People who pick a fight for no reason.

Sivadee00

cppeace wrote: »

I'd been up 28 hours, was pretty much asleep walking through a store with my ex and his 2 kids. We were standing in line(all 4 of us) and my ex asked me to grab something that had been forgotten. I passed by an older woman(late 50's early 60's) and was probably about a foot from her when I passed her. She hollers out. "You got no manners. Say excuse me!" I know I didn't touch her or get in he way. She just was being a jerk. I was way too tired and just said "You have a good day."
She was then talking to the manager but nothing came of it.....
Always perplexed me. I think a bigger girl wearing a cami was her big issue. I was wearing something like this.

You handled her very well and you look decently dressed. I think it's so odd she would be offended. She could have had demensia but it still is awful she yelled at you in public.

Sivadee00

saranne1015 wrote: »

This didn't happen exactly to me, but I was with a friend and her mom in line at Target, or something, and my friend and her mom were speaking together, in Romanian. An older woman in front of them turned and basically shouted out, "If you gon' be in this country, you gotsa speak English!" She used a few choice slurs for Hispanics and then looked to the cashier for support. My friend's mother, in her awesome thick accent, then proceeded to correct the woman's grammar to general laughter and acclaim from others in line.

Wowsers! I would be very offended. So much hate from a stranger.

jenilla1

If people have tried to pick fights with me, it went totally over my head, because I've never noticed it. I'm not the confrontational type, but I'm pretty confident. Nobody messes with me. I'm cool with that, since I don't do drama.

jenilla1

SpotLighttt wrote: »

abitoftrouble wrote: »

My husband and I were at dinner one night and we couldn't decide what to order. The table next to us (an obvious lesbian couple) was receiving their food. So we looked to see what they had ordered. The plates looked amazing so we stared a while to figure out what they had ordered. We ordered our dinner and we're enjoying our meals when the table next to us finished. As they were leaving the restaurant, the more insecure of the two came up to our table and said "why don't you take a picture, it will last longer". I was shocked! Mostly because she had all dinner to think of something to say and that's the best she could do. But also because we were only admiring their plates and don't care what they eat after dinner. Naturally, I caused a huge scene and embarrassed her more than she could do herself. Got them removed from the restaurant and got the dinner comped and laughed hysterically all the way home. If you can't handle being out in public, don't go out in public. But also don't *kitten* with me and my food.

instead of staring at someone elses table (which is abit weird) - wouldn't it have been politer/easier to just say "excuse me, sorry to trouble you but your food looks delicious, what is it? I'd like to order it too"

My husband and I were out to dinner a few months ago for our 15th anniversary, and the woman next to us kept stealing glances at my husband. Soon, she was practically staring. It was getting a little awkward, so he decided to do a friendly confrontation just to see what was going on. At one point he looked her straight in the eye and smiled, waved and said hello. She was so embarrassed (I guess she thought she was being sly about it.) She then apologized to me and said my husband was the most beautiful man in the room (which was true, he's hot as hell) and she couldn't help noticing. I wasn't mad, I just agreed with her and said I understood, because I'd been staring at him all night, too. I've been staring at him for almost two decades, and he just keeps getting more and more adorable. We laughed and she left shortly after. (LOL, found out later that she paid for my drink! Cheers!) No need to fight, people. Just keep your cool and enjoy life!

Momepro

abitoftrouble wrote: »

My husband and I were at dinner one night and we couldn't decide what to order. The table next to us (an obvious lesbian couple) was receiving their food. So we looked to see what they had ordered. The plates looked amazing so we stared a while to figure out what they had ordered. We ordered our dinner and we're enjoying our meals when the table next to us finished. As they were leaving the restaurant, the more insecure of the two came up to our table and said "why don't you take a picture, it will last longer". I was shocked! Mostly because she had all dinner to think of something to say and that's the best she could do. But also because we were only admiring their plates and don't care what they eat after dinner. Naturally, I caused a huge scene and embarrassed her more than she could do herself. Got them removed from the restaurant and got the dinner comped and laughed hysterically all the way home. If you can't handle being out in public, don't go out in public. But also don't *kitten* with me and my food.

Lol, That's why I always ask now. I've haf way to many misunderstandings of people thinking I was judging them, when I was really trying to figure out what that tattoo is, where she got her hair done, because I want it, why do people with huge trucks SUVs bavk into spits, when it seems like it would be easier to back out instead, and is that book as good as their others?