How do people gain weight back?

Im confused why so many people once they get to goal weight, somehow gain the weight back?
I am close to goal weight now so I'll occasionally slip gain a couple pounds but start again.
Im just confused at people who drop several sizes, just let themselves gain it back "without noticing".

For me if I were to go back to old habbits, once Id notice I am up say 10 pounds (really 5 but that could just be a chinese buffet meal the day after) I'd make a plan to get back on track ASAP.. but i see threads about people who lose 50 plus lbs but return with all that weight and then some back.
Im terrified to have that happen to me so I'd love insight into why we think those types of people struggle or let it happen. Thanks
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  • NovusDies
    NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
    apullum wrote: »
    Some people don't make a maintenance plan at all.

    I have one... in theory. I am sure I will have to make adjustments when I get closer.

  • SeanD2407
    SeanD2407 Posts: 139 Member
    SeanD2407 wrote: »
    zeejane4 wrote: »
    OP, I'm going to assume that you've never had to maintain a significant weight loss, long term. Because weight loss is the easy part, it's maintenance that's a *kitten*.

    The thing about habits is that they're very ingrained into your life and once the motivation of the short weight loss period ends, it's very easy for those bad habits to creep back in, without you even realizing it. Maintenance is such a mind game and has a lot of challenges, (along with triumphs).

    Most people fail at weight loss adherence within 2 years, and the success rate is dismal beyond the 5 year mark. Like I said-maintenance can be a *kitten* :p

    I get that but my thing is Lets say "Frank" goes from a size 42 waist down to a 32. Wouldn't they be self aware that they are in the wrong direction if say a size 36 suddenly gets too tight? I know years is a lot of time in retrospect but i have a hard time grasping how they get up to a size 44 again before realizing they need to get back on track again?

    Don't you think that "Frank" was aware that he was overweight when he first went up through the sizes, with each size getting too small, until he reached size 42 the first time around? Why do you think there is something special about supposedly being in maintenance (although many people who reach a weight loss goal think of it as "done" and don't have the same goal-minded approach to maintenance) that would make people more likely to take and stick with the actions needed to lose any weight they "re-gain" as opposed to taking and sticking with the necessary actions during the initial gain? There are plenty of overweight and obese people around. Do you think they aren't self-aware?

    I'm taking you at your word that your postings are coming from a place of anxiety about your own ability to maintain when you reach your goal, but the way you phrase your posts by speaking about other people, they can easily come across as judging the character of people who regain weight. I think for any of us who have ever allowed ourselves to become overweight at one time, compassion, if not self-awareness of the potential hypocrisy, should lead us away from suggesting that people who regain weight are exhibiting some kind of moral or character flaw.

    The difference is "Frank" now knows what it takes to lose where as the first time he may not have. My logic is why he wouldn't ho back to what he learned sooner in the process.
  • missysippy930
    missysippy930 Posts: 2,577 Member
    It’s really simple to understand. Eating too much. Life happens, and there are as many reasons as there are people, of how they “let” it happen after all the hard work they put in.
    It happens to over 80% of the people who lose weight, so it’s not unusual.