Scared to up Calorie intake - 196lbs/88.6kg

TLB86

Hey guys & gals

I know this will have been asked many'a times before but....

I've been advised that I need to UP my calorie intake for the amount of exercise I do a week.
I have been on a deficit for years now upping and lowering as and when I wish dependant on events & training.

I haven't ever been back to maintenance as I have been trying to lose more weight but failing due to slip ups or trying to lose quicker etc. I understand my weekends can be atrocious, which needs to stop but putting that a side my trainer has advised for me to eat around 2000 calories (from 1600-1700) but this seems so scary!!! Please note I do not eat any extra calories burned.

I know this may help me sort out my weekends a little as I can then still enjoy some free time but it frightens the life out of me that I might gain weight whilst trying it out.

Has anyone else around 196lbs/88.6kg and on high calories (inc working out 4x pw)?
Is 1700 calories really too low to lift weights & workout?

Any advice for this 'chunky miss 'wine' piggy that hasn't lost weight for a while' appreciated

firef1y72

I started at 289.5lb and lost my weight while eating 2000+ Calories a day. I've lifted 3x week throughout the last 18 months along with running, high intensity classes and PT sessions and if I didn't eat at that level I wouldn't have been able to fuel all the activity I love. And that's the important thing, to fuel the activity and now I'm maintaining I'm eating 3000+ Calories on some days.

While I know some people eat 1700 and do everything, I couldn't, I love my food too much. But if you're not losing weight at that level then there is most likely something off with your logging (or your weekends are negating any deficit during the week). It's entirely possible that by upping your base Calories you'll curb the desire to binge at the weekend. Try weighing and logging everything that passes your lips for a couple of weeks, including at weekends and then looking at what your average daily/weekly intake and deficit is. Once you accurately know where you are with what you're eating then you can look at tweaking how much you eat.

TLB86

Thanks for your input.

I started a few years ago at 220lbs losing 24lbs and since been maintaining majority of the time but now want to lose a little more. I always thought once I got to a UK14 I'd be where I want to be but now I look at myself and want to lose a little more tummy or tone up my arms more. We are just never happy.

Well I am happy, that's one thing I can admit! I am so much healthier mentally and love working out now. I have made friends for life at the gym and just love being me now, but again want to lose some more *kitten*.. well I actually like my *kitten* but you know what I mean

Yes I agree I need to log my weekends accurately even if it means looking back and feeling disgusted in myself! I will try my hardest this weekend to start logging them properly as I have nothing planned so it will be a good time to start. I am great at logging in the week but I guess just let myself down. You see I am a party girl and love a drink but I suppose I need to ask myself if that delicious melt in the mouth popping candy dairy milk is worth it! It doesn't help that my Mr eats what he wants!!!

I think I need to input some carbs into my lunches too as I am knackered all the time. I still workout the same but sometimes I just haven't the energy.

Sorry for the life storey... should of just given myself a kick up the *kitten* and said thanks lol xx

leggup

So you say you've been in a deficit, but your weekends are bad, but you're trying and failing to lose weight? Are you currently losing or not?

If you are currently losing, you're in a deficit. If you are not losing, you are averaging out to maintenance. It sounds like your training is saying that if you up your weekday calories, you might not go overboard on the weekends. It may help you to think of your calories as weekly calories.

As for, "Is 1,700 to low to lift weights and work out?" It depends on your goals and whether you are actually neting anywhere close to that. You can't build muscle in a calorie deficit, for example, so if your goal is to build muscle, you won't do it on that much, or even on 2,000 before subtracting out cardio.

kshama2001

TLB86 wrote: »

Hey guys & gals

I know this will have been asked many'a times before but....

I've been advised that I need to UP my calorie intake for the amount of exercise I do a week.
I have been on a deficit for years now upping and lowering as and when I wish dependant on events & training.

I haven't ever been back to maintenance as I have been trying to lose more weight but failing due to slip ups or trying to lose quicker etc. I understand my weekends can be atrocious, which needs to stop but putting that a side my trainer has advised for me to eat around 2000 calories (from 1600-1700) but this seems so scary!!! Please note I do not eat any extra calories burned.

I know this may help me sort out my weekends a little as I can then still enjoy some free time but it frightens the life out of me that I might gain weight whilst trying it out.

Has anyone else around 196lbs/88.6kg and on high calories (inc working out 4x pw)?
Is 1700 calories really too low to lift weights & workout?

Any advice for this 'chunky miss 'wine' piggy that hasn't lost weight for a while' appreciated

How tall are you? We need that for context.

I'm 5'6" - 1700 gross calories at @ 200 pounds while I'm active would be way too low, and could definitely contribute to binging on the weekend, which could easily result in no weight loss.

aeloine

Height will be pretty crucial.

I'm 5'7". Tried to cut down to 1,300/day but ended up eating over on the weekends and not losing for a couple of weeks. Upped it to 1,500/day and have started losing again, because I'm not going over on the weekends (more sustainable).

I'm also recovering from an injury, so am not exercising as much. Prior to that I lost about 35 pounds in roughly 3 months eating closer to 2,000/day.

shaunshaikh

You can lose weight on 2000 calories a day, period. I've had times in my life where I was losing a pound a day on 2,700 calories a day diet and I'm only 5'6". It just depends on how many calories you are burning with your exercise regimen. Michael Phelps ate 10,000 calories a day when preparing for the Olympics and he didn't look fat, did he?

TLB86

Thanks for all replies so far.

I am 5ft6.5 (that half matters lol) at 196lb. Workout below.

Yes I can be awful with weekends but with the amount of exercise I do I might I'd still lose. I've tallied all calories for the past week and divided between 7 and they work out to 1875 a day which is still a deficit.

My workout
Monday - Bootcamp 45min
TUES - HIIT 60min or rest day
WED - Compound weights workout 80min
Thurs - Compound weights workout 40min or run 40min and Spin 45min
FRI - Rest
SAT - Compound weights workout 80min and 20min cardio
Sun - Rest

1) I am not losing momentarily
2) My goal is to lose fat/weight. I have a belly on me still and slight wings so would like to reduce those.

I understand some people will think I'm just being retarded about what I'm doing and need a kick up the aris but I do work my *kitten* off! It's frustrating. YES YES I need to rein some weekends in but surely I'm not being THAT pathetic am I?

My trainer says you should be able to eat what you want as long as you put the work in. He does. So much out there and I just wanna start from scratch and lose another 7lb to start.

CharlieBeansmomTracey

TLB86 wrote: »

Thanks for all replies so far.

Yes I can be awful with weekends but with the amount of exercise I do I might I'd still lose. I've tallied all calories for the past week and divided between 7 and they work out to 1875 a day which is still a deficit.

My workout
Monday - Bootcamp 45min
TUES - HIIT 60min or rest day
WED - Compound weights workout 80min
Thurs - Compound weights workout 40min or run 40min and Spin 45min
FRI - Rest
SAT - Compound weights workout 80min and 20min cardio
Sun - Rest

1) I am not losing momentarily
2) My goal is to lose fat/weight. I have a belly on me still and slight wings so would like to reduce those.

I understand some people will think I'm just being retarded about what I'm doing and need a kick up the aris but I do work my *kitten* off! It's frustrating. YES YES I need to rein some weekends in but surely I'm not being THAT pathetic am I?

My trainer says you should be able to eat what you want as long as you put the work in. He does. So much out there and I just wanna start from scratch and lose another 7lb to start.

you can eat what you want, but you cant eat as much as you want when it comes to weight loss. to lose weight you need to be in a deficit. and why are you doing 2 days of compound weights back to back? as for belly and wings you cant spot reduce fat so it will come off when it wants where it wants. working your *kitten* off and overeating on weekends is probably whats causing you NOT to lose weight as it can kick you out of a deficit. especially if you dont weigh your food on a food scale and have no idea how much you are eating.

you cannot out train a bad diet IE:overeating and or bingeing-(not saying you do that). you also need to fuel your body and your workouts. If you have been in a deficit for years you need to take a diet break for a few weeks and eat at maintenance. you probably are seeing the effects of adaptive thermogenesis from being in a deficit so long.

bellaesprita000

I am 5ft4.5in and currently at 197. I've lost 15 lbs over the last 40+ days. I started out eating to lose 2 lbs a week (~1500 cals) and found that I wasn't eating enough to keep me satiated. Also my deficit was impacting my workouts. After my first 12lbs, I upped it to 1 lb a week (~1750 cals) and I feel much better now. I'm actually losing at the same rate (1.5-2lbs a week) and I'm staying on track through the weekend.

TLB86

CharlieBeansmomTracey wrote: »

TLB86 wrote: »

Thanks for all replies so far.

Yes I can be awful with weekends but with the amount of exercise I do I might I'd still lose. I've tallied all calories for the past week and divided between 7 and they work out to 1875 a day which is still a deficit.

My workout
Monday - Bootcamp 45min
TUES - HIIT 60min or rest day
WED - Compound weights workout 80min
Thurs - Compound weights workout 40min or run 40min and Spin 45min
FRI - Rest
SAT - Compound weights workout 80min and 20min cardio
Sun - Rest

1) I am not losing momentarily
2) My goal is to lose fat/weight. I have a belly on me still and slight wings so would like to reduce those.

I understand some people will think I'm just being retarded about what I'm doing and need a kick up the aris but I do work my *kitten* off! It's frustrating. YES YES I need to rein some weekends in but surely I'm not being THAT pathetic am I?

My trainer says you should be able to eat what you want as long as you put the work in. He does. So much out there and I just wanna start from scratch and lose another 7lb to start.

you can eat what you want, but you cant eat as much as you want when it comes to weight loss. to lose weight you need to be in a deficit. and why are you doing 2 days of compound weights back to back? as for belly and wings you cant spot reduce fat so it will come off when it wants where it wants. working your *kitten* off and overeating on weekends is probably whats causing you NOT to lose weight as it can kick you out of a deficit. especially if you dont weigh your food on a food scale and have no idea how much you are eating.

you cannot out train a bad diet IE:overeating and or bingeing-(not saying you do that). you also need to fuel your body and your workouts. If you have been in a deficit for years you need to take a diet break for a few weeks and eat at maintenance. you probably are seeing the effects of adaptive thermogenesis from being in a deficit so long.

I don't necessarily binge (I no you wasn't implying that) but I can tend to eat the wrong foods at weekends especially as my Mr doesn't diet or train. It's hard seeing him eat a bar of chocolate whilst I miss out, which I know is losing focus on what I want.

It'd be nice to know what calories to start a fresh on including workout calories. I don't like this add them separately as I do my use a fitbit etc.

Oh I understand too that you can't spot point where to lose weight I just meant if one to lose my stomach so assume I have to lose more weight to help with it.

As for my workout, I work flat out and the b2b compound is because I can't get it in another day. Unless I rest Wed and change it to Tues. I love my classes you see so try and fit weights around that. I've only been lifting heavier for the past month.

I know I frustrate you guys because I frustrate myself. I've just lost sight of calories. Sorry, I'm an awesome person really lol x

ritzvin

TLB86 wrote: »

Hey guys & gals

I know this will have been asked many'a times before but....

I've been advised that I need to UP my calorie intake for the amount of exercise I do a week.
I have been on a deficit for years now upping and lowering as and when I wish dependant on events & training.

I haven't ever been back to maintenance as I have been trying to lose more weight but failing due to slip ups or trying to lose quicker etc. I understand my weekends can be atrocious, which needs to stop but putting that a side my trainer has advised for me to eat around 2000 calories (from 1600-1700) but this seems so scary!!! Please note I do not eat any extra calories burned.

I know this may help me sort out my weekends a little as I can then still enjoy some free time but it frightens the life out of me that I might gain weight whilst trying it out.

Has anyone else around 196lbs/88.6kg and on high calories (inc working out 4x pw)?
Is 1700 calories really too low to lift weights & workout?

Any advice for this 'chunky miss 'wine' piggy that hasn't lost weight for a while' appreciated

If you have been logging consistently for a few months, then your best bet is to throw the weight data and calories into a spreadsheet, and compare the ~1 month or so weight change to the average daily calories (use net calories if your exercise amount has changed) and calculate your maintenance. Then deduct off a reasonable deficit for how much weight you have left to lose.

Otherwise, check the estimate that MFP gives you for maintenance for your stats, add your average daily exercise burn, and deduct off a reasonable deficit.

ritzvin

TLB86 wrote: »

Yes I agree I need to log my weekends accurately even if it means looking back and feeling disgusted in myself! I will try my hardest this weekend to start logging them properly as I have nothing planned so it will be a good time to start. I am great at logging in the week but I guess just let myself down. You see I am a party girl and love a drink but I suppose I need to ask myself if that delicious melt in the mouth popping candy dairy milk is worth it! It doesn't help that my Mr eats what he wants!!!

this... you may find that once you take the weekend into consideration, you are indeed consuming more than 2000 calories daily on average. (Junk food and drinks can add up FAST). You may opt to keep your goals at the lower 1600-1700ish during the week if you want to have that stuff on the weekend (assuming you are not binging on the weekend because you're depriving yourself during the week).

sky_northern

TLB86 wrote: »

I don't necessarily binge (I no you wasn't implying that) but I can tend to eat the wrong foods at weekends especially as my Mr doesn't diet or train. It's hard seeing him eat a bar of chocolate whilst I miss out, which I know is losing focus on what I want.

You can eat a chocolate bar and still lose weight as long as you are still in a calorie deficit. Stick to a number and accurately and honestly track the calories for a while, allow 'indulgences' within your calorie budget but don't go over the calorie budget. If you are still not losing after 4-6 weeks at that calorie then you can adjust down again. But be honest with your tracking, especially on weekends when many of us are more lax.

I don't like adding my workout calories as I go like the fitbit adjustments does. I like planning food the day before so I can pack my lunch, etc. So I've un-linked my tracker. I use what my tracker says is an average weekly burn and divide that by 7 and set that as my MFP goal. I adjust as I go if I don't see the results I want over a time (I track my weight daily and use Trendweight, which uses a 4 week trend).

dwilliamca

Why don't you leave your numbers where they are and slowly start eating back the calories you earn during exercise? Just a couple hundred calories rich in protein each day for a week should show you if you really need the calories or not. Personally I don't think it is healthy to workout that hard and not replenish your body with at least some of the calories.

SueSueDio

ritzvin wrote: »

TLB86 wrote: »

Yes I agree I need to log my weekends accurately even if it means looking back and feeling disgusted in myself! I will try my hardest this weekend to start logging them properly as I have nothing planned so it will be a good time to start. I am great at logging in the week but I guess just let myself down. You see I am a party girl and love a drink but I suppose I need to ask myself if that delicious melt in the mouth popping candy dairy milk is worth it! It doesn't help that my Mr eats what he wants!!!

this... you may find that once you take the weekend into consideration, you are indeed consuming more than 2000 calories daily on average. (Junk food and drinks can add up FAST). You may opt to keep your goals at the lower 1600-1700ish during the week if you want to have that stuff on the weekend (assuming you are not binging on the weekend because you're depriving yourself during the week).

OP, if you "love a drink" and haven't been logging your weekend intake, you might well be wiping out your weekly deficit.

For help with figuring out the calories of your favourites, try this site:

http://getdrunknotfat.com/

Drinking might also affect your food choices over the weekend, and you might be either eating more than you think or making poorer choices than you otherwise would, so keep that in mind too. If you can try to log your next few weekends as accurately as possible, that will give you some more data to work with and might help you see where the problem is. (You don't necessarily need to give up drinking, but you may need to cut back a bit or make some different choices if you want to lose weight.)

And yeah, I know it's hard to see someone else eating whatever they like when you're trying to lose weight! I console myself with a smaller amount of dark chocolate when my hubby is eating his own chocolate or chips, and that helps a bit. I've just had to try and overcome the "it's not fair!" mentality that I used to have.

CharlieBeansmomTracey

TLB86 wrote: »

CharlieBeansmomTracey wrote: »

TLB86 wrote: »

Thanks for all replies so far.

Yes I can be awful with weekends but with the amount of exercise I do I might I'd still lose. I've tallied all calories for the past week and divided between 7 and they work out to 1875 a day which is still a deficit.

My workout
Monday - Bootcamp 45min
TUES - HIIT 60min or rest day
WED - Compound weights workout 80min
Thurs - Compound weights workout 40min or run 40min and Spin 45min
FRI - Rest
SAT - Compound weights workout 80min and 20min cardio
Sun - Rest

1) I am not losing momentarily
2) My goal is to lose fat/weight. I have a belly on me still and slight wings so would like to reduce those.

I understand some people will think I'm just being retarded about what I'm doing and need a kick up the aris but I do work my *kitten* off! It's frustrating. YES YES I need to rein some weekends in but surely I'm not being THAT pathetic am I?

My trainer says you should be able to eat what you want as long as you put the work in. He does. So much out there and I just wanna start from scratch and lose another 7lb to start.

you can eat what you want, but you cant eat as much as you want when it comes to weight loss. to lose weight you need to be in a deficit. and why are you doing 2 days of compound weights back to back? as for belly and wings you cant spot reduce fat so it will come off when it wants where it wants. working your *kitten* off and overeating on weekends is probably whats causing you NOT to lose weight as it can kick you out of a deficit. especially if you dont weigh your food on a food scale and have no idea how much you are eating.

you cannot out train a bad diet IE:overeating and or bingeing-(not saying you do that). you also need to fuel your body and your workouts. If you have been in a deficit for years you need to take a diet break for a few weeks and eat at maintenance. you probably are seeing the effects of adaptive thermogenesis from being in a deficit so long.

I don't necessarily binge (I no you wasn't implying that) but I can tend to eat the wrong foods at weekends especially as my Mr doesn't diet or train. It's hard seeing him eat a bar of chocolate whilst I miss out, which I know is losing focus on what I want.

It'd be nice to know what calories to start a fresh on including workout calories. I don't like this add them separately as I do my use a fitbit etc.

Oh I understand too that you can't spot point where to lose weight I just meant if one to lose my stomach so assume I have to lose more weight to help with it.

As for my workout, I work flat out and the b2b compound is because I can't get it in another day. Unless I rest Wed and change it to Tues. I love my classes you see so try and fit weights around that. I've only been lifting heavier for the past month.

I know I frustrate you guys because I frustrate myself. I've just lost sight of calories. Sorry, I'm an awesome person really lol x

I eat candy or chocolate often,I just make it fit my calorie goal. there are NO wrong foods. food is food. some just have better nutrient profiles than others.

maggibailey

Upping your calories will work as long as it means you are controlling your weekends too. Upping your calories during the week and continuing to go over on the weekends won't help at all. The guess is that you are out eating (or drinking). Your week day deficit on the weekends. So if you want to continue to do that you would have to further drop your weekday calories to make up for it. It doesn't sound to me like you are super hungry on the weekend and that is why you consume more so it doesn't seem like an issue of your deficit being too much.

brznhabits

I'm 5'4, 5 lbs heavier and probably a decade older than you. I lose on 1800 without weight lifting. So yes the increase should be fine!

But you have to stay within the margin all week so weekends (just like any other day) can make or break your goals.

Kittypickle

I'm late 40's, 184lbs and 5 ft 6, about 80lbs down. My weekends can be a bit ropey but I always log what I eat so I know where I'm at. I was until the summer on 1000 cal a day average (I work it out over the week) and used to eat about 1600 cals give or take a 100 cals either way.

Took up jogging and find that I have had to up my calories so on about 2000 - 2100 cals a day and average a pound a week though lose it in chunks the last couple of months rather than consistently as used to do.

You can relax at weekends just know where you are at.

TLB86

Thank you everyone. I just feel like a bit of a 'wet lettuce' at the moment.

Everyone keeps telling me I look good and don't need to lose any more but the loss happened a couple of years ago and I so feel pathetic. I sit here now with a bloated gut making me feel conscious! I thought a UK 14 was the size I wanted to be until I got down to it. My waist is fine it's just my belly and hips!! Again I know we can't pin point hence why I think more weight loss will help.

I know this is all MY fault, MY responsibility and My battle. I don't mean to come across feeling sorry for myself asking for a magic pill as I know everything in life comes with it's own challenge. I've battled a few

My weekly log is pretty much spot on, I use food scales, don't drink (nor crave it) and swap what ever sweets my Mr is eating for nuts or yogurt, which I enjoy.

Starting this weekend I will log EVERYTHING I eat & drink! I don't binge like I say I just perhaps the wrong types of food, too much of it and unaware of the calories. Like a pathetic Mcdonalds floppy cheeseburger that fills a gap til dinner but at a cost of 300 calories!!

I've just taken a look back at my diaries and honestly can see that 80% of my weekends aren't logged. The couple that are round up to 2100 - 2200 calories daily on average over the week. HELLO DESTROYER! HELLO SOLUTION!

Also I have worked out calories required from http://scoobysworkshop.com/calorie-calculator/ using 3-5hrs moderate exercise, which I think my routine above is. Would you agree?
Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR) - 1672
Daily calories to maintain weight (TDEE) - 2592
Daily calories based on goal in step 6 (20% calorie reduction) - 2073

Sorry for the long responses, I just feel this is the only place people can relate as colleagues aren't into working out and friends think 'I'm fine!' xx

sky_northern

TLB86 wrote: »

Thank you everyone. I just feel like a bit of a 'wet lettuce' at the moment.

Everyone keeps telling me I look good and don't need to lose any more but the loss happened a couple of years ago and I so feel pathetic. I sit here now with a bloated gut making me feel conscious! I thought a UK 14 was the size I wanted to be until I got down to it. My waist is fine it's just my belly and hips!! Again I know we can't pin point hence why I think more weight loss will help.

I know this is all MY fault, MY responsibility and My battle. I don't mean to come across feeling sorry for myself asking for a magic pill as I know everything in life comes with it's own challenge. I've battled a few

My weekly log is pretty much spot on, I use food scales, don't drink (nor crave it) and swap what ever sweets my Mr is eating for nuts or yogurt, which I enjoy.

Starting this weekend I will log EVERYTHING I eat & drink! I don't binge like I say I just perhaps the wrong types of food, too much of it and unaware of the calories. Like a pathetic Mcdonalds floppy cheeseburger that fills a gap til dinner but at a cost of 300 calories!!

I've just taken a look back at my diaries and honestly can see that 80% of my weekends aren't logged. The couple that are round up to 2100 - 2200 calories daily on average over the week. HELLO DESTROYER! HELLO SOLUTION!

Also I have worked out calories required from http://scoobysworkshop.com/calorie-calculator/ using 3-5hrs moderate exercise, which I think my routine above is. Would you agree?
Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR) - 1672
Daily calories to maintain weight (TDEE) - 2592
Daily calories based on goal in step 6 (20% calorie reduction) - 2073

Sorry for the long responses, I just feel this is the only place people can relate as colleagues aren't into working out and friends think 'I'm fine!' xx

The un-tracked weekends can be an issue. Don't beat yourself up about what you eat, as long as it satisfies you. I fit chocolate and ice cream into my week, but log it.
I think around 2000 calories is a totally reasonable calorie goal, and gives you lots of room for nuts and chocolate. Just honestly track (including weekends) at that goal and see how it goes!

kshama2001

I eat chocolate every day. However, I no longer have chocolate bars - the ones I liked were 480 calories a bar and it's hard for me to not finish a bar once I open it.

Now I have a Ghirardelli squares for 70 calories or 8 grams of Ghirardelli semi-sweet chocolate chips for 37 calories. I eat these v e r y s l o w l y.

I still have pizza, but I have less pizza and more salad.

Etc.

TLB86

I thank everyone for their responses and for not getting too frustrated with me :-)

ZoneFive

Commenters won't get frustrated if it seems like the OP is actually reading comments and taking them seriously. It's the "no no you don't understand, it's different for me" woo-believers who think that biophysics doesn't apply to them that bring the frustration on these boards.

Nobody likes having their beliefs or routines challenged, but that's how you learn and change. Best of luck to you!

not_a_runner

As others have mentioned, there's really no reason to be scared to eat "more", when you're not really eating at 1600-1700 calories anyhow..

I'm very similar to you OP, I started at 215 lbs (5'1''), lift a few days a week, and usually kept my calories around 2000 to lose a pound per week. I've been around 180 lbs for a while now and would like to lose more, but I'm currently taking an extended maintenance break.
My weight has gone up and down a lot, and I'm constantly dieting, just to go off the rails and gain the weight back quickly. (I actually was down to 135 lbs a few years ago dieting very aggressively, and I gained all of that weight back plus another 20 lbs.. leading to my heaviest of 215.)
What's been helping me is to focus on a realistic/long term way of eating for me to maintain my weight, even if it means staying at a weight higher than I'd like for now. It's not worth dieting again and again if I just keep gaining it right back. After I have a good handle on maintenance at this weight, I plan to do a moderate cut (maybe 10 lbs) and then take an extended period of maintenance again. (I'm currently eating over 2800 cals per day and weight stable btw)

I can't say this is necessarily going to work for me long term, or be right for you. Maybe it sounds like "woo".. But I do know that this approach feels like the best way I've gone about it yet. I had to break that cycle of constantly dieting/over eating. I hope you find an approach that works for you!

TLB86

OK so these were my past 2 statuses and I'm feeling pretty positive about the change.

*OK so it's a slow start at controlling my weekends. I didn't have any wine this evening and had chicken kebab for dinner but NO CHIPS! My stomach was eating 'hey where's my chips' but my head was saying 'did you die?'

*So Saturdays logging was also a success! I didn't eliminate alcohol or chocolate and managed to stay under my calories. Deffo liking this one day at a time malarkey. Let's see what today brings! Let's smash it peeps ♥

I understand that it's takes time, patience and hard work to get what we want but I have every intention of doing this. I also understand there might not be a loss after just one good weekend/week!

I've even asked my Mr to move date night on the tiles to a couple of weeks away just so I can gain control of this and see if it's working. We've not been on the tiles since forever but he understands and the tiles will still be waiting to be abused another night lol.

tess5036

That's exactly how I got control of my calories, small changes and one day at a time!

lynn_glenmont

TLB86 wrote: »

OK so these were my past 2 statuses and I'm feeling pretty positive about the change.

*OK so it's a slow start at controlling my weekends. I didn't have any wine this evening and had chicken kebab for dinner but NO CHIPS! My stomach was eating 'hey where's my chips' but my head was saying 'did you die?'

*So Saturdays logging was also a success! I didn't eliminate alcohol or chocolate and managed to stay under my calories. Deffo liking this one day at a time malarkey. Let's see what today brings! Let's smash it peeps ♥

I understand that it's takes time, patience and hard work to get what we want but I have every intention of doing this. I also understand there might not be a loss after just one good weekend/week!

I've even asked my Mr to move date night on the tiles to a couple of weeks away just so I can gain control of this and see if it's working. We've not been on the tiles since forever but he understands and the tiles will still be waiting to be abused another night lol.

"The tiles"?
Is this a U.K. expression? What does it mean?