Lent
Lazy_Bones_1985
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Without this turning into a religious debate, I’m curious what you do for Lent if you choose to participate. In years past I have given up meat (2012), soda and juice and Gatorade (2013) and the F word in other years. If I slip, I owe myself 5 push ups. This year I am struggling with ideas. I can’t give up juice and Gatorade this year because of my race schedule and I really struggle with protein if I give up meat. Thanks.
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My best/worst Lent ever I gave up anger. That was a longggggggg 40days.21
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I give up something new every year - haven't decided what to do yet. Honestly giving up swearing would be a good choice for me.3
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Some things people I know have given up for Lent other than what you've considered: caffeine/coffee, sweet baked goods, television, reading fiction, and candy. Not sure if any of those will work for you, but good luck finding something!2
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Alcohol?6
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I think you are on the right track with your general thought process, which is that the thing you give up should be 1. challenging 2. not detrimental to your well being to do so.
You can focus on a lot more than just food though, you can give up a hobby (Netflix, TV, video games, YouTube, Facebook, etc), or even an action (gossiping, anger, etc). So there are a lot of other choices in the non-food area to consider.
Above all, some prayer to help with discernment can always help with this.11 -
I'm giving up rolling my eyes at "Anyone doing keto ?" posts. But only during Lent.52
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I try and make what I give up for lent a true sacrifice but that is a personal decision because of my religion. I usually give up Starbucks because that is a struggle for me. One year I gave up taking any elevators. My rule though is do not give up anything that can hurt your physical or mental health. I had a friend in college who was borderline under weight and gave up meat for lent but did not know how to do it properly so she lost weight and was under weight and developed GI issues. I also could never give up caffeine totally because if I do not have my morning cup I will pretty much fall asleep while driving or at my desk.4
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I think you are on the right track with your general thought process, which is that the thing you give up should be 1. challenging 2. not detrimental to your well being to do so.
You can focus on a lot more than just food though, you can give up a hobby (Netflix, TV, video games, YouTube, Facebook, etc), or even an action (gossiping, anger, etc). So there are a lot of other choices in the non-food area to consider.
Above all, some prayer to help with discernment can always help with this.
What are you placing undo importance on that's hindering your religious walk?
I like the push up idea by the way, I think I may do that too
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I usually give up meat, one year I gave up all animal products (doing something more similar to what Orthodox Christians do), and if I'm actively dieting I make sure to do something non-food-related so my reasoning doesn't get confused. I've also given up coffee, alcohol, and sweets in various years (or actions, like using the internet recreationally), generally in addition to the no meat thing which is a long-standing practice of mine and not that hard for me anything (re alcohol, I don't drink anymore, so can't do that).
I also always add something in.
I love Lent.2 -
garystrickland357 wrote: »My best/worst Lent ever I gave up anger. That was a longggggggg 40days.
That's a good one.3 -
I have done the same type of things in the past. This year I am actually going to continue my focus on my health and I will be adding extra prayer in my life as well as trying to do something special for my wife a couple times a week.7
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jasonsnapp1 wrote: »I have done the same type of things in the past. This year I am actually going to continue my focus on my health and I will be adding extra prayer in my life as well as trying to do something special for my wife a couple times a week.
Mine will be health focused as well - mental health though lol. Most likely centered around getting most eletronic devices out of my life for a good period of time.3 -
Last year instead of giving up something, I incorporated saying a rosary a day. Best Lenten season to date11
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In case anyone else was wondering:
Lent 2019 will begin on
Wednesday, March 6
and ends on
Thursday, April 1812 -
I give up nothing.3
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I wanted to give up people, but apparently that's "socially unacceptable" 😂.
@samiam4114 - I did something similar, except go to all the Sunday services during Lent. Was the best Lenten ever. I'm goung with 5 min gratitude journal for 40 days. It's not giving up per se, but adding in more spirituality and mindfulness.9 -
It’s chocolate this year.3
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Good input! I think I’ll give up complaining about people and stuff and only 3 beers 3X’s a week.1
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things i have thought and or tried:
lenten running streak (slothfulness)
complimenting 1+ person per day(self centeredness)
extra prayer or meditation (pride)
no f word (antisocial behaviors)
rephrasing negativity "i don't wanna" vs "i get to"
saying yes to things that make me uncomfortable but are actually good for me.
random page of bible
new prayer a day
pray for someone a day
healthier cooking12 -
samiam4114 wrote: »Last year instead of giving up something, I incorporated saying a rosary a day. Best Lenten season to date
I like this idea. I’m not Catholic anymore, but when I was, a priest I really respected spoke about not treating Lent as a time of punishment but as an opportunity to improve ourselves by adding a healthy, loving, or giving habit.
Edit because it read as though I used to be a priest.11 -
BecomingMoreAwesome wrote: »samiam4114 wrote: »Last year instead of giving up something, I incorporated saying a rosary a day. Best Lenten season to date
I like this idea. I’m not Catholic anymore, but when I was, a priest I really respected spoke about not treating Lent as a time of punishment but as an opportunity to improve ourselves by adding a healthy, loving, or giving habit.
Edit because it read as though I used to be a priest.
Ha, ha, I was wondering how you go from being a priest to not catholic anymore!5 -
BecomingMoreAwesome wrote: »samiam4114 wrote: »Last year instead of giving up something, I incorporated saying a rosary a day. Best Lenten season to date
I like this idea. I’m not Catholic anymore, but when I was, a priest I really respected spoke about not treating Lent as a time of punishment but as an opportunity to improve ourselves by adding a healthy, loving, or giving habit.
Edit because it read as though I used to be a priest.
That's what I wanted to do as well. I wanted to celebrate the season instead of going with the "i'm giving up candy/soda/sweets" when I really don't have enough to warrant it being anything to give up! Saying that daily rosary was amazing. Felt closer than any church pew honestly, which was incredible. Thinking of doing that again this year.1 -
samiam4114 wrote: »BecomingMoreAwesome wrote: »samiam4114 wrote: »Last year instead of giving up something, I incorporated saying a rosary a day. Best Lenten season to date
I like this idea. I’m not Catholic anymore, but when I was, a priest I really respected spoke about not treating Lent as a time of punishment but as an opportunity to improve ourselves by adding a healthy, loving, or giving habit.
Edit because it read as though I used to be a priest.
That's what I wanted to do as well. I wanted to celebrate the season instead of going with the "i'm giving up candy/soda/sweets" when I really don't have enough to warrant it being anything to give up! Saying that daily rosary was amazing. Felt closer than any church pew honestly, which was incredible. Thinking of doing that again this year.
I like this. Fasting shouldn't be a time of punishment. Jesus chided the pharisees for how they fasted - I think I'll roll with his views lol.6 -
fastfoodietofitcutie wrote: »BecomingMoreAwesome wrote: »samiam4114 wrote: »Last year instead of giving up something, I incorporated saying a rosary a day. Best Lenten season to date
I like this idea. I’m not Catholic anymore, but when I was, a priest I really respected spoke about not treating Lent as a time of punishment but as an opportunity to improve ourselves by adding a healthy, loving, or giving habit.
Edit because it read as though I used to be a priest.
Ha, ha, I was wondering how you go from being a priest to not catholic anymore!
Sometimes even when a comma isn’t required, it really is necessary! I’m also married and female, so an altogether terrible candidate for the priesthood.
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BecomingMoreAwesome wrote: »samiam4114 wrote: »Last year instead of giving up something, I incorporated saying a rosary a day. Best Lenten season to date
I like this idea. I’m not Catholic anymore, but when I was, a priest I really respected spoke about not treating Lent as a time of punishment but as an opportunity to improve ourselves by adding a healthy, loving, or giving habit.
Edit because it read as though I used to be a priest.
Heh, I read it that way at first, even after the edit (it's clear, I just read wrong). ;-)
For me, I like to do both (almost always introduce some additional prayer practice, although often with the idea of seeing if it's something I will keep up afterwards too), and think of both as ways to improve myself (not punishment at all). With giving something up, sometimes it's about just living a slightly simpler life, plainer life, but also sometimes if I go to grab something or do something and realize, no can't, it's an opportunity to think about why. I alternate between giving up something as more of a discipline or way to mark the period of time (for example, I like having meatless periods of the year and think of it as rooted in tradition) and giving up something I'm struggling with both as a way to work on that and to note that I don't need it as a crutch (the anger one that someone mentioned is a good one there, or the internet or shopping for non-essentials, especially if someone uses those to distract themselves -- spend the time doing something more positive or realizing you don't need the distraction, so on).
Hope that's not too much -- I think it's an interesting topic and interesting to see how others approach it.3 -
Thanks for the ideas. I’m not a religious or spiritual person but enjoy the challenge, if you will, of giving something up during Lent. But I really like the ideas of adding something to my routine that will be a challenge. I also like the idea of limiting my time on Facebook (I trade and swap my workshifts in a work group on Facebook so giving it up entirely wouldn’t be possible) but I could limit my time on it. I’ll think about it some more; please keep the ideas coming.3
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I generally go vegetarian Mon thru Thurs and Saturdays, and vegan on Fridays, fast on Ash Wednesday and the Triduum (Thurs., Fri., Sat. before Easter), and try to eat more simple meals. The last couple of years I also set a strict grocery budget of about 1/3 of what I usually spend and give the difference to charity (usually a food bank or something else to benefit people facing economic challenges). And I try to be more regular about spending some time every day in prayer and reflection.9
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Since lent is based on sacrifice I’ll give up on something I feel like I know I’ll struggle with, so coffee, and for material- not sure yet maybe giving up make up that’s the only materialistic thing I use daily that I enjoy.0
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There's some great ideas in here. I'm not Catholic but I have grandparents and aunts and uncles who are and so Lent has always been a part of my life as just something I do on my own. Even aside from the religious aspects it feels great to set aside a period of time like this for self improvement and self reflection.
In addition to reading the Bible daily I'm planning to give up diet cokes because I really have started to dislike how addicted I feel, they're probably something like 70% of my fluid intake at this point. I'll be replacing it with unsweet tea (unfortunately too weak willed to give up caffeine COMPLETELY...) but I hope this is a change that will last more than 40 days.4 -
Lent 2009 was my introduction to intermittent fasting because that was my chosen Lenten sacrifice. To make it sacrificial, I strive to have a 22 hour fasting period as many days as possible.
Lost 17 lbs. and learned a valuable lesson. Don’t eat big when ending a long-duration fast.
This Lent? Well, I’m an IF practitioner so choosing fasting isn’t sacrificial enough. Maybe I’ll give up being annoyed by my “secret admirers” here who frequently woo me.0
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