What’s a red flag for you?

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  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
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    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
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    lol, whats that say?

    I honestly don't remember and there's no way in heck I'm translating it again rofl
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
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    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
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    lol, whats that say?

    I honestly don't remember and there's no way in heck I'm translating it again rofl

    Now its gonna bug me 🤨 lol
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
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    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
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    lol, whats that say?

    "TALKS ABOUT AVOIDING DRAMA"
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
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    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    9zb8o69w1q7y.png

    lol, whats that say?

    I honestly don't remember and there's no way in heck I'm translating it again rofl

    Now its gonna bug me 🤨 lol

    The only things I can be *fairly* certain of are 1) it's probably a lame attempt at humor that seemed mildly-humorous at the time and 2) it's not gonna be THAT funny so it's not worth the effort of translation. I know me well enough to know that if I don't remember what I said, it's not worth translating :D Probably something about flags
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,440 Member
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    iMago wrote: »
    any usage whatsoever of "😈" in her texts/dm's/social media posting

    :( like a knife to the heart you wound me

    😈😁
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
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    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    9zb8o69w1q7y.png

    lol, whats that say?

    I honestly don't remember and there's no way in heck I'm translating it again rofl

    Now its gonna bug me 🤨 lol

    The only things I can be *fairly* certain of are 1) it's probably a lame attempt at humor that seemed mildly-humorous at the time and 2) it's not gonna be THAT funny so it's not worth the effort of translation. I know me well enough to know that if I don't remember what I said, it's not worth translating :D Probably something about flags

    Yeah... I'm still curious 🤣
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
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    s131951 wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    9zb8o69w1q7y.png

    lol, whats that say?

    "TALKS ABOUT AVOIDING DRAMA"

    @r3d_butt3rfly_
    @Reckoner68
  • Emmafire
    Emmafire Posts: 869 Member
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    Pretends to like my kids....not totally honest, just doesn’t have a good heart in general
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
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    s131951 wrote: »
    s131951 wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    9zb8o69w1q7y.png

    lol, whats that say?

    "TALKS ABOUT AVOIDING DRAMA"

    @r3d_butt3rfly_
    @Reckoner68

    Well that wasn't even close to funny, what was my problem that day?
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,440 Member
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    When he can't go a single day without drinking alcohol.
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
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    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    s131951 wrote: »
    s131951 wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    9zb8o69w1q7y.png

    lol, whats that say?

    "TALKS ABOUT AVOIDING DRAMA"

    @r3d_butt3rfly_
    @Reckoner68

    Well that wasn't even close to funny, what was my problem that day?

    I think you were there, but got tired. Maybe the image was cut off. It did not say 'end.'
  • ArmyVeteranM1A1C
    ArmyVeteranM1A1C Posts: 1,045 Member
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    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    When he can't go a single day without drinking alcohol.

    How far will hafa adai get me ? :p
  • ArmyVeteranM1A1C
    ArmyVeteranM1A1C Posts: 1,045 Member
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    Emmafire wrote: »
    Pretends to like my kids....not totally honest, just doesn’t have a good heart in general

    That guy needs the red flag tattooed to his forehead to warn others for those 3 strikes.
  • Emmafire
    Emmafire Posts: 869 Member
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    ArmyVeteranM1A1C wrote: »
    Emmafire wrote: »
    Pretends to like my kids....not totally honest, just doesn’t have a good heart in general

    That guy needs the red flag tattooed to his forehead to warn others for those 3 strikes.

    Can I get an Amen ! 😂
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,440 Member
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    ArmyVeteranM1A1C wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    When he can't go a single day without drinking alcohol.

    How far will hafa adai get me ? :p

    :laugh: depends if you're sharing :D
  • ArmyVeteranM1A1C
    ArmyVeteranM1A1C Posts: 1,045 Member
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    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    ArmyVeteranM1A1C wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    When he can't go a single day without drinking alcohol.

    How far will hafa adai get me ? :p

    :laugh: depends if you're sharing :D

    Who would you like me to share with you sheila ? :p
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,440 Member
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    ArmyVeteranM1A1C wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    ArmyVeteranM1A1C wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    When he can't go a single day without drinking alcohol.

    How far will hafa adai get me ? :p

    :laugh: depends if you're sharing :D

    Who would you like me to share with you sheila ? :p

    :laugh:.. oh you're a quick one
  • ArmyVeteranM1A1C
    ArmyVeteranM1A1C Posts: 1,045 Member
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    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    ArmyVeteranM1A1C wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    ArmyVeteranM1A1C wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    When he can't go a single day without drinking alcohol.

    How far will hafa adai get me ? :p

    :laugh: depends if you're sharing :D

    Who would you like me to share with you sheila ? :p

    :laugh:.. oh you're a quick one

    Who told you that! She's lying!
    2 minutes is NOT quick, just economical.
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
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    ghudson92 wrote: »
    This has been one of my favourite threads to read through. For me, when ready to get back out there, I will certainly watch out for:
    1) An unwillingness to accept responsibility or to apologise.
    2) Any attempts to isolate me from friends and family.
    3) Anger issues.
    4) Lack of empathy.
    5) Expecting me to put in all of the effort.
    6) Disappears without an explanation.
    7) Demands updates on where I am and who I'm with every half hour - and getting unnecessarily angry if it doesn't happen.
    8) Wants to be top priority but I'm not even in their top 5 🤷‍♀️
    9) Makes up things I supposedly did in the past and holds them against me.
    10) Accuses me of being manipulative or controlling when my point of view is different to theirs.

    I think it's also important to acknowledge and reflect on what we as individuals need to work on as well. I know that before I start dating again (at minimum not for another year or two), I have a lot of stuff I need to work through first or I'll just end up dumping some poor soul with all my baggage.

    Peopling is hard.

    9 out of 10, yay! Oh, wait. . .

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