Fat Pain: Losing weight Skin becoming tender?
SaunaSuit
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I have been losing weight since January, 327lbs/ March 287lbs/ May 265lbs.
I have noticed that the extra skin on my hips are becoming sore, along with fat mass on my thighs are very tender. The over hang of my stomach from losing so much weight is very tender. Does anyone else go through this? If so what have they done to help with the pain, I am putting Musle Rub on them but it is not helping. I guess people would call it "love Handles"? Don't know. I just know my skin hurts. Also my Ribcage is very sore. I have taken out of the furniture in the house and have been sitting on the floor exercising/streaching but it should not be causing this kind of pain. I exercise for about 3hrs a day "Walk in place 5miles". even that should not cause pain like this. I hope I am not the only one going through this~ It feels like Pockets under my skin or bubbles? Maybe like a orange skin might describ what I am feeling. Thanks everyone!
I have noticed that the extra skin on my hips are becoming sore, along with fat mass on my thighs are very tender. The over hang of my stomach from losing so much weight is very tender. Does anyone else go through this? If so what have they done to help with the pain, I am putting Musle Rub on them but it is not helping. I guess people would call it "love Handles"? Don't know. I just know my skin hurts. Also my Ribcage is very sore. I have taken out of the furniture in the house and have been sitting on the floor exercising/streaching but it should not be causing this kind of pain. I exercise for about 3hrs a day "Walk in place 5miles". even that should not cause pain like this. I hope I am not the only one going through this~ It feels like Pockets under my skin or bubbles? Maybe like a orange skin might describ what I am feeling. Thanks everyone!
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Poor you - sounds awful. Your exercise regime sounds quite extreme to me but I am essentially an outside walker, gardener, swimmer and rarely do above 90 mins a day. I hope others here can offer some help or comfort but if it were me I would discuss with my doctor. Hope it is resolved and doesn't stall your terrific weight loss. X0
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i dont think ive ever heard of such a thing and ive lost 100 pounds.
i think you might be losing a little too fast and your exercise seems excessive. maybe cut back for a bit and see if that doesnt help0 -
My stretch marks would get ornery when I lost fat in the area with stretch marks, but that doesn't sound like what you are experiencing. If cutting back exercise/trying to slow rate of loss doesn't improve things I would advise seeing a doctor.1
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Are you eating enough?
Are you drinking enough?
Improper and inconsistent hydration can cause tenderness, as can poor circulation.2 -
You sure it's your skin or it could be your hip joints, it's not uncommon to have pain in the hip if you walk or jog as much as you do, have a rest day or two per week.0
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I started out at 330 and am now 265 just like you, only I started in October... I’ve got quite a bit of loose skin and wobbly bits here and there. I walk 3-4 miles (about one to one and a half hours at a pace that challenges me but isn’t too much) on M-F and take it easy on the weekends. I know we’re different people with different bodies, but we have similar weight stats so I thought I would share. I haven’t experienced pain like you are describing. I think if I were exercising as hard as you are that I would be in a lot of pain. I would probably see my doctor if I were you, cut back on exercise a little, and incorporate rest days.2
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Thanks Crazykatlady, I drink 14 glasses a day of water, and I eat cabbage soup 2weeks on and 2weeks off. I eat 70% veggies, 10% Fruit, and soup with each meal for the liquids. etc. My exercise is Qigon, Richard Simmons and Jane Fonda along with "Walk 1 - 5mile" videos. I will do that, I will take the weekend off and not work out so much, I am over the hurdles you can say!
You have done great on your diet Kat. Great Job~
Thank you everyone for the suggestions and help.
I was looking it up and found that it could be: Cellulite it is formed by fat and fluid build up inside cellulite pockets that could explain the nots or bubbles or pockets I am feeling, they really hurt. I didn't think of the streachmarks but now that I think of that, it could also be causing pain all the lose skin. Everyone gave me a lot to think about today. Thanks so much!8 -
Fatty Acid Lipolysis: Chopping up Fats to Be Burned in Muscle Mitochondria
I love the internet, one thing leads to another and so on: I just found this and it makes a lot of since to me: learn something new every day: So I guess what I am feeling is Fat Cells? Cellulite.
During exercise, free fatty acids make their way to the mitochondria to be burned. They come from three main sources: stored fat in adipocytes (fat cells), circulating cholesterol molecules (lipoprotein particles, including VLDL and LDL, which shuttle (dietary fats around the body), and stored fat inside (muscle tissue); (intramyocellular lipid). Let’s hone in on how stored fat is liberated from fat cells and then is burned to fuel exercising muscle.
Delivering Fatty Acids to the Muscle
Low-to-moderate intensity exercise optimally delivers these newly cleaved fatty acids (from lipolysis) to the skeletal muscle. It’s been thought that super-high intensity exercise can actually reduce blood flow around fat tissue, reducing fatty acid transport to muscle. So, for optimal fat loss, medium-intensity aerobic training might be best. Maintaining a high-level of lean muscle mass and regular exercise are the best ways to keep your cellular powerhouses, the mitochondria, burning fatty acids.
Exercise increases two key signaling molecules, AMPK and PGC-1α (peroxisome proliferator-activated receptor γ coactivator 1α), both of which stimulate the mitochondria to burn fat and sugar more efficiently. When increased by fasting, exercise, cold temperatures, and certain natural compounds, the AMPK and PGC-1α pair also instruct the mitochondria to divide, a process known as mitochondrial biogenesis. In sum, these molecular switches guide or instruct mitochondria to “burn, baby, burn,” instead of “store, baby, store”!
how-to-increase-the-3-major-steps-of-the-fat-loss-process (if you want to read the entire page)
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Thanks Crazykatlady, I drink 14 glasses a day of water, and I eat cabbage soup 2weeks on and 2weeks off. I eat 70% veggies, 10% Fruit, and soup with each meal for the liquids. etc. My exercise is Qigon, Richard Simmons and Jane Fonda along with "Walk 1 - 5mile" videos. I will do that, I will take the weekend off and not work out so much, I am over the hurdles you can say!
You have done great on your diet Kat. Great Job~
Thank you everyone for the suggestions and help.
I was looking it up and found that it could be: Cellulite it is formed by fat and fluid build up inside cellulite pockets that could explain the nots or bubbles or pockets I am feeling, they really hurt. I didn't think of the streachmarks but now that I think of that, it could also be causing pain all the lose skin. Everyone gave me a lot to think about today. Thanks so much!
You're creating an electrolyte imbalance. Back off on the liquids, add in some salts.6 -
Ok! that makes a lot of since to me, thanks stanmann, I will! Do that starting today. ... I will look up this and find out what your saying.
I do have these symptoms: muscle weakness, numbness and tingling. Electrolyte disorders are most often caused by a loss of bodily fluids through prolonged sweating. There it is! I am doing a lot of sweating, (Sauna Suit), I sweat while exercising and in the early morning walks, I can sweat for 20 min after the walks, etc.
Thanks so much for your help, I sure love this place it is answering questions I would not have even look or realized. You'll are the best~
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Ok! that makes a lot of since to me, thanks stanmann, I will! Do that starting today. ... I will look up this and find out what your saying.
I do have these symptoms: muscle weakness, numbness and tingling. Electrolyte disorders are most often caused by a loss of bodily fluids through prolonged sweating. There it is! I am doing a lot of sweating, (Sauna Suit), I sweat while exercising and in the early morning walks, I can sweat for 20 min after the walks, etc.
Thanks so much for your help, I sure love this place it is answering questions I would not have even look or realized. You'll are the best~
I would do without the sauna suit. It provides no benefits and causes your body to overheat.8 -
amusedmonkey wrote: »Ok! that makes a lot of since to me, thanks stanmann, I will! Do that starting today. ... I will look up this and find out what your saying.
I do have these symptoms: muscle weakness, numbness and tingling. Electrolyte disorders are most often caused by a loss of bodily fluids through prolonged sweating. There it is! I am doing a lot of sweating, (Sauna Suit), I sweat while exercising and in the early morning walks, I can sweat for 20 min after the walks, etc.
Thanks so much for your help, I sure love this place it is answering questions I would not have even look or realized. You'll are the best~
I would do without the sauna suit. It provides no benefits and causes your body to overheat.
And aggressive dehydration followed by inadequate rehydration(water) contributes to further dehydration.5 -
The electrolyte imbalance is a real problem and upping your salt consumption will help with the nerve tingling.
The skin pain is not due to an electrolyte imbalance. You might have some sort of bacterial infection or fungal infestation. It's best to take your skin to a real doctor for examination.4 -
I have been fighting this for about 11yrs since the Historectomy (cancer). Even when I went to a Gym they tested me and I was so below the amount and I have been trying since 2015 to get hydrated, I am getting better my numbers are going up but not enough. The Doctor said to add baking soda to my water but it has not helped in 3yrs. Then she told me to drink like 1 1/2 gallons of water aday and that has not helped. Then she did all these tests blood work and she said I just don't absorb ? somthing? so she did a colon test, nothing, then did more tests. Still have not found out what is wrong. Why! She put me on Electrolights that is why I reconized that word and still nothing. So if anyone has any more suggestions they are very welcomed. I started to drink broths and soups thought that would help. The numbers have raised since I went on the cabbage soup. At last I pee now! LOL
260.2 lbs
43.2 BF - 43.2% Body Fat women - Obese
41.4 BW
41.7 BMI - extremely high risk of weight-
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My first thought with that rapid of a weight loss is maybe loose skin rubbing up against itself?
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JeromeBarry1 wrote: »The electrolyte imbalance is a real problem and upping your salt consumption will help with the nerve tingling.
The skin pain is not due to an electrolyte imbalance. You might have some sort of bacterial infection or fungal infestation. It's best to take your skin to a real doctor for examination.
This is actually possible, especially with a sauna suit.2 -
thanks JeromeBarry, I have no leasions, no sores, only streach marks from Pregnecy in 1984 and 85 when my kids were born. I have no redness, so no fungal infestation. I looked up the bacterial infection and I have nothing like that either, no sores, toung is fine, no skin marks of red circles or patch. Thanks anyway.
What I feel is under the skin that feels like buble wrap could explain it? I guess its cellulite? when I looked up the word it showed these fat cells. I just looked up something someone said and I think your right.
A person who has too many toxins to process will make new fat cells and store those toxins along with fat. When our fat cells are full of toxins they expand and swell contributing to cellulite. Women small and large battle with cellulite. For women who are already at a healthy weight, dropping a few pounds can loosen skin, making cellulite more noticeable. Gaining weight can add to your cellulite by making your fat cells bigger. More fat under the skin can make your legs look lumpier. However losing weight can reduce the look of cellulite, especially in women who have a lot of extra weight to lose.
It is talking about a Body Wrap! I bought the stuff to do that last week but have not done it yet, I have Plastic wrap and Ace Bandages. Just have not done yet~
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thanks JeromeBarry, I have no leasions, no sores, only streach marks from Pregnecy in 1984 and 85 when my kids were born. I have no redness, so no fungal infestation. I looked up the bacterial infection and I have nothing like that either, no sores, toung is fine, no skin marks of red circles or patch. Thanks anyway.
What I feel is under the skin that feels like buble wrap could explain it? I guess its cellulite? when I looked up the word it showed these fat cells. I just looked up something someone said and I think your right.
A person who has too many toxins to process will make new fat cells and store those toxins along with fat. When our fat cells are full of toxins they expand and swell contributing to cellulite. Women small and large battle with cellulite. For women who are already at a healthy weight, dropping a few pounds can loosen skin, making cellulite more noticeable. Gaining weight can add to your cellulite by making your fat cells bigger. More fat under the skin can make your legs look lumpier. However losing weight can reduce the look of cellulite, especially in women who have a lot of extra weight to lose.
It is talking about a Body Wrap! I bought the stuff to do that last week but have not done it yet, I have Plastic wrap and Ace Bandages. Just have not done yet~
Has anyone done BodyWraps and did they help?
If you are having skin pain, rib cage pain why would you resort to wrapping yourself up in plastic wrap and bandages? Also you are going to sweat a lot, the hydration/dehydration issues will only be compounded by this.
You are undergoing such a rigid, strict rapid weight loss regime with excessive amounts of exercise. Have you thought about reaching out to your doctor to discuss your pain, your diet history as of recent to assure you are on the healthiest and safest weight loss and exercise plan? Hoping you will do this as you are in this to be healthier and feel better, don't take risks with your health. Good luck.6 -
thanks JeromeBarry, I have no leasions, no sores, only streach marks from Pregnecy in 1984 and 85 when my kids were born. I have no redness, so no fungal infestation. I looked up the bacterial infection and I have nothing like that either, no sores, toung is fine, no skin marks of red circles or patch. Thanks anyway.
What I feel is under the skin that feels like buble wrap could explain it? I guess its cellulite? when I looked up the word it showed these fat cells. I just looked up something someone said and I think your right.
A person who has too many toxins to process will make new fat cells and store those toxins along with fat. When our fat cells are full of toxins they expand and swell contributing to cellulite. Women small and large battle with cellulite. For women who are already at a healthy weight, dropping a few pounds can loosen skin, making cellulite more noticeable. Gaining weight can add to your cellulite by making your fat cells bigger. More fat under the skin can make your legs look lumpier. However losing weight can reduce the look of cellulite, especially in women who have a lot of extra weight to lose.
It is talking about a Body Wrap! I bought the stuff to do that last week but have not done it yet, I have Plastic wrap and Ace Bandages. Just have not done yet~
Has anyone done BodyWraps and did they help?
If you are having skin pain, why would you resort to wrapping yourself up in plastic wrap and bandages? Also you are going to sweat a lot, the hydration/dehydration issues will only be compounded by this.
You are undergoing such a rigid, strict rapid weight loss regime with excessive amounts of exercise. Have you thought about reaching out to your doctor to discuss your pain, your diet history as of recent to assure you are on the healthiest and safest weight loss and exercise plan? Hoping you will do this as you are in this to be healthier and feel better, don't take risks with your health. Good luck.
Good advice @RoxieDawn I had the same thought. If you are struggling with pain, now is not the time to use additional gimmicks and woo to try and combat a real problem.
I would absolutely go see my doctor and tell them everything (your diet, exercise habits, pain history, amount of weight lost over the last months, etc) and let them help you. This probably isn't best served being worked out on an internet forum by non-medical professional strangers!
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RoxieDawn
Da! I guess that didn't even dawn on me! Your right! If I am that dydrated this would not be a option!
Why do I want to lose weight? Why am I trying so hard~ I don't want to be fat when I die! even if I am being cremated, I don't want to be fat, I want to have my long hair again, during the cancer I ended up with all these patches it has taken so many years to finally get long hair, Thanks to Coconut OIL! I use it once a week and my hair is long and beautiful even thick, I didn't think that would ever happen.
I have Alzhimers was diagnosed in 2015, they only give a person 7 yrs to 10 some beat the odds and I am hopping I am going to be one of them. ... I was really bad a few years ago but then I added Coconut oil to my diet and it has changed me, I am awake. However I do go through absent minds and I do still get lost, or confused everyone will see that its very oviouse once you get to know me. I get a little irrational at least 3 or more times a month. but anyway, I want to look like I did before i got married. Young and Beautiful. That is how I want to be remembers. Because My own family just can't accept who I have become. So If I make myself young again~ Maybe the image of what I looked like compaired to the "CANCER 2's. The change is so diffrent and was so scary looking. even my own grandchild just had such a hard time looking at me.
My son who is 33yrs old, could not handle the change~ he said he wanted to remember the way I was not the way I am now. He don't call or text any more. He just wrote me off as dead. My daugther has done the same thing and my own mother I am dead to her she could not deal with it. Sad to say, I am going through this alone. So these groups are all I have helping me to stay stable. The meds I was given only caused me to go through deep depression and sleep all day long sometimes 3 days strait. I don't want to live like that.
All of you have opened up my eyes and mind, I will take what you all have said and procees the information, and slowdown on my diet stop trying to be in a rush, I will find a way to get hydrated and cut my hours on exercising.
I wont make my goal if I keep this up! That is what you all are telling me.. So GREAT Advice. Thanks so much! I guess I'm the rock also~
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briscogun
Your right! 1000000%, I have to step back and listen. Thanks so much everyone~ I can see the bigger picture today. And I will listen~ I will go to the Doctors again. ... and Let them Try again. ... maybe something has changed in the last 2 yrs. Thanks...2 -
Have you seen a therapist to help with all of this?1
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I wish I could tell you "YES". ... But I can't because of insurance issues. I had a Apointment all set up but then was denied, and the meds all ended, the doctor visits have all ended. So I have had to go Solo and try to figure this out on my own. I read a science paper from UCLA, and it said if I could add coconut oil, to my diet, and I did, change my entire diet, which I have been working on, and lose weight I would have a better chance of sucess. A longer life. So I am trying, I have not given up.
My daughter is supose to be looking into health care but its been a year, I 'm still waiting? As soon as she gives me the OK. then I will go get help. I am doing all I can to help myself, Today! I have noticed I am doing "Way too much" and I am defeting myself rather then helping myself. I should have noticed this but just thought it was normal to go through some pain. From these forms I know now I am on the wrong road to weight loss.
The great thing about people is they show you a NEW ROAD! one can take the advice and get help, or one can keep doing the same thing until it doesn't work any longer. Since this is my Second day on here, I will take the advice and get some help.
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RoxieDawn
Da! I guess that didn't even dawn on me! Your right! If I am that dydrated this would not be a option!
Why do I want to lose weight? Why am I trying so hard~ I don't want to be fat when I die! even if I am being cremated, I don't want to be fat, I want to have my long hair again, during the cancer I ended up with all these patches it has taken so many years to finally get long hair, Thanks to Coconut OIL! I use it once a week and my hair is long and beautiful even thick, I didn't think that would ever happen.
I have Alzhimers was diagnosed in 2015, they only give a person 7 yrs to 10 some beat the odds and I am hopping I am going to be one of them. ... I was really bad a few years ago but then I added Coconut oil to my diet and it has changed me, I am awake. However I do go through absent minds and I do still get lost, or confused everyone will see that its very oviouse once you get to know me. I get a little irrational at least 3 or more times a month. but anyway, I want to look like I did before i got married. Young and Beautiful. That is how I want to be remembers. Because My own family just can't accept who I have become. So If I make myself young again~ Maybe the image of what I looked like compaired to the "CANCER 2's. The change is so diffrent and was so scary looking. even my own grandchild just had such a hard time looking at me.
My son who is 33yrs old, could not handle the change~ he said he wanted to remember the way I was not the way I am now. He don't call or text any more. He just wrote me off as dead. My daugther has done the same thing and my own mother I am dead to her she could not deal with it. Sad to say, I am going through this alone. So these groups are all I have helping me to stay stable. The meds I was given only caused me to go through deep depression and sleep all day long sometimes 3 days strait. I don't want to live like that.
All of you have opened up my eyes and mind, I will take what you all have said and procees the information, and slowdown on my diet stop trying to be in a rush, I will find a way to get hydrated and cut my hours on exercising.
I wont make my goal if I keep this up! That is what you all are telling me.. So GREAT Advice. Thanks so much! I guess I'm the rock also~
I am deeply saddened by your story. Alzhimers effected both my grandparents years ago so I have seen and been apart of what transpires during the different phases of this disease. I am hoping that your family is lacking in experience and they are not equipped to handle certain aspects of what you are going through, maybe they need more knowledge and awareness perhaps outside counseling? Something to think about.
And while you deny the medication, surely doctors have other protocols they can try. I hope that you do not reach the point of malnutrition and possibly hurting yourself physically through too much exercise and the wrong kind of exercise.
Keep in mind as you lose weight rapidly your body is also losing viable muscle as well. Your heart is a muscle so you need to do all that you can to lose weight in a manner that protects the things that keep you operating smoothly. You don't want to end up weaker, have your hair fall out instead of grow, not to mention putting yourself at higher risks for other diseases. Side effects can become long term health issues. Doctor supervision and medical advice should be the upmost importance with your medical history, so give them a call soon.1 -
RoxieDawn
Da! I guess that didn't even dawn on me! Your right! If I am that dydrated this would not be a option!
Why do I want to lose weight? Why am I trying so hard~ I don't want to be fat when I die! even if I am being cremated, I don't want to be fat, I want to have my long hair again, during the cancer I ended up with all these patches it has taken so many years to finally get long hair, Thanks to Coconut OIL! I use it once a week and my hair is long and beautiful even thick, I didn't think that would ever happen.
I have Alzhimers was diagnosed in 2015, they only give a person 7 yrs to 10 some beat the odds and I am hopping I am going to be one of them. ... I was really bad a few years ago but then I added Coconut oil to my diet and it has changed me, I am awake. However I do go through absent minds and I do still get lost, or confused everyone will see that its very oviouse once you get to know me. I get a little irrational at least 3 or more times a month. but anyway, I want to look like I did before i got married. Young and Beautiful. That is how I want to be remembers. Because My own family just can't accept who I have become. So If I make myself young again~ Maybe the image of what I looked like compaired to the "CANCER 2's. The change is so diffrent and was so scary looking. even my own grandchild just had such a hard time looking at me.
My son who is 33yrs old, could not handle the change~ he said he wanted to remember the way I was not the way I am now. He don't call or text any more. He just wrote me off as dead. My daugther has done the same thing and my own mother I am dead to her she could not deal with it. Sad to say, I am going through this alone. So these groups are all I have helping me to stay stable. The meds I was given only caused me to go through deep depression and sleep all day long sometimes 3 days strait. I don't want to live like that.
All of you have opened up my eyes and mind, I will take what you all have said and procees the information, and slowdown on my diet stop trying to be in a rush, I will find a way to get hydrated and cut my hours on exercising.
I wont make my goal if I keep this up! That is what you all are telling me.. So GREAT Advice. Thanks so much! I guess I'm the rock also~
I am so sorry your family has abandoned you. I cared for my grandmother who had dementia until her death in 2014, then my grandfather in stage 4 kidney disease until his passing in 2015. Your family is missing out. I wouldnt trade that time with them for ANYTHING, even if grandma (who was more my mom than my mom was), constantly called me and my ex by different names and thought we were in different homes in different cities she lived in. It was sad, yes, but at the same time, cute and endearing in a way. She lived in her own little world, and I was lucky enough to see it sometimes.1 -
Bredesen’s approach is personalized to the patient, based on extensive testing to determine what is affecting the brain’s plasticity signaling network. In the case of the patient with the demanding job who was forgetting her way home, her therapy consisted of some, but not all, of the components of Bredesen’s program, including:
eliminating all simple carbohydrates, gluten and processed food from her diet, and eating more (vegetables, fruits and non-farmed fish) ((I'm doing this))
meditating twice a day and beginning yoga to reduce stress ((I'm doing this))
sleeping seven to eight hours per night, up from four to five ((I'm doing this))
taking melatonin, methylcobalamin, vitamin D3, fish oil and coenzyme Q10 each day (I'm not doing this).
optimizing oral hygiene using an electric flosser and electric toothbrush (The cancer took my teeth LOL)
reinstating hormone replacement therapy, which had previously been discontinued (I'm not doing this).
fasting for a minimum of 12 hours between dinner and breakfast, and for a minimum of three hours between dinner and bedtime ((I am doing this)).
exercising for a minimum of 30 minutes, four to six days per week ((I think I took this too far I can see that today)). I guess I miss understood this now that I am re reading it after a few years. 30mints is not (3hrs aday). OOPS! My mistake. but I am doing 7days a week, instead of 6 days a week. So I do most of this.
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Calcium
Calcium is a vital mineral that your body uses to stabilize blood pressure and control skeletal muscle contraction. It’s also used to build strong bones and teeth.
Hypercalcemia is when you have too much calcium in the blood. This usually happens due to:
hyperparathyroidism
kidney disease
thyroid disorders
lung diseases, such as tuberculosis or sarcoidosis
certain types of cancer, including lung and breast cancers
(( Found it, I think I just found the problem! The doctor had me on Duloxetine; for nerve pain, omeprazole for stomach acids because the nerve pain has a side affect and my stomach bloats out. Along with RABEpraxole Sodium for my stomach; and over the counter anti gass simethicone, Last Donepezil - Brain for Alzhimers). (Alli for Weight Loss- Stomach). To say all of that: I DON'T take any of this any longer as of one year ago. Only because it all ran out! and no refills. Obama care ended~
excessive use of antacids and calcium or vitamin D supplements (My stomach Meds- antacids).
medications like lithium, theophylline, or certain water pills (I think my brain meds would have gone under this)
Thanks~ At least now I undersand. Thank you so much~ You have helped me more then anyone has in the last 2 yrs. Thank you for seeing something that was over looked. GREAT LISTENERS! And Very Knowlledgeable!
Hugs to all of you for helping big o' me~
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callsitlikeiseeit
I am hoping that your family is lacking in experience and they are not equipped to handle certain aspects!
Thank you! I wish I could say or even give them a excuss, but I can't my daughter is a "Microbioligist" and when I go to the doctors she is in the room with me. The day my doctor who she found for me, Told us that I have Placqe on the brain/ alzhimers and they had done all those tests and extrays of my brain. I watched the "LIGHT" go out of her eyes for me!. After that day, it was like, "Why love a person who is going to die". Just detach yourself from it~ Now before well I die. For the last year, My daugther who is on the other side my bedroom doors 3 steps away! has not spoken to me in a year aso of this weekend. nor has her husband or my grandchild stopped about 5 months. No one talks to me. Because I am standing up for "RESPECT". I don't think she had the right to "YELL" at me in front of her husband and daugther. So I stood up and walked to my room that is provided as she calls it. and I am provided $35.00 a week for food and I should not need anything else. See as close as we were ( I died in her eyes). So if my last years on earth is this, then I want to be skinny and beautiful with long hair so that is how they all remember me.
This is my life, and I'm doing everything I can so the memories of me are not scary~ Cancer is Scary to the eyes!1 -
while you deny the medication! I had no choice "Obama Care Ended". No Doctor would take me the last 6months. so when the MEDS ran out? That was that, I had to deal with the OUTCOME. Now! all I can do is wait~ Until she does what she is going to do. I don't drive any more, they sold my car and bought them a truck and car (lease). So I have no transportation. I am 15miles away from the town. and the church is 10miles away. I just have to wait. And Hope I can help myself first until things change around.~ In my own way I think if I look like my old self they might snap out of it. Realize I have not died in 3 yrs or so. But until then, nothing I can do. I have become "INVISABLE TO THE FAMILY". They didn't even envite me to Thanksgiving 2017, Christmas, New Years, or my grandchilds birthday. NOW NOTE THIS~ I am only 3 steps away behind french doors. And when I open my doors its like I don't exist~ I am invisible to them, they don't look at me, or talk with me, I am a ghost to them!
So losing weight might help! That is why I am trying so hard and I have seen today with everyones words, I am over maxing this out~ Trying way too hard and I need to stop and take a breath and relize I am harming more then helping.1 -
RoxieDawn, callsitlikeiseeit
Thank you very much, your words of endearment. HUGS. and LOT'S of them.
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