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Ok or not Ok

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  • dallsop417
    dallsop417 Posts: 1,031 Member
    Depends who with and if an every day thing or not. Ok if with a partner and just because something happened to yours or was be mistake.

    Watching a movie/show and wanting the bad guy to win
  • lauragreenbaum
    lauragreenbaum Posts: 1,017 Member
    OK
    taking a photo of a celebrity you see at LAX without asking
  • dallsop417
    dallsop417 Posts: 1,031 Member
    It’s ok. They must be used to it and they put themselves out there anyway so they can’t really moan. They get paid big money so it’s fine. Personally not something I would do though as I’m not interested in celebrities as they are just people doing a job just like everyone else.

    Is it ok that I think celebrities are over rated and probably shouldn’t get attention that they do? 😂
  • OY74NmFGBL
    OY74NmFGBL Posts: 384 Member
    That's okay I agree.

    Popping your earbuds in at work to drone out the boring office talk
  • mommabear4315
    mommabear4315 Posts: 3,424 Member
    Ok depends on the mood I’m in.

    Calling in sick another week because you really feel like you would be over Exerting yourself and possibly hurt yourself.
  • lauragreenbaum
    lauragreenbaum Posts: 1,017 Member
    OK- health comes first
    Asking someone who has cancer what type they have
  • dallsop417
    dallsop417 Posts: 1,031 Member
    Ok I guess but need to read the situation first. Some might be ok them questions and showing interest/concern but others might not want to keep talking about it and want to try to have a normal life outside of the treatments and side effects that come with it.

    Saying “no offence, but...........”
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    edited January 2020
    Not ok, very tacky. You can wisely choose to temper any thought through classy diction and panache if you are witty enough.

    Coughing without shielding with your bent elbow
  • lauragreenbaum
    lauragreenbaum Posts: 1,017 Member
    Not ok
    Telling a friend you've lost respect for her because she's dating a married man
  • dallsop417
    dallsop417 Posts: 1,031 Member
    Not ok
    Telling a friend you've lost respect for her because she's dating a married man

    Not ok really if still being friends with her. I don’t agree with cheating but if others do then you can accept it or not be around them.

    Dating someone to get a business deal done
  • PAPYRUS3
    PAPYRUS3 Posts: 13,259 Member
    It's ok if you could live with yourself there afterwards...or basically if you don't mind selling yourself...I do not fall in that category...

    Not shaking someone's hand when meeting them due to not wanting to come in contact with someone else's 'germs'
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    Not ok, keep anti bacterial handy and use discretely right after.

    Hugging someone you just meet?
  • PAPYRUS3
    PAPYRUS3 Posts: 13,259 Member
    Probably not...you don't want to infringe on someone's boundaries.

    Getting plastic surgery done for cosmetic purposes only
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    That's not my business to judge, not so different from false eyelashes , dyed hair or colored contacts, however more dangerous and much more expensive!
    ( Just don't over do it and check the plastic surgeon's credentials and reviews) 😬

    Eating like a 13 year old and getting lipo often
    instead of eating better and exercise?
  • michaelroode
    michaelroode Posts: 173 Member
    edited January 2020
    not ok

    When you say hello to your ex you kiss them just a peck
  • ketocurves889
    ketocurves889 Posts: 151 Member
    Not okay

    Being friends with your ex's new partner
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    Ok

    Forgiving but placing mental, emotional, and physical boundaries when hanging out with them.
  • dallsop417
    dallsop417 Posts: 1,031 Member
    Ok. Not going to waste it for no reason if just me. If others there too I would make ask if anyone else wanted it first though.

    Having days where you only reach your calorie target because you drank so much alcohol
  • ketocurves889
    ketocurves889 Posts: 151 Member
    Probably not okay for your liver lol


    Not replacing the toilet paper roll when it's empty
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    Not ok

    Putting hazelnut extract in your black coffee
  • dallsop417
    dallsop417 Posts: 1,031 Member
    That’s ok, I like it. Adding ginger to coffee is good too. Well at least in Turkish coffee.

    Fancy dress parties
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    edited January 2020
    Absolutely, I love modestly "showing off" my new body and thirft store shopping is fun!

    Hmmm... I need to try Turkish coffee...

    Cafe du Monde Chicory coffee

  • dallsop417
    dallsop417 Posts: 1,031 Member
    Never heard of that so I just googled. It’s a French coffee but made in USA, lol. Only guessing but would side with not ok because I like coffee too much to think usa could be good, though I might be wrong. Same as wine, never get usa ones, terrible.you should try Turkish. It’s strong and can be bitter, so won’t be like a good Italian roast, so down to personal tastes really. But lots of different coffees for different moods, just like lots of teas and wines.

    I do have a ok or not ok question but it’s a serious one that’s just come up so need to think of how to word it. To be continued............... 😂
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    edited January 2020
    dallsop417 wrote: »
    Never heard of that so I just googled. It’s a French coffee but made in USA, lol. Only guessing but would side with not ok because I like coffee too much to think usa could be good, though I might be wrong. Same as wine, never get usa ones, terrible.you should try Turkish. It’s strong and can be bitter, so won’t be like a good Italian roast, so down to personal tastes really. But lots of different coffees for different moods, just like lots of teas and wines.

    I do have a ok or not ok question but it’s a serious one that’s just come up so need to think of how to word it. To be continued............... 😂
    dallsop417 wrote: »
    Never heard of that so I just googled. It’s a French coffee but made in USA, lol. Only guessing but would side with not ok because I like coffee too much to think usa could be good, though I might be wrong. Same as wine, never get usa ones, terrible.you should try Turkish. It’s strong and can be bitter, so won’t be like a good Italian roast, so down to personal tastes really. But lots of different coffees for different moods, just like lots of teas and wines.

    I do have a ok or not ok question but it’s a serious one that’s just come up so need to think of how to word it. To be continued............... 😂

    Actually it's inspired by the Ceroles, immigrants from France... Louisiana area. I took a street tour of the French quarters with a local history professor - fascinating.
  • dallsop417
    dallsop417 Posts: 1,031 Member
    That sounds interesting. It’s the type of thing I like doing as well sometimes.

    So..........a couple of weeks ago I met some random in a bar. As I do with all randoms that show interest, I said I am not looking or wanting a relationship with anyone. We got on ok and came back to my house for the night/morning and had “fun”. We have been out together a few times since and even cooked dinner on my yacht but the random seems to be getting too attached. Lots of texts and if I don’t reply to texts within an hour, because I’m busy, i get phone calls instead. Random seems a bit vulnerable with a need to be in a relationship and seems like random gets depressed when rejected, which I think is also being used to try and guilt trip me. Told random last night that we won’t be having extra “fun” anymore because of all those reasons. So.........is it ok to still be friends or to stop contact completely?
  • isalsayourface123
    isalsayourface123 Posts: 2,153 Member
    dallsop417 wrote: »
    That sounds interesting. It’s the type of thing I like doing as well sometimes.

    So..........a couple of weeks ago I met some random in a bar. As I do with all randoms that show interest, I said I am not looking or wanting a relationship with anyone. We got on ok and came back to my house for the night/morning and had “fun”. We have been out together a few times since and even cooked dinner on my yacht but the random seems to be getting too attached. Lots of texts and if I don’t reply to texts within an hour, because I’m busy, i get phone calls instead. Random seems a bit vulnerable with a need to be in a relationship and seems like random gets depressed when rejected, which I think is also being used to try and guilt trip me. Told random last night that we won’t be having extra “fun” anymore because of all those reasons. So.........is it ok to still be friends or to stop contact completely?

    Not ok. You see she's getting attached. It will be mixed messages if you say no more "fun" but then try to continue contact....she'll read into it. And you call her random...doesnt sound like a friend...so cut contact.
  • epangili
    epangili Posts: 818 Member
    edited January 2020
    dallsop417 wrote: »
    That sounds interesting. It’s the type of thing I like doing as well sometimes.

    So..........a couple of weeks ago I met some random in a bar. As I do with all randoms that show interest, I said I am not looking or wanting a relationship with anyone. We got on ok and came back to my house for the night/morning and had “fun”. We have been out together a few times since and even cooked dinner on my yacht but the random seems to be getting too attached. Lots of texts and if I don’t reply to texts within an hour, because I’m busy, i get phone calls instead. Random seems a bit vulnerable with a need to be in a relationship and seems like random gets depressed when rejected, which I think is also being used to try and guilt trip me. Told random last night that we won’t be having extra “fun” anymore because of all those reasons. So.........is it ok to still be friends or to stop contact completely?

    Not ok. You see she's getting attached. It will be mixed messages if you say no more "fun" but then try to continue contact....she'll read into it. And you call her random...doesnt sound like a friend...so cut contact.

    I agree, clean break for her sake. "Fun" isn't the same on the emotional level for women. Granted all women are different but it's rare if intense emotions are not involved. Plus SEX a real spiritual connection - soul tie that takes place in the invisible realm. Granted, you forewarned her but deep down who can resist hoping for true "love". I'm so glad I'm not in that dating world anymore!!! I'm so thankful to God for love at first sight with a godly man whose intention was to marry me even talking to my pastor(adopted "dad") for my number before me.
  • dallsop417
    dallsop417 Posts: 1,031 Member
    epangili wrote: »
    dallsop417 wrote: »
    That sounds interesting. It’s the type of thing I like doing as well sometimes.

    So..........a couple of weeks ago I met some random in a bar. As I do with all randoms that show interest, I said I am not looking or wanting a relationship with anyone. We got on ok and came back to my house for the night/morning and had “fun”. We have been out together a few times since and even cooked dinner on my yacht but the random seems to be getting too attached. Lots of texts and if I don’t reply to texts within an hour, because I’m busy, i get phone calls instead. Random seems a bit vulnerable with a need to be in a relationship and seems like random gets depressed when rejected, which I think is also being used to try and guilt trip me. Told random last night that we won’t be having extra “fun” anymore because of all those reasons. So.........is it ok to still be friends or to stop contact completely?

    Not ok. You see she's getting attached. It will be mixed messages if you say no more "fun" but then try to continue contact....she'll read into it. And you call her random...doesnt sound like a friend...so cut contact.

    I agree, clean break for her sake. "Fun" isn't the same on the emotional level for women. Granted all women are different but it's rare if intense emotions are not involved. Plus SEX a real spiritual connection - soul tie that takes place in the invisible realm. Granted, you forewarned her but deep down who can resist hoping for true "love". I'm so glad I'm not in thay dating world anymore!!!

    I didn’t say it was a woman, 😂. And pilots of woman have sex as a one night stand without wanting a relationship. My concern is if I break it off completely then that’s more of a rejection but if purely friends then I’m not sure they are able to handle that without wanting more so lots of small rejections. Hard to decide what way will be best to limit the pain for them. I think I should start being annoying when I go out so I don’t keep getting hit on 😂
  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,259 Member
    Reheating fish in the work microwave.
  • dallsop417
    dallsop417 Posts: 1,031 Member
    DWBalboa wrote: »
    Reheating fish in the work microwave.

    Not sure about that one, 😂. Might be ok now and then, as long as you put a little water or oil on it first so it keeps the moisture. I have one of those healthy air fryers to do quick reheats in.