MFP - Fitness site or pick-up bar?

gia_incognito
gia_incognito Posts: 103 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
So I recently started posting and have gotten lots of "friend" requests. With gentleman then striking up a convo that quickly transpires into flirting/sexual overtones.

Am I wrong or is this a fitness site? Anyone else experience this?

I'm happy to make friends to talk about fitness/diet but that's about it. I don't want to be mean and block anyone but seriously, it feels like a bar here!
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  • gia_incognito
    gia_incognito Posts: 103 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    Yes a lot of women do this....I didn't think the men did it to?!!

    I didn't think women did it too! Thanks for the insight. I think maybe people are just bored??
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  • gia_incognito
    gia_incognito Posts: 103 Member
    R3d_butt3rfly wrote: »
    I never ever get hit on. I must be doing something wrong here.

    Hahaha nooo. You don't want this kinda attention. Unless you have fun trolling people. It def has kept me entertained this afternoon though slightly skeeved out.
  • gia_incognito
    gia_incognito Posts: 103 Member
    rickswifey83 wrote: »
    I only get fitness related friendship

    That's good! Literally no women have friended me, so that's why I think it's weird.
  • R3d_butt3rfly
    R3d_butt3rfly Posts: 1,127 Member
    gia_incognito wrote: »
    rickswifey83 wrote: »
    I only get fitness related friendship

    That's good! Literally no women have friended me, so that's why I think it's weird.

    I'd add you but you might not like my flirting
  • gia_incognito
    gia_incognito Posts: 103 Member
    R3d_butt3rfly wrote: »
    gia_incognito wrote: »
    rickswifey83 wrote: »
    I only get fitness related friendship

    That's good! Literally no women have friended me, so that's why I think it's weird.

    I'd add you but you might not like my flirting

    Hahahaha
  • Keto_N_Iron
    Keto_N_Iron Posts: 5,385 Member
    kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »
    Haha “how you doing?” >:)

    Damn I don't get messages like these :( what am i doing wrong?
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  • gia_incognito
    gia_incognito Posts: 103 Member
    kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »
    Haha “how you doing?” >:)

    Good thanks, hbu? Lol
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,304 Member
    JustKeepTryin wrote: »
    kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »
    Haha “how you doing?” >:)

    Damn I don't get messages like these :( what am i doing wrong?

    Sorry I normally play hard to get
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  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,304 Member
    gia_incognito wrote: »
    kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »
    Haha “how you doing?” >:)

    Good thanks, hbu? Lol

    Omg!! How dare you flirt with me.

    J/K, I’m good thanks. Hang around chit-chat you’ll catch on to the different personalities.
  • ToxicRain1098
    ToxicRain1098 Posts: 176 Member
    I think it's really depends on who are you adding as a friend ?
    Do you talk to each other before you just ad anyone ?
    It's like opening a door to your home do you let just anyone in or do you talk to them before you let them in .
    I see to many people asking for people to add them to be friends. But really do you even know them ?
  • amwbox
    amwbox Posts: 576 Member
    R3d_butt3rfly wrote: »
    I never ever get hit on. I must be doing something wrong here.

    *Would you grab my arm, so I can tell my friends I’ve been touched by an angel?*


    There you go. :)
  • gia_incognito
    gia_incognito Posts: 103 Member
    amwbox wrote: »
    You're an attractive woman on the internet. New at this?

    I'm almost 40. So no. But new to this site, the community part anyway. Just really interesting to observe.
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,304 Member
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    Well, when they message just clearly and kindly state you are only interested in fitness convo. Avoid @kinetixtrainer2 hes sneaky and inappropriate...he actually pmed me a keto recipe :|
    rickswifey83 wrote: »
    Soooooo if I express interest in Keto then @kinetixtrainer2 might just take notice????

    SEE, perfect example.

    I’m vegan she’s lying.
  • R3d_butt3rfly
    R3d_butt3rfly Posts: 1,127 Member
    kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »
    Haha “how you doing?” >:)

    Back off bro, she's mine
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  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,304 Member
    rickswifey83 wrote: »
    kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    Well, when they message just clearly and kindly state you are only interested in fitness convo. Avoid @kinetixtrainer2 hes sneaky and inappropriate...he actually pmed me a keto recipe :|
    rickswifey83 wrote: »
    Soooooo if I express interest in Keto then @kinetixtrainer2 might just take notice????

    SEE, perfect example.

    I’m vegan she’s lying.

    Sooooooooo if I need some vegan recipes pm'd to me then @kinetixtrainer2 might take notice???

    All the recipes have been PM’d
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  • amwbox
    amwbox Posts: 576 Member
    You're an attractive woman on the internet. It just doesn't matter. Kinda like when you try to explain to British guys that they are 100% in with that accent...no matter which particular British accent it is. Doesn't matter.
    gia_incognito wrote: »
    amwbox wrote: »
    You're an attractive woman on the internet. New at this?

    I'm almost 40. So no. But new to this site, the community part anyway. Just really interesting to observe.

    You're an attractive woman on the internet. It just doesn't matter. Kinda like when you try to explain to British guys that they are 100% in with that accent...no matter which particular British accent it is. Doesn't matter.
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