My girlfriend refuses to eat with me

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  • NumbrsNerd
    NumbrsNerd Posts: 202 Member
    I work a hard job sometimes up to 16 hours a day on a oil rig without lunch most days.
    It is very hard work and at the end of the day all I want to do is come home and have dinner with my girlfriend

    But lately she has been refusing and sometimes even goes to the other room!

    What can I do to convince her to spend some time and eat a meal with me?



    That is NOT a good sign. It must be about more than food.

    Threaten to break up with her by saying that her new boyfriend would be fine with her not eating with him. That'll work, right?

    :laugh: :flowerforyou:
  • TheEffort
    TheEffort Posts: 1,028 Member
    I think you've got bigger issues...then again it could be your eating habits, your hygiene, maybe she doesn't like you talking with your mouth full.

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  • PheonixRizing
    PheonixRizing Posts: 131 Member
    She's a ____ dump her sorry ___! How dare she!

    Um that's a little extreme. There might be legitimate things that are bothering her. Try communicating before ending a relationship.
  • HealthyBodySickMind
    HealthyBodySickMind Posts: 1,207 Member
    Truly on days like this the forums are a complete and total waste of time!

    lighten up francis. no one told you to click the link

    They are an amusing waste of time.
  • Iron_Lotus
    Iron_Lotus Posts: 2,295 Member
    She's a ____ dump her sorry ___! How dare she!

    Um that's a little extreme. There might be legitimate things that are bothering her. Try communicating before ending a relationship.

    LMAO!
  • sa11yjane
    sa11yjane Posts: 491 Member
    You requested 2 things in your last sentence: why won't she spend time with me, why won't she eat a meal with me but put them in one sentence.

    Maybe the meal or rather the food is an issue for some reason.......maybe focus on the spending time together first and work on the meals later. Maybe a cuddle on the sofa after you have eaten? A walk together after you have eaten? Snuggling up to watch a film?

    Is there a possibility that she has an eating disorder? Just a thought- maybe she could have a chat with her doctor.

    Do hope you can resolve things x
  • nikamar
    nikamar Posts: 83 Member
    is that a Moon moon shirt?

    that may be the source of your trouble son.

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  • corgicake
    corgicake Posts: 846 Member
    This is priceless. IN.

    *lays on back with toddler-sized popcorn tub resting on the belly of a prehistoric fertility figure, looking over to the side to watch*







    For those who haven't seen it, the supposed girlfriend made another thread.
  • tomomatic
    tomomatic Posts: 1,794 Member
    I work a hard job sometimes up to 16 hours a day on a oil rig without lunch most days.
    It is very hard work and at the end of the day all I want to do is come home and have dinner with my girlfriend

    But lately she has been refusing and sometimes even goes to the other room!

    What can I do to convince her to spend some time and eat a meal with me?
    That is NOT a good sign. It must be about more than food.

    Maybe I should keep her in line, got any pointers?

    These kinds of things need coaching.
    Tell her that it's bread, mustard, lettuce, meat, cheese, then bread with a dill pickle on the side. Then tell her to get back in the kitchen and do it right.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    I work a hard job sometimes up to 16 hours a day on a oil rig without lunch most days.
    It is very hard work and at the end of the day all I want to do is come home and have dinner with my girlfriend

    But lately she has been refusing and sometimes even goes to the other room!

    What can I do to convince her to spend some time and eat a meal with me?
    That is NOT a good sign. It must be about more than food.

    Maybe I should keep her in line, got any pointers?

    :laugh:
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