What’s a red flag for you?

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  • Ironwoman1111
    Ironwoman1111 Posts: 3,913 Member
    edited March 2021
    Brings the coupon binder on the first date
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    IronwomanUno wrote: »
    Brings the coupon binder on the first date

    What about if he/ she just brings one coupon?
    Still cringe ?

    https://youtu.be/xhgI28QOKiA
  • chuckle_bunny
    chuckle_bunny Posts: 496 Member
    IronwomanUno wrote: »
    Brings the coupon binder on the first date
    Will you just order a medium drink so I can get the free ice cream cone! Your dating profile said you were adventurous 😒
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    Doing very private things in public. And yes, I consider being home with company here, public. Everybody sees.
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,733 Member
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,362 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    Yeah...this is me...I don't want to live with someone or marry again...is that a red flag?
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    I like that. You’re honest and you’re not wasting anyone’s time from the jump.
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,733 Member
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    Yeah...this is me...I don't want to live with someone or marry again...is that a red flag?

    Apparently it is for men that want to eventually be enmeshed. I met someone that told me on the first date that his next wife needs to know that divorce is not an option. Me: "You want to get married again?!?! That's crazy. Why tf would you want to do that?!" There was not a second date.
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    I like that. You’re honest and you’re not wasting anyone’s time from the jump.

    Thanks, that's the goal.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,339 Member
    honeybee__12 wrote: »
    When a man goes out of his way to avoid/talk to me on the MFP community threads.

    I guess I can be a little scary, sorry. ☺️😏

    😂 ya big scary girl you 🤗
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
    honeybee__12 wrote: »
    When a man goes out of his way to avoid/talk to me on the MFP community threads.

    I guess I can be a little scary, sorry. ☺️😏

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  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    @Tigg_er
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  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
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  • Sophisticatted_Gentlemanz
    Sophisticatted_Gentlemanz Posts: 513 Member
    Enormous assets
  • allyeliza86
    allyeliza86 Posts: 36 Member
    Their IG follow list👀
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
    Xanax :D
  • Thoin
    Thoin Posts: 942 Member
    allyeliza86 wrote: »
    Their IG follow list👀

    I'm confused, yours is all muscle men? Is that better or worse?

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