Ask and/or answer the opposite sex... Likes, dislikes, advice, gift ideas, hye, etc

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  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Another question I thought of... Father types, which do you prefer?

    Raised old school... You win some, you lose some, but you always go hard and never ever cry about it...

    New school... Everyone is winner, everyone gets a trophy, heck we don't even keep score


    "Everyone is winner, everyone gets a trophy, heck we don't even keep score" - I like the idea...but I feel there is something wrong with this thinking, I can't pin point what

    If I may, let me help you with determining what is wrong with the above statement.

    I can sum it up in one word; it is: everything

    Thank-you! I knew something about it was kinda wrong...but at the same time it sounds like a nice sentiment.

  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,179 Member
    That's the sort of question that neither of us would ask. She goes and gets what she wants. We are not wealthy and don't have compulsive shopping mental illnesses. We communicate and she knows what she can get without further discussion and what needs further discussion. I do too.
  • Beka3695
    Beka3695 Posts: 4,126 Member
    JHamilton6 wrote: »
    Looks like I'm in the minority. I LOVE surprises! The idea that someone put thought into what I'd enjoy then took the time to find it touches me.

    I totally agree!!! Well thought out surprises make me weak at the knees!!!!!
  • Xvapor
    Xvapor Posts: 1,643 Member
    I feel bad for the girl... she must have felt awkward
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    RoxieDawn wrote: »
    Another question I thought of... Father types, which do you prefer?

    Raised old school... You win some, you lose some, but you always go hard and never ever cry about it...

    New school... Everyone is winner, everyone gets a trophy, heck we don't even keep score

    Raised Old School..

    there was none of this everybody wins in my life ever and certainly not raising my girls.

    Same here, raised old school, never quit, never cry because someone out worked or out hustled you.

    But it helps when your kids a beast on the soccer field... Lol.

    I have had to tell him to distribute more and get his teammates involved...
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Question: Would you be upset with your husband for maintaining an open celebrity crush?

    Think a Kate Upton poster in the home gym.
    Or...
    Wanting to go see a certain movie just because he digs Michelle Pfeiffer
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    Question: Would you be upset with your husband for maintaining an open celebrity crush?

    Think a Kate Upton poster in the home gym.
    Or...
    Wanting to go see a certain movie just because he digs Michelle Pfeiffer

    O don't see any problem with have a celebrity crush or thinking someone else is attractive
  • Xvapor
    Xvapor Posts: 1,643 Member
    Lies
  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    Question: Would you be upset with your husband for maintaining an open celebrity crush?

    Think a Kate Upton poster in the home gym.
    Or...
    Wanting to go see a certain movie just because he digs Michelle Pfeiffer

    No I would not personally. Me and mine joke and kid about this all the time. He has a couple of these celebrity crushes himself, we should put up his and her posters in the gym cause he knows my crushes.. Heck I might have a girl crush on his crush...lol

    we get a laugh about it and we do like to kid and joke, it keeps conversations fun and interesting.
  • Xvapor
    Xvapor Posts: 1,643 Member
    There are winners and losers. Don't whine cause someone wanted it more. If you ain't first you're last
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    MeganAM89 wrote: »
    Another question I thought of... Father types, which do you prefer?

    Raised old school... You win some, you lose some, but you always go hard and never ever cry about it...

    New school... Everyone is winner, everyone gets a trophy, heck we don't even keep score

    I need an in between. I want my future children to know that you win some and you lose some but I also want them to know that it's okay to be upset about things sometimes.

    And what's weird about the millennial generation is that gen x says that we all need a trophy for everything but gen x'ers are our parents, they are the ones that insisted we all get a trophy in the first place lol.

    Yeah I want to say us millennials get a bad rap... And we do (just like every other young generation) but I know a lot of self absorbed "it's all about me" people...
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    MeganAM89 wrote: »
    MeganAM89 wrote: »
    Another question I thought of... Father types, which do you prefer?

    Raised old school... You win some, you lose some, but you always go hard and never ever cry about it...

    New school... Everyone is winner, everyone gets a trophy, heck we don't even keep score

    I need an in between. I want my future children to know that you win some and you lose some but I also want them to know that it's okay to be upset about things sometimes.

    And what's weird about the millennial generation is that gen x says that we all need a trophy for everything but gen x'ers are our parents, they are the ones that insisted we all get a trophy in the first place lol.

    Yeah I want to say us millennials get a bad rap... And we do (just like every other young generation) but I know a lot of self absorbed "it's all about me" people...

    Oh so do I but that happens no matter what generation people are a part of.

    Yeah thats true, the worst one that comes to mind is actually a genxr... Go figure
  • Pamela_43
    Pamela_43 Posts: 315 Member
    Another question I thought of... Father types, which do you prefer?

    Raised old school... You win some, you lose some, but you always go hard and never ever cry about it...

    New school... Everyone is winner, everyone gets a trophy, heck we don't even keep score

    Old School.
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Question:

    Would you rather be taken-

    Forcefully, think pinned against the wall...
    Or
    Affectionately, think slowly...
  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    Question:

    Would you rather be taken-

    Forcefully, think pinned against the wall...
    Or
    Affectionately, think slowly...


    Depends.. however, I can think of many occasions and those places where forcefully could be quite effective. :p think..spontaneous :p

  • Gimsteinn
    Gimsteinn Posts: 7,678 Member
    Another question I thought of... Father types, which do you prefer?

    Raised old school... You win some, you lose some, but you always go hard and never ever cry about it...

    New school... Everyone is winner, everyone gets a trophy, heck we don't even keep score

    Haha I think you know my answer to this one... Lol
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Question: Would you be upset with your husband for maintaining an open celebrity crush?

    Think a Kate Upton poster in the home gym.
    Or...
    Wanting to go see a certain movie just because he digs Michelle Pfeiffer

    I would not be upset, totally fine. I don't think I would believe it if he didn't.

  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Question:

    Would you rather be taken-

    Forcefully, think pinned against the wall...
    Or
    Affectionately, think slowly...

    both, mood and situation dependent

  • merrysailor88
    merrysailor88 Posts: 1,260 Member
    Question:

    Would you rather be taken-

    Forcefully, think pinned against the wall...
    Or
    Affectionately, think slowly...

    Surprise me!!
  • Xvapor
    Xvapor Posts: 1,643 Member
    I'd rather not be kidnapped
  • LittleHearseDriver
    LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
    Question:

    Would you rather be taken-

    Forcefully, think pinned against the wall...
    Or
    Affectionately, think slowly...

    Start forcefully and then let it turn into affectionately
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    When you are in pottery barn and the darling declares, "I need this", what do you do?

    A. Say okay
    B. Try to sneak out

    say ok or ask why if you don't get why she "needs" it

  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Question:

    Is a lap dance going too far for you?

    What about the other way around and it's you at a club getting a dance, any different?
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Question:

    Is a lap dance going too far for you?

    What about the other way around and it's you at a club getting a dance, any different?

    I think I would be ok with it if it wasn't a frequent occurrence, not sure tho. It does has a bit of an ick factor.

    Me, totally not interested, and I'm afraid I would laugh at the guy.
  • merrysailor88
    merrysailor88 Posts: 1,260 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Never been to a club. I don't like lap dances. It is disrespectful to my spouse.

    This.

    Those places are a complete sucker bet.

    I have way too much respect for my wife for such behavior.

    Right. The only person I care to see naked is my husband.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Never been to a club. I don't like lap dances. It is disrespectful to my spouse.

    This.

    Those places are a complete sucker bet.

    I have way too much respect for my wife for such behavior.

    Right. The only person I care to see naked is my husband.

    I started to type: me too !


    .....but I really have no desire to see him naked; no offense.
  • merrysailor88
    merrysailor88 Posts: 1,260 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Never been to a club. I don't like lap dances. It is disrespectful to my spouse.

    This.

    Those places are a complete sucker bet.

    I have way too much respect for my wife for such behavior.

    Right. The only person I care to see naked is my husband.

    I started to type: me too !


    .....but I really have no desire to see him naked; no offense.

    Oh, why not?

    I kid I kid

    Strip clubs make no sense to me. Why would you want to sit in a room full of people and watch other people get naked and dance, pay money for it and yet not be able to do more than just look at it all.....
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    Okay next Question:

    What do you think is sexier...

    Dinner for 2 at a nice place...
    Watching him change your breaks...
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Never been to a club. I don't like lap dances. It is disrespectful to my spouse.

    This.

    Those places are a complete sucker bet.

    I have way too much respect for my wife for such behavior.

    Right. The only person I care to see naked is my husband.

    I started to type: me too !


    .....but I really have no desire to see him naked; no offense.

    Oh, why not?

    I kid I kid

    Strip clubs make no sense to me. Why would you want to sit in a room full of people and watch other people get naked and dance, pay money for it and yet not be able to do more than just look at it all.....

    I told my son: if you're ever inclined to visit one of those places, instead just drive down the freeway and roll down your car window and toss a couple of hundred dollars into the wind. Come home and bang your head on the side of our home. I just saved you several hours of precious time.
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