Coming home from work is the worst...
last_jennifer
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Breakfast calories.....perfect
Lunch calories......awesome
Dinner.....diseaster
Snacks.....never feel the urge to eat anything before bed
I am tired of losing will power on the way home to work and while I am making supper for my family. If I can find the strength during that block of time, the scale would be actually moving down and I would not feel like such a loser for not having better self control.
Is dinner time tricky for you?
Lunch calories......awesome
Dinner.....diseaster
Snacks.....never feel the urge to eat anything before bed
I am tired of losing will power on the way home to work and while I am making supper for my family. If I can find the strength during that block of time, the scale would be actually moving down and I would not feel like such a loser for not having better self control.
Is dinner time tricky for you?
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Yes, I do great in the early parts of the day but when I get home from work as soon as I start eating my appetite decides I need massive portions, or if I don't have massive portions I'll end up going for the snacks afterwards.
I'm a server in a restaurant so I'm constantly moving at work but still, not enough to allow this amount of food to keep me in a deficit.1 -
I'm not sure I understand how dinner is any different than any other meal. We pretty much know in advance what we're having for dinner throughout the week which is how we plan our grocery shopping...we make dinner...we eat dinner...just like we make breakfast and lunch and eat those.
I guess I don't get it...11 -
I plan all my meals in advance, and prepare/eat what I've planned....7
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What if you bumped a snack in there around 3? Then maybe by dinner time you wouldn’t feel as hungry.
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I am so glad , you all have strength and will power , good for you guys. I shouldn't have posted this post . Now I feel beyond stupid.8
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I usually have a plan for dinner (in my head, not normally anywhere else) and prepare it, and may modify based on the calories I want. I'm not sure why dinner is hard -- are you snacking while preparing dinner, deciding to prepare high calorie foods, or having issues with portion control? The solution might depend on what specifically is the issue.1
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cwolfman13 wrote: »I'm not sure I understand how dinner is any different than any other meal. We pretty much know in advance what we're having for dinner throughout the week which is how we plan our grocery shopping...we make dinner...we eat dinner...just like we make breakfast and lunch and eat those.
I guess I don't get it...
Your insight just validated how much of a loser that I feel.6 -
Don't beat yourself up for not being perfect, that's not helpful (and no one is perfect, obviously). But think of it as a reason to trouble shoot and figure out WHY it's harder so you can fix it.7
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last_jennifer wrote: »I am so glad , you all have strength and will power , good for you guys. I shouldn't have posted this post . Now I feel beyond stupid.
It's not stupid... You've noticed it's a problem, now to come up with a solution. Could you have pre prepared meals in the freezer? Or get your partner to cook dinner you've chosen so you're not involved in the process?
I have my protein portioned out and ready to cool , some vegetables part cooked and frozen, and others chopped, ready to cook. It makes meal time pretty thoughtless!8 -
After work is my danger zone too. My dinner will be planned out but I start eating as soon as I get through the door. A day of willpower and I am DONE. I have a few strategies to help myself along.
1. Snack just before I leave the office. I’m genuinely not hungry when I get through the door.
2. Slow cooker meal ready as soon as I get home. No temptation to eat out.
3. Salad made in the morning ready to go.10 -
I get it. I've been there. Sorry the responses you've gotten so far haven't validated your struggle, but you're definitely not alone in this.
There has been research done that shows willpower is a finite resource that we use up during the day. It is objectively easier to follow your plan early in the day than in the evening/night.
For me, I realized that I need to save more calories for dinnertime, when I feel hungrier. I rarely feel hungry in the morning, but was eating a healthy, balanced breakfast anyway. Instead, I now skip breakfast most days (just have coffee), and have about 300 more calories to eat at dinner. This makes the difference for me, so I end the day in a deficit, feeling good about my progress.
What works for you might differ, but try different strategies to see what works for you. You are definitely not alone!17 -
Hi Jen, ...coming home from teaching all day is hard...3-4:30 is my toooo hungry time!1
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Agree with lemurcat12 about trying to trouble shoot. Seems like OP was looking for what works for others. It's just DH & I at home now so we have a more limited menu but when we had our oldest still living with us we tried leaving the main course, etc on the counter so we had to get up to get more. Veggies were on the table. If it's during meal prep that throws you off, try committing one day at a time to not snack or have some fresh cut up veggies handy until you can leave them in the refrig until it's time to eat. Baby steps and you can get there.
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I have an extremely weak point that normally stretches from 2 pm to 6 pm. I dont know why but I am guessing it has something to do with not eating enough for lunch. Are your calories too minimal for the beginning of the day?4
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Did you just want to hear that others also struggle? Or practical solutions, how to fix the problem without having to rely on willpower?5
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Now these are some good questions to ponder over.
I am a single mom of 3 children and I work 2 jobs.
I am exhausted when I come home without willpower.
However, my oldest is now 14. I think it is time for him to start helping me with the dinner. So I don't feel overwhelmed with the chopping and cooking. Then I won't go to my old stand by, Mr. Frozen pizza.
Thanks for the good questions!
I am thinking I need a new plan for meal prep that involves my children.
I can tell I developed way too many bad habits and rituals.
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You’re not alone, I’m usually pretty hungry at dinner time too. I love having things like spaghetti squash because you can get a large amount for few calories. Packing more veggies in whatever you’re having is a great way to feel more full without overdoing it.3
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last_jennifer wrote: »I am so glad , you all have strength and will power , good for you guys. I shouldn't have posted this post . Now I feel beyond stupid.
Not stupid at all. Just a problem for you. Find a solution for you. Try eating a bigger breakfast for one week. Try eating a bigger lunch for one week. Try a large snack in the afternoon for one week. Try having dinner already prepared when you get home, just need to heat it up for one week. Hopefully something will work.
Oh, and try having a snack on the way home from work.
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I started using my breakfast calories for a mini-meal at 4 hold me over til dinner. I supposed that could be considered IF. Regardless, it’s helped.2
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kommodevaran wrote: »Did you just want to hear that others also struggle? Or practical solutions, how to fix the problem without having to rely on willpower?
Yes to both questions. In the past five minutes, I have learned so many great ideas that I am beyond excited to tackle this issue of mine. It is also nice to know that my problem isn't unique and what others are doing too.11
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