? It made no sense lol![/quote]
Oh good!
Hmmm priests. Ok, so if I haven't already offended every person who's been silently reading this thread, then this is probably where it happens lol. Please just bear with me, I'm just telling you what the Bible says-you can read it for yourself and argue with Him. This is a very rough explanation-I'm sorry!
The Bible is divided into two large sections(which contain smaller sections), the Old Testament and the New Testament. The Old is pre-Jesus, the New is during Jesus and after.
The Old Testament is the history of creation, the people of Israel and the God that led them. It is God's promise to them to send them a Messiah-a Savior.
Because of sin, we are separated from God-we couldn't get to Him, unless He made a way for us to do so. That way would ultimately be Jesus, but first in the Old T. God gave them priests. The priests would pray for the people sins etc.
So here's the thing about the Old T. Everything in it pointed towards Jesus coming. When He came, He would make a way for you to go directly to God because He(Jesus) became our High Priest.
(HEB 4:14) Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess.
It means that we can go directly to God in the name of Jesus and He hears us. It means you can read scripture for yourself and He will help you understand it. It means you can directly have a relationship with the God who created you and knit you together in your mother's womb. The One who knows every hair on your head-He knows you that well. That's an incredible thing.
It means that the position of Priest has been filled and fulfilled. No need for any new ones.
The Bible does state offices or "positions" for within the church(those who follow Christ). Pastor, teacher, elder, deacon are generally those positions.
I do believe in laying hands on a person and praying-it is scriptural. It is what we as a Church did for my friend who was healed. But it's not always needed.
I do believe in asking God for His blessing on someone's life(scriptural), but not that a priest has any power of His own to give one. Based on Jesus now being our Priest and that position being filled.
I really hope that is somewhat understandable, I am so sorry! I would just encourage anyone reading this to search scriptures for yourself and see for yourself that what I'm saying is true. It's in there. You won't find it by flipping a page, it takes really reading the whole thing-again and again. It also takes Him giving you understanding, because it is an intimidating Book to read! So ask Him for understanding. Ask Him to open your eyes and show you-and mean it! He will.
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Haha no you're not boring me! I live in the UK so I went bed at 1am that's why I didn't reply for a while lol!
Erm as for priests, their connection with God? For example I went to a Christening once and I was pregnant and he blessed me and my unborn baby for good health etc. Like full on hands on side of my head and praying to god to watch over me.
I know what you mean about reading the bible. I got a bible app yesterday, just to have a read and see what I thought, started reading and was just like... what? It made no sense lol![/quote]
Oh good!
Hmmm priests. Ok, so if I haven't already offended every person who's been silently reading this thread, then this is probably where it happens lol. Please just bear with me, I'm just telling you what the Bible says-you can read it for yourself and argue with Him. This is a very rough explanation-I'm sorry!
The Bible is divided into two large sections(which contain smaller sections), the Old Testament and the New Testament. The Old is pre-Jesus, the New is during Jesus and after.
The Old Testament is the history of creation, the people of Israel and the God that led them. It is God's promise to them to send them a Messiah-a Savior.
Because of sin, we are separated from God-we couldn't get to Him, unless He made a way for us to do so. That way would ultimately be Jesus, but first in the Old T. God gave them priests. The priests would pray for the people sins etc.
So here's the thing about the Old T. Everything in it pointed towards Jesus coming. When He came, He would make a way for you to go directly to God because He(Jesus) became our High Priest.
(HEB 4:14) Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess.
It means that we can go directly to God in the name of Jesus and He hears us. It means you can read scripture for yourself and He will help you understand it. It means you can directly have a relationship with the God who created you and knit you together in your mother's womb. The One who knows every hair on your head-He knows you that well. That's an incredible thing.
It means that the position of Priest has been filled and fulfilled. No need for any new ones.
The Bible does state offices or "positions" for within the church(those who follow Christ). Pastor, teacher, elder, deacon are generally those positions.
I do believe in laying hands on a person and praying-it is scriptural. It is what we as a Church did for my friend who was healed. But it's not always needed.
I do believe in asking God for His blessing on someone's life(scriptural), but not that a priest has any power of His own to give one. Based on Jesus now being our Priest and that position being filled.
I really hope that is somewhat understandable, I am so sorry! I would just encourage anyone reading this to search scriptures for yourself and see for yourself that what I'm saying is true. It's in there. You won't find it by flipping a page, it takes really reading the whole thing-again and again. It also takes Him giving you understanding, because it is an intimidating Book to read! So ask Him for understanding. Ask Him to open your eyes and show you-and mean it! He will.
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Yep I get that.
It makes sense, he doesn't have any powers but he's personally asking God to bless me, so doing it on my behalf?
Now I've told you that happened, do you believe God would of heard that prayer for me to be blessed etc? Does he hear every prayer even if he doesn't answer them all (Bruce Almighty just sprung to mind)
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