LoveSick?

JovanValor

What would you say makes Love succesful, thoughts tips?

What would you say breaks Love, experiences, advice?


Stories and general info on the Experience of love, all Welcome!! ❤

bernied262

For me, the most important thing is trust and respect. If i can't trust you or respect you, then I can't love you (and this goes for all relationships, not just the intimate ones ).

break my trust, or lose my respect, relationship over.

ETA, I met my husband when I was 17, I had just been through a pretty rough time and I was 'broken'. He was very patient with me, over time he gained my trust and respect and then the love followed. He has been my rock and helped me rebuild myself. We have been married for 18 yrs now, there have been some bumpy patches, not within our relationship as such but family stresses that have worn us both down, but he has always stuck by me, and me by him. We are a couple, we are a partnership. Some days he drives me insane, but in reality i wouldnt change a thing about him

Addis_Daddy12

Bernie I swear up and down I thought I added you as a friend like a week ago

spade117

What would you say makes Love succesful, thoughts tips?

Communication, honesty, and *kitten*.

sam308lbs

Bernie I swear up and down I thought I added you as a friend like a week ago

She did the same to me.It hurts

JovanValor

What are your thoughts on LOVE been possible with anyone?

( when the process/ stages of acheiving love is broken down to scenarios experiences and etc, What would be your thoughts on how these moments can be taylored towards any and all people out there. Its like saying theres more than 1 soulmate out there for you?

bernied262

Bernie I swear up and down I thought I added you as a friend like a week ago

She did the same to me.It hurts

LOL, send the request, today might be your lucky day

bernied262

What are your thoughts on LOVE been possible with anyone?

( when the process/ stages of acheiving love is broken down to scenarios experiences and etc, What would be your thoughts on how these moments can be taylored towards any and all people out there. Its like saying theres more than 1 soulmate out there for you?

Well, I only have one soulmate. However, I did think the person who hurt me bad was my soul mate. In reality, I was just young and stupid I did learn what wasn't love in that relationship though, so it wasn't all wasted time

pearson114

For me, the most important thing is trust and respect. If i can't trust you or respect you, then I can't love you (and this goes for all relationships, not just the intimate ones ).

break my trust, or lose my respect, relationship over.

ETA, I met my husband when I was 17, I had just been through a pretty rough time and I was 'broken'. He was very patient with me, over time he gained my trust and respect and then the love followed. He has been my rock and helped me rebuild myself. We have been married for 18 yrs now, there have been some bumpy patches, not within our relationship as such but family stresses that have worn us both down, but he has always stuck by me, and me by him. We are a couple, we are a partnership. Some days he drives me insane, but in reality i wouldnt change a thing about him

Absolutely love this!

TRW012448

Love is over rated. Love hurts!

JovanValor

lol yeah can get complex but when you break it down as an equation; i have discovered there is a procedure to it that be used to enduse Love into any indicidual :P , it may be seen as evil, but been aware can have its benefits.

exile40

Love is over rated. Love hurts!

Love and pain are sadly intertwined

karylee46

love = pain..

Myhaloslipped

successful: trust, patience

breaks love: bad communication

LauraMacNCheese

Love hurts, love scars
Love wounds, and marks
Any heart, not tough
Or strong enough

To take a lot of pain
Take a lot of pain
Love is like a cloud
Holds a lot of rain


Love hurts
Love hurts


I'm young, I know
But even so
I know a thing or two
I learned, from you


I really learned a lot
Really learned a lot
Love is like a flame
It burns you when it's hot


Love hurts
Love hurts



Some fools think of happiness
Blissfulness, togetherness
Some fools fool themselves I guess
They're not foolin' me


I know it isn't true
I know it isn't true
Love is just a lie
Made to make you blue


Love hurts
Love hurts
Love hurts


I know it isn't true
I know it isn't true
Love is just a lie
Made to make you blue


Love hurts
Love hurts
Love hurts

rml_16

There's a quote (I don't remember who said it) about the key to a long marriage is that two people never fell out of love at the same time. I believe that.

I've been with my SO 8 years. There have definitely been times -- sometimes months -- where I don't think I was in love with him at all, but it always comes back. I suspect he has felt the same on occasion. We always care about each other, though.

Relationships are work. You may fall in love, but you have to work to stay there.

jamielynas

sex, weights and protein shakes

rml_16

Also, I believe in soul mates, but I don't believe there is only one person who can be a soul mate to another. I think we have several. Some of them are romantic soul mates and some are friends or other types. My best friend is a soul mate, but I don't want to marry her or have sex with her.

Fithealthyforlife

I read all the posts. Butting in here, but at least it's relatively on topic. I'm not that young compared to some on this site (younger than some of you though ), but still young enough (27) that I'm constantly exposed to "nice people finish last". That you have to be a jerk in order to have a member of the opposite sex attracted to you. It's so stupid. people have enough flaws w/out trying to be bad that it makes no sense to purposely be like that on top of your real flaws.

mockchoc

Trust, forgiveness, honesty, never forgetting you are a couple if you have kids so arrange for time away from them since you are going to be alone again once they're gone, caring and some romance even if you have to be the one to put in the effort if they aren't that way inclined normally.

exile40

Bob said it best ...

“If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”

― Bob Marley

bernied262

I read all the posts. Butting in here, but at least it's relatively on topic. I'm not that young compared to some on here, but still young enough that I'm constantly exposed to "nice people finish last". That you have to be a jerk in order to have a member of the opposite sex attracted to you. It's so stupid. people have enough flaws w/out trying to be bad that it makes no sense to purposely be like that on top of your real flaws.

I hear guys say this a lot (about needing to be jerks to get the girl), and then i hear my single girlfriends saying that there are no decent blokes out there. If everyone was just true to themselves when looking for a partner, i think they will find the right person.

bernied262

Bob said it best ...

“If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”

― Bob Marley

Perfect!!

choijanro

Love is good but love hurts also

ldrosophila

What would you say makes Love succesful, thoughts tips?

Communication, honesty, and cunnilungus.

Fixed it for you :bigsmile:

ldrosophila

Good timing, good pheromones, adequate hormone, and a dash of oxytocin.

True love=time

TheEffort

My interpretation (written by me):

"Goodnight kisses placed upon the flesh of eager anticipation; a morning bouquet of roses found withering along the murky farewell. They are not forgotten, because these memories hold the lost souls of poignant emotions. Their tears drip honey upon the core’s sentiment. Breathing into the darkness, the cold sensations becoming the objects of desire; sorrow beckons the hope of amnesia to erase an eternity. Those feelings never go away nor can they be easily discarded; once the heart is stained by love it carries the mark like a scarlet letter." - http://1meremortal.me/2013/02/19/scarlet-letter/

jdm_taco

lol yeah can get complex but when you break it down as an equation; i have discovered there is a procedure to it that be used to enduse Love into any indicidual :P , it may be seen as evil, but been aware can have its benefits.

That's f'in creepy, dude.

Fiercely_Me

Bob said it best ...

“If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”

― Bob Marley

One of my favorite quotes. This couldn't be more true.

JovanValor

lol yeah can get complex but when you break it down as an equation; i have discovered there is a procedure to it that be used to enduse Love into any indicidual :P , it may be seen as evil, but been aware can have its benefits.

That's f'in creepy, dude.

lol so true, it gives a creepy vibe xD . Overall im just trying to say its got a procedure a set of events,scenarios, chemical reactions in the mind etc. the list can go on for a while. But when these Steps or process is understood its just a matter of executing your actions and manipulating scenarios towards a specific goal. A perfect example is the process of a succeful magic trick. lol im just saying, no one is wrong and no one is ever right.

choijanro

Love quarrel