Sorry babe. That's a deal-breaker

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  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited January 2019
    denny_mac wrote: »

    No. Some men
    PRETEND
    to like it.

    I know they exist because every guy i have really dated or been in a relationship with has liked to talk for hours. It is not me initiating these calls. They are rare though.

    You are probably right that most guys are not big phone talkers but you cant say they all hate it. That is why I am not liking the dating scene right now. They just want to text. No thanks.
  • Den_of_Iniquity
    Den_of_Iniquity Posts: 424 Member
    When she'd rather sit on the phone for hours instead of meeting up and talking face to face
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    When she'd rather sit on the phone for hours instead of meeting up and talking face to face

    Hey, just because I like the phone doesnt mean I don't wanna meet up also.
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    If he says we can't ever own a dog

    @Kace_kay you were right, she does get more crushable the more you get to know her!
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  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    whew how'd we let this one slip so far.
    anyhow here's a few:

    into gardening
    keeps/rides/otherwise takes care of horses
    an always busy type
    heavily into nerd culture
    no set sleeping schedule
    group chats
    from california/new york/oregon/north carolina/florida
    dog moms
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    I only have two, besides the basics:

    doesn't think I'm funny
    doesn't find my awkward dancing sexy


  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Attempted murder is basically a hard “no” from me
  • UntilProud
    UntilProud Posts: 277 Member
    Smoking - get that crap away from me
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Attempted murder is basically a hard “no” from me

    “attempted”

    Yeah it shows a definite lack of care and forethought. If you’re gonna do something, see it through!
  • rachelpelucca
    rachelpelucca Posts: 57 Member
    Can’t stand someone who can’t take care of themselves! I just got out of a relationship of 3 years (and an engagement) because I just couldn’t do it! The guy didn’t know how to do anything that requires common sense, and he didn’t even know what high blood pressure was or if that’s bad 🤦🏻‍♀️ I decided if I ever do date again he has to be mature enough to know how to handle life because I can’t be his mom and his girl too 🙄
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    Classlessness
    There's a time and place for crass, dirty, innuendo filled comments and the dude has to know when that is.

  • midlomel1971
    midlomel1971 Posts: 1,283 Member
    Smoking and guys who are jealous and controlling.
  • Classlessness
    There's a time and place for crass, dirty, innuendo filled comments and the dude has to know when that is.

    Ugh yes. I knew someone like this... he would make the most crass jokes in a room full of families and children. He disgusted me.
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    If a guy doesn't make any time for me. Like at all. Total deal breaker.
  • Mysunshinelife31
    Mysunshinelife31 Posts: 41 Member
    edited February 2019
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    If a guy doesn't make any time for me. Like at all. Total deal breaker.

    Yes, girl!!!
    I will also add someone who is rude, disrespectful, and plays games. Must have life goals too!!!!
  • cdlee4
    cdlee4 Posts: 507 Member
    Classlessness
    There's a time and place for crass, dirty, innuendo filled comments and the dude has to know when that is.

    Ugh yes. I knew someone like this... he would make the most crass jokes in a room full of families and children. He disgusted me.

    i picture this dude as someone that chews with his mouth open too
  • zorander6
    zorander6 Posts: 2,713 Member
    Smacks their lips while eating
    Expects me to listen on the phone for hours on end.
    Expects me to answer the phone no matter where I'm at (I hate talking on the phone in the car, how the hell would you kids have survived back in the good ol' days when you didn't have a phone glued to your heads 24/7 I swear. We used onions as belt buckles.) For that matter I hate talking on the phone, get over it I'd like to move somewhere with no cell reception thanks.
    Doesn't get my humor
    Gaslights me
    Expects me to be there when they are running around with other guys
    Can't drive a manual car
    Doesn't know the difference between a corvette and a mustang
    Refuses to work
    Refuses to sign a prenup

  • StormToday
    StormToday Posts: 46 Member
    Ugly shoes. DEAL BREAKER
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    StormToday wrote: »
    Ugly shoes. DEAL BREAKER

    How about some jeans with dirty work boots? 😏
  • chrisrose9731
    chrisrose9731 Posts: 245 Member
    Vulgarity
  • ButterIsGood
    ButterIsGood Posts: 201 Member
    When he goes after my friend.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    If she cannot accept me turning 92% of comments into innuendo.
  • zorander6
    zorander6 Posts: 2,713 Member
    If he posts pictures with money or of money. Makes me think he either strips or sells his *kitten*. I think real men have direct deposit.

    What? You don't like my coin collection? My brother collected a lot of it for me while he was overseas.
  • SwannySez wrote: »
    If she cannot accept me turning 92% of comments into innuendo.

    That number is a little low... don't you think? ;) 😘
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »
    If she cannot accept me turning 92% of comments into innuendo.

    That number is a little low... don't you think? ;) 😘

    Shhh, we don't want to scare them off.
  • zorander6
    zorander6 Posts: 2,713 Member
    zorander6 wrote: »
    If he posts pictures with money or of money. Makes me think he either strips or sells his *kitten*. I think real men have direct deposit.

    What? You don't like my coin collection? My brother collected a lot of it for me while he was overseas.

    cut87x2ljpga.gif

    Well what about my collection of chess boards? I mean I need to replace a few pieces on the onyx one and not sure where the sandstone one went to but they are quite nice. And that triangle is well drawn, you can clearly see the professor knows what he's talking about.
  • CharlieCharlie007
    CharlieCharlie007 Posts: 246 Member
    no zombies or other supernatural creatures like ghosts

    Well.........thats just wrong!