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Sexting?cheating?
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TeinyWinehausen wrote: »ChiChiDoesStuff wrote: »TeinyWinehausen wrote: »ChiChiDoesStuff wrote: »ChiChiDoesStuff wrote: »ChiChiDoesStuff wrote: »ChiChiDoesStuff wrote: »I have to agree with most everyone else it depends on your relationship. I have some friends who are poly and it works for them, but my bf consider setting other people beyond what we're comfortable with.
* sexting
Sorry for the millions of typos
I'm willing to let you lick me @ChiChiDoesStuff
I'll lick you you too....
Ummm...no thanks...
Like I said committed relationship, that isn't poly...
Oh....that got awkward...sorry hun
At least you apologize. Earlier there was this dude who wouldn't let me or anyone alone. He couldn't catch a single clue. So it's nice that someone is willing to apologize when they go to far.
Depends how you interpret that comment though..your 'too far' isto me 'that guy's joking'.
I'm choosing to believe the best in people. Lol. If I didn't do that sometimes I would crumble into a puddle of lost hope.
Ok. Puddle of lost hope
Probably best to take comments with a grain of salt when choosing to participate in Chit Chat and Fun & Games threads.
Yeah I learned that. Lol. Then again most things on the internet ,I've learned, should be taken with a grain of salt.1 -
Will_Run_4_Food wrote: »TeinyWinehausen wrote: »ChiChiDoesStuff wrote: »TeinyWinehausen wrote: »ChiChiDoesStuff wrote: »ChiChiDoesStuff wrote: »ChiChiDoesStuff wrote: »ChiChiDoesStuff wrote: »I have to agree with most everyone else it depends on your relationship. I have some friends who are poly and it works for them, but my bf consider setting other people beyond what we're comfortable with.
* sexting
Sorry for the millions of typos
I'm willing to let you lick me @ChiChiDoesStuff
I'll lick you you too....
Ummm...no thanks...
Like I said committed relationship, that isn't poly...
Oh....that got awkward...sorry hun
At least you apologize. Earlier there was this dude who wouldn't let me or anyone alone. He couldn't catch a single clue. So it's nice that someone is willing to apologize when they go to far.
Depends how you interpret that comment though..your 'too far' isto me 'that guy's joking'.
I'm choosing to believe the best in people. Lol. If I didn't do that sometimes I would crumble into a puddle of lost hope.
Ok. Puddle of lost hope Probably best to take comments with a grain of salt when choosing to participate in Chit Chat and Fun & Games threads.
How you doin?
Great after you told off that lady who was being rude earlier.1 -
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TeinyWinehausen wrote: »and avoid @Will_Run_4_Food..the guy's a sexting maniac..he uses emoticons in ways that'll make you hella thursty!
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ChiChiDoesStuff wrote: »TeinyWinehausen wrote: »and avoid @Will_Run_4_Food..the guy's a sexting maniac..he uses emoticons in ways that'll make you hella thursty!
*becomes a deeper puddle*
Willing to show you my deeper **kitten**
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Will_Run_4_Food wrote: »
Your disgust and disdain for anyone that doesn't live under whatever belief system you have makes you a not very nice person. Have some tolerance and respect for others that are different from you. It will improve your stress level and overall health. Thread after thread you cut people down. That's not cool.
This is very well said. There have been several threads like this, asking the same question but in a different form of words. Each time, we see people split into the predictable camps; either it's not a problem or there's a harsh judgment against it.
I'm okay with people disagreeing. If we all had the same opinion, the forum wouldn't be all that interesting. Being disrespectful should never be acceptable. I feel sad for people who are always cutting down others. It says a lot about their inability to find joy within themselves.
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I think some people associate Flirting with the other and they are nothing in comparison2
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GlassAngyl wrote: »Sexting is lusting after another person. It's verbalizing what you're desires are for them. It's cheating. I don't care if the are poly or swingers.. it's disgusting to not remain committed to one person.
I find other people, who don't know me at all, judging me and forcing their own belief systems on me disgusting. If my wife and I chose to live a certain way, and we choose to engage with other consenting adults who live a similar lifestyle, the who are you to call it disgusting?9 -
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GlassAngyl wrote: »Sexting is lusting after another person. It's verbalizing what you're desires are for them. It's cheating. I don't care if the are poly or swingers.. it's disgusting to not remain committed to one person.
I find other people, who don't know me at all, judging me and forcing their own belief systems on me disgusting. If my wife and I chose to live a certain way, and we choose to engage with other consenting adults who live a similar lifestyle, the who are you to call it disgusting?
Well said...I do think that it is up to all parties concerned to define "cheating" "sexting"...whatever. As long as everyone is honest with themselves and honest with each other...that is the main point. It is only hurtful or disgusting (to me) when people lie about intentions, etc. At what point does flirting become sexting? At what point does any of it become cheating? Depends on each persons definition. And to simply say "it's disgusting" or whatever without caveats...to me, seems rather narrow minded...but they have every right to their opinion...Just as I do2 -
why don't you ask your partner?2
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Oh great...we are doing this again this week. Nice. It had been a while since we judged people and called them disgusting for being different from us.3
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"Cheating" means breaking a set of rules, so this is going to be 100% dependent on the rules you and your partner(s) agree on. Unless it's with your partner, I think that's pretty safely not cheating in everyone's book.
If you're not comfortable asking your partner if it's okay for you to sext with other people, my guess is that you already know they wouldn't be comfortable with that, but that's conjecture on my part.
If you feel the need to judge other people's relationships that don't have anything to do with you and don't hurt anyone (e.g. poly people or swingers), then you should probably spend some time thinking about why you care enough to call them "disgusting" and make other judgements on the internet. You may have a personal issue you haven't addressed, or you may just need a hobby. Mind your own.0 -
sexting isnt cheating. there, i said it. get over it - Look, there's a puppy~
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GlassAngyl wrote: »Sexting is lusting after another person. It's verbalizing what you're desires are for them. It's cheating. I don't care if the are poly or swingers.. it's disgusting to not remain committed to one person.
As a person who is married and polyamorous, I hear this alot. Lots of judgment, lots of misunderstanding, and a lot of hatred. I'm sorry you feel that the way my wife and I are happiest in life is disgusting. I have nothing but love for you, internet stranger.
As for OP, talk to your partner, make clear boundaries and stay within them, and most importantly always be honest. Every relationship is different. This is an impossible question to answer.4 -
GlassAngyl wrote: »it's disgusting to not remain committed to one person.
Hmm. My fiance and I partake in form of the swinger lifestyle. We are very committed to one another. So I am confused as to whether I am disgusting or not to you, would you mind clarifying?
On the other hand, don't. Because I have neither the time nor the inclination to worry about the opinions of close minded fools.2 -
Howdywtf251 wrote: »Is sexting cheating?
Yes. You wouldn’t want to catch the person you love expressing the same affection they show to you to someone else. You should be their reason they feel wanted in every way. If not they were never the one. Vice versa. Now a simple flirty comment here and there that’s human nature as long as you set limits.0 -
I do agree with most of these posts! If u have talked with your partner and u two together made the decision to allow that in ur relationship, then no it’s not! People have open relationships all the time and it works! With that said, someone said it good! If it’s something u need to hide from your partner it’s cheating. No it may not be the physical act but ur still emotionally cheating! It’s kind of allowing that door for other things to happen to be open. IMO! And there is a reason for it! Ur doing it for a reason! If it wasn’t cheating then u wouldn’t need to hide it. Just try and put urself in the others shoes, how would u feel if that was being hid from u! Would u consider them cheating on u? Or would u be ok with it just because it’s sexting!? Really depends on the couple because every relationship is different! And because of that, it’s not fair to judge or assume when u don’t know what goes on behind closed doors! Just do what’s best for u in ur relationship and if u feel bad for it or think u shouldn’t do it and have doubt, then don’t because it’s probably cheating if u feel that way! And if u wanna be able to do that then talk to ur partner about it.0
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I do agree with most of these posts! If u have talked with your partner and u two together made the decision to allow that in ur relationship, then no it’s not! People have open relationships all the time and it works! With that said, someone said it good! If it’s something u need to hide from your partner it’s cheating. No it may not be the physical act but ur still emotionally cheating! It’s kind of allowing that door for other things to happen to be open. IMO! And there is a reason for it! Ur doing it for a reason! If it wasn’t cheating then u wouldn’t need to hide it. Just try and put urself in the others shoes, how would u feel if that was being hid from u! Would u consider them cheating on u? Or would u be ok with it just because it’s sexting!? Really depends on the couple because every relationship is different! And because of that, it’s not fair to judge or assume when u don’t know what goes on behind closed doors! Just do what’s best for u in ur relationship and if u feel bad for it or think u shouldn’t do it and have doubt, then don’t because it’s probably cheating if u feel that way! And if u wanna be able to do that then talk to ur partner about it.
So many exclamation points! You must sext a lot
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happimess01 wrote: »I do agree with most of these posts! If u have talked with your partner and u two together made the decision to allow that in ur relationship, then no it’s not! People have open relationships all the time and it works! With that said, someone said it good! If it’s something u need to hide from your partner it’s cheating. No it may not be the physical act but ur still emotionally cheating! It’s kind of allowing that door for other things to happen to be open. IMO! And there is a reason for it! Ur doing it for a reason! If it wasn’t cheating then u wouldn’t need to hide it. Just try and put urself in the others shoes, how would u feel if that was being hid from u! Would u consider them cheating on u? Or would u be ok with it just because it’s sexting!? Really depends on the couple because every relationship is different! And because of that, it’s not fair to judge or assume when u don’t know what goes on behind closed doors! Just do what’s best for u in ur relationship and if u feel bad for it or think u shouldn’t do it and have doubt, then don’t because it’s probably cheating if u feel that way! And if u wanna be able to do that then talk to ur partner about it.
So many exclamation points! You must sext a lot
Ur dumb 😂😂 but u must if ur pointing that out!
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happimess01 wrote: »I do agree with most of these posts! If u have talked with your partner and u two together made the decision to allow that in ur relationship, then no it’s not! People have open relationships all the time and it works! With that said, someone said it good! If it’s something u need to hide from your partner it’s cheating. No it may not be the physical act but ur still emotionally cheating! It’s kind of allowing that door for other things to happen to be open. IMO! And there is a reason for it! Ur doing it for a reason! If it wasn’t cheating then u wouldn’t need to hide it. Just try and put urself in the others shoes, how would u feel if that was being hid from u! Would u consider them cheating on u? Or would u be ok with it just because it’s sexting!? Really depends on the couple because every relationship is different! And because of that, it’s not fair to judge or assume when u don’t know what goes on behind closed doors! Just do what’s best for u in ur relationship and if u feel bad for it or think u shouldn’t do it and have doubt, then don’t because it’s probably cheating if u feel that way! And if u wanna be able to do that then talk to ur partner about it.
So many exclamation points! You must sext a lot
Ur dumb 😂😂 but u must if ur pointing that out!
Round the clock. Last week, I returned the oversized phone i got as a gift because I can’t type fast enough on it with one hand lol0 -
happimess01 wrote: »happimess01 wrote: »I do agree with most of these posts! If u have talked with your partner and u two together made the decision to allow that in ur relationship, then no it’s not! People have open relationships all the time and it works! With that said, someone said it good! If it’s something u need to hide from your partner it’s cheating. No it may not be the physical act but ur still emotionally cheating! It’s kind of allowing that door for other things to happen to be open. IMO! And there is a reason for it! Ur doing it for a reason! If it wasn’t cheating then u wouldn’t need to hide it. Just try and put urself in the others shoes, how would u feel if that was being hid from u! Would u consider them cheating on u? Or would u be ok with it just because it’s sexting!? Really depends on the couple because every relationship is different! And because of that, it’s not fair to judge or assume when u don’t know what goes on behind closed doors! Just do what’s best for u in ur relationship and if u feel bad for it or think u shouldn’t do it and have doubt, then don’t because it’s probably cheating if u feel that way! And if u wanna be able to do that then talk to ur partner about it.
So many exclamation points! You must sext a lot
Ur dumb 😂😂 but u must if ur pointing that out!
Round the clock. Last week, I returned the oversized phone i got as a gift because I can’t type fast enough on it with one hand lol
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I sext with @slimgirljo15 all the time. My wife, @eatpolerepeat is fine with it. In fact, she likes it when I send her screenshots of mine and Jo's conversations.TMI?
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eatpolerepeat wrote: »Yes, it's cheating. And @PaperDoll_ I want a divorce 😕
Sorry, divorce denied! 😝1 -
I think so0
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happimess01 wrote: »happimess01 wrote: »I do agree with most of these posts! If u have talked with your partner and u two together made the decision to allow that in ur relationship, then no it’s not! People have open relationships all the time and it works! With that said, someone said it good! If it’s something u need to hide from your partner it’s cheating. No it may not be the physical act but ur still emotionally cheating! It’s kind of allowing that door for other things to happen to be open. IMO! And there is a reason for it! Ur doing it for a reason! If it wasn’t cheating then u wouldn’t need to hide it. Just try and put urself in the others shoes, how would u feel if that was being hid from u! Would u consider them cheating on u? Or would u be ok with it just because it’s sexting!? Really depends on the couple because every relationship is different! And because of that, it’s not fair to judge or assume when u don’t know what goes on behind closed doors! Just do what’s best for u in ur relationship and if u feel bad for it or think u shouldn’t do it and have doubt, then don’t because it’s probably cheating if u feel that way! And if u wanna be able to do that then talk to ur partner about it.
So many exclamation points! You must sext a lot
Ur dumb 😂😂 but u must if ur pointing that out!
Round the clock. Last week, I returned the oversized phone i got as a gift because I can’t type fast enough on it with one hand lol
Bad boy! 😹😈0 -
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