That’s NOT actually a dealbreaker

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  • kindalikevelma
    kindalikevelma Posts: 1,337 Member
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    iMago wrote: »
    kindalikevelma wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    messy bathroom counters.
    i make fun of it as much as anybody but it doesn't actually bother me- i think its actually cute in a way.

    *notice there's a difference between messy and dirty though

    Right, I could deal with an occasionally messy car in a partner. Dirty though, I’m gifting you a clean car club membership to Waterway.

    yeah messy doesn't bother me in a car either. dirty is def another story there too.
    like i keep books in my truck, a camera tripod, a tent, whatever. but i vacuum it and hit it with the Meguiar's on the regular too.

    but when you get into someone's car or whatever, and they got yknow used mcdonalds bags in the floorboard, where you gotta kick em out the way- that's a deal breaker.

    Starbucks cups from god knows when, with little mold floaties in the melted ice. I’m out.

    I had a friend with a sriracha bottle that had exploded in the back seat, and she just left it there.

    You think you know a person and then you see their car.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
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    kindalikevelma wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    kindalikevelma wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    messy bathroom counters.
    i make fun of it as much as anybody but it doesn't actually bother me- i think its actually cute in a way.

    *notice there's a difference between messy and dirty though

    Right, I could deal with an occasionally messy car in a partner. Dirty though, I’m gifting you a clean car club membership to Waterway.

    yeah messy doesn't bother me in a car either. dirty is def another story there too.
    like i keep books in my truck, a camera tripod, a tent, whatever. but i vacuum it and hit it with the Meguiar's on the regular too.

    but when you get into someone's car or whatever, and they got yknow used mcdonalds bags in the floorboard, where you gotta kick em out the way- that's a deal breaker.

    Starbucks cups from god knows when, with little mold floaties in the melted ice. I’m out.

    I had a friend with a sriracha bottle that had exploded in the back seat, and she just left it there.

    You think you know a person and then you see their car.

    this is another good thread idea- post a picture of the inside of your car *right now* and see how badly we end up judging each other.
  • kindalikevelma
    kindalikevelma Posts: 1,337 Member
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    iMago wrote: »
    kindalikevelma wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    kindalikevelma wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    messy bathroom counters.
    i make fun of it as much as anybody but it doesn't actually bother me- i think its actually cute in a way.

    *notice there's a difference between messy and dirty though

    Right, I could deal with an occasionally messy car in a partner. Dirty though, I’m gifting you a clean car club membership to Waterway.

    yeah messy doesn't bother me in a car either. dirty is def another story there too.
    like i keep books in my truck, a camera tripod, a tent, whatever. but i vacuum it and hit it with the Meguiar's on the regular too.

    but when you get into someone's car or whatever, and they got yknow used mcdonalds bags in the floorboard, where you gotta kick em out the way- that's a deal breaker.

    Starbucks cups from god knows when, with little mold floaties in the melted ice. I’m out.

    I had a friend with a sriracha bottle that had exploded in the back seat, and she just left it there.

    You think you know a person and then you see their car.

    this is another good thread idea- post a picture of the inside of your car *right now* and see how badly we end up judging each other.

    y4tyll3hj4jy.gif

  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    If he has a sordid past, I won't be swayed

    @Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings


    Define sordid.



    ... I'm asking for a friend.

    If the events in question have weighed on your friends conscience, they can be considered sordid. If they have not.... deal breaker.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    If you like imagine dragons... But it's close
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    SnackherBarrell wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    If you like imagine dragons... But it's close

    At least there's hope for me

    Why do you think it's in the "Not actually" thread? Lol
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
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    If he has zero fashion sense, I really don't mind. And if he is not trendy, even better.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    If he has zero fashion sense, I really don't mind. And if he is not trendy, even better.

    Dis me most of the time... Other times is not 🤷🏽‍♂️

    ETA... I forgive myself for using "Dis" lol
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
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    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    If he has zero fashion sense, I really don't mind. And if he is not trendy, even better.

    Dis me most of the time... Other times is not 🤷🏽‍♂️

    ETA... I forgive myself for using "Dis" lol

    I really like to see a guy in a tshirt and jeans or something relaxed... especially since I will steal his tshirt when he's not looking and wear it to bed :)
  • george5911
    george5911 Posts: 3,910 Member
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    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    If he has zero fashion sense, I really don't mind. And if he is not trendy, even better.

    Blue Jeans (that fit).
    T-shirts.
    Boots.
    All day every day.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    If he has zero fashion sense, I really don't mind. And if he is not trendy, even better.

    Dis me most of the time... Other times is not 🤷🏽‍♂️

    ETA... I forgive myself for using "Dis" lol

    I really like to see a guy in a tshirt and jeans or something relaxed... especially since I will steal his tshirt when he's not looking and wear it to bed :)

    I'm most comfortable in Jean or cargo shorts but nice ones, not the baggy ones, maybe a little snug, a tank top and a nice light jacket...

    ctfd7p02ki9s.jpg

    So yeah... You can steal my shirts, just make sure you hang them back up for me in alphabetical order lol
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
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    george5911 wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    If he has zero fashion sense, I really don't mind. And if he is not trendy, even better.

    Blue Jeans (that fit).
    T-shirts.
    Boots.
    All day every day.

    :)
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
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    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    If he has zero fashion sense, I really don't mind. And if he is not trendy, even better.

    Dis me most of the time... Other times is not 🤷🏽‍♂️

    ETA... I forgive myself for using "Dis" lol

    I really like to see a guy in a tshirt and jeans or something relaxed... especially since I will steal his tshirt when he's not looking and wear it to bed :)

    I'm most comfortable in Jean or cargo shorts but nice ones, not the baggy ones, maybe a little snug, a tank top and a nice light jacket...

    ctfd7p02ki9s.jpg

    So yeah... You can steal my shirts, just make sure you hang them back up for me in alphabetical order lol

    For starters, I said steal... not borrow... and secondly, you now remind me of the husband in sleeping with the enemy.
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
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    SnackherBarrell wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    If he has zero fashion sense, I really don't mind. And if he is not trendy, even better.

    Dis me most of the time... Other times is not 🤷🏽‍♂️

    ETA... I forgive myself for using "Dis" lol

    I really like to see a guy in a tshirt and jeans or something relaxed... especially since I will steal his tshirt when he's not looking and wear it to bed :)

    I'm most comfortable in Jean or cargo shorts but nice ones, not the baggy ones, maybe a little snug, a tank top and a nice light jacket...

    ctfd7p02ki9s.jpg

    So yeah... You can steal my shirts, just make sure you hang them back up for me in alphabetical order lol

    Das swag

    ^ that too

  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    If he has zero fashion sense, I really don't mind. And if he is not trendy, even better.

    Dis me most of the time... Other times is not 🤷🏽‍♂️

    ETA... I forgive myself for using "Dis" lol

    I really like to see a guy in a tshirt and jeans or something relaxed... especially since I will steal his tshirt when he's not looking and wear it to bed :)

    I'm most comfortable in Jean or cargo shorts but nice ones, not the baggy ones, maybe a little snug, a tank top and a nice light jacket...

    ctfd7p02ki9s.jpg

    So yeah... You can steal my shirts, just make sure you hang them back up for me in alphabetical order lol

    For starters, I said steal... not borrow... and secondly, you now remind me of the husband in sleeping with the enemy.

    There's the telephone ☎️
    You could call the police...
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    SnackherBarrell wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    If he has zero fashion sense, I really don't mind. And if he is not trendy, even better.

    Dis me most of the time... Other times is not 🤷🏽‍♂️

    ETA... I forgive myself for using "Dis" lol

    I really like to see a guy in a tshirt and jeans or something relaxed... especially since I will steal his tshirt when he's not looking and wear it to bed :)

    I'm most comfortable in Jean or cargo shorts but nice ones, not the baggy ones, maybe a little snug, a tank top and a nice light jacket...

    ctfd7p02ki9s.jpg

    So yeah... You can steal my shirts, just make sure you hang them back up for me in alphabetical order lol

    Das swag
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    SnackherBarrell wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    If he has zero fashion sense, I really don't mind. And if he is not trendy, even better.

    Dis me most of the time... Other times is not 🤷🏽‍♂️

    ETA... I forgive myself for using "Dis" lol

    I really like to see a guy in a tshirt and jeans or something relaxed... especially since I will steal his tshirt when he's not looking and wear it to bed :)

    I'm most comfortable in Jean or cargo shorts but nice ones, not the baggy ones, maybe a little snug, a tank top and a nice light jacket...

    ctfd7p02ki9s.jpg

    So yeah... You can steal my shirts, just make sure you hang them back up for me in alphabetical order lol

    Das swag

    ^ that too

    😘😘

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