Asking someone out at the gym or getting him to ask me??
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browneyedgirl749 wrote: »My very first thought, every place is a 'pickup' place, not just bars..
If you have skills you use in a bar as you stated "I know what I would do to either ask him out or get him to ask me out", use this.
I think if someone is not married and available you will know it, OR they can be married and still available, you never can tell these days..
Could be married looking for a third...
true too! lol0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »
You'd have to tell the girl no and that you are married. Then she would feel foolish and maybe be embarrassed to see you in the gym in the future. She stops going to the gym, she eats her feelings, she gains 300lbs and becomes diabetic and a hermit because she is ashamed. She adopts cats. Lots of cats. They are her only friends and she talks to them and tells them the story about the guy who killed her soul at the gym one day....
Is this how you want the story to end????
This is exactly what I would do
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Motorsheen wrote: »
You'd have to tell the girl no and that you are married. Then she would feel foolish and maybe be embarrassed to see you in the gym in the future. She stops going to the gym, she eats her feelings, she gains 300lbs and becomes diabetic and a hermit because she is ashamed. She adopts cats. Lots of cats. They are her only friends and she talks to them and tells them the story about the guy who killed her soul at the gym one day....
Is this how you want the story to end????
I dunno.
.... exactly how many cats are we talking about?0 -
Watch him while he is doing curls...when he catches you (which he will), look away really fast like you didn't want to get caught.
I accidentally made a guy fall in love with me this way.1 -
Try and leave at the same time as him and then make a casual comment about your workout and how you're craving a coffee/ice cream and where would he suggest, you could go as far as ask what's his plans for the evening : all you're doing is making casual conversation but it's giving him an opportunity to invite himself, just 2 people with a mutual interest having a coffee, not a 'date'.4
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Fyi I do know guy is divorced and ex lives in different state.0
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Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »
You'd have to tell the girl no and that you are married. Then she would feel foolish and maybe be embarrassed to see you in the gym in the future. She stops going to the gym, she eats her feelings, she gains 300lbs and becomes diabetic and a hermit because she is ashamed. She adopts cats. Lots of cats. They are her only friends and she talks to them and tells them the story about the guy who killed her soul at the gym one day....
Is this how you want the story to end????
I dunno.
.... exactly how many cats are we talking about?
37.5
Stubby only has back legs and she made him a little kitty wheelchair so he can still get around
she made it a kitty wheelchair?
she sounds industrious and caring
I'm fine with how this story played out.2 -
Don't do it. You gonna have to find a new gym if he is a total douche.4
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Ironandwine69 wrote: »Don't do it. You gonna have to find a new gym if he is a total douche.
but, but what if he turns out to be Prince Charming?1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »Don't do it. You gonna have to find a new gym if he is a total douche.
but, but what if he turns out to be Prince Charming?
And a billionaire?0 -
Ironandwine69 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »Don't do it. You gonna have to find a new gym if he is a total douche.
but, but what if he turns out to be Prince Charming?
And a billionaire?
well, let's not get carried away
although, there's this guy at my gym and we talk every Saturday morning.
good guy, just an average guy
one Saturday, I walk out of the gym with him and he hops into his rig
... it's a $250,000.00 car. (pretty nice sled)
point is
ya never know, right?0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »Don't do it. You gonna have to find a new gym if he is a total douche.
but, but what if he turns out to be Prince Charming?
And a billionaire?
well, let's not get carried away
although, there's this guy at my gym and we talk every Saturday morning.
good guy, just an average guy
one Saturday, I walk out of the gym with him and he hops into his rig
... it's a $250,000.00 car. (pretty nice sled)
point is
ya never know, right?
What gym do you go to?
Exact location please4 -
Ironandwine69 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »Don't do it. You gonna have to find a new gym if he is a total douche.
but, but what if he turns out to be Prince Charming?
And a billionaire?
well, let's not get carried away
although, there's this guy at my gym and we talk every Saturday morning.
good guy, just an average guy
one Saturday, I walk out of the gym with him and he hops into his rig
... it's a $250,000.00 car. (pretty nice sled)
point is
ya never know, right?
What gym do you go to?
Exact location please
Ha
it's called the: Drop and Give Me Twenty
it's located at the intersection of Bedlam and Squalor in my hometown of: Palookaville2 -
"Accidentally " drop a dumbbell on his foot and offer to take him to the hospital . works every time .. bam first date is in the ER2
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He's probably gay if he hasn't asked u yet. Just saying.1
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Just talk to him. If he's interested in more, he'll ask you. Start with small talk to find out info about him, esp. if he's married or not1
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I don't know. My first gym date started following me on IG and we just started messaging one morning and went from there.
Big mistake tho.2 -
rugratz2015 wrote: »Try and leave at the same time as him and then make a casual comment about your workout and how you're craving a coffee/ice cream and where would he suggest, you could go as far as ask what's his plans for the evening : all you're doing is making casual conversation but it's giving him an opportunity to invite himself, just 2 people with a mutual interest having a coffee, not a 'date'.
I went out to lunch with my gym crush this way. I didn't really time it on purpose but we were finally leaving at the same time and both going to lunch...and he bought
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What if it turns bad then u have to go to a new gym?0
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" Hey want to grab a coffee"
Pretty simple IMHO.0
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