Fat shaming???

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  • kjmiller_15
    kjmiller_15 Posts: 22 Member
    I agree, I am so terrified of being made fun of when I step outside into the world. I am a really sensitive person to start with. And I know I know....Its my fault im this overweight. BUT at the same time, im trying to fix it, so all this criticism, and judgement upon me like im the scum of the earth, or like im the most disgusting person someones ever seen doesn't help!!! Everday I battle with being afraid to go somewhere because of the Judgement against me. It hurts, and cuts deep, and leaves big scars.
  • dakotababy
    dakotababy Posts: 2,407 Member
    I don't usually recommend this...but you need a j! Seriously...or a hug or something.

    J? Like mary j? B/c I've got some of those to pass around.......Mmmmmm, with some chips, and ice cream, and chocolate bars, OOO, and what about some fast food together?! This way we can ALL get together and makes fat jokes about each other, while also shoving our faces with DELICIOUS garbage, and have a real good time :)

    Lol - Im good...but OP on the other hand...
  • moolfson
    moolfson Posts: 29
    Touched a very personal nerve and I didn't take a break and look before I posted.

    Sorry.
  • kjmiller_15
    kjmiller_15 Posts: 22 Member
    and then we can all die at an early age of a freaking heart attack and leave our loved ones behind to wonder if there was more they could do to help us fat people lose weight. Common this is suppose to be a support message board.....
  • Hazevamp
    Hazevamp Posts: 8
    Preface: I am five feet tall.

    A few weeks ago I went to the 80th birthday of someone. It was a big party and a bit later in the evening a very tall and quite overweight ( maybe 175kilos/more than 350 pounds ) man asked me " how is the air down there ". I answered " it stinks of fat people ".

    LOL!!! I gotta use that. I'm 4,8 ft. People talk about my height as well. Sometimes it can get annoying, like some nurse actually claimed that any man who becomes attracted to me is a pedophile. :explode: I ended up replying "So any man who's attracted to you must like ugly chicks." she got silent and I left. At the time my mother was in the hospital and I had no desire for anybody's crap. I just wanted to see her so maybe I was a bit harsh. lol!
  • JTGJTG
    JTGJTG Posts: 52 Member
    Grow some thicker skin. The reason that MOST of us (not all) are fat is our own fault. Own it. Yes, I'm fat, but I'm also nice, smart, and have a good smile.
  • JTGJTG
    JTGJTG Posts: 52 Member
    nainai0585 wrote: »

    So my advice is to get away from the "poor me" and "I'm a victim" mind set and start realizing that its only YOU who's putting yourself down b/c your believing what some nameless stranger thinks or says. Your making yourself the victim, NOT the joker. Like another commentor stated earlier, they are an equal opportunistic joker as are A LOT of other jokesters. They don't care that your fat; have long or short hair; are thin; are muscler; etc. They just cracked a joke. Its up to YOU on how you respond.

    ^^^^^this. Bravo! I'm sick of the victim generation.
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  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
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