What’s a red flag for you?

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  • R3d_butt3rfly_
    R3d_butt3rfly_ Posts: 1,595 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    Overly complimentary, like overboard.... yeah, I wasn't born yesterday, you're up to something. 🤔😂

    Your crispy golden exterior is heavenly. Every time I see you, I can’t help but lick my lips. I want to taste your saltiness. 😋 I’m just here clutching my bottle of ketchup daydreaming about you. 🥰

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    😂

    I don't know you but your comments make me laugh

    I’m taking this as you flirting with me. 😏

    My flirting skills are improving, I think.
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    Overly complimentary, like overboard.... yeah, I wasn't born yesterday, you're up to something. 🤔😂

    Your crispy golden exterior is heavenly. Every time I see you, I can’t help but lick my lips. I want to taste your saltiness. 😋 I’m just here clutching my bottle of ketchup daydreaming about you. 🥰

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    😂

    I don't know you but your comments make me laugh

    I’m taking this as you flirting with me. 😏

    My flirting skills are improving, I think.

    If you need more practice, I’m available to help. 😏 😂
  • siyeonsimpp
    siyeonsimpp Posts: 211 Member
    edited August 2023
    Here's an obvious one but if they're obsessive about following you around (before you start dating) - usually it means they've done something like this at least once before.
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,842 Member
    If they talk too much
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  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,241 Member
    When I contact them on every app…text them, Snap them, Woof them, MFP dm, call them and they take longer than 3 days to get back to me.
  • R3d_butt3rfly_
    R3d_butt3rfly_ Posts: 1,595 Member
    subdude1 wrote: »
    When they must respond to every message from every app immediately regardless of what they are doing.

    When they are more effective communicating via text or social media than verbally whether that be on the phone or in person.

    Wait...there's people out there that message you right away?! No waiting for hours/days to hear back from them? No worrying about them or feel rejected? Huh. Who knew that was considered a red flag.
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  • R3d_butt3rfly_
    R3d_butt3rfly_ Posts: 1,595 Member
    subdude1 wrote: »
    subdude1 wrote: »
    When they must respond to every message from every app immediately regardless of what they are doing.

    When they are more effective communicating via text or social media than verbally whether that be on the phone or in person.

    Wait...there's people out there that message you right away?! No waiting for hours/days to hear back from them? No worrying about them or feel rejected? Huh. Who knew that was considered a red flag.

    Ayup, there is one person out there that will respond immediately to anyone and everyone of her “friends” regardless of what we were doing. Aaaaaaand that’s one reason why she’s my ex-girlfriend.

    That makes sense. Either we're too available or we're not. A lot of us don't find that balance between the two.
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,241 Member
    subdude1 wrote: »
    When they must respond to every message from every app immediately regardless of what they are doing.

    When they are more effective communicating via text or social media than verbally whether that be on the phone or in person.

    Wait...there's people out there that message you right away?! No waiting for hours/days to hear back from them? No worrying about them or feel rejected? Huh. Who knew that was considered a red flag.

    Well…me back to you. If that’s a red flag baby, I don’t wanna be right.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    If they talk too much

    Like at all - cuz sober rob. -will talk if talked to - but drunk rob won’t stfu 🤷‍♂️
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,170 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    When I contact them on every app…text them, Snap them, Woof them, MFP dm, call them and they take longer than 3 days to get back to me.

    Bruh. -you know I woofed you back within 5 min - I do t have any other social medy
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,842 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    If they talk too much

    Like at all - cuz sober rob. -will talk if talked to - but drunk rob won’t stfu 🤷‍♂️

    Medicinal Melissa is a complete blabbermouth 😂
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    If they talk too much

    Like at all - cuz sober rob. -will talk if talked to - but drunk rob won’t stfu 🤷‍♂️

    Medicinal Melissa is a complete blabbermouth 😂

    Benadryl Betty is one blabbering mouth
  • Alcastive
    Alcastive Posts: 22 Member
    When she discusses people instead of goals..
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,842 Member
    If he’s my age and has accounts on tons of social media sites.
    No thanks…… playa 🥸
  • jbs116
    jbs116 Posts: 758 Member
    A sarcastic, demanding tart

    🚩 🚩 🚩

  • R3d_butt3rfly_
    R3d_butt3rfly_ Posts: 1,595 Member
    If he promises to stay forever 🚩
  • Ladyofthelakes23
    Ladyofthelakes23 Posts: 34 Member
    Someone who asks too many questions and says nothing about themselves 🧐
  • itchmyTwitch
    itchmyTwitch Posts: 4,019 Member


    Someone who answers all my questions, and never asks me any about myself
  • jbs116
    jbs116 Posts: 758 Member
    When they have no red flags THAT is a huge red flag.
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,842 Member
    If he’s a close talker.
  • jbs116
    jbs116 Posts: 758 Member
    When they take their medication 💊 with wine 🍷… like I’m doing now.
  • itchmyTwitch
    itchmyTwitch Posts: 4,019 Member
    jbs116 wrote: »
    When they take their medication 💊 with wine 🍷… like I’m doing now.

    Check in with us tomorrow please
  • duichaser
    duichaser Posts: 174 Member
    When she says she feels like you have an amazing connection before you've had any time whatsoever to have possibly formed any kind of connection.
  • ButterMeMuffinz
    ButterMeMuffinz Posts: 278 Member
    If you make exceptionally cringey tiktoks

    I am all for being ridiculous and having fun but there is a subsection that I just physically cannot even stand to watch because the cringe is intense
  • jbs116
    jbs116 Posts: 758 Member
    jbs116 wrote: »
    When they take their medication 💊 with wine 🍷… like I’m doing now.

    Check in with us tomorrow please

    Were you worried about me? 🥺 If not, don’t answer. 😂 It was just one med at a very low dosage and one smallish glass of wine. I’m all good. Present and accounted for. 🫡
    jbs116 wrote: »
    When they take their medication 💊 with wine 🍷… like I’m doing now.

    Wrong thread 😏

    I actually thought about posting it in multiple. 😂
  • itchmyTwitch
    itchmyTwitch Posts: 4,019 Member
    jbs116 wrote: »
    jbs116 wrote: »
    When they take their medication 💊 with wine 🍷… like I’m doing now.

    Check in with us tomorrow please

    Were you worried about me? 🥺 If not, don’t answer. 😂 It was just one med at a very low dosage and one smallish glass of wine. I’m all good. Present and accounted for. 🫡
    jbs116 wrote: »
    When they take their medication 💊 with wine 🍷… like I’m doing now.

    Wrong thread 😏

    I actually thought about posting it in multiple. 😂

    Of course I was worried about you
  • jbs116
    jbs116 Posts: 758 Member
    jbs116 wrote: »
    jbs116 wrote: »
    When they take their medication 💊 with wine 🍷… like I’m doing now.

    Check in with us tomorrow please

    Were you worried about me? 🥺 If not, don’t answer. 😂 It was just one med at a very low dosage and one smallish glass of wine. I’m all good. Present and accounted for. 🫡
    jbs116 wrote: »
    When they take their medication 💊 with wine 🍷… like I’m doing now.

    Wrong thread 😏

    I actually thought about posting it in multiple. 😂

    Of course I was worried about you

    🤗
  • itchmyTwitch
    itchmyTwitch Posts: 4,019 Member
    jbs116 wrote: »
    jbs116 wrote: »
    jbs116 wrote: »
    When they take their medication 💊 with wine 🍷… like I’m doing now.

    Check in with us tomorrow please

    Were you worried about me? 🥺 If not, don’t answer. 😂 It was just one med at a very low dosage and one smallish glass of wine. I’m all good. Present and accounted for. 🫡
    jbs116 wrote: »
    When they take their medication 💊 with wine 🍷… like I’m doing now.

    Wrong thread 😏

    I actually thought about posting it in multiple. 😂

    Of course I was worried about you

    🤗

    Hi! I’m glad you’re good