Dating Turn Offs and Red Flags
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Turn off...expectations4
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Android user - do I even have read receipts? I don't think so. I can't see when other people have read my messages, either. Is this really a thing? Are people actually getting all het up because someone may or may not have "read" their message at 12:53 but now it's 1:04 and they still haven't responded? This is what I hate about texting. Remember back when you wanted to talk to someone and you actually had to call their HOUSE and if they weren't there, you were just out of luck until they got home and called you back. Now everyone in the world thinks that everyone ELSE in the world is at their beck and call 24/7.
I know. I'll get back to looking for my teeth and shaking my cane at whippersnappers.4 -
JeepHair77 wrote: »Android user - do I even have read receipts? I don't think so. I can't see when other people have read my messages, either. Is this really a thing? Are people actually getting all het up because someone may or may not have "read" their message at 12:53 but now it's 1:04 and they still haven't responded? This is what I hate about texting. Remember back when you wanted to talk to someone and you actually had to call their HOUSE and if they weren't there, you were just out of luck until they got home and called you back. Now everyone in the world thinks that everyone ELSE in the world is at their beck and call 24/7.
I know. I'll get back to looking for my teeth and shaking my cane at whippersnappers.
yeah i been shouted at IRL and over text for not having mine turned on in the past at least.0 -
i see read receipts in my settings (galaxy 7)
i will not have mine on. too controlling-though i do like fb messenger cause i can see if they read my message or not. horse a piece.
not sure what i'm looking for this time around.
turn off
heavy drinker/drug user
heavily invested into a particular stance.
mansplaining
bad grooming
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aerospace_engineer wrote: »Red flag: Lists all the things they dont want in a relationship/partner. When asked what do they want in a partner.
Turn off: someone who is misleading
Yeah agreed.
Or when you try to break it off with someone they give you a list of your pros and cons.
Pal. That doesn't endear me to you surprisingly enough.0 -
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Yeah agreed.
Or when you try to break it off with someone they give you a list of your pros and cons.
Pal. That doesn't endear me to you surprisingly enough. [/quote]
Lol I dont think I have ever been in that scenario. would love to see how that one would pan out.
That just feels odd in thought. What do you do with that? Take it as constructive criticism? ........ I have however been in a scenario where an ex tried to give me advice for my next partner. That was awkward. 😂0 -
Red flag
If she jumps in to bed on the first date.
That's about the only deal breaker1 -
aerospace_engineer wrote: »
Or when you try to break it off with someone they give you a list of your pros and cons.
Pal. That doesn't endear me to you surprisingly enough. [/quote]
Lol I dont think I have ever been in that scenario. would love to see how that one would pan out.
That just feels odd in thought. What do you do with that? Take it as constructive criticism? ........ I have however been in a scenario where an ex tried to give me advice for my next partner. That was awkward. 😂[/quote]
😂😂 My reaction was, "OK. Bye!" It was ridiculous stuff as well, like, "I don't lie it when girls wear their hair up"
Good god. Giving you advice, bit presumptuous.0 -
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Dating, in general, is a turn-off.3
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Red Flags:
Criminal record
Unstable job history
Talks about an ex a lot
Has tons of scantily clad women as friends on social media pages.
Overly jealous
Turn offs:
Smoking
Drinks too much
Poor hygiene of any kind, esp bad teeth
Short
Overweight
Lazy, lack of effort
Only texts and doesnt call
Flaky, breaks promises
Our Pastor has an extensive criminal record prior to being saved and changing his life...now runs the 4th largest growing church in the US, travels the world preaching and helping poverty stricken people.1 -
back_in_black wrote: »Dating, in general, is a turn-off.
SO true!1 -
back_in_black wrote: »Dating, in general, is a turn-off.
It's like a feeling of dread... 😅2 -
Turn offs -
Helpless
Intellectual lazy
Hypersensitivity (physical and emotional)
Self righteousness
Self centered
Panics
Accepts BS from friends and family as reality
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Thinks they are somehow superior to people who are not as fortunate or people who work in any type of service industry...
The Bridezilla type0 -
Cutemesoon wrote: »back_in_black wrote: »Dating, in general, is a turn-off.
SO true!Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »back_in_black wrote: »Dating, in general, is a turn-off.
It's like a feeling of dread... 😅
We should start a support group.1 -
back_in_black wrote: »Cutemesoon wrote: »back_in_black wrote: »Dating, in general, is a turn-off.
SO true!Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »back_in_black wrote: »Dating, in general, is a turn-off.
It's like a feeling of dread... 😅
We should start a support group.
You're lookin' at it, bud... 😆1 -
I’m so picky and all over the place what could be a turnoff for one woman could be a turn on for another woman...and vice versa
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