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  • andrewq6100
    andrewq6100 Posts: 415 Member
    as a single dad I feel it may make it a little harder for me to date; as a women is that something that would be a turn off especially knowing if we went out there would most likely be a +1?
  • turbostang7
    turbostang7 Posts: 1,352 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Question:

    Sexiest article of clothing you own?

    I don't like to stand out so sexy is definitely not how I would describe any of my clothes!

    If I had to choose I’d say a pair of my cute little shorts.

    And as the ladies above mentioned, can't go wrong with the LBD

    I confess I have no idea what LBD is.

    Don't worry; it took me a while to figure it out too.

    I think it means:

    Long Black *kitten*


    I'm Pretty sure I'm correct on this one.
    I reckon somebody will let me know otherwise....

    Lol it means little black dress

    No, no .... I don't think so.

    I'm pretty sure I'm right on this one.

    By the way

    .... so, how many LBDs do you own?

    Lol you may be right. But what do I know haha.
    My definition of LBD? 1 lol
  • turbostang7
    turbostang7 Posts: 1,352 Member
    as a single dad I feel it may make it a little harder for me to date; as a women is that something that would be a turn off especially knowing if we went out there would most likely be a +1?

    I'm a mom (married though) but personally no it wouldn't be a turn off. However I don't think you should ever introduce children until it's fairly serious. It can be way too confusing and hard on them to meet every person you date and have them come in and out of their lives.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Question:

    Sexiest article of clothing you own?

    I don't like to stand out so sexy is definitely not how I would describe any of my clothes!

    If I had to choose I’d say a pair of my cute little shorts.

    And as the ladies above mentioned, can't go wrong with the LBD

    I confess I have no idea what LBD is.

    Don't worry; it took me a while to figure it out too.

    I think it means:

    Long Black *kitten*


    I'm Pretty sure I'm correct on this one.
    I reckon somebody will let me know otherwise....

    Lol it means little black dress

    No, no .... I don't think so.

    I'm pretty sure I'm right on this one.

    By the way

    .... so, how many LBDs do you own?

    Lol you may be right. But what do I know haha.
    My definition of LBD? 1 lol

    You're a good sport.

    MAD RE5PEXT
  • neoke33
    neoke33 Posts: 15 Member
    Answer #1. If she expressly wants the Fitbit then get it. If not, by getting it she may think your not happy with her results. Cold hard cash always makes the perfect gift.

    Answer #2. Kindness, Work Ethic, Confidence
  • andrewq6100
    andrewq6100 Posts: 415 Member
    as a single dad I feel it may make it a little harder for me to date; as a women is that something that would be a turn off especially knowing if we went out there would most likely be a +1?

    I'm a mom (married though) but personally no it wouldn't be a turn off. However I don't think you should ever introduce children until it's fairly serious. It can be way too confusing and hard on them to meet every person you date and have them come in and out of their lives.

    See i worried about that and thats why I havn't introduced him like that except my EX is the opposite bringing a different guy around every month and it worries me like what kind of changes would I expect if any from my son and how do I even tell her to stop without sounding like i'm trying to control her relationships lol
  • turbostang7
    turbostang7 Posts: 1,352 Member
    as a single dad I feel it may make it a little harder for me to date; as a women is that something that would be a turn off especially knowing if we went out there would most likely be a +1?

    I'm a mom (married though) but personally no it wouldn't be a turn off. However I don't think you should ever introduce children until it's fairly serious. It can be way too confusing and hard on them to meet every person you date and have them come in and out of their lives.

    See i worried about that and thats why I havn't introduced him like that except my EX is the opposite bringing a different guy around every month and it worries me like what kind of changes would I expect if any from my son and how do I even tell her to stop without sounding like i'm trying to control her relationships lol

    That's so hard. I would just try to bring it up in a way (if possible) where is all about your son and not at all about her/her relationships. Because his safety and wellbeing is really what matters above all
  • merrysailor88
    merrysailor88 Posts: 1,260 Member
    as a single dad I feel it may make it a little harder for me to date; as a women is that something that would be a turn off especially knowing if we went out there would most likely be a +1?

    I'm a mom (married though) but personally no it wouldn't be a turn off. However I don't think you should ever introduce children until it's fairly serious. It can be way too confusing and hard on them to meet every person you date and have them come in and out of their lives.

    See i worried about that and thats why I havn't introduced him like that except my EX is the opposite bringing a different guy around every month and it worries me like what kind of changes would I expect if any from my son and how do I even tell her to stop without sounding like i'm trying to control her relationships lol

    How old is your son? Is he old enough that you could talk to him about it? Kids are so perceptive. I'm sure he's noticed m, but depending on his age, he might not be sure what to make of it. It might be a lot easier to change his perspective on her behavior, than change her behavior.
  • andrewq6100
    andrewq6100 Posts: 415 Member
    as a single dad I feel it may make it a little harder for me to date; as a women is that something that would be a turn off especially knowing if we went out there would most likely be a +1?

    I'm a mom (married though) but personally no it wouldn't be a turn off. However I don't think you should ever introduce children until it's fairly serious. It can be way too confusing and hard on them to meet every person you date and have them come in and out of their lives.

    See i worried about that and thats why I havn't introduced him like that except my EX is the opposite bringing a different guy around every month and it worries me like what kind of changes would I expect if any from my son and how do I even tell her to stop without sounding like i'm trying to control her relationships lol

    How old is your son? Is he old enough that you could talk to him about it? Kids are so perceptive. I'm sure he's noticed m, but depending on his age, he might not be sure what to make of it. It might be a lot easier to change his perspective on her behavior, than change her behavior.

    He is only a year and 5 months but he is very observant for his age and I know no matter what I say to my EX she will not listen she only is thinking i'm trying to control her. Maybe I shouldn't worry so much now because he's still so young but I just don't want any random trying to act like a father or enact rules when they have no place to do so considering my boy is with me 90% of the time..
  • merrysailor88
    merrysailor88 Posts: 1,260 Member
    as a single dad I feel it may make it a little harder for me to date; as a women is that something that would be a turn off especially knowing if we went out there would most likely be a +1?

    I'm a mom (married though) but personally no it wouldn't be a turn off. However I don't think you should ever introduce children until it's fairly serious. It can be way too confusing and hard on them to meet every person you date and have them come in and out of their lives.

    See i worried about that and thats why I havn't introduced him like that except my EX is the opposite bringing a different guy around every month and it worries me like what kind of changes would I expect if any from my son and how do I even tell her to stop without sounding like i'm trying to control her relationships lol

    How old is your son? Is he old enough that you could talk to him about it? Kids are so perceptive. I'm sure he's noticed m, but depending on his age, he might not be sure what to make of it. It might be a lot easier to change his perspective on her behavior, than change her behavior.

    He is only a year and 5 months but he is very observant for his age and I know no matter what I say to my EX she will not listen she only is thinking i'm trying to control her. Maybe I shouldn't worry so much now because he's still so young but I just don't want any random trying to act like a father or enact rules when they have no place to do so considering my boy is with me 90% of the time..

    It seems the type of guys she's bringing around don't really have any staying power or permanence. That might work in your favor as far as "acting like a father" towards YOUR son. Just meaning that if they aren't into a long term relationship with your EX, I doubt they'll be interested in parenting your son.
  • Rhody_Hoosier
    Rhody_Hoosier Posts: 688 Member
    as a single dad I feel it may make it a little harder for me to date; as a women is that something that would be a turn off especially knowing if we went out there would most likely be a +1?

    Hands in pockets. Nods head.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    jamcdonel wrote: »
    slider728 wrote: »
    what are your pet peeves?

    People who insist on reassembling themselves at the end of the X-ray machine at airport security, backing up the line while everyone waits for them. Grab your *kitten*, get out of the way, and go sit on the bench to put your shoes and belt back on

    What bench? There is never a bench when I travel.

    This is the only place where I truly become a passive aggressive troll.

    I always do this intentionally to make things as uncomfortable as possible for the TSA. If they are going to make me strip down, open 3 bags, use 5 bins, take off my shoes and my belt (yes, I have gone through with my pants around my ankles), empty my pockets, start up my laptop, disassemble my CPAP and yell at me for sending my wallet through with cash in it, and then yell at me for leaving the cash in my pocket; just to satisfy their need for "security theatre" and justify their lifetime jobs. I am going to make it as difficult for them as possible.

    The longer the line, and the slower it moves, the crankier the clientele.

    I have boarded flights where everybody gets patted down personally. KLM, British Airways, EL AL, and they all go faster than the TSA!

    Sorry, Not sorry.

    There's typically chairs at every airport I've been through
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Question:

    Last time you cried happy tears?
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    Question:

    Last time you cried happy tears?

    I don't think I've ever cried cause I was happy
    Laughing will induce tears and that usually only happen when I'm away with my skating team
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    For me it was when my son was born...
    Although, I can't get through Frozen without shedding tears...

    Everytime I see that girl jump in front of the sword... OMG lol
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  • Pamela_43
    Pamela_43 Posts: 315 Member
    edited March 2017
    Happy tears: When my grandson said he loves me. ❤
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    edited March 2017
    Question:

    Last time you cried happy tears?

    I can't say I have ever had happy tears, and I rarely get sad tears. I usually only cry when I am frustrated, like when I misplace something.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    as a single dad I feel it may make it a little harder for me to date; as a women is that something that would be a turn off especially knowing if we went out there would most likely be a +1?

    I would like to say that it is not a turn off, but honestly I have never dated someone with kids.
  • FeraFilia
    FeraFilia Posts: 4,664 Member
    Question:

    Last time you cried happy tears?

    This afternoon. I'm a sappy mess when it comes to seeing my husband with our son.
  • FeraFilia
    FeraFilia Posts: 4,664 Member
    as a single dad I feel it may make it a little harder for me to date; as a women is that something that would be a turn off especially knowing if we went out there would most likely be a +1?

    In my single days I dated a couple of men who had kids. It never bothered me. I love children and love going places that would be fun for them. The only thing that ever bothered me was the way one of the moms acted toward me because I was dating her daughter's father.
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Question:

    If you could have any muscle massaged right now, what and why?

    My glutes... They are so freaking sore from all the running... And tight OH
  • turbostang7
    turbostang7 Posts: 1,352 Member
    Question:

    If you could have any muscle massaged right now, what and why?

    My glutes... They are so freaking sore from all the running... And tight OH

    My lower back. I blame all the kids and bending over all day
  • kassierodriguez1
    kassierodriguez1 Posts: 357 Member
    Question:

    If you could have any muscle massaged right now, what and why?

    My glutes... They are so freaking sore from all the running... And tight OH

    lol I'm agreeing with my glutes. Not super sore. I just like the way it feels lol
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Question:

    If you could have any muscle massaged right now, what and why?

    Well.......
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Question:

    If you could have any muscle massaged right now, what and why?

    My glutes... They are so freaking sore from all the running... And tight OH

    My calves, they often feel tight, especially after running.
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Question:

    If you could have any muscle massaged right now, what and why?

    My glutes... They are so freaking sore from all the running... And tight OH

    My calves, they often feel tight, especially after running.

    Calves are usually my number 1...
    Today though, definitely glutes
  • merrysailor88
    merrysailor88 Posts: 1,260 Member
    Question:

    If you could have any muscle massaged right now, what and why?

    My glutes... They are so freaking sore from all the running... And tight OH

    My hammies and glutes.... leg day was a killer... ALL THE SQUATS
  • FeraFilia
    FeraFilia Posts: 4,664 Member
    Question:

    If you could have any muscle massaged right now, what and why?

    My glutes... They are so freaking sore from all the running... And tight OH

    Shoulders/upper back. So much going on its giving me bit of a tension headache.
  • mandymay01
    mandymay01 Posts: 758 Member
    lower back!!!
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