Have you ever?

Candy0516
Candy0516 Posts: 399 Member
edited July 2017 in Chit-Chat
Nevermind carry on
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    you're a Cleveland Browns Fan, aren't you?
  • Zac1644
    Zac1644 Posts: 1,173 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    you're a Cleveland Browns Fan, aren't you?

    Lol don't put that evil on this poor girl :D:D
  • Jdismybug1
    Jdismybug1 Posts: 443 Member
    I like you, you're fun!
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  • Candy0516
    Candy0516 Posts: 399 Member
    I had posted something but changed it. People wanted to joke about something serious
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  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    Why don't we just keep it this way, we won't tell anyone what we are talking about. And we won't get this thread closed
  • Jdismybug1
    Jdismybug1 Posts: 443 Member
    Candy0516 wrote: »
    I had posted something but changed it. People wanted to joke about something serious

    How serious was it?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Jdismybug1 wrote: »
    Candy0516 wrote: »
    I had posted something but changed it. People wanted to joke about something serious

    How serious was it?

    ........ it was about self doubt, am I happy? Am I fulfilled?

    Did I marry the right guy? Does my life have purpose?

    pretty much what many of us ask ourselves most everyday.
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  • Jdismybug1
    Jdismybug1 Posts: 443 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Jdismybug1 wrote: »
    Candy0516 wrote: »
    I had posted something but changed it. People wanted to joke about something serious

    How serious was it?

    ........ it was about self doubt, am I happy? Am I fulfilled?

    Did I marry the right guy? Does my life have purpose?

    pretty much what many of us ask ourselves most everyday.

    Yeah no one has those answers.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Jdismybug1 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Jdismybug1 wrote: »
    Candy0516 wrote: »
    I had posted something but changed it. People wanted to joke about something serious

    How serious was it?

    ........ it was about self doubt, am I happy? Am I fulfilled?

    Did I marry the right guy? Does my life have purpose?

    pretty much what many of us ask ourselves most everyday.

    Yeah no one has those answers.

    It is kinda reassuring to me to hear other people say that.
  • Jdismybug1
    Jdismybug1 Posts: 443 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Jdismybug1 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Jdismybug1 wrote: »
    Candy0516 wrote: »
    I had posted something but changed it. People wanted to joke about something serious

    How serious was it?

    ........ it was about self doubt, am I happy? Am I fulfilled?

    Did I marry the right guy? Does my life have purpose?

    pretty much what many of us ask ourselves most everyday.

    Yeah no one has those answers.

    It is kinda reassuring to me to hear other people say that.
    You're not alone asking yourself those questions. I do it all the time.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Jdismybug1 wrote: »
    Candy0516 wrote: »
    I had posted something but changed it. People wanted to joke about something serious

    How serious was it?

    ........ it was about self doubt, am I happy? Am I fulfilled?

    Did I marry the right guy? Does my life have purpose?

    pretty much what many of us ask ourselves most everyday.

    Deep. I can't answer most of those for myself let alone answer for someone else

    Right?

    Also..... I owe the OP a sincere apology.

    Clowning sometimes helps open and lighten conversation. It wasn't my intention to downplay the importance of her feelings.
    I sincerely apologize if I offended her.
  • Candy0516
    Candy0516 Posts: 399 Member
    Thank you all. I just am in a state of constant sadness and I needed to talk with someone. I was hoping someone would feel like I do so I could vent, so to speak.
  • SEAHORSES4EVER
    SEAHORSES4EVER Posts: 1,553 Member
    I'm sorry you're feeling that way.

    I'm terrible at advice but here goes..
    The great thing about all the questions you asked is that they are all things you can change or make better but also only questions you can answer. I guarantee there are many many people who feel the same as you, there always are.
  • Candy0516
    Candy0516 Posts: 399 Member
    Thanks for the words of wisdom
  • captainfantastic94
    captainfantastic94 Posts: 1,745 Member
    There is a good community here to talk with and gain support from
  • Candy0516
    Candy0516 Posts: 399 Member
    There is a good community here to talk with and gain support from

    I am glad of that
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    Candy, share.

    I've had a lot of support from friends and the mfp community over my continual unemployment and housing issue here in Toronto.
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  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    Candy, share.

    I've had a lot of support from friends and the mfp community over my continual unemployment and housing issue here in Toronto.

    ^^And he always has a comb handy if you need one

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  • Candy0516
    Candy0516 Posts: 399 Member
    I just feel like I'm stuck. My life, my career, same ole thing, different day. I love my job (nurse) but being a nurse, mom, wife, housekeeper. Is hard. I don't have any hobbies to let off steam. I'm trying to find ways to break the monotony of life.
  • Chase_The_Pain
    Chase_The_Pain Posts: 255 Member
    Candy0516 wrote: »
    I just feel like I'm stuck. My life, my career, same ole thing, different day. I love my job (nurse) but being a nurse, mom, wife, housekeeper. Is hard. I don't have any hobbies to let off steam. I'm trying to find ways to break the monotony of life.
    It's really nice when the other half helps out. It takes teamwork to make it happen and you can really feel overwhelmed when you are the host, while the other person is a parasite.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Candy0516 wrote: »
    I just feel like I'm stuck. My life, my career, same ole thing, different day. I love my job (nurse) but being a nurse, mom, wife, housekeeper. Is hard. I don't have any hobbies to let off steam. I'm trying to find ways to break the monotony of life.

    Any ideas on hobbies?

    Sometimes being surrounded by family can be exhausting.

    Maybe some kind of solo sport or activity?
  • LeGaCyGiAnT91
    LeGaCyGiAnT91 Posts: 405 Member
    Candy0516 wrote: »
    I just feel like I'm stuck. My life, my career, same ole thing, different day. I love my job (nurse) but being a nurse, mom, wife, housekeeper. Is hard. I don't have any hobbies to let off steam. I'm trying to find ways to break the monotony of life.

    Go buy a camera and experience mother nature. It does me (and many others good). Buy something with a motor... tear it apart, put it back together.
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  • Candy0516
    Candy0516 Posts: 399 Member
    Candy0516 wrote: »
    I just feel like I'm stuck. My life, my career, same ole thing, different day. I love my job (nurse) but being a nurse, mom, wife, housekeeper. Is hard. I don't have any hobbies to let off steam. I'm trying to find ways to break the monotony of life.

    thats what they call mid-life crisis isnt it?

    I guess you could say that