Sex and relationships
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I absolutely love all the different perspectives!! Thanks for responding! I personally dont think sex is everything in a relationship but when there are long-term issues I definitely think it can drag the rest of the relationship down. If the attraction just isn't there on one side, no amount of communication will help though. It would probably help to settle down with someone when there is mutual attraction and great sex, that way when things get rough, Its one less strain3
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Give me M&M’s, popcorn, mountain biking and I am happier than a fat kid on a smartie at this stage in my life.
With regards to the OP, I would agree, it’s not everything. I think it becomes less important the older you get.5 -
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I believe it truly depends on the relationship and the people involved in it. Sex isn't as important to some people, to some couples, as it may be to others. So, if there is an issue with the sexual relationship, I think the best suggestion is for the couple to sit down and discuss either a resolution, or moving on to something more fulfilling. Generally speaking, however, yes - it's pretty important. The most important part of a relationship? No way. However, If there is no physical chemistry, it can cause a huge rift between partners, especially if this is one-sided.1
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Soul_Radiation wrote: »Use it or lose it.
I thought this was just a rumour!?
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TeacupsAndToning wrote: »eccomi_qui wrote: »Soul_Radiation wrote: »Use it or lose it.
I thought this was just a rumour!?
NOOOOOOOooooooooooòø00000ooooOoooooOOooooooooooo!!!!
https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/mbqjap/witches-allegedly-stole-penises-and-kept-them-as-pets-in-the-middle-ages
I know what my new hobby is going to be...
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TeacupsAndToning wrote: »eccomi_qui wrote: »Soul_Radiation wrote: »Use it or lose it.
I thought this was just a rumour!?
NOOOOOOOooooooooooòø00000ooooOoooooOOooooooooooo!!!!
https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/mbqjap/witches-allegedly-stole-penises-and-kept-them-as-pets-in-the-middle-ages
I know what my new hobby is going to be...
Keep your hobbies away from me1 -
TeacupsAndToning wrote: »eccomi_qui wrote: »Soul_Radiation wrote: »Use it or lose it.
I thought this was just a rumour!?
NOOOOOOOooooooooooòø00000ooooOoooooOOooooooooooo!!!!
https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/mbqjap/witches-allegedly-stole-penises-and-kept-them-as-pets-in-the-middle-ages
Bahahahahahahahaha0 -
Dear OP,
This is what you get for not giving it up on the first date. You would've known on day 1 and could've walked away.
Lesson of the day. Drink more tequila on the first date.
Your welcome.3 -
Haha I gave it up on the 2nd date and the sex was great and frequent fpr a while0
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evilpoptart63 wrote: »Haha I gave it up on the 2nd date and the sex was great and frequent fpr a while
I said 1st... btw... wanna go out?0 -
eccomi_qui wrote: »eccomi_qui wrote: »I am a virgin
Then you have nothing to contribute to this discussion.
I was trying to find just the tips to maybe help me get over the hump here geez
Tips? Hump? I see what you did there...0 -
Overall it's pretty important. I'm curious to know more about what the issues are. I think compromise is something that can be discussed and also honesty. There are things that are a preference for certain people and maybe with a bit of communication those things can be explored. There are also ways to "teach" without coming across like a jerk or hurting your partners feelings. It's a delicate subject but one that is important enough to address when necessary.0
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Give me M&M’s, popcorn, mountain biking and I am happier than a fat kid on a smartie at this stage in my life.
With regards to the OP, I would agree, it’s not everything. I think it becomes less important the older you get.
I don't thin thats true for women that are mid 30s
Atleast for me, I want it MORE, now than ever, so its important.1 -
Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.2
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JeromeBarry1 wrote: »Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.
I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it
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Give me M&M’s, popcorn, mountain biking and I am happier than a fat kid on a smartie at this stage in my life.
With regards to the OP, I would agree, it’s not everything. I think it becomes less important the older you get.
I don't thin thats true for women that are mid 30s
Atleast for me, I want it MORE, now than ever, so its important.
Truth.Find_Me_Again wrote: »JeromeBarry1 wrote: »Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.
I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it
Absolute truth.2 -
_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »You can’t learn anything by being right all the time
I don't have that issue, I am married. I am NEVER right
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Find_Me_Again wrote: »JeromeBarry1 wrote: »Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.
I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it
I'd like to think I am probably wanting it more.
I dated younger once and he told me I wanted it too much.
WTF?! GET OUT!!5 -
Find_Me_Again wrote: »JeromeBarry1 wrote: »Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.
I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it
I'd like to think I am probably wanting it more.
I dated younger once and he told me I wanted it too much.
WTF?! GET OUT!!
I've had the same problem. I think women also associate sex with affection/attention. So we tend to use it as a way of validation too. If that makes sense.
When I use big words I'm never sure if I use them correctly 1 -
Find_Me_Again wrote: »Find_Me_Again wrote: »JeromeBarry1 wrote: »Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.
I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it
I'd like to think I am probably wanting it more.
I dated younger once and he told me I wanted it too much.
WTF?! GET OUT!!
I've had the same problem. I think women also associate sex with affection/attention. So we tend to use it as a way of validation too. If that makes sense.
When I use big words I'm never sure if I use them correctly
This...100% I think sex is so much more than just a physical act for a lot of women so the lack of it can be extremely painful emotionally.2 -
Sometimes its not fair because in one session you can be satisfied multiple times to my one.... over and over and over.0
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evilpoptart63 wrote: »Find_Me_Again wrote: »Find_Me_Again wrote: »JeromeBarry1 wrote: »Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.
I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it
I'd like to think I am probably wanting it more.
I dated younger once and he told me I wanted it too much.
WTF?! GET OUT!!
I've had the same problem. I think women also associate sex with affection/attention. So we tend to use it as a way of validation too. If that makes sense.
When I use big words I'm never sure if I use them correctly
This...100% I think sex is so much more than just a physical act for a lot of women so the lack of it can be extremely painful emotionally.
Yes!0 -
Pretty dang important to me...Sad but true xD Its have to be horrible but i guess to me i wont even get into a relationship without good sex lol. Its on my check list1
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LiftingRiot wrote: »Sometimes its not fair because in one session you can be satisfied multiple times to my one.... over and over and over.
Show off1 -
evilpoptart63 wrote: »Find_Me_Again wrote: »Find_Me_Again wrote: »JeromeBarry1 wrote: »Men generally think it's important. Women generally wish men didn't think that.
I don't know a single woman who isn't just as horny as any man. We're just better at hiding it
I'd like to think I am probably wanting it more.
I dated younger once and he told me I wanted it too much.
WTF?! GET OUT!!
I've had the same problem. I think women also associate sex with affection/attention. So we tend to use it as a way of validation too. If that makes sense.
When I use big words I'm never sure if I use them correctly
This...100% I think sex is so much more than just a physical act for a lot of women so the lack of it can be extremely painful emotionally.
It is very true. I need more affection with body rubs and caressing than a wam bam, and the big O2 -
Find_Me_Again wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »Sometimes its not fair because in one session you can be satisfied multiple times to my one.... over and over and over.
Show off
Seriously though. Besides, if you have to brag about it, chances are you're not as good as you think.7
https://youtu.be/ocGiulPm3IU
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