What do you all think about this?
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My opinion is that certain women think men like this look. I am always amazed at people that blindly follow fashion--but it's been going on forever. OP--whatever makes you happy.1
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JanetReyna wrote: »Why are people so negative? Her instagram username is there, search her up and take a look yourself. I know everyone has a perference but I really do want big gluteus and I’m just looking for advice because I feel I won’t ever reach my goal unless I have plastic surgery and I don’t want to. But I know looking better will help me a lot. I just want some advice on people who have achieved this. Not exactly that goal but women who have gotten big gluteus with fitness.
If you want advice for how to achieve it why don't you stick with asking the people you are "following"? It seems to me that most of the people visiting these forums that post are looking for results that are more mainstream. You are trying to achieve something specific that would likely end in being a hassle when shopping for clothes. As a person who just now has gotten back to "off-the-rack" clothes shopping I am not sure why anyone would give that up willingly.
I don't understand how this will help you a lot. If your self-esteem needs help you need to see a professional about it because changing your appearance on the outside will not fix the inside.13 -
I was curious enough to look her up, and looking at her other insta photos, I can tell you one thing: the padding over her hips is fat, not muscle. There is no large muscle in the “hip dip” area, plus you can see cellulite in the photos of her in a bathing suit. The texture over her legs is not ripped muscle, either. She has mega muscle in her quads, but there is substantial fat on top of it. So you have substantial surface fat on the hips, buttocks, and thighs, plus a waist, back and torso with no fat layer and visible abs.
How do you get that look? Genetics, lipo, or a combination of both. It’s not possible to spot reduce fat, as many many people here have said many times.
Now, she claims that she reduced her hip dip by growing her glutes so much that they stopped “drooping” and magically filled in her hip dips. That doesn’t physically work like that. Plus, like I said, cellulite. Muscles don’t get cellulite. I’m guessing what she did was put on substantial weight, both fat and muscle, then have some of the fat moved around. Or maybe she is incredibly lucky in where her fat ends up. Regardless, if you weren’t born storing fat only on your hips and never on your stomach, no amount of working out will cause that fat distribution.
She has ample motivation to change the truth - she is selling her products and method, hard, on every photo. When something for sale appears too good to be true, it probably is.22 -
I think naturally perky butts are great! Yay!
I know some pro body builder women recommend spending about 20-30min on the stair master 4 times a week to get a sculpted butt.
Plus weight lifting!
Good luck! Do you!
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cmriverside wrote: »I'm not sure I even believe those images are real. I know you're gonna say they are, but I would bet money on plastic surgery, camera/body angle illusion or photoshopping.
Maybe there are a few people who can do that due to genetics and really hard work, dunno.
This. Also, I think she looked better before, since you asked. My personal preference. The second photo looks fake and disproportionate.7 -
JanetReyna wrote: »I know but she’s one of the realesst I know:DanielJFitness wrote: »Remember too with IG and other social, looks can def be deceiving.
Do you know her irl?3 -
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Pamela_Sue wrote: »Two comments.
1. I personally do not care for this look, it is not proportionate in my opinion. I would like my rear more uplifted and toned, and am working on it, but what I have is what I have to work with, so I will accept what my body can do.
2. That being said, I went back and looked at some of your previous posts and do have concerns. You seem to be very focused on achieving this specific look and very disappointed in your own body. This look may not be achievable for you without plastic surgery. I would highly recommend seeing a therapist about learning to love your own body and to have a reasonable body image.
I just feel my body is not how I wanted to look like and I know I need to love my body and all of that but what is so wrong for me to want to look different? I’m just asking advice to see if some women have achieved something like this with working out only... I’m just looking for advice because I wouldn’t want to get lipo but I probably will if that’s the only thing can help me get curvy. You don’t know how much I cry looking at my narrow hips and not being able to wear outfits I want because of my body shape.0 -
cmriverside wrote: »The thing is Janet, you post a thread about this pretty frequently.
Relax.
Stop searching Instagram for the biggest glutes. You most likely won't have that dramatic of results because it takes a LOT of work and so far you haven't mentioned the work part of it that you ARE doing. Lifting progressively heavier weights is what you need to focus on. Like we've said every time you post this.
What is your current weight lifting routine? Maybe someone can help you with that part.
Girl, I would relax if I had atleast a little curve and looked more feminine. I’m so insecure in going shopping because I don’t have curves. I can’t wear dresses that are fitted. I don’t like taking pictures from the front because I look broad. Yes, I have so many fat to lose and I don’t know if you have seen my body shape I’ve posted pictures of myself. It’s just really really hard for me to feel comfortable and confident because I want to have more curves and I don’t want to feel like lipo is the only way for me to look differently.0 -
What do I think about that? I think I have no desire to look like a cartoon character, so it doesn't appeal to me. I also think there's a 99.99% surgery was involved there, regardless of what she claims.
ETA assuming it's not just Photoshop. I know it's not what you want to hear, but such extreme body types just are not attainable for the vast majority of people. Wanting something doesn't make it possible. Stop making yourself miserable over it.
I just feel really insecure because I don’t feel I have the curvy look. I don’t want to be negative about this because I really want to have faith I can build up my gluteus. Not exactly like this but bigger and rounder. I cry when I look at myself with dresses. I don’t have curves and it kills my self esteem. I wish I was confident but I’m not and I think I have every right to change what I don’t like. Thank you for saying this but honestly I wish I could notice results without having to go under the knife 
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JanetReyna wrote: »Why are people so negative? Her instagram username is there, search her up and take a look yourself. I know everyone has a perference but I really do want big gluteus and I’m just looking for advice because I feel I won’t ever reach my goal unless I have plastic surgery and I don’t want to. But I know looking better will help me a lot. I just want some advice on people who have achieved this. Not exactly that goal but women who have gotten big gluteus with fitness.
If you want advice for how to achieve it why don't you stick with asking the people you are "following"? It seems to me that most of the people visiting these forums that post are looking for results that are more mainstream. You are trying to achieve something specific that would likely end in being a hassle when shopping for clothes. As a person who just now has gotten back to "off-the-rack" clothes shopping I am not sure why anyone would give that up willingly.
I don't understand how this will help you a lot. If your self-esteem needs help you need to see a professional about it because changing your appearance on the outside will not fix the inside.
Yeah that’s probably what I’ll do. I dream of having a curvy figure and after all we’re all here to get help and advice. I was just trying to see if there were women here that have gotten big gluteus with just fitness. I don’t want to feel like having a big butt is only achievable under the knife. I wish I was more bottom heavy than top heavy 0 -
rheddmobile wrote: »I was curious enough to look her up, and looking at her other insta photos, I can tell you one thing: the padding over her hips is fat, not muscle. There is no large muscle in the “hip dip” area, plus you can see cellulite in the photos of her in a bathing suit. The texture over her legs is not ripped muscle, either. She has mega muscle in her quads, but there is substantial fat on top of it. So you have substantial surface fat on the hips, buttocks, and thighs, plus a waist, back and torso with no fat layer and visible abs.
How do you get that look? Genetics, lipo, or a combination of both. It’s not possible to spot reduce fat, as many many people here have said many times.
Now, she claims that she reduced her hip dip by growing her glutes so much that they stopped “drooping” and magically filled in her hip dips. That doesn’t physically work like that. Plus, like I said, cellulite. Muscles don’t get cellulite. I’m guessing what she did was put on substantial weight, both fat and muscle, then have some of the fat moved around. Or maybe she is incredibly lucky in where her fat ends up. Regardless, if you weren’t born storing fat only on your hips and never on your stomach, no amount of working out will cause that fat distribution.
She has ample motivation to change the truth - she is selling her products and method, hard, on every photo. When something for sale appears too good to be true, it probably is.
Girl it’s just really hard to love or feel comfortable with my body shape. I know we all have insecurities but I don’t want this one to be an insecure anymore. I wanna do something about it and I personally do like a big butt with thick thighs and small upper body. But I don’t know how to work on my body to try and achieve my goals. Fitness is so hard for me. I gain a lot of weight in my arms and stomach and I hate it so much.0 -
You might want to look into therapy and really talk through this with a professional.
I hope you get the help you need. Good luck. 🧡18 -
JanetReyna wrote: »cmriverside wrote: »The thing is Janet, you post a thread about this pretty frequently.
Relax.
Stop searching Instagram for the biggest glutes. You most likely won't have that dramatic of results because it takes a LOT of work and so far you haven't mentioned the work part of it that you ARE doing. Lifting progressively heavier weights is what you need to focus on. Like we've said every time you post this.
What is your current weight lifting routine? Maybe someone can help you with that part.
Girl, I would relax if I had atleast a little curve and looked more feminine. I’m so insecure in going shopping because I don’t have curves. I can’t wear dresses that are fitted. I don’t like taking pictures from the front because I look broad. Yes, I have so many fat to lose and I don’t know if you have seen my body shape I’ve posted pictures of myself. It’s just really really hard for me to feel comfortable and confident because I want to have more curves and I don’t want to feel like lipo is the only way for me to look differently.
All of these posts you are making today and every time are exactly the same.
Yes, I've posted in your threads before. I've seen your images of yourself.
You're pregnant, so your weight loss may have to take a back seat right now. You can still workout and do squats and other weight-bearing exercises if your doctor approves. So - get his approval and get your lifting on.
You can't change your genetics. You can do the best you can with what you've been given, which is what we all do.
You probably won't look like those images without surgery and hard core lifting.
Go to therapy. For real.9 -
I agree with this. OP, you keep insisting you have this shapeless body with no curves, but the photos on your profile, if they are yours, show a very curvy physique . You may have body dysmorphia issues and maybe should concentrate on resolving this, rather than "transforming" the body you seem to dislike so much.You might want to look into therapy and really talk through this with a professional.
I hope you get the help you need. Good luck. 🧡
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Agreed. It's not normal or healthy to be so fixated on a certain look that you cry and obsess the way you've described, OP. If you woke up tomorrow with your perfect body, it's virtually guaranteed you'd hyperfocus on something else to be unhappy about.cmriverside wrote: »JanetReyna wrote: »cmriverside wrote: »The thing is Janet, you post a thread about this pretty frequently.
Relax.
Stop searching Instagram for the biggest glutes. You most likely won't have that dramatic of results because it takes a LOT of work and so far you haven't mentioned the work part of it that you ARE doing. Lifting progressively heavier weights is what you need to focus on. Like we've said every time you post this.
What is your current weight lifting routine? Maybe someone can help you with that part.
Girl, I would relax if I had atleast a little curve and looked more feminine. I’m so insecure in going shopping because I don’t have curves. I can’t wear dresses that are fitted. I don’t like taking pictures from the front because I look broad. Yes, I have so many fat to lose and I don’t know if you have seen my body shape I’ve posted pictures of myself. It’s just really really hard for me to feel comfortable and confident because I want to have more curves and I don’t want to feel like lipo is the only way for me to look differently.
All of these posts you are making today and every time are exactly the same.
Yes, I've posted in your threads before. I've seen your images of yourself.
You're pregnant, so your weight loss may have to take a back seat right now. You can still workout and do squats and other weight-bearing exercises if your doctor approves. So - get his approval and get your lifting on.
You can't change your genetics. You can do the best you can with what you've been given, which is what we all do.
You probably won't look like those images without surgery and hard core lifting.
Go to therapy. For real.5 -
So you’ve seen how my body shape is you think it’s to broad?
cmriverside wrote: »JanetReyna wrote: »cmriverside wrote: »The thing is Janet, you post a thread about this pretty frequently.
Relax.
Stop searching Instagram for the biggest glutes. You most likely won't have that dramatic of results because it takes a LOT of work and so far you haven't mentioned the work part of it that you ARE doing. Lifting progressively heavier weights is what you need to focus on. Like we've said every time you post this.
What is your current weight lifting routine? Maybe someone can help you with that part.
Girl, I would relax if I had atleast a little curve and looked more feminine. I’m so insecure in going shopping because I don’t have curves. I can’t wear dresses that are fitted. I don’t like taking pictures from the front because I look broad. Yes, I have so many fat to lose and I don’t know if you have seen my body shape I’ve posted pictures of myself. It’s just really really hard for me to feel comfortable and confident because I want to have more curves and I don’t want to feel like lipo is the only way for me to look differently.
All of these posts you are making today and every time are exactly the same.
Yes, I've posted in your threads before. I've seen your images of yourself.
You're pregnant, so your weight loss may have to take a back seat right now. You can still workout and do squats and other weight-bearing exercises if your doctor approves. So - get his approval and get your lifting on.
You can't change your genetics. You can do the best you can with what you've been given, which is what we all do.
You probably won't look like those images without surgery and hard core lifting.
Go to therapy. For real.
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iheartmyyorkie wrote: »
I agree with this. OP, you keep insisting you have this shapeless body with no curves, but the photos on your profile, if they are yours, show a very curvy physique . You may have body dysmorphia issues and maybe should concentrate on resolving this, rather than "transforming" the body you seem to dislike so much.You might want to look into therapy and really talk through this with a professional.
I hope you get the help you need. Good luck. 🧡
I don’t think I look curvy at all but thank you love ❤️0 -
JanetReyna wrote: »So you’ve seen how my body shape is you think it’s to broad?
cmriverside wrote: »JanetReyna wrote: »cmriverside wrote: »The thing is Janet, you post a thread about this pretty frequently.
Relax.
Stop searching Instagram for the biggest glutes. You most likely won't have that dramatic of results because it takes a LOT of work and so far you haven't mentioned the work part of it that you ARE doing. Lifting progressively heavier weights is what you need to focus on. Like we've said every time you post this.
What is your current weight lifting routine? Maybe someone can help you with that part.
Girl, I would relax if I had atleast a little curve and looked more feminine. I’m so insecure in going shopping because I don’t have curves. I can’t wear dresses that are fitted. I don’t like taking pictures from the front because I look broad. Yes, I have so many fat to lose and I don’t know if you have seen my body shape I’ve posted pictures of myself. It’s just really really hard for me to feel comfortable and confident because I want to have more curves and I don’t want to feel like lipo is the only way for me to look differently.
All of these posts you are making today and every time are exactly the same.
Yes, I've posted in your threads before. I've seen your images of yourself.
You're pregnant, so your weight loss may have to take a back seat right now. You can still workout and do squats and other weight-bearing exercises if your doctor approves. So - get his approval and get your lifting on.
You can't change your genetics. You can do the best you can with what you've been given, which is what we all do.
You probably won't look like those images without surgery and hard core lifting.
Go to therapy. For real.
Your response here scares the crap out of me.17 -
Honestly if you are worried about how you look in dresses, buy a support garment with a padded butt. They make them! It won’t work at the beach but anyone can look like this while wearing a dress, with enough squeezing and padding.2
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Thanks but no thanks lol. I’m looking for real changes.rheddmobile wrote: »Honestly if you are worried about how you look in dresses, buy a support garment with a padded butt. They make them! It won’t work at the beach but anyone can look like this while wearing a dress, with enough squeezing and padding.
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What does your husband have to say about all this? Is he supportive?2
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JanetReyna wrote: »Thanks but no thanks lol. I’m looking for real changes.
It’s as “real” as plastic surgery!
Kim Kardashian’s butt is mainly responsible for this fad, and she wears shapewear and even sells it. It’s fine to want to look like whatever you want to look like. What isn’t fine is for you to be sad and insecure because you can’t look like people on the internet who use all kinds of tricks to make themselves look better.
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Right. Instagram models men and women fake being black and mixed. Look it up. The girls booty might be kinda big, but she knows how to make it crazy big looking.
Also, even if you were black or mixed, those perfect instagram crazy bootys, perfect thick uncellulited glutes, skinny tiny waists, are mostley unachievable realistically by any racial poulation. Maybe with a ton of effort, a few people out there might be able to get this look. A very few.2 -
JanetReyna wrote: »So you’ve seen how my body shape is you think it’s to broad?
cmriverside wrote: »JanetReyna wrote: »cmriverside wrote: »The thing is Janet, you post a thread about this pretty frequently.
Relax.
Stop searching Instagram for the biggest glutes. You most likely won't have that dramatic of results because it takes a LOT of work and so far you haven't mentioned the work part of it that you ARE doing. Lifting progressively heavier weights is what you need to focus on. Like we've said every time you post this.
What is your current weight lifting routine? Maybe someone can help you with that part.
Girl, I would relax if I had atleast a little curve and looked more feminine. I’m so insecure in going shopping because I don’t have curves. I can’t wear dresses that are fitted. I don’t like taking pictures from the front because I look broad. Yes, I have so many fat to lose and I don’t know if you have seen my body shape I’ve posted pictures of myself. It’s just really really hard for me to feel comfortable and confident because I want to have more curves and I don’t want to feel like lipo is the only way for me to look differently.
All of these posts you are making today and every time are exactly the same.
Yes, I've posted in your threads before. I've seen your images of yourself.
You're pregnant, so your weight loss may have to take a back seat right now. You can still workout and do squats and other weight-bearing exercises if your doctor approves. So - get his approval and get your lifting on.
You can't change your genetics. You can do the best you can with what you've been given, which is what we all do.
You probably won't look like those images without surgery and hard core lifting.
Go to therapy. For real.
If you are pregnant you do understand your figure will be taking a backseat for awhile. After you have the baby you will need to recover. If you have a c section you won't be allowed to exercise for 6 weeks and then it's a lot of hard work to just get your core back. I found it was basically a year from getting pregnant to after that i felt more or less myself again.
I think you need to talk to a professional about this obsession you have with your body looking a specific way especially if you are pregnant. Your baby and doing what you body needs to grow a baby needs to be your priority right now.
Also remember most of these Instagram "models" are photoshopped, use angles, filters, etc to appear this way. Unless you know this person in real life chances are they really aren't the "realest" ever.4 -
JanetReyna wrote: »Why are people so negative? Her instagram username is there, search her up and take a look yourself. I know everyone has a perference but I really do want big gluteus and I’m just looking for advice because I feel I won’t ever reach my goal unless I have plastic surgery and I don’t want to. But I know looking better will help me a lot. I just want some advice on people who have achieved this. Not exactly that goal but women who have gotten big gluteus with fitness.
Just wait till you are further along in your pregnancy.
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AliNouveau wrote: »JanetReyna wrote: »So you’ve seen how my body shape is you think it’s to broad?
cmriverside wrote: »JanetReyna wrote: »cmriverside wrote: »The thing is Janet, you post a thread about this pretty frequently.
Relax.
Stop searching Instagram for the biggest glutes. You most likely won't have that dramatic of results because it takes a LOT of work and so far you haven't mentioned the work part of it that you ARE doing. Lifting progressively heavier weights is what you need to focus on. Like we've said every time you post this.
What is your current weight lifting routine? Maybe someone can help you with that part.
Girl, I would relax if I had atleast a little curve and looked more feminine. I’m so insecure in going shopping because I don’t have curves. I can’t wear dresses that are fitted. I don’t like taking pictures from the front because I look broad. Yes, I have so many fat to lose and I don’t know if you have seen my body shape I’ve posted pictures of myself. It’s just really really hard for me to feel comfortable and confident because I want to have more curves and I don’t want to feel like lipo is the only way for me to look differently.
All of these posts you are making today and every time are exactly the same.
Yes, I've posted in your threads before. I've seen your images of yourself.
You're pregnant, so your weight loss may have to take a back seat right now. You can still workout and do squats and other weight-bearing exercises if your doctor approves. So - get his approval and get your lifting on.
You can't change your genetics. You can do the best you can with what you've been given, which is what we all do.
You probably won't look like those images without surgery and hard core lifting.
Go to therapy. For real.
If you are pregnant you do understand your figure will be taking a backseat for awhile. After you have the baby you will need to recover. If you have a c section you won't be allowed to exercise for 6 weeks and then it's a lot of hard work to just get your core back. I found it was basically a year from getting pregnant to after that i felt more or less myself again.
I think you need to talk to a professional about this obsession you have with your body looking a specific way especially if you are pregnant. Your baby and doing what you body needs to grow a baby needs to be your priority right now.
Also remember most of these Instagram "models" are photoshopped, use angles, filters, etc to appear this way. Unless you know this person in real life chances are they really aren't the "realest" ever.
Yes I do know. So then what everyone is saying is I just can’t get the results I want? I’m thinking about all of this but this is way after I deliver. 0 -
So what everyone is saying it’s impossible to reach my goals? Like I really want a thicker lower body and a smaller upper but if I gain more weight from my top than bottom should I just give up? Or what do I doooo?0
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JanetReyna wrote: »So what everyone is saying it’s impossible to reach my goals? Like I really want a thicker lower body and a smaller upper but if I gain more weight from my top than bottom should I just give up? Or what do I doooo?
I'd suggest stop obsessing about one body part and be happy with what you have. If you really want to try to develop that look then do it. You don't need a forum to tell you whether you can or not. Just try and stop asking people to determine your future and self worth6
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