Sex and relationships

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  • evilpoptart63
    evilpoptart63 Posts: 397 Member
    I absolutely love all the different perspectives!! Thanks for responding! I personally dont think sex is everything in a relationship but when there are long-term issues I definitely think it can drag the rest of the relationship down. If the attraction just isn't there on one side, no amount of communication will help though. It would probably help to settle down with someone when there is mutual attraction and great sex, that way when things get rough, Its one less strain
  • AnnieH_4512
    AnnieH_4512 Posts: 1,422 Member
    Resistive wrote: »
    Give me M&M’s, popcorn, mountain biking and I am happier than a fat kid on a smartie at this stage in my life.

    With regards to the OP, I would agree, it’s not everything. I think it becomes less important the older you get.

    This
  • emjay6x3
    emjay6x3 Posts: 213 Member
    I believe it truly depends on the relationship and the people involved in it. Sex isn't as important to some people, to some couples, as it may be to others. So, if there is an issue with the sexual relationship, I think the best suggestion is for the couple to sit down and discuss either a resolution, or moving on to something more fulfilling. Generally speaking, however, yes - it's pretty important. The most important part of a relationship? No way. However, If there is no physical chemistry, it can cause a huge rift between partners, especially if this is one-sided.
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  • eccomi_qui
    eccomi_qui Posts: 1,831 Member
    Use it or lose it.

    I thought this was just a rumour!?

    NOOOOOOOooooooooooòø00000ooooOoooooOOooooooooooo!!!!
  • emjay6x3
    emjay6x3 Posts: 213 Member
    eccomi_qui wrote: »
    Use it or lose it.

    I thought this was just a rumour!?

    NOOOOOOOooooooooooòø00000ooooOoooooOOooooooooooo!!!!

    https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/mbqjap/witches-allegedly-stole-penises-and-kept-them-as-pets-in-the-middle-ages

    I know what my new hobby is going to be... B)
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  • eccomi_qui
    eccomi_qui Posts: 1,831 Member
    emjay6x3 wrote: »
    eccomi_qui wrote: »
    Use it or lose it.

    I thought this was just a rumour!?

    NOOOOOOOooooooooooòø00000ooooOoooooOOooooooooooo!!!!

    https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/mbqjap/witches-allegedly-stole-penises-and-kept-them-as-pets-in-the-middle-ages

    I know what my new hobby is going to be... B)

    Keep your hobbies away from me
  • AnnieH_4512
    AnnieH_4512 Posts: 1,422 Member
    eccomi_qui wrote: »
    Use it or lose it.

    I thought this was just a rumour!?

    NOOOOOOOooooooooooòø00000ooooOoooooOOooooooooooo!!!!

    https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/mbqjap/witches-allegedly-stole-penises-and-kept-them-as-pets-in-the-middle-ages

    Bahahahahahahahaha
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    Dear OP,
    This is what you get for not giving it up on the first date. You would've known on day 1 and could've walked away.

    Lesson of the day. Drink more tequila on the first date.

    Your welcome.
  • evilpoptart63
    evilpoptart63 Posts: 397 Member
    Haha I gave it up on the 2nd date and the sex was great and frequent fpr a while
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    Haha I gave it up on the 2nd date and the sex was great and frequent fpr a while

    I said 1st... btw... wanna go out?
  • Bry_Fitness70
    Bry_Fitness70 Posts: 2,480 Member
    eccomi_qui wrote: »
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    eccomi_qui wrote: »
    I am a virgin

    Then you have nothing to contribute to this discussion.

    I was trying to find just the tips to maybe help me get over the hump here geez

    Tips? Hump? I see what you did there...
  • Ladybug1250
    Ladybug1250 Posts: 366 Member
    Overall it's pretty important. I'm curious to know more about what the issues are. I think compromise is something that can be discussed and also honesty. There are things that are a preference for certain people and maybe with a bit of communication those things can be explored. There are also ways to "teach" without coming across like a jerk or hurting your partners feelings. It's a delicate subject but one that is important enough to address when necessary.
  • boehle
    boehle Posts: 5,062 Member
    Resistive wrote: »
    Give me M&M’s, popcorn, mountain biking and I am happier than a fat kid on a smartie at this stage in my life.

    With regards to the OP, I would agree, it’s not everything. I think it becomes less important the older you get.

    I don't thin thats true for women that are mid 30s
    Atleast for me, I want it MORE, now than ever, so its important.
  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,179 Member
    Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.
  • emjay6x3
    emjay6x3 Posts: 213 Member
    boehle wrote: »
    Resistive wrote: »
    Give me M&M’s, popcorn, mountain biking and I am happier than a fat kid on a smartie at this stage in my life.

    With regards to the OP, I would agree, it’s not everything. I think it becomes less important the older you get.

    I don't thin thats true for women that are mid 30s
    Atleast for me, I want it MORE, now than ever, so its important.

    Truth.
    Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.

    I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it :D

    Absolute truth.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    You can’t learn anything by being right all the time :)

    I don't have that issue, I am married. I am NEVER right :D

  • Find_Me_Again
    Find_Me_Again Posts: 299 Member
    boehle wrote: »
    Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.

    I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it :D

    I'd like to think I am probably wanting it more.
    I dated younger once and he told me I wanted it too much.
    WTF?! GET OUT!!

    I've had the same problem. I think women also associate sex with affection/attention. So we tend to use it as a way of validation too. If that makes sense.


    When I use big words I'm never sure if I use them correctly :D
  • evilpoptart63
    evilpoptart63 Posts: 397 Member
    boehle wrote: »
    Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.

    I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it :D

    I'd like to think I am probably wanting it more.
    I dated younger once and he told me I wanted it too much.
    WTF?! GET OUT!!

    I've had the same problem. I think women also associate sex with affection/attention. So we tend to use it as a way of validation too. If that makes sense.


    When I use big words I'm never sure if I use them correctly :D

    This...100% I think sex is so much more than just a physical act for a lot of women so the lack of it can be extremely painful emotionally.
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    Sometimes its not fair because in one session you can be satisfied multiple times to my one.... over and over and over.
  • Find_Me_Again
    Find_Me_Again Posts: 299 Member
    boehle wrote: »
    Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.

    I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it :D

    I'd like to think I am probably wanting it more.
    I dated younger once and he told me I wanted it too much.
    WTF?! GET OUT!!

    I've had the same problem. I think women also associate sex with affection/attention. So we tend to use it as a way of validation too. If that makes sense.


    When I use big words I'm never sure if I use them correctly :D

    This...100% I think sex is so much more than just a physical act for a lot of women so the lack of it can be extremely painful emotionally.

    Yes!
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    Pretty dang important to me...Sad but true xD Its have to be horrible but i guess to me i wont even get into a relationship without good sex lol. Its on my check list
  • Find_Me_Again
    Find_Me_Again Posts: 299 Member
    Sometimes its not fair because in one session you can be satisfied multiple times to my one.... over and over and over.

    Show off
  • boehle
    boehle Posts: 5,062 Member
    boehle wrote: »
    Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.

    I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it :D

    I'd like to think I am probably wanting it more.
    I dated younger once and he told me I wanted it too much.
    WTF?! GET OUT!!

    I've had the same problem. I think women also associate sex with affection/attention. So we tend to use it as a way of validation too. If that makes sense.


    When I use big words I'm never sure if I use them correctly :D

    This...100% I think sex is so much more than just a physical act for a lot of women so the lack of it can be extremely painful emotionally.

    It is very true. I need more affection with body rubs and caressing than a wam bam, and the big O
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