What’s a red flag for you?

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    wwwtheselion11 wrote: »
    In relationship. There attitude. Mental health issues. That is not being treated properly. I hate arguments, but In every relationship there's going to be arguments.
    Not caring about my health, or there's
    Hard drugs
    Not eating healthy
    Lack of Communication
    Cellphone zombie.
    Lack of trust.
    Bad sex
    Laziness
    Every relationship is a learning experience


    Exactly how hard ??



    Just clowning, if I drink three cups of coffee, I'm pushing the envelope.
    My drugs are limited to 2 cups of coffee a day and maybe just a small piece of chocolate once or twice a month.
  • wwwtheselion11
    wwwtheselion11 Posts: 422 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    wwwtheselion11 wrote: »
    In relationship. There attitude. Mental health issues. That is not being treated properly. I hate arguments, but In every relationship there's going to be arguments.
    Not caring about my health, or there's
    Hard drugs
    Not eating healthy
    Lack of Communication
    Cellphone zombie.
    Lack of trust.
    Bad sex
    Laziness
    Every relationship is a learning experience


    Exactly how hard ??



    Just clowning, if I drink three cups of coffee, I'm pushing the envelope.
    My drugs are limited to 2 cups of coffee a day and maybe just a small piece of chocolate once or twice a month.

    Damn thats about where I am at.
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    A person who's sarcasm never shuts off.
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  • AquaMeow
    AquaMeow Posts: 296 Member
    Inconsistency...definitely. and liars
  • Reckoner69_lmao
    Reckoner69_lmao Posts: 1,000 Member
    When she says “I know karate and I will judo chop you into next Tuesday”
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,740 Member
    When he tells me he's good at something specific. Likely hes been fluffed in the past and isnt that great at whatever it is hes bragging about.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    If he threatens to steal my toilet paper
  • midlomel1971
    midlomel1971 Posts: 1,283 Member
    edited March 2020
    Any sign of jealousy or distrust in a partner is a huge red flag for me. I once dated a guy who got mad that I had lunch with a male co-worker. Totally platonic work lunch. I was done w/ him immediately.
  • CaptAwesome77
    CaptAwesome77 Posts: 84 Member
    Someone who needs constant validation.
    Someone who associates only with people in their chosen political/ideological affiliation.
    Someone who only wants to hear they’re right, regardless of the facts.
    Someone unwilling to learn or admit they’re wrong.
    Anyone with even remotely racist tendencies.
    Someone who looks to me to provide their happiness, rather than finding it in themself.
    Someone who doesn’t like to travel or try new things.

  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    CaptAwesome77 wrote: »
    Someone who needs constant validation.
    Someone who associates only with people in their chosen political/ideological affiliation.
    Someone who only wants to hear they’re right, regardless of the facts.
    Someone unwilling to learn or admit they’re wrong.
    Anyone with even remotely racist tendencies.
    Someone who looks to me to provide their happiness, rather than finding it in themself.
    Someone who doesn’t like to travel or try new things.

    I like unicorns tooo 🥰
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Honestly... If you are not going to entertain my flirty banter... I'm probably going to pull the trigger and rotate the barrel out of boredom 😂
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited March 2020
    If he won’t patrol the garden perimeter at midnight

    Edit: that’s more of a dealbreaker
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    If he judges me for who I vote for, my religion, or dietary choices.

  • balanc79
    balanc79 Posts: 148 Member
    If they can’t look you in the eyes
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    When he says he lives in NY but his zip code is cow pasture NJ.
  • CaptAwesome77
    CaptAwesome77 Posts: 84 Member
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    When he says he lives in NY but his zip code is cow pasture NJ.

    What’s wrong with NJ? 🤨
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    CaptAwesome77 wrote: »
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    When he says he lives in NY but his zip code is cow pasture NJ.

    What’s wrong with NJ? 🤨

    Here, this should help you with that panty knot.
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    Libertarian guys who have never had any real problems, an ill loved one, etc - and don't recognize their white male privilege.
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    CaptAwesome77 wrote: »
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »

    Here, this should help you with that panty knot.

    I’d never claim to reside in NY anyway, I’m fine admitting I live in essentially a barnacle on the side of the NYC boat.

    That said, NJ is home to some of the finest landfills in the country.

    My post has absolutely nothing to do with you. I repeat; my post was absolutely not about you. In fact, until you responded to my post, I didnt even know you existed.
  • sarah20397
    sarah20397 Posts: 44 Member
    How a person treats people working in retail or in the food service industry is a good tell!
    I always think rudeness is such a red flag.

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