Ask and/or answer the opposite sex... Likes, dislikes, advice, gift ideas, hye, etc

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  • kassierodriguez1
    kassierodriguez1 Posts: 357 Member
    Question:

    Would you rather be taken-

    Forcefully, think pinned against the wall...
    Or
    Affectionately, think slowly...

    Start forcefully and then let it turn into affectionately

    Good answer! I agree.
  • kassierodriguez1
    kassierodriguez1 Posts: 357 Member
    Okay next Question:

    What do you think is sexier...

    Dinner for 2 at a nice place...
    Watching him change your breaks...

    Neither is sexy cuz he is under the car. I can't see him. And dinner for two is romantic to me but not sexy. Sexy to me is working in the yard with your shirt off. lol
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Never been to a club. I don't like lap dances. It is disrespectful to my spouse.

    This.

    Those places are a complete sucker bet.

    I have way too much respect for my wife for such behavior.

    Right. The only person I care to see naked is my husband.

    I started to type: me too !


    .....but I really have no desire to see him naked; no offense.

    Oh, why not?

    I kid I kid

    Strip clubs make no sense to me. Why would you want to sit in a room full of people and watch other people get naked and dance, pay money for it and yet not be able to do more than just look at it all.....

    I told my son: if you're ever inclined to visit one of those places, instead just drive down the freeway and roll down your car window and toss a couple of hundred dollars into the wind. Come home and bang your head on the side of our home. I just saved you several hours of precious time.
    Money aside, it's the element of objectification and the sub-conscious misogyny that comes out of it. Takes your mind to a certain place.

    A better course of action for a guy would be to actually get a casual girlfriend, even if it is non-committal.

    But good job raising good kids, it's important to instill values.

    thanks, yeah... sometimes it's those values that are set early on carry them thru the rough times.

    ... and there are rough times for everyone.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Okay next Question:

    What do you think is sexier...

    Dinner for 2 at a nice place...
    Watching him change your breaks...
    Changing the brakes...guys that are handy are super hot - I admire skills that I don't have. It would be even better if he would show me what he was doing, teach me, not that I would want to do it myself but have the patience to explain - I like learning new random things.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    MeganAM89 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Never been to a club. I don't like lap dances. It is disrespectful to my spouse.

    This.

    Those places are a complete sucker bet.

    I have way too much respect for my wife for such behavior.

    Right. The only person I care to see naked is my husband.

    I started to type: me too !


    .....but I really have no desire to see him naked; no offense.

    Oh, why not?

    I kid I kid

    Strip clubs make no sense to me. Why would you want to sit in a room full of people and watch other people get naked and dance, pay money for it and yet not be able to do more than just look at it all.....

    I told my son: if you're ever inclined to visit one of those places, instead just drive down the freeway and roll down your car window and toss a couple of hundred dollars into the wind. Come home and bang your head on the side of our home. I just saved you several hours of precious time.
    Money aside, it's the element of objectification and the sub-conscious misogyny that comes out of it. Takes your mind to a certain place.

    A better course of action for a guy would be to actually get a casual girlfriend, even if it is non-committal.

    But good job raising good kids, it's important to instill values.

    The only thing I've never understood is why do men want to be in a room full of other men where you all get turned on at the same time and then you just sit there, turned on, doing nothing about it...?

    it's stupid, right?

    There are guys who have girlfriends that work in those places. I've never been attracted to that kinda girl.

  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    MeganAM89 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Never been to a club. I don't like lap dances. It is disrespectful to my spouse.

    This.

    Those places are a complete sucker bet.

    I have way too much respect for my wife for such behavior.

    Right. The only person I care to see naked is my husband.

    I started to type: me too !


    .....but I really have no desire to see him naked; no offense.

    Oh, why not?

    I kid I kid

    Strip clubs make no sense to me. Why would you want to sit in a room full of people and watch other people get naked and dance, pay money for it and yet not be able to do more than just look at it all.....

    I told my son: if you're ever inclined to visit one of those places, instead just drive down the freeway and roll down your car window and toss a couple of hundred dollars into the wind. Come home and bang your head on the side of our home. I just saved you several hours of precious time.
    Money aside, it's the element of objectification and the sub-conscious misogyny that comes out of it. Takes your mind to a certain place.

    A better course of action for a guy would be to actually get a casual girlfriend, even if it is non-committal.

    But good job raising good kids, it's important to instill values.

    The only thing I've never understood is why do men want to be in a room full of other men where you all get turned on at the same time and then you just sit there, turned on, doing nothing about it...?

    I feel kinda sad to say, but to me I think going to a strip club would be funny, comical and maybe icky. I guess I am quite desensitized.

    I don't see anything attractive about the scenario but there are near naked women all over the place in media and real life...its not a unique situation
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    My wife has gone to one with friends for a Bachelorette party before and they all had someone dance for them, I trust her and it doesn't bother me...

    I've been to a club in Vegas before and had a dance as well, she's aware... Honestly it ads a little spice if you ask me.

    Maybe we're just kinky like that lol...
    Is it any different than watching porn, really?
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    My wife has gone to one with friends for a Bachelorette party before and they all had someone dance for them, I trust her and it doesn't bother me...

    I've been to a club in Vegas before and had a dance as well, she's aware... Honestly it ads a little spice if you ask me.

    Maybe we're just kinky like that lol...
    Is it any different than watching porn, really?
    my thoughts too
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  • Xvapor
    Xvapor Posts: 1,643 Member
    Pay someone to do brakes so much better
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Okay next Question:

    What do you think is sexier...

    Dinner for 2 at a nice place...
    Watching him change your breaks...

    I can change my own breaks so I suppose dinner for 2

    You can change your own breaks... I don't know whether to fall in love or feel intimidated lol...

    That's freaking awesome....
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Maybe it's just because working on a car makes me feel super hott... :D:#
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Okay next Question:

    What do you think is sexier...

    Dinner for 2 at a nice place...
    Watching him change your breaks...

    I can change my own breaks so I suppose dinner for 2
    That is super awesome - you have my admiration.
    I always have people offering to do things for me, like I am helpless or incapable

  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Makes me straight up feel like this
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  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    edited March 2017
    So, I feel like I am the first girl to ask a question...
    What do you guys you prefer aesthetically:
    - slim figure
    - skinny figure
    - balanced figure
    - muscular figure
    - full figure
    - or a disproportionate top and/or bottom figure?
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Another question:
    Do you have a height preference at all?
  • merrysailor88
    merrysailor88 Posts: 1,260 Member
    muscular and taller than me... (that's almost a given though- I'm 5')

    What physique do you find "perfect"?
  • LittleHearseDriver
    LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
    MeganAM89 wrote: »
    Question:

    Is a lap dance going too far for you?

    What about the other way around and it's you at a club getting a dance, any different?

    For me it's too far because it's something that would make me feel uncomfortable if my husband were to receive one.

    For me when it comes to stuff like this I just think like, "if my husband found out this happened, would he be mad/upset?" If the answer is yes then I probably shouldn't do that.

    I agree 100%!
    Okay next Question:

    What do you think is sexier...

    Dinner for 2 at a nice place...
    Watching him change your breaks...

    Manual labor is alway hot!
  • LittleHearseDriver
    LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Another question:
    Do you have a height preference at all?

    Tall men make me feel safe. I like when I can rest my head on their chest when I give them a hug.

    What physique do you find "perfect"?
    When I was younger, I thought six packs and big muscular arms were hot, but my tastes have changed as I've matured (Dad bods :love: , a little chest hair, average muscular arms, etc...) I believe a good personality can make any physique attractive.
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    So, I feel like I am the first girl to ask a question...
    What do you guys you prefer aesthetically:
    - slim figure
    - skinny figure
    - balanced figure
    - muscular figure
    - full figure
    - or a disproportionate top and/or bottom figure?

    Personally I can appreciate them all and don't have a preference too much one way or the other... If I had to narrow it down...

    I'm really not into muscular, I prefer dainty
    Wouldn't ask for skinny, or boney
    Large breast or bottom may look fun but if we're to paint a woman they wouldn't be too large...

    I'd probably go with balanced all around...
    Wouldn't complain if she looked like a renaissance painting...
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Another question:
    Do you have a height preference at all?

    I would take a shorter girl who appreciates me over a tall one that doesn't and vice versa but if I were to create her out of thin air... She'd be just a few inches shorter then me, I'm 6'...

    But any height could make me happy, honestly I just love woman in general, rather fascinated I guess... Still at 34 lol
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    muscular and taller than me... (that's almost a given though- I'm 5')

    What physique do you find "perfect"?

    The kind that looks at me Affectionately lol...

    I like soft feminine delicate bodies myself, soft skin, real looking
    men-women-fat-mass.jpeg
    Based on this I'd say the 25%-35% range is what my painting would look like, with proportional breast and bottom...

    Question:
    Based on the above chart, whats your ideal man look like?
  • merrysailor88
    merrysailor88 Posts: 1,260 Member
    Hard to narrow it down. I find super leanness very intimidating... as I am not at all lean.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    So, I feel like I am the first girl to ask a question...
    What do you guys you prefer aesthetically:
    - slim figure
    - skinny figure
    - balanced figure
    - muscular figure
    - full figure
    - or a disproportionate top and/or bottom figure?
    You missed my favourite by a mile. The hourglass, like the model below :smiley:

    My wife has the same body type. She is 5 9. For some reason, most I've dated are onmthe taller side. My ex was 5 9 too. Have no height preference. But tall is great. My wife looks distinct in all places. Tall, red hair.

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    I didn't mean to exclude, :) I consider hourglass to be "balanced", but I guess that is a broad term
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  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    So, I feel like I am the first girl to ask a question...
    What do you guys you prefer aesthetically:
    - slim figure
    - skinny figure
    - balanced figure
    - muscular figure
    - full figure
    - or a disproportionate top and/or bottom figure?

    skinny

    you forgot "with a wide thigh gap and huge back dimples."
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  • ValleyHooper
    ValleyHooper Posts: 1,993 Member
    I don't get the whole thigh gap thing. You guys do realize it's based on bone structure right? It's completely tied to one's genetics. Thigh gap, no thigh gap... you're beautiful ladies.... rock them legs!!! :p
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  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    Okay next Question:

    What do you think is sexier...

    Dinner for 2 at a nice place...
    Watching him change your breaks...

    like breaks as in if I break my arm? Or brakes as in my car?
    I'd rather dinner since I get the brakes done at the mechanic
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