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What’s a red flag for you?

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  • honeybee__12honeybee__12 Member, Premium Posts: 15,599 Member Member, Premium Posts: 15,599 Member
  • lx1xlx1x Member Posts: 33,630 Member Member Posts: 33,630 Member
  • HungrycatapilarHungrycatapilar Member Posts: 93 Member Member Posts: 93 Member
    Or when he starts calling you baby when he never has before 🤔
  • HungrycatapilarHungrycatapilar Member Posts: 93 Member Member Posts: 93 Member
    Not sharing his food... it put me right of joey 😡
  • Ironwoman1111Ironwoman1111 Member Posts: 1,473 Member Member Posts: 1,473 Member
    Brings the coupon binder on the first date
    edited March 11
  • vanityy99vanityy99 Member Posts: 2,343 Member Member Posts: 2,343 Member
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.
  • vanityy99vanityy99 Member Posts: 2,343 Member Member Posts: 2,343 Member
    Brings the coupon binder on the first date

    What about if he/ she just brings one coupon?
    Still cringe ?

  • chuckle_bunnychuckle_bunny Member Posts: 397 Member Member Posts: 397 Member
    Brings the coupon binder on the first date
    Will you just order a medium drink so I can get the free ice cream cone! Your dating profile said you were adventurous 😒
  • Ironwoman1111Ironwoman1111 Member Posts: 1,473 Member Member Posts: 1,473 Member
    Brings the coupon binder on the first date
    Will you just order a medium drink so I can get the free ice cream cone! Your dating profile said you were adventurous 😒

    I don’t have a dating profile.🤦‍♀️😒🍦
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    edited March 12
  • ReenieHJReenieHJ Member Posts: 6,494 Member Member Posts: 6,494 Member
    Doing very private things in public. And yes, I consider being home with company here, public. Everybody sees.
  • slessofmeslessofme Member Posts: 7,376 Member Member Posts: 7,376 Member
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.
  • PlentyofProtein00PlentyofProtein00 Member Posts: 2,676 Member Member Posts: 2,676 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    Yeah...this is me...I don't want to live with someone or marry again...is that a red flag?
  • vanityy99vanityy99 Member Posts: 2,343 Member Member Posts: 2,343 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    I like that. You’re honest and you’re not wasting anyone’s time from the jump.
  • slessofmeslessofme Member Posts: 7,376 Member Member Posts: 7,376 Member
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    Yeah...this is me...I don't want to live with someone or marry again...is that a red flag?

    Apparently it is for men that want to eventually be enmeshed. I met someone that told me on the first date that his next wife needs to know that divorce is not an option. Me: "You want to get married again?!?! That's crazy. Why tf would you want to do that?!" There was not a second date.
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    slessofme wrote: »
    vanityy99 wrote: »
    Married and divorced more than once
    One time- **** happens..

    After that 🚩
    Why do people keep leaving.
    Or why can’t they hold a marriage/ stay committed.

    I used to think this too, but now I see it can be a sign of someone that "gets back on the horse". Resilience and vulnerability in some, honestly more than I am capable of. Saying there is no way I want to invest enough in someone that I'm willing to live together or get married again is equally a red flag and has run a few men off for me.

    I like that. You’re honest and you’re not wasting anyone’s time from the jump.

    Thanks, that's the goal.
  • slimgirljo15slimgirljo15 Member, Premium Posts: 258,223 Member Member, Premium Posts: 258,223 Member
    When a man goes out of his way to avoid/talk to me on the MFP community threads.

    I guess I can be a little scary, sorry. ☺️😏

    😂 ya big scary girl you 🤗
  • Tigg_erTigg_er Member Posts: 19,100 Member Member Posts: 19,100 Member
    When a man goes out of his way to avoid/talk to me on the MFP community threads.

    I guess I can be a little scary, sorry. ☺️😏

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  • honeybee__12honeybee__12 Member, Premium Posts: 15,599 Member Member, Premium Posts: 15,599 Member
  • Tigg_erTigg_er Member Posts: 19,100 Member Member Posts: 19,100 Member
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