One cookie made me gain 2lbs
Tjs8819
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Well not exactly one! I've been having trouble with incorporating "not so healthy foods" into my diet without going overboard. So on last Wednesday had a taste for s chocolate chip cookie, so I had one... problem is, in my mind having one cookie is like having 10. If I have one I might as well have a few more (because my diet is ruined) and get back on track the next day. Well the next day I again ate poorly and decided to enjoy the weekend and start fresh... I went to the gym today and 2lb up. This is why I try so hard to avoid foods that i really like because I won't want to go back to eating healthy. Anyone else like this? I'm tired of the binge and restrict cycle I've fallen into
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Oh, yes. This time around (ha), I'm telling myself my main goals are to 1. log everything, everyday and 2. stick with it, no matter what, no matter how much I fly right past that calorie goal. At this point the weight has been coming off as a result of those two behaviors, even though there have been many days I've overeaten (I have a lot to lose, YMMV). It keeps me from that "*kitten* it, I've ruined my diet" cycle.2
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1 pound = 3,500 calories......that was quite some cookie
Your diet is not ruined. Ditch the "I have to be perfect" to lose weight attitude behind, because you don't have to be perfect.....none of us are perfect.
Just pick yourself up, dust yourself off and continue. Don't start over and over and over again until you can string so many perfect days together & finally reach your goal.......because guess what? You need to continue some of these good habits to maintain the weight you lost. This is why elimination backfires on me....I always gain the weight back. This has to be really long-term.
Look for IMPROVEMENTS in your diet. I love this saying by Chris Freytag.....progress, not perfection.15 -
Just get back on it ASAP. It's a process.
I still have pints of Ben and Jerry's on occasion. I still eat a package of cookies some days. I try to do it less than once a week, and I still have some fruit every day to take that sweet craving away.0 -
Unless you ate 7000 calories over your TDEE over the past few days, you haven't actually gained 2lbs of fat.
Fluctuations are normal. Not to mention water retention after eating a bunch of junk food. Plus all the poop in your system.
It's normal. It sounds like the lesson you've learned is 1 cookie is dangerous and can lead to many more cookies. So maybe it's better not to give yourself access to cookies at all. Or make some healthy cookie substitutes for yourself.4 -
Until you believe you are in control, the cycle is in control. Stop giving the cookie the power
Make sure you are eating food you like. Make sure you are getting enough protein, fat, and fiber. Some people have to avoid certain foods they have no control over, or at least make them difficult to eat. Put trigger foods up in a high cabinet, take one serving out, put the package away, and then go eat somewhere else.
And stop thinking of a day as a lost cause. If you are trying to eat a 500 calorie deficit, and you eat 200 cals of cookies you didn't plan on, you are still in a deficit. You don't get bonus points for not eating yummy foods. I eat a couple of cookies, or a bowl of ice cream, or some other treat every day. It fits in my calories and makes my day BETTER, not a lost cause that need to start over because of. Don't start fresh tomorrow, start fresh right at the moment you're thinking about it, and try to stop thinking of foods as good or bad, or of yourself as good or bad for eating them. Food is fuel, even cookies, not moral dilemmas!14 -
Well not exactly one! I've been having trouble with incorporating "not so healthy foods" into my diet without going overboard. So on last Wednesday had a taste for s chocolate chip cookie, so I had one... problem is, in my mind having one cookie is like having 10. If I have one I might as well have a few more (because my diet is ruined) and get back on track the next day. Well the next day I again ate poorly and decided to enjoy the weekend and start fresh... I went to the gym today and 2lb up. This is why I try so hard to avoid foods that i really like because I won't want to go back to eating healthy. Anyone else like this? I'm tired of the binge and restrict cycle I've fallen into
the bolded is the problem. having 1 cookie which fits into your calorie goals is absolutely not like having 10. if you start to revamp your thinking about food and diet you can make adjustments to the cycle. 1 cookie doesn't ruin your diet, but 10 may put you off course for the day, and if you feel defeated then more days than that.
but if 1 cookie becomes part of your diet then nothing is ruined. 1 cookie even at 200 calories is a treat that can keep you happy and happiness helps with adherence. it's not a diet ruiner, it's a valid choice that fits in with your long term goals.13 -
It's all individual. Some people are great moderating intake while others are better at abstaining. I can't drink a glass of champagne - I have to finish the bottle.4
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I am pretty good at just taking a serving and putting the rest back now but back when I started? Nope. If I wanted something calorie dense/a "treat" I bought a single serve. Harder with something like a cookie. But if I only buy one and walk away I can only eat one. Often best done just before bed so I don't have time to sit there and think how nice another ten would be.7
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VintageFeline wrote: »I am pretty good at just taking a serving and putting the rest back now but back when I started? Nope. If I wanted something calorie dense/a "treat" I bought a single serve. Harder with something like a cookie. But if I only buy one and walk away I can only eat one. Often best done just before bed so I don't have time to sit there and think how nice another ten would be.
Same here. Things like cookies, crackers, chips... all dangerous foods. Too easy to binge on. So when I REALLY want some chips, I'll just buy myself a small bag with 200-400 calories worth of chips in it.6 -
VintageFeline wrote: »I am pretty good at just taking a serving and putting the rest back now but back when I started? Nope. If I wanted something calorie dense/a "treat" I bought a single serve. Harder with something like a cookie. But if I only buy one and walk away I can only eat one. Often best done just before bed so I don't have time to sit there and think how nice another ten would be.
I do this^
Plan ahead.....late in the day works for me too. 100 calorie cookie packs are nice - Chips Ahoy and Oreo Crisps.4 -
If you ate a massive cookie that had over 100carbs, it could potentially result in a full pound of weight on the scale (assuming one g carb binds with 3 g water to form glycogen). So.... maybe three cookies could make you gain 2 lbs.
Just conjecture that may or may not be relevant Weight is different from strictly just fat, and the amount of water in our bodies is pretty significant.1 -
I actually modified a cookie recipe to only make like 8 cookies, instead of 2-3 dozen. There are even "single serve" recipes out there. This one makes two cookies: http://www.number-2-pencil.com/2012/09/30/perfect-single-serving-size-chocolate/1
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Well not exactly one! I've been having trouble with incorporating "not so healthy foods" into my diet without going overboard. So on last Wednesday had a taste for s chocolate chip cookie, so I had one... problem is, in my mind having one cookie is like having 10. If I have one I might as well have a few more (because my diet is ruined) and get back on track the next day. Well the next day I again ate poorly and decided to enjoy the weekend and start fresh... I went to the gym today and 2lb up. This is why I try so hard to avoid foods that i really like because I won't want to go back to eating healthy. Anyone else like this? I'm tired of the binge and restrict cycle I've fallen into
that is not the cookies fault, that is your fault....7 -
that must have been a very large cookie1
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must have been a helluva cookie.....
im eating tootsie rolls at the moment. and will still be under for the day.1 -
I used to have this problem as well. Gained 20 pounds in 2 months because of a binge eating disorder I've been battling for 4 years now.
It all comes down to two things
Recognizing your self worth and admitting that you have an unhealthy relationship with food.
I would like to point out that following what I'm am telling you I've finally adopted a healthy relationship with food, lost 30 pounds, and now know I deserve to treat myself better.
So...
The most important thing to realize is 1 COOKIE DOES NOT RUIN YOUR DIET. It's when you have more than one. If you look at my diary you'll see that about 3 times a week now I eat something sweet or something I'm craving. Yesterday I had a kids sized ice cream from baskin Robbins and was WELL WITHIN my deficit. But if I still had the mentality you have and gotten a large it would've have thrown off the whole day.
So often people have this "get back on track" idea when they eat something unhealthy. No.. it is so much better to PLAN and include a little junk food on your track. Then not only are you limiting yourself but because you already planned for it you won't feel so guilty and terrible about yourself.
It takes time to adopt a truly healthy lifestyle. Just keep your head up and take it one day at a time ❤️❤️6 -
No one can force you to have discipline. That has to come from you. Either you want to lose, or you don't. It's your decision.4
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If I want to have a cookie or something similar, I make sure to only buy one. It's a lot easier to limit yourself if you don't have a bunch on hand.2
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1 cookie didn't ruin your diet. 10 cookies didn't even ruin it. Your decision not to get on track and stay on track will, though. Either practice moderation and build treats into your diet to stop the cycle, or avoid triggers completely if that works better for you. I'm of the former persuasion, but others here have expressed that there are some things they simply cannot have, so I get that that's a valid route for some people.7
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I'm confused...did people just read the title and not the OP, or was the OP heavily edited after initially posting? As the OP is written now it clearly states she didn't have just one cookie.2
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kshama2001 wrote: »I'm confused...did people just read the title and not the OP, or was the OP heavily edited after initially posting? As the OP is written now it clearly states she didn't have just one cookie.
OP is blaming 'one cookie' for pushing her off course. 'If I have one I might as well have a few more (because my diet is ruined)' That's what I see most people responding to. We all know she had more than one cookie. The question is why, and what can she do to address the behavior following the cookie.6 -
To be fair though, for a lot of us with 'unhealthy food relationships' one cookie is enough to send us barreling off track into fatsville.
Obviously, always, it comes down to self discipline and willpower, but people who have never truly struggled with their food relationship don't really know what a wild ride it is. I'm not making excuses for anyone, but I know just one cookie is enough to turn me into a ravenous carb craving beast for days, and it takes all my will power to stop myself. I have to be very careful what I eat because certain foods trigger binge cravings. That's how it is for me, that's how it is for some people, it's just not how it is for everyone. We are all very unique.
Again, not making excuses, but for those of us who struggle, I guess it's some sort of hormone imbalance or deficiency probably brought on from being overweight to begin with. For me the best solution has always been abstaining from certain foods (like pizza or raspberry danish) that send me into a hunger rampage.2 -
My route of choice to counter this my over indulgence tendencies wasn't abstinence or self control but rather pouring energy into creating alternatives that I thought were healthier and lower in calorie at the same time. Like eating a black bean brownie instead of one made with while flour and sugar. Is it as good? No. But it's better for me in many ways, far lower in calories, and was much easier to fit into my caloric goals for the day. That's something you might want to consider OP. There are different approaches to many recipes that can satisfy your cravings and be easier on your calorie count as well.3
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What would have happened if you enjoyed this one cookie and didn't eat the rest? Would your diet be truly ruined?
Did it end up more ruined or less ruined after the choice you made?2 -
problem is, in my mind having one cookie is like having 10. If I have one I might as well have a few more (because my diet is ruined) and get back on track the next day.... Anyone else like this? I'm tired of the binge and restrict cycle I've fallen into
Yeah, I have definite tendencies that way. I know it is irrational, but I still have thought patterns that can go there -- oh, bad day already, might as well blow off the rest of the day and start again tomorrow. I think NOT doing this is what allowed me to be successful (I lost 95 lbs in 2014 and early 2015), and I avoided it by really consciously being aware of it and how silly it is. Basically, I decided I did not have to be perfect, that I would analyze screw ups (which having a cookie is not) and figure out why, make it a learning experience, not a "why it's ruined" excuse, and I would work in room for being imperfect (some treats, a dinner out per week, starting with 3 weeks of exercise, not demanding 6 or 7). It was still hard -- when I skipped a bunch of exercise because work went nuts I felt awful and guilty and like it was ruined, and that I might as well just eat badly too, but I did not, and ended up losing more than usual that week, which was a huge step.
Logging helped a ton too, as you could see that one whatever was not a big deal and did not ruin everything, whereas using that as an excuse to eat 10 more, well, that would mean I was taking a week off probably.
But I get it. Keep working against it.1 -
Easier said than done but maybe try and not look at it as a diet but as a change in lifestyle. You want to maintain your weightloss when you reach goal right? That means the changes you are making will have to be for life not temporary.
If you start looking at this for the longterm (it did help me to do this) all of a sudden that cookie no longer becomes that forbidden food that ruined my diet by having one. It becomes: 'I fancy a cookie, let's see if I can fit it in my calories for the day'. If you don't want give up cookies for the rest of your life then find a way to fit them in on occasion. (This applies to any food by the way the cookie was used as the example).
(I will put a disclaimer in, I have had to ban cookies from my house when I first started though as I had no self control and would just eat the whole pack in one sitting but this was temporary and they now feature in the snack cupboard again.)0 -
fitmom4lifemfp wrote: »No one can force you to have discipline. That has to come from you. Either you want to lose, or you don't. It's your decision.
This is the truth.2 -
How does Cookie monster never get fat?2
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