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  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
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    newmeadow wrote: »
    I really like the Eastern tradition of bowing rather than making physical contact with strangers. Or just a simple hello with a fake smile. Really that would suffice.

    I'm out coz I don't fake my smiles

    I’ll do it. I’m an American woman, trained to fake a smile at the slightest breeze.

    Just to reiterate, we KNOW when you are faking, ok? We always know.
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,557 Member
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    SwannySez wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I really like the Eastern tradition of bowing rather than making physical contact with strangers. Or just a simple hello with a fake smile. Really that would suffice.

    I'm out coz I don't fake my smiles

    I’ll do it. I’m an American woman, trained to fake a smile at the slightest breeze.

    Just to reiterate, we KNOW when you are faking, ok? We always know.

    I can never tell, when she fakes it just seems so real,
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
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    SwannySez wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I really like the Eastern tradition of bowing rather than making physical contact with strangers. Or just a simple hello with a fake smile. Really that would suffice.

    I'm out coz I don't fake my smiles

    I’ll do it. I’m an American woman, trained to fake a smile at the slightest breeze.

    Just to reiterate, we KNOW when you are faking, ok? We always know.

    I can never tell, when she fakes it just seems so real,

    Galdurn it, Cap! Fine. YOU are the exception that proves the rule.
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,557 Member
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    SwannySez wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I really like the Eastern tradition of bowing rather than making physical contact with strangers. Or just a simple hello with a fake smile. Really that would suffice.

    I'm out coz I don't fake my smiles

    I’ll do it. I’m an American woman, trained to fake a smile at the slightest breeze.

    Just to reiterate, we KNOW when you are faking, ok? We always know.

    I can never tell, when she fakes it just seems so real,

    Perhaps she’s not faking it then. Some women don’t need to fake it, just saying.
    I guess I wouldn’t know unless I asked, show me a real one sometime
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,557 Member
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    Noah, you’ve already gotten real ones from me.

    Oh but we’ve never... Ive never......

    Are we actually talking about smiles or is this innuendo?

    Either way I’m glad to give you real ones
  • Pour_Decisions
    Pour_Decisions Posts: 1,053 Member
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    newmeadow wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Yes yes. You're a loving bunch. A loving bunch indeed.

    Would you like a hug? 😊

    No

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    What does this have to do with me not wanting a hug from you?

    Love wins

    Oh I see. So your offer of a hug was coming from the Spirit of Love?

    I have no room for hatred in my heart. It's a wasted emotion. Perhaps you think I was going to hug you so hard I would hurt you? I assure you that I am not that strong nor do I have a violent side.
    Also, it is National Hug Day and hugs are proven to have great mental and physical benefits

    @LiftingSpirits you are a doll and a waaaaayyyyy better person than most.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
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    SwannySez wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I really like the Eastern tradition of bowing rather than making physical contact with strangers. Or just a simple hello with a fake smile. Really that would suffice.

    I'm out coz I don't fake my smiles

    I’ll do it. I’m an American woman, trained to fake a smile at the slightest breeze.

    Just to reiterate, we KNOW when you are faking, ok? We always know.

    I can never tell, when she fakes it just seems so real,

    Perhaps she’s not faking it then. Some women don’t need to fake it, just saying.
    I guess I wouldn’t know unless I asked, show me a real one sometime

    Jenny NEVER fakes it. She's like Screaming Annie in The Hotel New Hampshire.
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,557 Member
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    Noah, you’ve already gotten real ones from me.

    Oh but we’ve never... Ive never......

    Are we actually talking about smiles or is this innuendo?

    Either way I’m glad to give you real ones

    I was talking about smiles but Swanny always has to go there. That kinda makes me smile too

    I helped him out haha look all sortsa real smiles! We are good at what we do😘
  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
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    newmeadow wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Yes yes. You're a loving bunch. A loving bunch indeed.

    Would you like a hug? 😊

    No

    5x0asscrzgwo.jpg

    What does this have to do with me not wanting a hug from you?

    Love wins

    Oh I see. So your offer of a hug was coming from the Spirit of Love?

    I have no room for hatred in my heart. It's a wasted emotion. Perhaps you think I was going to hug you so hard I would hurt you? I assure you that I am not that strong nor do I have a violent side.
    Also, it is National Hug Day and hugs are proven to have great mental and physical benefits

    @LiftingSpirits you are a doll and a waaaaayyyyy better person than most.

    This made my day, thank you! <3 It's not National Hug Day anymore, but I am sending you all kinds of hugs :)
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
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    Just leave me here broken while you are happy.

    I like that you're broken, broken like me. Maybe that makes me a fool.
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,557 Member
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    SwannySez wrote: »
    Just leave me here broken while you are happy.

    I like that you're broken, broken like me. Maybe that makes me a fool.
    SwannySez wrote: »
    Just leave me here broken while you are happy.

    I like that you're broken, broken like me. Maybe that makes me a fool.

    I like that you're lonely, lonely like me. I could be lonely with you.
    Number one, this makes me love both of you more
    Number two; I really like this song
    Number three; it’s so sad that so many people identify here
    Number four. That’s a terrible mindset and dinamic for a relationship
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
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    SwannySez wrote: »
    Just leave me here broken while you are happy.

    I like that you're broken, broken like me. Maybe that makes me a fool.
    SwannySez wrote: »
    Just leave me here broken while you are happy.

    I like that you're broken, broken like me. Maybe that makes me a fool.

    I like that you're lonely, lonely like me. I could be lonely with you.
    Number one, this makes me love both of you more
    Number two; I really like this song
    Number three; it’s so sad that so many people identify here
    Number four. That’s a terrible mindset and dinamic for a relationship

    True. But everyone is broken or damaged in some way. You just have to find someone whose pieces fit together with yours.

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  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,557 Member
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    SwannySez wrote: »
    Just leave me here broken while you are happy.

    I like that you're broken, broken like me. Maybe that makes me a fool.
    SwannySez wrote: »
    Just leave me here broken while you are happy.

    I like that you're broken, broken like me. Maybe that makes me a fool.

    I like that you're lonely, lonely like me. I could be lonely with you.
    Number one, this makes me love both of you more
    Number two; I really like this song
    Number three; it’s so sad that so many people identify here
    Number four. That’s a terrible mindset and dinamic for a relationship

    True. But everyone is broken or damaged in some way. You just have to find someone whose pieces fit together with yours.

    While everyone IS broken searching for love on the basis that their broken has to fit with your broken is a good way to let yourself down. I know how much you love How I Met Your Mother but I shall reference it here. In the middle of the 8th season robin and Barney are cheating on their seemingly perfect boyfriend and girlfriend with each other. The time comes to choose and robin asks Barney “why do you want to be with me?” He says “because you’re just as messed up as me” and then she asked Harold or kumar, her ex therapist/current boyfriend(after trying to confess she’d cheated with Barney but he told her it didn’t matter because he loved her and that was what was important) why he wanted to be with her and he was so sweet.

    When my figure significant other asks me why I want to be with them I want to tell them the reasons and not “our broken pieces fit” and if you seek out love with that mindset that’ll be all you have. Trust me I’ve been there. It’s not fun.