Has your mother cut contact with you?

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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    edited November 2017
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    Yea I get that. Parents are meant to love us. Some clearly aren't that well equipped though. Always tough to handle. Does your sister have a good support network around her besides you and your dad?

    Yes she does, she has some great gf's and apart from mum is happy. I do notice the results of the rejection spilling into her other relationships though, in particular her children, she's very needy and demanding of their time.

    That's good about the support network.

    Hopefully she won't/doesnt reject them or emotionally blackmail if they don't fulfil her demands. My mum does that-its how she was brought up.

    Oh no fear of rejection she holds onto them tightly, too tightly lol... there is often emotional blackmail used. I saw her get huffy because her daughter chose to go out on a date and not visit her mum. But we all understand why she is the way she is..
    So how do you deal with your mum ? Do you give in? Do you ever wonder how she has affected your persona?
  • MrSith
    MrSith Posts: 1,636 Member
    imanibelle wrote: »
    If so, how do you feel about it? Just curious. :)

    Just come out and say that your mom isn't talking to you......then we can help you process this.
  • allenmfp21
    allenmfp21 Posts: 244 Member
    Yes but it was because she died.
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    @PAFC84

    Every time I see your picture it brings me flashbacks to the 80's when everyone had there comb in the back of there pocket .

    jjlq2jmuxfom.jpeg


    Lol. I am a 80s kid so am too young to have carried a comb. Did 80's people not sit down? Cos that looks uncomfortable
  • Pupslice
    Pupslice Posts: 213 Member
    I'm on low contact with my mother. She was a rotten mother and a poor excuse for a human being. My life is much better since I made that decision.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Yep. She had a stroke. My father had died of a heart attack a year earlier. My Mom and Dad had been married almost 60 years. My Mom did not really want to live without him. Around Thanksgiving several years ago, she told me she just wanted to live until Christmas, so she could see all her kids, grandkids and great grandkids together one last time. We had Christmas at my sisters that year. As we were getting ready to leave after Christmas celebration, I went in to kiss her goodbye. She told me she loved me and I knew from the way she said it, I would never see her alive again. On December 26th of that year my sister called me at 6am to tell me Mom had passed away.

    Work things out with your Mom, if possible, life is too short.
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    @PAFC84

    Every time I see your picture it brings me flashbacks to the 80's when everyone had there comb in the back of there pocket .

    jjlq2jmuxfom.jpeg


    Lol. I am a 80s kid so am too young to have carried a comb. Did 80's people not sit down? Cos that looks uncomfortable

    There was no sitting in the 80's .

    This makes sense. People were leaner then.
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    @PAFC84

    Every time I see your picture it brings me flashbacks to the 80's when everyone had there comb in the back of there pocket .

    jjlq2jmuxfom.jpeg


    Lol. I am a 80s kid so am too young to have carried a comb. Did 80's people not sit down? Cos that looks uncomfortable

    There was no sitting in the 80's .

    This makes sense. People were leaner then.

    That is so true !

    I only preach the truth
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    @PAFC84

    Every time I see your picture it brings me flashbacks to the 80's when everyone had there comb in the back of there pocket .

    jjlq2jmuxfom.jpeg


    Lol. I am a 80s kid so am too young to have carried a comb. Did 80's people not sit down? Cos that looks uncomfortable

    There was no sitting in the 80's .

    This makes sense. People were leaner then.

    That is so true !

    I only preach the truth

    Amen !

    Brother can I get an Hallelujah?
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    @PAFC84

    Every time I see your picture it brings me flashbacks to the 80's when everyone had there comb in the back of there pocket .

    jjlq2jmuxfom.jpeg


    Lol. I am a 80s kid so am too young to have carried a comb. Did 80's people not sit down? Cos that looks uncomfortable

    There was no sitting in the 80's .

    This makes sense. People were leaner then.

    That is so true !

    I only preach the truth

    Amen !

    Brother can I get an Hallelujah?

    Sista yes

    Shhh, its a secret

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