Dating Turn Offs and Red Flags

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  • back_in_black
    back_in_black Posts: 1,066 Member
    Dating, in general, is a turn-off.
  • rayraymarq8
    rayraymarq8 Posts: 246 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    Red Flags:

    Criminal record
    Unstable job history
    Talks about an ex a lot
    Has tons of scantily clad women as friends on social media pages.
    Overly jealous


    Turn offs:

    Smoking
    Drinks too much
    Poor hygiene of any kind, esp bad teeth
    Short
    Overweight
    Lazy, lack of effort
    Only texts and doesnt call
    Flaky, breaks promises

    Our Pastor has an extensive criminal record prior to being saved and changing his life...now runs the 4th largest growing church in the US, travels the world preaching and helping poverty stricken people.
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    back_in_black wrote: »
    Dating, in general, is a turn-off.

    SO true!
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
    back_in_black wrote: »
    Dating, in general, is a turn-off.

    It's like a feeling of dread... 😅
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    edited December 2018
    Turn offs -

    Helpless
    Intellectual lazy
    Hypersensitivity (physical and emotional)
    Self righteousness
    Self centered
    Panics
    Accepts BS from friends and family as reality

    Red flags -

    Thinks they are somehow superior to people who are not as fortunate or people who work in any type of service industry...

    The Bridezilla type
  • back_in_black
    back_in_black Posts: 1,066 Member
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    back_in_black wrote: »
    Dating, in general, is a turn-off.

    SO true!
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    back_in_black wrote: »
    Dating, in general, is a turn-off.

    It's like a feeling of dread... 😅

    We should start a support group.
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
    back_in_black wrote: »
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    back_in_black wrote: »
    Dating, in general, is a turn-off.

    SO true!
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »
    back_in_black wrote: »
    Dating, in general, is a turn-off.

    It's like a feeling of dread... 😅

    We should start a support group.

    You're lookin' at it, bud... 😆
  • competeagain4x
    competeagain4x Posts: 167 Member
    I’m so picky and all over the place what could be a turnoff for one woman could be a turn on for another woman...and vice versa
    Who knows
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited December 2018
    @competeagain4x

    See, I never knew this was a thing. Do you need a fancy phone for that? Lol.
  • competeagain4x
    competeagain4x Posts: 167 Member
    ?
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    denny_mac wrote: »
    rayraymarq8 wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    Red Flags:

    Criminal record
    Unstable job history
    Talks about an ex a lot
    Has tons of scantily clad women as friends on social media pages.
    Overly jealous


    Turn offs:

    Smoking
    Drinks too much
    Poor hygiene of any kind, esp bad teeth
    Short
    Overweight
    Lazy, lack of effort
    Only texts and doesnt call
    Flaky, breaks promises

    Our Pastor has an extensive criminal record prior to being saved and changing his life...now runs the 4th largest growing church in the US, travels the world preaching and helping poverty stricken people.

    Are you suggesting your pastor should pursue Nooshi?

    W T F?
  • competeagain4x
    competeagain4x Posts: 167 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    @competeagain4x

    See, I never knew this was a thing. Do you need a fancy phone for that? Lol.

    Ahhhh
    I was like “did I say that?!”
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    rayraymarq8 wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    Red Flags:

    Criminal record
    Unstable job history
    Talks about an ex a lot
    Has tons of scantily clad women as friends on social media pages.
    Overly jealous


    Turn offs:

    Smoking
    Drinks too much
    Poor hygiene of any kind, esp bad teeth
    Short
    Overweight
    Lazy, lack of effort
    Only texts and doesnt call
    Flaky, breaks promises

    Our Pastor has an extensive criminal record prior to being saved and changing his life...now runs the 4th largest growing church in the US, travels the world preaching and helping poverty stricken people.

    I am not saying that people can't change or that everyone with a record is bad but generally speaking this is a red flag and I would suggest proceeding with caution.
  • amyelizbeth
    amyelizbeth Posts: 58 Member
    I judge a person based on how they treat servers/retail workers etc. because if they treat a complete stranger, that is just doing their job, how are they going to treat me?

    Also if they refuse to get a job or, if they are unemployed, don't even try to find a new job

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