Friends Lists: An MFP Dialogue
I bet a lot of people here look at their Friends List (FL) in very different ways and I think it would be fun to find out how . Me? If I see someone who makes me laugh or with whom I want to make the beast with two backs or who seems smarter than the average bear or who tends to post scandalous photos of themselves in varying states of undress? I sent a Friend Request (FR). I also pretty much accept any FR that comes my way (unless you've done wronged me). So I have a large FL filled with people who are no longer here, who I can't always keep up with and sometimes don't even know. But it's fun. here's people who have been on there since 2012. I also assume that once you're on, that you'll never leave because, duh, I am a Golden God.
But enough about me.
But enough about me.
- Who do you add and why?
- Do you have criteria for who you will accept?
- Are you shy about sending FRs out of a fear of rejection?
- Should MFP change it so that you are notified when someone unfriends you?
- Will you taker back someone who has unfriended you?
- Will you accept someone who rejected your FR and then sends you one of their own?
- Do you like cheese?
- Have you ever had a threesome?
- How much yourself re you on other people's walls?
- Do you have any general knowledge you'd like to drop about FRs or your or others' FLs?
- Do you notice when someone unfriends you?
- Could you say right now without looking how many friends you have here on MFP?
- Do you want to leave an anonymous message for someone?
- Do you want to sign a little song?
- Do a little dance?
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I only add people I detest. So I have ample material to detest them on.5
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I RARELY send requests.
1 & 2 I accept people I have interacted with or people from RL. I used to accept anyone but that got boring.
3. Yes
4. No
5. Yes
6. Yes
7. Yes
8. Yes
9. Not much
10. Nope
11. Yes
12. Yes
13. I’d friend you hard
14. I’m a little teapot
15. Make a little love, get down tonight1 -
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Yes to most questions...
I don't add people because I don't want to get rejected 😜5 -
Wait. I think I kittened up the order. Can we get a numbered list next time?
ETA: I mean, I DO like cheese and I have refrained from sending requests out of fear0 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Wait. I think I kittened up the order. Can we get a numbered list next time?
ETA: I mean, I DO like cheese and I have refrained from sending requests out of fear
Better? ARE YOU HAPPY NOW?1 -
*I rarely send out FR. And when I do it's because I've deleted my account and want my old friends back.
*I like to observe a user before I add. Then I make my judgement if they will add value to my friend list or not. If I haven't seen you, more than likely you will not be added.
* I sent out 3 friend request this week to all girls. I wanted more female support but guess what?.... none accepted. So yes, definitely shy about it but I did it anyway but no hard feelings because again, if they think I won't add value to their list or if they hate my face.. that's okay too. I can't be everyone's favorite cup of tea.
*no
* I have
*maybe
*hell yes!
* no
* not much love wall here
* no
* sometimes
* yes
* no
* sign nooo but I can sing one
* no. I'm sore.4 -
Yes, much. Btw, cranky Swanny amuses me.your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Wait. I think I kittened up the order. Can we get a numbered list next time?
ETA: I mean, I DO like cheese and I have refrained from sending requests out of fear
Better? ARE YOU HAPPY NOW?
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1.Who do you add and why? I add anyone.
2.Do you have criteria for who you will accept? Nope
3. Are you shy about sending FRs out of a fear of rejection? I rarely send them.
4.Should MFP change it so that you are notified when someone unfriends you? Yes
5.Will you taker back someone who has unfriended you? Nope, you only get 1 chance.
6. Will you accept someone who rejected your FR and then sends you one of their own? Maybe
7. Do you like cheese? Love it!
8. Have you ever had a threesome? Yes, but only because I wanted the dude’s wife and he wasn’t allowed to touch me.
9. How much yourself re you on other people's walls? Rarely
10. Do you have any general knowledge you'd like to drop about FRs or your or others' FLs? Nope
11. Do you notice when someone unfriends you? Nope
12. Could you say right now without looking how many friends you have here on MFP? Nope
13. Do you want to leave an anonymous message for someone? Nope
15. Do you want to sign a little song? Nope
16. Do a little dance? Nope1 -
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Moon_Stone wrote: »Don't hold me to this answer because I'm moody af and this could change tomorrow. I was once told that I give an F off energy so I don't get many requests.
- Who do you add and why? If I've interacted and if I think that they'd be interesting to get to know.
- Do you have criteria for who you will accept? Yes.
- Are you shy about sending FRs out of a fear of rejection? Sometimes.
- Should MFP change it so that you are notified when someone unfriends you? Definitely. That would be awesome.
- Will you taker back someone who has unfriended you? Yes. I forgive easily unless I don't.
- Will you accept someone who rejected your FR and then sends you one of their own? Probably if I think that they aren't just snoops.
- Do you like cheese? Depends what kind.
- Have you ever had a threesome? Nope. Not interested or my cup of tea.
- How much yourself re you on other people's walls? ????????
- Do you have any general knowledge you'd like to drop about FRs or your or others' FLs? No
- Do you notice when someone unfriends you? Sometimes, but I figure they have their reasons or whatever so I don't hold a grudge, but sometimes I might take it really personal and won't reach out to them ever again even to find out why. Sometimes, I wonder if it was me or them.
- Could you say right now without looking how many friends you have here on MFP? Yes.
- Do you want to leave an anonymous message for someone? No
- Do you want to sign a little song? I don't know much sign language unless it's the bird sign.
- Do a little dance? A little bubble here and there maybe.
*fine print ~ these answers might only be valid for 24 hours.
i admire your attention to detail1 - Who do you add and why? If I've interacted and if I think that they'd be interesting to get to know.
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I only add Premium members
because standards4 -
I bet a lot of people here look at their Friends List (FL) in very different ways and I think it would be fun to find out how . Me? If I see someone who makes me laugh or with whom I want to make the beast with two backs or who seems smarter than the average bear or who tends to post scandalous photos of themselves in varying states of undress? I sent a Friend Request (FR). I also pretty much accept any FR that comes my way (unless you've done wronged me). So I have a large FL filled with people who are no longer here, who I can't always keep up with and sometimes don't even know. But it's fun. There's people who have been on there since 2012. I also assume that once you're on, that you'll never leave because, duh, I am a Golden God.
But enough about me.- Who do you add and why?
- Do you have criteria for who you will accept?
- Are you shy about sending FRs out of a fear of rejection?
- Should MFP change it so that you are notified when someone unfriends you?
- Will you take back someone who has unfriended you?
- Will you accept someone who rejected your FR and then sends you one of their own?
- Do you like cheese?
- Have you ever had a threesome?
- How much yourself are you on other people's walls?
- Do you have any general knowledge you'd like to drop about FRs or your or others' FLs?
- Do you notice when someone unfriends you?
- Could you say right now without looking how many friends you have here on MFP?
- Do you want to leave an anonymous message for someone?
- Do you want to sing a little song?
- Do a little dance?
1. People who make me laugh or I have something in common with. Because I like to laugh and relate to people
2. Sometimes I will only accept if there is a message. Other times I'm not so fussy
3. Yes, but not out of fear of rejection, out of fear of me neglecting them
4. Nah
5. Yes. I probably would just think it was a system glitch
6. Yes. See above
7. Love it
8. No
9. I'm myself everywhere, I'm just more comfortable being more so with friends
10. Nope. I'm blank
11. Nope
12. About 118?
13. I love you. Yes you. No really
14. Always
15. Always and then get down tonight
Edited to correct Swanny's spelling2 - Who do you add and why?
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caco_ethes wrote: »I only add Premium members
because standards
I haz no standards, how do you think @SwannySez made it onto my list?2 -
caco_ethes wrote: »I only add Premium members
because standards
There's always an exception to the "standards".1 -
RomaineCalm wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I only add Premium members
because standards
There's always an exception to the "standards".
This must be why she sent me a FR.2 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I only add Premium members
because standards
I haz no standards, how do you think @SwannySez made it onto my list?
You are SO dead to me right now.
*typed through tears*0 -
1. Who do you add and why?
I usually add people that communicate with on the forums.
2. Do you have criteria for who you will accept?
I prefer adding people that inspire me to be more creative with my posts.
3. Are you shy about sending FRs out of a fear of rejection?
Yes and no. I had a particular person that somewhat hurt my feelings because I assumed she unfriended me, until I realized it’s MFP that glitched and she didn’t in fact delete me. Since then I realized that aside from this site having too many unpredictable malfunctions, if someone doesn’t add me it’s ultimately their loss. I don’t add people often, but when I do it’s because I truly value that person’s input within the forums. Sometimes it’s not reciprocal. That’s life!
4. Should MFP change it so that you are notified when someone unfriends you?
Yes.
5. Will you taker back someone who has unfriended you?
Depends on what’s said in the messages and what’s the context behind why I was unfriended. Refer to question 3.
6. Will you accept someone who rejected your FR and then sends you one of their own?
Again, depends on the context of the situation and whether I have interacted with that person in the past.
7. Do you like cheese?
Yes yes yes!
8. Have you ever had a threesome?
No.
9. How much yourself re you on other people's walls?
Depends on my mood.
10. Do you have any general knowledge you'd like to drop about FRs or your or others' FLs?
You got a friend in me!
11. Do you notice when someone unfriends you?
Yes.
12. Could you say right now without looking how many friends you have here on MFP?
Maybe I think I have 35 friends if I’m not mistaken.
13. Do you want to leave an anonymous message for someone?
I’d drink you’re tea anytime! 😏
14. Do you want to sign a little song?
This is the song that never ends...
15. Do a little dance?
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laprimaJenny wrote: »1. Who do you add and why?
I usually add people that communicate with on the forums.
2. Do you have criteria for who you will accept?
I prefer adding people that inspire me to be more creative with my posts.
3. Are you shy about sending FRs out of a fear of rejection?
Yes and no. I had a particular person that somewhat hurt my feelings because I assumed she unfriended me, until I realized it’s MFP that glitched and she didn’t in fact delete me. Since then I realized that aside from this site having too many unpredictable malfunctions, if someone doesn’t add me it’s ultimately their loss. I don’t add people often, but when I do it’s because I truly value that person’s input within the forums. Sometimes it’s not reciprocal. That’s life!
4. Should MFP change it so that you are notified when someone unfriends you?
Yes.
5. Will you taker back someone who has unfriended you?
Depends on what’s said in the messages and what’s the context behind why I was unfriended. Refer to question 3.
6. Will you accept someone who rejected your FR and then sends you one of their own?
Again, depends on the context of the situation and whether I have interacted with that person in the past.
7. Do you like cheese?
Yes yes yes!
8. Have you ever had a threesome?
No.
9. How much yourself re you on other people's walls?
Depends on my mood.
10. Do you have any general knowledge you'd like to drop about FRs or your or others' FLs?
You got a friend in me!
11. Do you notice when someone unfriends you?
Yes.
12. Could you say right now without looking how many friends you have here on MFP?
Maybe I think I have 35 friends if I’m not mistaken.
13. Do you want to leave an anonymous message for someone?
I’d drink you’re tea anytime! 😏
14. Do you want to sign a little song?
This is the song that never ends...
15. Do a little dance?
I’m a *kitten* friend Jenny, but I do ❤️ you.1 -
Versicolour wrote: »I bet a lot of people here look at their Friends List (FL) in very different ways and I think it would be fun to find out how . Me? If I see someone who makes me laugh or with whom I want to make the beast with two backs or who seems smarter than the average bear or who tends to post scandalous photos of themselves in varying states of undress? I sent a Friend Request (FR). I also pretty much accept any FR that comes my way (unless you've done wronged me). So I have a large FL filled with people who are no longer here, who I can't always keep up with and sometimes don't even know. But it's fun. There's people who have been on there since 2012. I also assume that once you're on, that you'll never leave because, duh, I am a Golden God.
But enough about me.- Who do you add and why?
- Do you have criteria for who you will accept?
- Are you shy about sending FRs out of a fear of rejection?
- Should MFP change it so that you are notified when someone unfriends you?
- Will you take back someone who has unfriended you?
- Will you accept someone who rejected your FR and then sends you one of their own?
- Do you like cheese?
- Have you ever had a threesome?
- How much yourself are you on other people's walls?
- Do you have any general knowledge you'd like to drop about FRs or your or others' FLs?
- Do you notice when someone unfriends you?
- Could you say right now without looking how many friends you have here on MFP?
- Do you want to leave an anonymous message for someone?
- Do you want to sing a little song?
- Do a little dance?
1. People who make me laugh or I have something in common with. Because I like to laugh and relate to people
2. Sometimes I will only accept if there is a message. Other times I'm not so fussy
3. Yes, but not out of fear of rejection, out of fear of me neglecting them
4. Nah
5. Yes. I probably would just think it was a system glitch
6. Yes. See above
7. Love it
8. No
9. I'm myself everywhere, I'm just more comfortable being more so with friends
10. Nope. I'm blank
11. Nope
12. About 118?
13. I love you. Yes you. No really
14. Always
15. Always and then get down tonight
Edited to correct Swanny's spelling
TF did I missssssspellll?1 - Who do you add and why?
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- Who do you add and why? - I rarely send requests
- Do you have criteria for who you will accept? - I prefer there to be a message along with the request
- Are you shy about sending FRs out of a fear of rejection? - Hells yea
- Should MFP change it so that you are notified when someone unfriends you? - Don't think that's necessary
- Will you take back someone who has unfriended you? - With the right bribery and groveling
- Will you accept someone who rejected your FR and then sends you one of their own? - Hadn't' ever thought about that
- Do you like cheese? - More than I can express within the written language
- Have you ever had a threesome? - Not yet today
- How much yourself are you on other people's walls? - Not very. I am a pretty crappy MFP friend
- Do you have any general knowledge you'd like to drop about FRs or your or others' FLs? - I am here to learn, not teach
- Do you notice when someone unfriends you? - Not unless we were good friends
- Could you say right now without looking how many friends you have here on MFP? - Not exactly but I know rounds about.
- Do you want to leave an anonymous message for someone? - Only to like 28 of you
- Do you want to sing a little song? - I do enjoy to sing. But mostly in the car or shower
- Do a little dance? - Dancing is not my thang
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Versicolour wrote: »I bet a lot of people here look at their Friends List (FL) in very different ways and I think it would be fun to find out how . Me? If I see someone who makes me laugh or with whom I want to make the beast with two backs or who seems smarter than the average bear or who tends to post scandalous photos of themselves in varying states of undress? I sent a Friend Request (FR). I also pretty much accept any FR that comes my way (unless you've done wronged me). So I have a large FL filled with people who are no longer here, who I can't always keep up with and sometimes don't even know. But it's fun. There's people who have been on there since 2012. I also assume that once you're on, that you'll never leave because, duh, I am a Golden God.
But enough about me.- Who do you add and why?
- Do you have criteria for who you will accept?
- Are you shy about sending FRs out of a fear of rejection?
- Should MFP change it so that you are notified when someone unfriends you?
- Will you take back someone who has unfriended you?
- Will you accept someone who rejected your FR and then sends you one of their own?
- Do you like cheese?
- Have you ever had a threesome?
- How much yourself are you on other people's walls?
- Do you have any general knowledge you'd like to drop about FRs or your or others' FLs?
- Do you notice when someone unfriends you?
- Could you say right now without looking how many friends you have here on MFP?
- Do you want to leave an anonymous message for someone?
- Do you want to sing a little song?
- Do a little dance?
1. People who make me laugh or I have something in common with. Because I like to laugh and relate to people
2. Sometimes I will only accept if there is a message. Other times I'm not so fussy
3. Yes, but not out of fear of rejection, out of fear of me neglecting them
4. Nah
5. Yes. I probably would just think it was a system glitch
6. Yes. See above
7. Love it
8. No
9. I'm myself everywhere, I'm just more comfortable being more so with friends
10. Nope. I'm blank
11. Nope
12. About 118?
13. I love you. Yes you. No really
14. Always
15. Always and then get down tonight
Edited to correct Swanny's spelling
TF did I missssssspellll?
😂1 - Who do you add and why?
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kinetixtrainer2 wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I only add Premium members
because standards
There's always an exception to the "standards".
This must be why she sent me a FR.
Maybe you're a different kind of Premium.2 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I only add Premium members
because standards
I haz no standards, how do you think @SwannySez made it onto my list?
You are SO dead to me right now.
*typed through tears*
What if I show you my assets? They're really big.1 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I only add Premium members
because standards
I haz no standards, how do you think @SwannySez made it onto my list?
You are SO dead to me right now.
*typed through tears*
What if I show you my assets? They're really big.
*sniff*
That might help...1 -
Who do you add and why? People I find interesting or encouraging. Hot guys are always welcomed as long as they aren't pervs.
Do you have criteria for who you will accept? A message along with the FR is required. I'm always curious as to how the person found me & why they would want to be friends.
Are you shy about sending FRs out of a fear of rejection? Nope
Should MFP change it so that you are notified when someone unfriends you? NOPE. Good RIDDANCE!
Will you take back someone who has unfriended you? Depends on why they unfriended me in the 1st place & why they're crawling back to me now.
Will you accept someone who rejected your FR and then sends you one of their own? Doubtful.
Do you like cheese? I LOVE CHEESE!!!
Have you ever had a threesome? Heck NO! & NEVER WOULD I!!!!!
How much yourself re you on other people's walls? Rarely
Do you have any general knowledge you'd like to drop about FRs or your or others' FLs? Yes. It's just the internet people. It's NOT that serious!
Do you notice when someone unfriends you? On rare occasions. It's usually someone who I don't interact with. It's like the trash took itself so they're doing me a favor.
Could you say right now without looking how many friends you have here on MFP? 3 pages worth
Do you want to leave an anonymous message for someone? Yes but also no
Do you want to sing a little song? Nope
Do a little dance? Make a lil love. Get down tonight??0 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I only add Premium members
because standards
I haz no standards, how do you think @SwannySez made it onto my list?
You are SO dead to me right now.
*typed through tears*
What if I show you my assets? They're really big.
*sniff*
That might help...
Just wait until I show you my retirement portfolio.1 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I only add Premium members
because standards
I haz no standards, how do you think @SwannySez made it onto my list?
You are SO dead to me right now.
*typed through tears*
What if I show you my assets? They're really big.
*sniff*
That might help...
Just wait until I show you my retirement portfolio.
I am never gonna get over this case of tennis elbow...1 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I only add Premium members
because standards
I haz no standards, how do you think @SwannySez made it onto my list?
You are SO dead to me right now.
*typed through tears*
What if I show you my assets? They're really big.
*sniff*
That might help...
Just wait until I show you my retirement portfolio.
I am never gonna get over this case of tennis elbow...
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RunHardBeStrong wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I only add Premium members
because standards
I haz no standards, how do you think @SwannySez made it onto my list?
You are SO dead to me right now.
*typed through tears*
What if I show you my assets? They're really big.
*sniff*
That might help...
Just wait until I show you my retirement portfolio.
I am never gonna get over this case of tennis elbow...
I sent you that in confidence!!0
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